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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seriously why do people even bother, organising a meet and then when ye try confirm it they just dont reply, its so annoying, its not easy for us to just up and go we have to organise it, am i wrong in thinking its just common courtesy to say they changed their minds or something came up?? What are yer rules on meets being cancelled etc?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seriously why do people even bother, organising a meet and then when ye try confirm it they just dont reply, its so annoying, its not easy for us to just up and go we have to organise it, am i wrong in thinking its just common courtesy to say they changed their minds or something came up?? What are yer rules on meets being cancelled etc? "
If there is not a legitimate reason for cancelling I wouldn't give anyone a second chance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yer here a year and no verifications. No offence but you're only going to draw attention from the wasters/spoofs unfortunately
Besides that, yeah it's a head melter. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We tried ringing yesterday but. There was an excuse as to why they couldnt talk on phone , so we knew then it wasnt going to happen, our last message was read and deleted this morning. Just would prefer people would say out straight changed our minds etx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We tried ringing yesterday but. There was an excuse as to why they couldnt talk on phone , so we knew then it wasnt going to happen, our last message was read and deleted this morning. Just would prefer people would say out straight changed our minds etx"
They aren't worth it so you'll find plenty of reliable people here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We tried ringing yesterday but. There was an excuse as to why they couldnt talk on phone , so we knew then it wasnt going to happen, our last message was read and deleted this morning. Just would prefer people would say out straight changed our minds etx
They aren't worth it so you'll find plenty of reliable people here "
Obviously they're not worth it but still a shitty thing to have happened especially when you're prepared (and that can mean host of different things) |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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Sorry folks but you're not verified,foto verie just proves you exist but not that you've met anyone
I'd advice you to stick to well veried members but a lot of them mightnt take you seriously with no veries after nearly a year |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry folks but you're not verified,foto verie just proves you exist but not that you've met anyone
I'd advice you to stick to well veried members but a lot of them mightnt take you seriously with no veries after nearly a year"
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Its harder for cpls to get away with kids and baby sitters to look after but its manners to say something has come up and we can't make it at least then they could offer an alternative date but it seems like u picked the wrong cpl. Write it down to experience and try again go to a social arrange around that then at least its not a total loss and u never know who u meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications are everything. .otherwise you're just a magnet for the dreamers and weirdos"
Honestly one of the most accurate descriptions I've ever heard!
Mind if I use this anymore  ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not about Veris., its not about pics, its not about length of time here. Its about common human decency, respect for others and treating others like you might like to be treated.
Name calling, labeling, unwanted messages, deleting genuine messages etc........gives people permission to behave like this.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not about Veris., its not about pics, its not about length of time here"
They increase your chances hugely!
Ok who do I meet?
A verified person/non verified
Hmmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol...go ahead. ...of course its about pics and veris....you choose to meet who you want. ...by first looking at their pics....second. .by chatting to them. ...process of elimination. ..and yes...we have had meets cancelled. .and have done so ourselves. . |
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I would suggest thatverification in the whole means nothing other than subjective selective opinion. He siad she said.
Best way to get noticed and meet people is to get your asses to a social. Talk to people, mingle and soon then things will happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would suggest thatverification in the whole means nothing other than subjective selective opinion. He siad she said.
Best way to get noticed and meet people is to get your asses to a social. Talk to people, mingle and soon then things will happen."
Thats the truth |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol...go ahead. ...of course its about pics and veris....you choose to meet who you want. ...by first looking at their pics....second. .by chatting to them. ...process of elimination. ..and yes...we have had meets cancelled. .and have done so ourselves. ."
we understand that sometimes things happen and plans get cancelled thats no problem, just wanted to see.what others thought on the subject |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not about Veris., its not about pics, its not about length of time here
They increase your chances hugely!
Ok who do I meet?
Hmmmmmm"
If that becomes the standard.....then nobody ever gets verified.
Everyone starts somewhere.....somebody took a chance on you......
Meeting new people IS fab.
Veris is a 'hobby horse'. Dismount !
