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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

there such a "bias"/"stigma" against bi/bi curious fellas ?

it seems perfectly acceptable for women to munch on a bit of their own !

but

if your a bi/curious or whatever male,its extremely hard to get folk to meet !

yet most on here say they,are adventurous/open minded etc !!

doesn't look that way to me !

shouldn't be too hard to get some opinions on this?

especially from the "WILL NOT MEET BI GUYS" brigade.

let the flaming/trolling begin

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For us there'd be no point. Hubs isn't interested in men so we'd look elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"For us there'd be no point. Hubs isn't interested in men so we'd look elsewhere."

because I enjoy oral on a guy now n again,doesn't mean I'm gonna cop a feel or jump on his dick!!

I can play. 100% straight,so guys ass etc is safe,

the amount of guys on this site that are into guys,who don't declare are bi, is unbelievable !!

I asked one fella why he had straight on his profile? his answer!!

to get women !!

not good in my books !!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why not join Fabguys...??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wouldn't put us off aslong as the said guy understood Mr is straight and we only want the guys for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Same for us bi guy is fine but as long as he knows male half is straight and will not be touched

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why not join Fabguys...??"

where are thr women/couples on fave guys ???

did you even read the post ???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing wrong with bi men,we have made some very good friends that are bi men through the site,we just choose not to play with them sexually.why do you and others deem it a problem when some choose not to want to play with a particular type of person.concentrate on those that do want to play instead of questioning those that don't.You will find the site so much more fulfilling.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This thread was here before and the majority of the answers were that bi men turn people off because they seem "more desperate"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"there such a "bias"/"stigma" against bi/bi curious fellas ?

it seems perfectly acceptable for women to munch on a bit of their own !

but

if your a bi/curious or whatever male,its extremely hard to get folk to meet !

yet most on here say they,are adventurous/open minded etc !!

doesn't look that way to me !

shouldn't be too hard to get some opinions on this?

especially from the "WILL NOT MEET BI GUYS" brigade.

I love bi guys !

let the flaming/trolling begin "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with bi men,we have made some very good friends that are bi men through the site,we just choose not to play with them sexually.why do you and others deem it a problem when some choose not to want to play with a particular type of person.concentrate on those that do want to play instead of questioning those that don't.You will find the site so much more fulfilling."

ok "Where do i state"

that its a problem??

I stated its ok for women to be bi but not guys ???

your missing the point completely!

this is a mixed sex site,am I correct?

I personally am orally bi, I'm here to hookup with bi couples n the odd male if I wish,

would you rather I stated.I was 100% straight and lie,just to meet up ?

I'm really not that desperate !!

this is a public forum,so I posted what I had on my mind.

food for thought mate,how many secret bi guys you met on Here n whatever other sites your on,let on they where straight ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Meeting a couple who the male half was bi wouldn't put me off as long as they knew I was completely straight. There's loads of people on here who will meet bi guys you must be looking in the wrong places, most women iv spoken to prefare bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with bi men,we have made some very good friends that are bi men through the site,we just choose not to play with them sexually.why do you and others deem it a problem when some choose not to want to play with a particular type of person.concentrate on those that do want to play instead of questioning those that don't.You will find the site so much more fulfilling.

ok "Where do i state"

that its a problem??

I stated its ok for women to be bi but not guys ???

your missing the point completely!

this is a mixed sex site,am I correct?

I personally am orally bi, I'm here to hookup with bi couples n the odd male if I wish,

would you rather I stated.I was 100% straight and lie,just to meet up ?

I'm really not that desperate !!

this is a public forum,so I posted what I had on my mind.

food for thought mate,how many secret bi guys you met on Here n whatever other sites your on,let on they where straight ?

"

Ohh ffs grow up, You can't force people to want to meet ya if ya don't fit what they want,

Bi, bi curious or orally bi... Grow a pair and stop whinging about it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Meeting a couple who the male half was bi wouldn't put me off as long as they knew I was completely straight. There's loads of people on here who will meet bi guys you must be looking in the wrong places, most women iv spoken to prefare bi guys "

not many places to hide here mate lol

dunno what's goin on ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This thread was here before and the majority of the answers were that bi men turn people off because they seem "more desperate""

Double standards again .

This would never be said to a bi woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with bi men,we have made some very good friends that are bi men through the site,we just choose not to play with them sexually.why do you and others deem it a problem when some choose not to want to play with a particular type of person.concentrate on those that do want to play instead of questioning those that don't.You will find the site so much more fulfilling.

ok "Where do i state"

that its a problem??

