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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys, just wondered what's the story with guys giving out their phone numbers? Is it the norm? I would never give out my phone number unless I was chatting a while and/or really liked the person!! Do guys really think if they give you their number in the first message your actually gonna phone them or text them????  ... Opinions please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A phone number I n the first message reeks of desperation.
I think a lot of folk on here have more than one phone. Something like the batphone I presume... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got a mobile number in subject line yesterday. Googled it. And came up with lads name. Address and business and pictures of him and family. And I'm no detective but that was within 90 seconds.
And funny thing. He wouldn't send a picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only a very chosen few have been given my number. They have to be pretty good to get it and I'd have to be able to trust them first. Other than that it's kik |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Got a mobile number in subject line yesterday. Googled it. And came up with lads name. Address and business and pictures of him and family. And I'm no detective but that was within 90 seconds.
And funny thing. He wouldn't send a picture. "
Wow??? Now that is funny... Yeah I got one today in the subject line too.. Just deleted it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very few people get my number, only the people I've met and trust - and chat with regularly. We have a bat phone now after organising last weeks social too though. It's going to get very confusing lol. |
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By *ceryMan
over a year ago
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"Got a mobile number in subject line yesterday. Googled it. And came up with lads name. Address and business and pictures of him and family. And I'm no detective but that was within 90 seconds.
And funny thing. He wouldn't send a picture. "
So you rang his partner to see if he was free...
Yeah - Numbers only to those who you feel that you can trust and if the worst happens no sleep lost if you have to ditch the number, hence as mentioned more than one phone.
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"A lot of people have a 2nd phone for site and arent givin out their main number
Exactly this. We have a swing phone, to many ways for phone numbers to lead back to social sites."
Easy enough to block your number from google fb and twitter its much easier to google search someones pics tho. |
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i would not give out my number on a first message but i definatly want to have a number before we meet or at least another form of contact other then here, think it proves people a genuine. i once went to a meet with out a number for the person i was meeting and it was a complete piss take. Sat for hours waiting for a no show. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yep mail here first, then move onto kik and if we're arranging a meet or get to know each other well we swap numbers.
works for me."
You gave me your number straight away! I must have been special |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a few couples contact me asking me for my number.
Maybe the guys are just trying to show they are genuine by giving it, seen as some ask for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had the same number sent a few times. Some guy just blanketing his number to everyone on here I think.. and the funny thing is he always says discretion is important...you put your number in the message topic... so discrete.. |
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"Got a mobile number in subject line yesterday. Googled it. And came up with lads name. Address and business and pictures of him and family. And I'm no detective but that was within 90 seconds.
And funny thing. He wouldn't send a picture. "
same sentiment with me! And then im being labeled as weird and worst a stalker! up to this day its still hard for me to adapt the culture here  (no pun intended) |
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Only people I have actually met and trust have my number. Mind you I changed my phone recently and lost loads and my Kik. ..need to reset that! !
But it's here and Kik until after a coffee meet and I feel I can trust that person. Thankfully there are some really fab genuine people but sadly some not so much!  |
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"yep mail here first, then move onto kik and if we're arranging a meet or get to know each other well we swap numbers.
works for me.
You gave me your number straight away! I must have been special "
That was a good while ago, before I started using Kik.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have noting to hide. Ie a marraige gf etc.
We dont see the fuss? Its a number what are they going to do? google you! So what? Fine they know all about you? Again so what, are they going to black mail you haha i know your a swinger im going to tell? Ehhhh ok go ahead
This is just us, granted other people will no doubt say were idiots
If you get nusence calls go to the gards the joke will be on them.
Most people that collect your number will either delete it or forget about it
Bottom line if you give your number out dont fret! There are much more important things to concern yourselves over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have noting to hide. Ie a marraige gf etc.
We dont see the fuss? Its a number what are they going to do? google you! So what? Fine they know all about you? Again so what, are they going to black mail you haha i know your a swinger im going to tell? Ehhhh ok go ahead
This is just us, granted other people will no doubt say were idiots
If you get nusence calls go to the gards the joke will be on them.
Most people that collect your number will either delete it or forget about it
Bottom line if you give your number out dont fret! There are much more important things to concern yourselves over."
we should swap numbers so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm ya see I'm not on kik, Facebook twitter or anything.. I have a general dislike of social media... Current site excluded obviously lol"
kik you don't share any private info about yourself it's just a way of chatting and exchanging media privately.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hmmm ya see I'm not on kik, Facebook twitter or anything.. I have a general dislike of social media... Current site excluded obviously lol kik you don't share any private info about yourself it's just a way of chatting and exchanging media privately. "
I know... I suppose I'm gonna have to give in sooner or later lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. Kik messenger for us. Works best. Private and no hassle.
Think they would be very naive to think you are gonna call or txt their number after one mail.
You'd rack up some phone bill with the amount of mail single women get haha |
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"Hmmm ya see I'm not on kik, Facebook twitter or anything.. I have a general dislike of social media... Current site excluded obviously lol kik you don't share any private info about yourself it's just a way of chatting and exchanging media privately.
I know... I suppose I'm gonna have to give in sooner or later lol"
When you do, let me know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you have noting to hide. Ie a marraige gf etc.