The 'problem' is respect ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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M&G....not for everyone. ....plus you find that the person who had no veries before it.....now have 19... lol....one one kind of verification that works for us personally. . |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Its not about Veris., its not about pics, its not about length of time here
They increase your chances hugely!
Ok who do I meet?
Hmmmmmm
If that becomes the standard.....then nobody ever gets verified.
Everyone starts somewhere.....somebody took a chance on you......
Meeting new people IS fab.
Veris is a 'hobby horse'. Dismount !
The 'problem' is respect !"
Totally down to respect, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol...no one took a chance on us....we had to go through the rigmarole of going to a social meet. ..no one showed. ...their granny's pet spider died...etc....takes effort. ..90% attrition rate on site. ..the fakes come and go.... |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Here's a deal im heading to Dublin today. I will buy the coffee if that doesn't suit im around Athlone all week If ye show up I will verify ye as being real and ye showed up "
And that's what a veri should be |
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By *s louWoman
over a year ago
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"I would suggest thatverification in the whole means nothing other than subjective selective opinion. He siad she said.
Best way to get noticed and meet people is to get your asses to a social. Talk to people, mingle and soon then things will happen."
But in all fairness, most of the socials recently have specified that you have to be a verified member. It's a vicious circle. And what's to say that the OP hasn't had previous meets but they haven't been given veris - it does happen , and happened to me when I first started out here on another profile. Some people just don't like giving them. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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Everyone can use the site how they wish,take notice of veries or chat and meet unverieds or whatever.
I take notice of veries and would be way more inclined to meet well veried members and I've never been stood up or let down or fucked around by timewasters. Works for me |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Lol...no one took a chance on us....we had to go through the rigmarole of going to a social meet. ..no one showed. ...their granny's pet spider died...etc....takes effort. ..90% attrition rate on site. ..the fakes come and go...."
Jayus I'd chance ye
But then again I am a chancer |
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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago
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"Its not about Veris., its not about pics, its not about length of time here
They increase your chances hugely!
Ok who do I meet?
Hmmmmmm
If that becomes the standard.....then nobody ever gets verified.
Everyone starts somewhere.....somebody took a chance on you......
Meeting new people IS fab.
Veris is a 'hobby horse'. Dismount !
The 'problem' is respect !"
Agree with you respect costs nothing but personally we wouldn't entertain any one 11 months on and not verified. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Its not about Veris., its not about pics, its not about length of time here
They increase your chances hugely!
Ok who do I meet?
Hmmmmmm
If that becomes the standard.....then nobody ever gets verified.
Everyone starts somewhere.....somebody took a chance on you......
Meeting new people IS fab.
Veris is a 'hobby horse'. Dismount !
The 'problem' is respect !
Agree with you respect costs nothing but personally we wouldn't entertain any one 11 months on and not verified."
I think I would but they would be doing all ter right moves ie traveling booking showing that they are committed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We did meet someone on.here but they wernt verified either and their profile is now gone, so couldnt get meet verfied by them, we took time out for awhile as we came across to many fakes, i did try getting us invited to two socials but was told on for obe we wernt what they were looking for and the other was we were.not verified |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We did meet someone on.here but they wernt verified either and their profile is now gone, so couldnt get meet verfied by them, we took time out for awhile as we came across to many fakes, i did try getting us invited to two socials but was told on for obe we wernt what they were looking for and the other was we were.not verified "
you don't need to be verified for some socials, I managed to get an invite within 2 weeks of joining the site  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your pics are very nice. ...lol...must be a tough crowd down there. ..if your getting turned down for socials. ..."
the social near us was by someone who "didnt fancy us" so wernt invited lol so may try get to one next time one is on even if its just a hello to some of ye |
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"I would suggest thatverification in the whole means nothing other than subjective selective opinion. He siad she said.
Best way to get noticed and meet people is to get your asses to a social. Talk to people, mingle and soon things will happen.
But in all fairness, most of the socials recently have specified that you have to be a verified member. It's a vicious circle. And what's to say that the OP hasn't had previous meets but they haven't been given veris - it does happen , and happened to me when I first started out here on another profile. Some people just don't like giving them."