I stated its ok for women to be bi but not guys ???

your missing the point completely!

this is a mixed sex site,am I correct?

I personally am orally bi, I'm here to hookup with bi couples n the odd male if I wish,

would you rather I stated.I was 100% straight and lie,just to meet up ?

I'm really not that desperate !!

this is a public forum,so I posted what I had on my mind.

food for thought mate,how many secret bi guys you met on Here n whatever other sites your on,let on they where straight ?

Ohh ffs grow up, You can't force people to want to meet ya if ya don't fit what they want,

Bi, bi curious or orally bi... Grow a pair and stop whinging about it... "

you think I'm whining ??

I merely wanted to know why the stigma against bi fellas !

I'm not whining,and I thought this was a public forum !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with bi men,we have made some very good friends that are bi men through the site,we just choose not to play with them sexually.why do you and others deem it a problem when some choose not to want to play with a particular type of person.concentrate on those that do want to play instead of questioning those that don't.You will find the site so much more fulfilling.

ok "Where do i state"

that its a problem??

I stated its ok for women to be bi but not guys ???

your missing the point completely!

this is a mixed sex site,am I correct?

I personally am orally bi, I'm here to hookup with bi couples n the odd male if I wish,

would you rather I stated.I was 100% straight and lie,just to meet up ?

I'm really not that desperate !!

this is a public forum,so I posted what I had on my mind.

food for thought mate,how many secret bi guys you met on Here n whatever other sites your on,let on they where straight ?

Ohh ffs grow up, You can't force people to want to meet ya if ya don't fit what they want,

Bi, bi curious or orally bi... Grow a pair and stop whinging about it...

you think I'm whining ??

I merely wanted to know why the stigma against bi fellas !

I'm not whining,and I thought this was a public forum !"

It is a public forum who said its not???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with bi men,we have made some very good friends that are bi men through the site,we just choose not to play with them sexually.why do you and others deem it a problem when some choose not to want to play with a particular type of person.concentrate on those that do want to play instead of questioning those that don't.You will find the site so much more fulfilling.

ok "Where do i state"

that its a problem??

I stated its ok for women to be bi but not guys ???

your missing the point completely!

this is a mixed sex site,am I correct?

I personally am orally bi, I'm here to hookup with bi couples n the odd male if I wish,

would you rather I stated.I was 100% straight and lie,just to meet up ?

I'm really not that desperate !!

this is a public forum,so I posted what I had on my mind.

food for thought mate,how many secret bi guys you met on Here n whatever other sites your on,let on they where straight ?

Ohh ffs grow up, You can't force people to want to meet ya if ya don't fit what they want,

Bi, bi curious or orally bi... Grow a pair and stop whinging about it...

you think I'm whining ??

I merely wanted to know why the stigma against bi fellas !

I'm not whining,and I thought this was a public forum !"

there is no stigma mate, people will meet who they wana meet be it bi bi curious or straight lol

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By *owdyBoobyMan  over a year ago

limerick


"For us there'd be no point. Hubs isn't interested in men so we'd look elsewhere.

because I enjoy oral on a guy now n again,doesn't mean I'm gonna cop a feel or jump on his dick!!

I can play. 100% straight,so guys ass etc is safe,

the amount of guys on this site that are into guys,who don't declare are bi, is unbelievable !!

I asked one fella why he had straight on his profile? his answer!!

to get women !!

not good in my books !!"

Hense so many diseases out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

no mate,your wrong,

the amount of women here ,state "no bi guys" is pretty rife ,

most of the bi couples have their regular playmates

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For us there'd be no point. Hubs isn't interested in men so we'd look elsewhere.

because I enjoy oral on a guy now n again,doesn't mean I'm gonna cop a feel or jump on his dick!!

I can play. 100% straight,so guys ass etc is safe,

the amount of guys on this site that are into guys,who don't declare are bi, is unbelievable !!

I asked one fella why he had straight on his profile? his answer!!

to get women !!

not good in my books !!

Hense so many diseases out there"

Cos bi guys don't use protection if their profile says straight is it?

Jeez get a life!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no mate,your wrong,

the amount of women here ,state "no bi guys" is pretty rife ,

most of the bi couples have their regular playmates "

Awwk if ya put as much effort into your profile as ya do complaining about bi guys not getting a fair crack of the whip..

Results would be different...

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By *owdyBoobyMan  over a year ago

limerick


"For us there'd be no point. Hubs isn't interested in men so we'd look elsewhere.

because I enjoy oral on a guy now n again,doesn't mean I'm gonna cop a feel or jump on his dick!!

