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Striking up a conversation after seeing a profile you like??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mad random question but what attracts attention of a first message? Someone don't like hi or hello. They don't like how are you? And bit pics are a total no no! Lol I've tried being the gentleman? Just wondering what's been going wrong! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That is what I do! But majority don't even get looked at! I do realise that most women prob inundated with messages and just do a bulk delete! Should I be nice or nasty??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is what I do! But majority don't even get looked at! I do realise that most women prob inundated with messages and just do a bulk delete! Should I be nice or nasty???"
Eh ... obviously nice. Nice guys prevail |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would def suggest putting pic up as profile pic.. sometimes if message doesnt attract me i wouldnt even look at profile but if pic catches my eye ill investigate more.. |
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"That is what I do! But majority don't even get looked at! I do realise that most women prob inundated with messages and just do a bulk delete! Should I be nice or nasty???
Eh ... obviously nice. Nice guys prevail"
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"I've tried chat rooms but they seem quite clicks and impossible to get a response? "
If you barge in looking a shag them no you won't get a response.
If you go in looking a bit of craic then yes you will.
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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Perseverance and patience.
Fair play, you took on board the pic suggestion. Also can see you have a sense of humour so add some in message.
Your profile is good and your verified.
As others have said read the persons profile and see if you match their preference. |
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"Best of luck to you Bob,you seem a genuinely nice guy .
Mmmmmmmmmmmm goldie I which that was my hands in your panties I wouldn't ever wash it again after that....
I hope this example helps OP 
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Good example there to go by my friend.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Best of luck to you Bob,you seem a genuinely nice guy .
Mmmmmmmmmmmm goldie I which that was my hands in your panties I wouldn't ever wash it again after that....
I hope this example helps OP
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Don't listen to this naughty boy, he ll only get you into trouble Bob lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Best of luck to you Bob,you seem a genuinely nice guy .
Mmmmmmmmmmmm goldie I which that was my hands in your panties I wouldn't ever wash it again after that....
I hope this example helps OP
Good example there to go by my friend.
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Don't you encourage him Luke |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See thing is do women know what they want themselves??? let alone for us mere mortal men to work it out! I just want a bit of nsa fun with some beautiful lucky lady or couple! So thanks for all the advice! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've tried chat rooms but they seem quite clicks and impossible to get a response?
If you barge in looking a shag them no you won't get a response.
If you go in looking a bit of craic then yes you will.
I sent a hilarious message to someone only recently on here an the response I got was an instant joke, these swingers are a tough audience I've actually stopped with the effort in my mails cause there mostly ignored an my good jokes going to waste.......
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Social nights are a really good way to meet people in a relaxed environment with no pressures or expectations. Just go have a drink, a bit of craic and get to know a few people that way. Us lads have to understand that the ratio of men to women here is massive so if they get to meet you in person you might have better luck. Otherwise be nice. |
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"Best of luck to you Bob,you seem a genuinely nice guy .
Mmmmmmmmmmmm goldie I which that was my hands in your panties I wouldn't ever wash it again after that....
I hope this example helps OP
Good example there to go by my friend.
Don't you encourage him Luke "
Govial Fun flirty cathchy even if you just ask a question like whats your fav colour
Women here have told me they get on average 1000 mesagges a day...a day for fuck sake id have trouble answering 20. And fellas wonder why they get no reply when 99% of 1st messages sent are Hi how are you. |
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" I tend to go for ones i have banter with on the forums now rather than messages sent to me.......on the odd occasion i would reply
Is that how it is now tox.  "
Lol......some even get past my filters if they are special enough |
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