For me Im not much into veris if they have aleast 3/4 then it looks good. If im asked to give a veri ill do my best to give one but im more inclinced to veri based how we got on platoniclly rather that shoving every detail of sex out there for people to fixate on. Its really no ones business what happenens behind hotel room doors etc etc.
Just CoolHandys point of view |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your pics are very nice. ...lol...must be a tough crowd down there. ..if your getting turned down for socials. ...
Agree your  pics are lovely "
thank you iv same cop outfit as you  nice pucs yourself xx |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Your pics are very nice. ...lol...must be a tough crowd down there. ..if your getting turned down for socials. ... the social near us was by someone who "didnt fancy us" so wernt invited lol so may try get to one next time one is on even if its just a hello to some of ye "
There is one on almost every weekend for the next month sent a mail ye get an invite to one of them always room for newbies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your pics are very nice. ...lol...must be a tough crowd down there. ..if your getting turned down for socials. ... the social near us was by someone who "didnt fancy us" so wernt invited lol so may try get to one next time one is on even if its just a hello to some of ye "
We'd only love to have ye in Galway |
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"Your pics are very nice. ...lol...must be a tough crowd down there. ..if your getting turned down for socials. ... the social near us was by someone who "didnt fancy us" so wernt invited lol so may try get to one next time one is on even if its just a hello to some of ye "
Exactly come say hi have a drink have the craic see what happens. The best thing you cant do is have no expectations. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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You're looking for real bi females,like hens teeth around here. That's the biggest category for fakes and timewasters. All the more reason to be veried and only deal with well veried bi females
Try looking for a localish sociable couple and arrange night out together,you'll get verified and have a good night out hopefully. No play necessary |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Your pics are very nice. ...lol...must be a tough crowd down there. ..if your getting turned down for socials. ... the social near us was by someone who "didnt fancy us" so wernt invited lol so may try get to one next time one is on even if its just a hello to some of ye
We'd only love to have ye in Galway"
U looked at the pics didn't u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your pics are very nice. ...lol...must be a tough crowd down there. ..if your getting turned down for socials. ... the social near us was by someone who "didnt fancy us" so wernt invited lol so may try get to one next time one is on even if its just a hello to some of ye
We'd only love to have ye in Galway
U looked at the pics didn't u "
When sceptical I leave no stone unturned |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your pics are very nice. ...lol...must be a tough crowd down there. ..if your getting turned down for socials. ... the social near us was by someone who "didnt fancy us" so wernt invited lol so may try get to one next time one is on even if its just a hello to some of ye
We'd only love to have ye in Galway"
lol thanks . Next galway social we will try make it, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread is implying that respectful people meet and therefore well verified people are respectful.
That's simply not true. Many well verified people have little to no respect for themselves, their body, their health, or the people they will gladly meet.
A possible scenario:
A "straight" guy meets a trans/gay gi and barebacks them, he hides it and meets with a girl later who only meets straight guys, she sucks his dick an fucks him. Shes still horny meets up with another well verified guy and spends the day with him, them two finally call it a day and both go on the hunt for another meet later.
All well verified, but where is the respect?
Wasting someones time is a lack of respect, showing up is not a sign of respect, its a sign the other person is horny.
About 5 or 6 years ago I would get stood up a lot, and it was just simply because I didn't judge people enough, or get to know them properly. A few horny messages, a phone call, a meet planned, then stood up. Doing everything "right" does not guarantee a show.
I get less timewasters now, but i give less people a chance to waste my time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear you have been on the receiving end of having your time wasted. I too have had more than my share of time wasted over the last few weeks by well verified members but for me it's a case of suck it up buttercup, move on and block them. There are plenty of genuine members on the site it just takes time to catch them, I mean find them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have encountered many time wasters on here and sad to say it is usually single guys! We have decided now that parties are the best way to meet and we are not meeting one to ones for the moment unless we know the peeps ,it is too unreliable and it takes a bit of organisation only to be disappointed. We will not meet unverified at all no way in fact we don't even answer their messages |
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Life happens and meets sometimes get cancelled.
