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Have you ever been burned for accom cost
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont mean a no show i mean someone u turn up with refusing to pay or making excuses"
hotel booked arrangements made and when we got to the hotel, she wouldn't answer her phone or reply to texts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont mean a no show i mean someone u turn up with refusing to pay or making excuses
hotel booked arrangements made and when we got to the hotel, she wouldn't answer her phone or reply to texts"
This happened us twice!! |
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"Dont mean a no show i mean someone u turn up with refusing to pay or making excuses
hotel booked arrangements made and when we got to the hotel, she wouldn't answer her phone or reply to texts"
Always best to meet for drinks a couple of days prior if possable |
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If I invited someone to join me at a hotel meet Their would have to be a coffee meet previously. And then if a 2nd meet happened I wouldn't dream of even asking a lady for anything. As I have use of the room afterwards Maybe that's me |
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"If I invited someone to join me at a hotel meet Their would have to be a coffee meet previously. And then if a 2nd meet happened I wouldn't dream of even asking a lady for anything. As I have use of the room afterwards Maybe that's me "
ah the gentleman still lives among us.....I belive women these days demand same pay as men and would insist on paying if its an agreed....
Or am I just a greedy mutt  |
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"If I invited someone to join me at a hotel meet Their would have to be a coffee meet previously. And then if a 2nd meet happened I wouldn't dream of even asking a lady for anything. As I have use of the room afterwards Maybe that's me "
Im talking more in the group social setting not 1 on 1 or coffee meets. But i do welcome the point of always having a coffee meet before any action in terms of 1 on 1 or in terms of paying for accom before a social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I prefer to meet at home
Not always a good option grace
That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me  "
Ah I'm sure he means no harm |
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"This is why I prefer to meet at home
Not always a good option grace
That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me "
If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house.  call me preachy or call me security conscious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope never happend but sort of never asked for half either but it's always been set on the locker when I refused, it is fair to pay for half of the accommodation but sometimes I feel it's the gentlemanly thing to do and feel embarrassed to take a woman's money. Just doesn't feel right maybe I'm old fashioned. And no im not a lick it's just the way iv been brought up  |
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"This is why I prefer to meet at home
Not always a good option grace
That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me
If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house. call me preachy or call me security conscious. "
With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I prefer to meet at home
Not always a good option grace
That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me
If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house. call me preachy or call me security conscious.
With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me. "
I do indeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup o have been stung for hotel costs been told I'll pay you back but he never did... so won't be doing that again
Yep!!!! Me too..... Had it done to me twice but never again   "
Happened to me twice now too. One was a guy I was flying down to Luton to meet, left £100 out of pocket, claimed he'd totally forgot about it and hadn't been online. Then a guy from Aberdeen, train and hotel booked then got some crap about the ex dumping the kid on him, another £80 out of pocket. He said he'd reimburse me, lying fuckwit. I'm not no longer booking transport or hotels to meet guys, they want me to visit then they can pay the costs and I'll give them half if/when they turn up. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"This is why I prefer to meet at home
Not always a good option grace
That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me
If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house. call me preachy or call me security conscious.
With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me. "
What must the neighbours think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I prefer to meet at home
Not always a good option grace
That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me
If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house. call me preachy or call me security conscious.
With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me.
What must the neighbours think "
he's old and a little deaf so I think I'm ok lol |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"This is why I prefer to meet at home
Not always a good option grace
That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me
If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house. call me preachy or call me security conscious.
With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me.
What must the neighbours think he's old and a little deaf so I think I'm ok lol"
I'm not suprised he's deaf listening to that racket |
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"Yup o have been stung for hotel costs been told I'll pay you back but he never did... so won't be doing that again
Yep!!!! Me too..... Had it done to me twice but never again "
How do you prevent it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I prefer to meet at home
Not always a good option grace
That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me
If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house. call me preachy or call me security conscious.
With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me.
What must the neighbours think he's old and a little deaf so I think I'm ok lol
I'm not suprised he's deaf listening to that racket "
I'm quiet as a mouse me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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had a member here threaten to have me shot because I wouldnt book rooms for his "friends" on my credit card , Id say they were into some dodgy shite , no other reason why grown men cant book their own rooms in hotels , Im sure hes pulled it on other people here . |
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"This is why I prefer to meet at home
Not always a good option grace
That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me
If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house. call me preachy or call me security conscious.
With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me. "
Hehe...now who's getting a little "preachy".. |
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"This is why I prefer to meet at home
Not always a good option grace
That may be correct but it sounds a little "preachy" to me
If its first time meeting how do you know who your letting into your house. call me preachy or call me security conscious.
With 58 published verifications, I would imagine she knows how to take care of herself. Whatever though, just telling you how it looked to me.
Hehe...now who's getting a little "preachy".."
Dunno, who? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha what's wrong with b&bs there a hell of a lot cheaper than hotels lease that way for what an average hotel price but don't bother us as we don't do hotel meets only home meets bar from at party's and meet and greets etc |
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I think worrying about this would definitely take the shine off the meet. Good Hotels these days are generally good value and this is not something that needs to be considered. I think if I started feeling like I had been stung for the hotel...then the sex was probably shite. I have found that 99% of the time this doesn't even require a discussion and is sorted beforehand so that everyone can concentrate on the business at hand |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Yup o have been stung for hotel costs been told I'll pay you back but he never did... so won't be doing that again
Yep!!!! Me too..... Had it done to me twice but never again
Happened to me twice now too. One was a guy I was flying down to Luton to meet, left £100 out of pocket, claimed he'd totally forgot about it and hadn't been online. Then a guy from Aberdeen, train and hotel booked then got some crap about the ex dumping the kid on him, another £80 out of pocket. He said he'd reimburse me, lying fuckwit. I'm not no longer booking transport or hotels to meet guys, they want me to visit then they can pay the costs and I'll give them half if/when they turn up. "
Yes, same thing here, asked for contribution and didn't see a cent |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Actually don't know how a guy could live with himself telling a woman I'll pay you back. Seems like the type to take her on a romantic meal to mc donalds. Being a tight arse around a woman is literally the lowest of the low!! I can understand if a woman wanting to pay half and thats grand but thats very least. Did this same guy ask ya for change for the bus after? Penny pinching cheap skate scum!! |
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"Yup o have been stung for hotel costs been told I'll pay you back but he never did... so won't be doing that again
Yep!!!! Me too..... Had it done to me twice but never again
Happened to me twice now too. One was a guy I was flying down to Luton to meet, left £100 out of pocket, claimed he'd totally forgot about it and hadn't been online. Then a guy from Aberdeen, train and hotel booked then got some crap about the ex dumping the kid on him, another £80 out of pocket. He said he'd reimburse me, lying fuckwit. I'm not no longer booking transport or hotels to meet guys, they want me to visit then they can pay the costs and I'll give them half if/when they turn up.
Yes, same thing here, asked for contribution and didn't see a cent"
And you wonder why people fall out on here. |
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