We dont see the fuss? Its a number what are they going to do? google you! So what? Fine they know all about you? Again so what, are they going to black mail you haha i know your a swinger im going to tell? Ehhhh ok go ahead
This is just us, granted other people will no doubt say were idiots
If you get nusence calls go to the gards the joke will be on them.
Most people that collect your number will either delete it or forget about it
Bottom line if you give your number out dont fret! There are much more important things to concern yourselves over. we should swap numbers so "
What?.dear lord you have not got our number yet?, now rectified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm ya see I'm not on kik, Facebook twitter or anything.. I have a general dislike of social media... Current site excluded obviously lol kik you don't share any private info about yourself it's just a way of chatting and exchanging media privately.
I know... I suppose I'm gonna have to give in sooner or later lol"
might enjoy it though only phone number if arranging to meet otherwise not a hope |
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"Hmmm ya see I'm not on kik, Facebook twitter or anything.. I have a general dislike of social media... Current site excluded obviously lol kik you don't share any private info about yourself it's just a way of chatting and exchanging media privately.
I know... I suppose I'm gonna have to give in sooner or later lol"
I love Kik!! I have avoided getting a fab fone so far because of its function. Conversations can happen in real time outside of fab snaps sent with time out options for face pic swapping and meets can be arranged easily love it!!! Best of all only info needed is a user name!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm ya see I'm not on kik, Facebook twitter or anything.. I have a general dislike of social media... Current site excluded obviously lol kik you don't share any private info about yourself it's just a way of chatting and exchanging media privately.
I know... I suppose I'm gonna have to give in sooner or later lol
I love Kik!! I have avoided getting a fab fone so far because of its function. Conversations can happen in real time outside of fab snaps sent with time out options for face pic swapping and meets can be arranged easily love it!!! Best of all only info needed is a user name!!! "
Is there a kik option to time out photos?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm ya see I'm not on kik, Facebook twitter or anything.. I have a general dislike of social media... Current site excluded obviously lol kik you don't share any private info about yourself it's just a way of chatting and exchanging media privately.
I know... I suppose I'm gonna have to give in sooner or later lol
I love Kik!! I have avoided getting a fab fone so far because of its function. Conversations can happen in real time outside of fab snaps sent with time out options for face pic swapping and meets can be arranged easily love it!!! Best of all only info needed is a user name!!!
Is there a kik option to time out photos?? "
Used to be photobomb option... Not sure If its there now |
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"Hmmm ya see I'm not on kik, Facebook twitter or anything.. I have a general dislike of social media... Current site excluded obviously lol kik you don't share any private info about yourself it's just a way of chatting and exchanging media privately.
I know... I suppose I'm gonna have to give in sooner or later lol
I love Kik!! I have avoided getting a fab fone so far because of its function. Conversations can happen in real time outside of fab snaps sent with time out options for face pic swapping and meets can be arranged easily love it!!! Best of all only info needed is a user name!!!
Is there a kik option to time out photos?? "
Photo bomb x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm ya see I'm not on kik, Facebook twitter or anything.. I have a general dislike of social media... Current site excluded obviously lol kik you don't share any private info about yourself it's just a way of chatting and exchanging media privately.
I know... I suppose I'm gonna have to give in sooner or later lol
I love Kik!! I have avoided getting a fab fone so far because of its function. Conversations can happen in real time outside of fab snaps sent with time out options for face pic swapping and meets can be arranged easily love it!!! Best of all only info needed is a user name!!! "
Same as this... I love kik |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use android and it works on mine?? "
How ?? Haha. Is it same as it used to be. Have the conversation open and then swipe from then left of the screen to the right ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I use android and it works on mine??
How ?? Haha. Is it same as it used to be. Have the conversation open and then swipe from then left of the screen to the right ?
Exactly that x"
Not there for me was but not anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never had a problem giving out my number on other sites.... Plus its fun to type people's number into fb
Why would you do that???"
Cause he's sad if you ask me !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cause its nice to know who you're talking too.... Twice on pof it was men pretending to be women"
POF is different... That's dating. Here its peoples privacy. Most expect it to stay that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In kik, you should be able to search for "photobomb" up the top when you swipe left to right.
Also i always assume that if i get a phone number in the first message in the title, then its not the persons phone number. Its the phone number of someone they are trying to annoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In kik, you should be able to search for "photobomb" up the top when you swipe left to right.
Also i always assume that if i get a phone number in the first message in the title, then its not the persons phone number. Its the phone number of someone they are trying to annoy."
Legend Dude !!!! Yep photobomb back thanks |
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Awh we will drag you into the digital age kicking and screaming yet.
But that said you do need to have a "air gaped" approach to setting up social media. I.e. Set up kink based email or phone details when signing up for naughty sites.
Then use your normal email phone when setting up vanilla social media. That means less chance of naughty people finding you liking pics of auntie Marys 50th birthday party, unless I want them too that is |
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By *an19Man
over a year ago
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"Hey guys, just wondered what's the story with guys giving out their phone numbers? Is it the norm? I would never give out my phone number unless I was chatting a while and/or really liked the person!! Do guys really think if they give you their number in the first message your actually gonna phone them or text them???? ... Opinions please "
Well here's mine 1850spankme  |
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