But what really grinds our gears is not being told. Nothing worse than having travelled or accommodation booked etc to be left sitting in the venue twiddling our thumbs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with most. Its disrespectful and all. But I'd nearly start a new profile yourselves. We'd find it very hard to trust a couple on here a year without verifications. Actually for us it would be anything more than 3 months without one.
Sure get stuck in... It's great craic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's good advice we got caught by a well known male on the forums who wasn't that well verified well some old ones but I actually think he is totally fake but of course you can't say that or u get barred. I have to say my instinct told me he was fake so from now on I follow my gut feeling entirely it is usually right |
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"That's good advice we got caught by a well known male on the forums who wasn't that well verified well some old ones but I actually think he is totally fake but of course you can't say that or u get barred. I have to say my instinct told me he was fake so from now on I follow my gut feeling entirely it is usually right "
How is a guy fake for not showing up.
A fake is a fake such as a single male pretenting to be a couple. Someone who doesnt turn up is a no show. They are not 1 in the same ,there totally separate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He wasn't a no show but there are a lot of single guys on the forums who are very active on the forum but don't have the lead in the pencil to actually carry it through poor things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Should have added day dreamers are fake because they have no intention of meeting real swingers a bit like single guys on here who only meet single girls join a dating site and leave the real swingers to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Three people wasted my time in the last week. All guys and then people complain why we don't give guys a chance?!  "
I agree, no doubt there are an absolutely massive amount of lads on fab only here for the titillating Fantasy (with a capital F) of swinging.
However, spare a thought for those of us who genuinely intend to arrange meets, and show. Those of us who see this site as the perfect outlet for their sexual desires as well as a school house for the world of sex in Ireland today.
Not everyone is lucky enough to be part of couple who share the same interests or freedoms, for a man here it aint always easy.
Yes im unverified, yes not here a wet week, yes...that is a sky remote dic pic... But so what, dont tar us all with the same brush.
...so "single man-monday" thread???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am not judging anyone just talking about our experiences and to be perfectly honest we don't really join in the forums because we prefer to meet real people to see if they are genuine. A lot of what we see on the forums is bitchy and cruel and I have to be honest most hot single normal guys in my humble opinion should be out on the town tonite not on a forum mostly inhabited by couples! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Three people wasted my time in the last week. All guys and then people complain why we don't give guys a chance?!
I agree, no doubt there are an absolutely massive amount of lads on fab only here for the titillating Fantasy (with a capital F) of swinging.
However, spare a thought for those of us who genuinely intend to arrange meets, and show. Those of us who see this site as the perfect outlet for their sexual desires as well as a school house for the world of sex in Ireland today.
Not everyone is lucky enough to be part of couple who share the same interests or freedoms, for a man here it aint always easy.
Yes im unverified, yes not here a wet week, yes...that is a sky remote dic pic... But so what, dont tar us all with the same brush.
...so "single man-monday" thread???
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not judging anyone just talking about our experiences and to be perfectly honest we don't really join in the forums because we prefer to meet real people to see if they are genuine. A lot of what we see on the forums is bitchy and cruel and I have to be honest most hot single normal guys in my humble opinion should be out on the town tonite not on a forum mostly inhabited by couples! "
Or in work early tomorrow.... But workin on a sunday could hardly be considered "normal" |
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"Life happens and meets sometimes get cancelled.
But what really grinds our gears is not being told. Nothing worse than having travelled or accommodation booked etc to be left sitting in the venue twiddling our thumbs."
Alot of ppl who would book accom for a meet would make sure to have a couple of standbys just incase of the dreaded My Cat just died excuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Life happens and meets sometimes get cancelled.
But what really grinds our gears is not being told. Nothing worse than having travelled or accommodation booked etc to be left sitting in the venue twiddling our thumbs.
Alot of ppl who would book accom for a meet would make sure to have a couple of standbys just incase of the dreaded My Cat just died excuse."
Lots of cats Dying this week |
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"Life happens and meets sometimes get cancelled.
But what really grinds our gears is not being told. Nothing worse than having travelled or accommodation booked etc to be left sitting in the venue twiddling our thumbs.
Alot of ppl who would book accom for a meet would make sure to have a couple of standbys just incase of the dreaded My Cat just died excuse."
