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"Meeting in a hotel can be extremely nerve racking for some women who think they can do it then lose their nerve...I'd want to meet socially first tbh  "
strange how some people would want it there in 1st place if no intention of showing up. I suppose a quick drink in reception could have changed his/her mind |
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"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up."
Why wouldn't they show up for ya miss ,  |
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"Meeting in a hotel can be extremely nerve racking for some women who think they can do it then lose their nerve...I'd want to meet socially first tbh
strange how some people would want it there in 1st place if no intention of showing up. I suppose a quick drink in reception could have changed his/her mind"
Had you met this lady prior to you organising a room? |
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"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up."
well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her |
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I booked a hotel a couple of years back for a long awaited and talked about meet. On the day, half an hour after i said i'd leave to make my way there, i got a text to say his aunt had died and he wasn't going to meet me after all. He never mentioned the fact that i'd booked the hotel and would now have to pay for it. Never heard from him again. Funny thing is, i don't think he's fake anymore than i think his aunt died. I must have just scared him off  |
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"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up."
When's our hotel meet then  |
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"Meeting in a hotel can be extremely nerve racking for some women who think they can do it then lose their nerve...I'd want to meet socially first tbh
strange how some people would want it there in 1st place if no intention of showing up. I suppose a quick drink in reception could have changed his/her mind
Had you met this lady prior to you organising a room?"
no hadnt met her but had a good few messages back and forth on here for overa week |
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"I booked a hotel a couple of years back for a long awaited and talked about meet. On the day, half an hour after i said i'd leave to make my way there, i got a text to say his aunt had died and he wasn't going to meet me after all. He never mentioned the fact that i'd booked the hotel and would now have to pay for it. Never heard from him again. Funny thing is, i don't think he's fake anymore than i think his aunt died. I must have just scared him off "
scared him off? More like he wimped out lol |
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"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.
Why wouldn't they show up for ya miss , "
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"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.
well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her"
Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet? |
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"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.
well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her
Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet? "
Could we do the same ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I booked a hotel a couple of years back for a long awaited and talked about meet. On the day, half an hour after i said i'd leave to make my way there, i got a text to say his aunt had died and he wasn't going to meet me after all. He never mentioned the fact that i'd booked the hotel and would now have to pay for it. Never heard from him again. Funny thing is, i don't think he's fake anymore than i think his aunt died. I must have just scared him off
scared him off? More like he wimped out lol"
Same thing, isn't it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meeting in a hotel can be extremely nerve racking for some women who think they can do it then lose their nerve...I'd want to meet socially first tbh
strange how some people would want it there in 1st place if no intention of showing up. I suppose a quick drink in reception could have changed his/her mind
Had you met this lady prior to you organising a room?
no hadnt met her but had a good few messages back and forth on here for overa week"
Ahh on Fab we can't ever be sure about anything eh? |
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"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.
well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her
Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet?
Could we do the same ? "
If you're nice to me |
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Would wanna be very sure of your meet, who s got a spare €100 these days to blow.
Just throwing it out there once you meet up is it always 50/50 on the bill or is it the person who suggested the hotel meet pay up. ?
And before all the shitty comments come flooding in keep your comments polite |
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"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.
well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her
Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet?
Could we do the same ?
If you're nice to me "
lol, nice 1st bad after |
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"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.
well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her
Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet?
Could we do the same ?
If you're nice to me
lol, nice 1st bad after"
You're a very bad flirt |
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"Maybe a little old fashioned but I'd rather pay for the hotel dinner, drinks and enjoy the night out.
If you get lucky it's a bonus.
No bashing either please.."
A personal touch can make all the difference with a gesture like that but not all of the ladies expect the guy to pay |
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"Maybe a little old fashioned but I'd rather pay for the hotel dinner, drinks and enjoy the night out.
If you get lucky it's a bonus.
No bashing either please..
A personal touch can make all the difference with a gesture like that but not all of the ladies expect the guy to pay "
Am sure they don't expect it but it's only a small thank you after having a good night out. |
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"Maybe a little old fashioned but I'd rather pay for the hotel dinner, drinks and enjoy the night out.
If you get lucky it's a bonus.
No bashing either please..
A personal touch can make all the difference with a gesture like that but not all of the ladies expect the guy to pay
Am sure they don't expect it but it's only a small thank you after having a good night out."
Whoever said that chivalry is dead,lied  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh id never allow a possible meet to book a hotel and not show up, that's just wrong and downright rude.I've booked hotels myself and thankfully he showed up.
well lets just hope theres loads more like you miss, ile put it down to a 1 off nerves getting best of her
Rather than put yourself through that again,, arrange a coffee meet first???... If both are happy, then do the hotel meet?
Could we do the same ?
If you're nice to me
lol, nice 1st bad after
You're a very bad flirt "
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"Would wanna be very sure of your meet, who s got a spare €100 these days to blow.
Just throwing it out there once you meet up is it always 50/50 on the bill or is it the person who suggested the hotel meet pay up. ?
And before all the shitty comments come flooding in keep your comments polite "
Would be 50/50 but what hotel are you staying in for €100?? |
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"Would wanna be very sure of your meet, who s got a spare €100 these days to blow.
Just throwing it out there once you meet up is it always 50/50 on the bill or is it the person who suggested the hotel meet pay up. ?
And before all the shitty comments come flooding in keep your comments polite
Would be 50/50 but what hotel are you staying in for €100??"
City centre hotels are always more expensive, on the outskirts of dublin, they're cheaper |
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"Maybe a little old fashioned but I'd rather pay for the hotel dinner, drinks and enjoy the night out.
If you get lucky it's a bonus.
No bashing either please..
You are def' in the minority "
Hopefully your bad experience hasn't put you off and am sure there are many good honest people that would like to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would wanna be very sure of your meet, who s got a spare €100 these days to blow.
Just throwing it out there once you meet up is it always 50/50 on the bill or is it the person who suggested the hotel meet pay up. ?
And before all the shitty comments come flooding in keep your comments polite
Would be 50/50 but what hotel are you staying in for €100??"
Was just rounding it off that's all. And IDE have no problem at all paying for the room. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Social meet in hotel bar first and if u need a room then go for it "
That's what I should have done. Would have saved 80e for a no show by a verified couple.?? |
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