If we organize a meet with a couple we organize a meet with that couple. We don't go out and make backup plans and get others hopes up.
If we're told ahead of time, even if we're already on the way there, we forgive and move on. What ever the reason life happens and yes cats do die! But if you get no contact..... not even a slipped and broke leg in the shower...
We've gone back over our years swinging and trying to remember one time we've cancelled and don't think we ever have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've gone back over our years swinging and trying to remember one time we've cancelled and don't think we ever have. "
That's cos ye are genuine and treat others as you'd like to be treat yourselves...and why I think ye are fabulous |
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We've gone back over our years swinging and trying to remember one time we've cancelled and don't think we ever have.
That's cos ye are genuine and treat others as you'd like to be treat yourselves...and why I think ye are fabulous "
Just like your fine self.. and seeing as we're watching Jonathan Ross your Ab Fab |
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We've gone back over our years swinging and trying to remember one time we've cancelled and don't think we ever have.
That's cos ye are genuine and treat others as you'd like to be treat yourselves...and why I think ye are fabulous
Just like your fine self.. and seeing as we're watching Jonathan Ross your Ab Fab "
I'd just like to add I think ye are fabulous too |
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We've gone back over our years swinging and trying to remember one time we've cancelled and don't think we ever have.
That's cos ye are genuine and treat others as you'd like to be treat yourselves...and why I think ye are fabulous
Just like your fine self.. and seeing as we're watching Jonathan Ross your Ab Fab
I'd just like to add I think ye are fabulous too "
And you are sweetest honey we have ever encountered... |
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We've gone back over our years swinging and trying to remember one time we've cancelled and don't think we ever have.
That's cos ye are genuine and treat others as you'd like to be treat yourselves...and why I think ye are fabulous
Just like your fine self.. and seeing as we're watching Jonathan Ross your Ab Fab
I'd just like to add I think ye are fabulous too
And you are sweetest honey we have ever encountered... "
Flattery will get ye everywhere |
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We've gone back over our years swinging and trying to remember one time we've cancelled and don't think we ever have.
That's cos ye are genuine and treat others as you'd like to be treat yourselves...and why I think ye are fabulous
Just like your fine self.. and seeing as we're watching Jonathan Ross your Ab Fab
I'd just like to add I think ye are fabulous too "
I just wanna add you all are fabulous for me |
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We've gone back over our years swinging and trying to remember one time we've cancelled and don't think we ever have.
That's cos ye are genuine and treat others as you'd like to be treat yourselves...and why I think ye are fabulous
Just like your fine self.. and seeing as we're watching Jonathan Ross your Ab Fab
I'd just like to add I think ye are fabulous too
I just wanna add you all are fabulous for me "
Ab Fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should have added day dreamers are fake because they have no intention of meeting real swingers a bit like single guys on here who only meet single girls join a dating site and leave the real swingers to it "
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"Life happens and meets sometimes get cancelled.
But what really grinds our gears is not being told. Nothing worse than having travelled or accommodation booked etc to be left sitting in the venue twiddling our thumbs.
Alot of ppl who would book accom for a meet would make sure to have a couple of standbys just incase of the dreaded My Cat just died excuse.
Lots of cats Dying this week "
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Read most of this thread ..took ages, but we all seem to agree that it comes down to having respect for other people and their private lives and the time they take out of it.my opinion is that veris simply show people , mostly, turn up...thats about all as anything that's written is just opinion and not experience, but pretty certain the longer you are here the less you get messed about |
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"Read most of this thread ..took ages, but we all seem to agree that it comes down to having respect for other people and their private lives and the time they take out of it.my opinion is that veris simply show people , mostly, turn up...thats about all as anything that's written is just opinion and not experience, but pretty certain the longer you are here the less you get messed about"
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"Your pics are very nice. ...lol...must be a tough crowd down there. ..if your getting turned down for socials. ... the social near us was by someone who "didnt fancy us" so wernt invited lol so may try get to one next time one is on even if its just a hello to some of ye "
It helps to have a thick skin around here! |
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"That's good advice we got caught by a well known male on the forums who wasn't that well verified well some old ones but I actually think he is totally fake but of course you can't say that or u get barred. I have to say my instinct told me he was fake so from now on I follow my gut feeling entirely it is usually right
How is a guy fake for not showing up.
A fake is a fake such as a single male pretenting to be a couple. Someone who doesnt turn up is a no show. They are not 1 in the same ,there totally separate."
Is that ur excuse for standing me up with no explanations, no message after I travelling to meet u!! Everyone has to cancel meets from time to time for genuine reasons but a little bit of respect goes a long way by sending a message rather than just a 'no show' |
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"That's good advice we got caught by a well known male on the forums who wasn't that well verified well some old ones but I actually think he is totally fake but of course you can't say that or u get barred. I have to say my instinct told me he was fake so from now on I follow my gut feeling entirely it is usually right
How is a guy fake for not showing up.
A fake is a fake such as a single male pretenting to be a couple. Someone who doesnt turn up is a no show. They are not 1 in the same ,there totally separate.
Is that ur excuse for standing me up with no explanations, no message after I travelling to meet u!! Everyone has to cancel meets from time to time for genuine reasons but a little bit of respect goes a long way by sending a message rather than just a 'no show' "
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"That's good advice we got caught by a well known male on the forums who wasn't that well verified well some old ones but I actually think he is totally fake but of course you can't say that or u get barred. I have to say my instinct told me he was fake so from now on I follow my gut feeling entirely it is usually right
How is a guy fake for not showing up.
A fake is a fake such as a single male pretenting to be a couple. Someone who doesnt turn up is a no show. They are not 1 in the same ,there totally separate.
Is that ur excuse for standing me up with no explanations, no message after I travelling to meet u!! Everyone has to cancel meets from time to time for genuine reasons but a little bit of respect goes a long way by sending a message rather than just a 'no show' "
Are you trying to pretend we were meeting you ???There are some very weird fantasists on here but the genuine people on here know who they are ...which proves my earlier point exactly thanks |
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"I am not judging anyone just talking about our experiences and to be perfectly honest we don't really join in the forums because we prefer to meet real people to see if they are genuine. A lot of what we see on the forums is bitchy and cruel and I have to be honest most hot single normal guys in my humble opinion should be out on the town tonite not on a forum mostly inhabited by couples! "
The women too I presume? |
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"I am not judging anyone just talking about our experiences and to be perfectly honest we don't really join in the forums because we prefer to meet real people to see if they are genuine. A lot of what we see on the forums is bitchy and cruel and I have to be honest most hot single normal guys in my humble opinion should be out on the town tonite not on a forum mostly inhabited by couples!
The women too I presume? "
Look there are people in here who never meet and just post in the forums and if that is their choice fine by me, but do not pretend to be swingers which includes meeting real people having real sex. There are amazing single guys and girls on here who actually swing and then there are those who don't ...
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"I am not judging anyone just talking about our experiences and to be perfectly honest we don't really join in the forums because we prefer to meet real people to see if they are genuine. A lot of what we see on the forums is bitchy and cruel and I have to be honest most hot single normal guys in my humble opinion should be out on the town tonite not on a forum mostly inhabited by couples!
The women too I presume?
Look there are people in here who never meet and just post in the forums and if that is their choice fine by me, but do not pretend to be swingers which includes meeting real people having real sex. There are amazing single guys and girls on here who actually swing and then there are those who don't ...
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I never mentioned anything about people who do or do not meet, nor did your post I originally referred to? So I'm not quite sure where that comment came from? |
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"I am not judging anyone just talking about our experiences and to be perfectly honest we don't really join in the forums because we prefer to meet real people to see if they are genuine. A lot of what we see on the forums is bitchy and cruel and I have to be honest most hot single normal guys in my humble opinion should be out on the town tonite not on a forum mostly inhabited by couples!
The women too I presume?
Look there are people in here who never meet and just post in the forums and if that is their choice fine by me, but do not pretend to be swingers which includes meeting real people having real sex. There are amazing single guys and girls on here who actually swing and then there are those who don't ...
I never mentioned anything about people who do or do not meet, nor did your post I originally referred to? So I'm not quite sure where that comment came from? "
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