I can play. 100% straight,so guys ass etc is safe,

the amount of guys on this site that are into guys,who don't declare are bi, is unbelievable !!

I asked one fella why he had straight on his profile? his answer!!

to get women !!

not good in my books !!

Hense so many diseases out there

Cos bi guys don't use protection if their profile says straight is it?

Jeez get a life!"

Would u like to find out that a guy who made out he was straight then wasnt after going down on you. What do think the odds are of catching something.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For us there'd be no point. Hubs isn't interested in men so we'd look elsewhere.

because I enjoy oral on a guy now n again,doesn't mean I'm gonna cop a feel or jump on his dick!!

I can play. 100% straight,so guys ass etc is safe,

the amount of guys on this site that are into guys,who don't declare are bi, is unbelievable !!

I asked one fella why he had straight on his profile? his answer!!

to get women !!

not good in my books !!

Hense so many diseases out there

Cos bi guys don't use protection if their profile says straight is it?

Jeez get a life!

Would u like to find out that a guy who made out he was straight then wasnt after going down on you. What do think the odds are of catching something. "

Would it not be the same as a lady that gave oral to a different guy then to you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"no mate,your wrong,

the amount of women here ,state "no bi guys" is pretty rife ,

most of the bi couples have their regular playmates

Awwk if ya put as much effort into your profile as ya do complaining about bi guys not getting a fair crack of the whip..

Results would be different... "

what's wrong with my profile ?

its straight to the point!

I'm looking bi couples and ladies,also the odd bi fella what do you want me to pickup my address n number? with a few face pics thrown in !!

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By *owdyBoobyMan  over a year ago

limerick


"For us there'd be no point. Hubs isn't interested in men so we'd look elsewhere.

because I enjoy oral on a guy now n again,doesn't mean I'm gonna cop a feel or jump on his dick!!

I can play. 100% straight,so guys ass etc is safe,

the amount of guys on this site that are into guys,who don't declare are bi, is unbelievable !!

I asked one fella why he had straight on his profile? his answer!!

to get women !!

not good in my books !!

Hense so many diseases out there

Cos bi guys don't use protection if their profile says straight is it?

Jeez get a life!

Would u like to find out that a guy who made out he was straight then wasnt after going down on you. What do think the odds are of catching something.

Would it not be the same as a lady that gave oral to a different guy then to you... "

Do u think a male or a female is more likely to have AIDS in your opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no mate,your wrong,

the amount of women here ,state "no bi guys" is pretty rife ,

most of the bi couples have their regular playmates "

how am I wrong? lol I said people will meet who they wana meet, if it says no bi guys then move on to the next person who does want bi guys it's the way the site works lol the sites full of bi guys and bi guys who don't admit it for watever reasons they might have

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

statistically currently the highest rate of infection for h i v is in the hetrosexual population , and there has been a huge upsurge in the numbers of hetro men and women contracting the h i v virus in ireland , with women being infected at a staggering rate according to the latest figures available from the h s e . The only completely safe sex ...is no sex ! bisexual and gay men are at higher risk of exposure to the virus due to the fact they are more likely to participate in anal sex which has the highest infection route of all other sexual practices .

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By *owdyBoobyMan  over a year ago

limerick


"statistically currently the highest rate of infection v is in the hetrosexual population , and there has been a huge upsurge in the numbers of hetro men and women contracting the h i v virus in ireland , with women being infected at a staggering rate according to the latest figures available from the h s e . The only completely safe sex ...is no sex ! bisexual and gay men are at higher risk of exposure to the virus due to the fact they are more likely to participate in anal sex which has the highest infection route of all other sexual practices . "

Are they hetro or saying that there hetro what im saying is nobodys sexuality can be taken at face value.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"statistically currently the highest rate of infection v is in the hetrosexual population , and there has been a huge upsurge in the numbers of hetro men and women contracting the h i v virus in ireland , with women being infected at a staggering rate according to the latest figures available from the h s e . The only completely safe sex ...is no sex ! bisexual and gay men are at higher risk of exposure to the virus due to the fact they are more likely to participate in anal sex which has the highest infection route of all other sexual practices .

Are they hetro or saying that there hetro what im saying is nobodys sexuality can be taken at face value."

Where did ya say that....

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By *owdyBoobyMan  over a year ago

limerick


"statistically currently the highest rate of infection v is in the hetrosexual population , and there has been a huge upsurge in the numbers of hetro men and women contracting the h i v virus in ireland , with women being infected at a staggering rate according to the latest figures available from the h s e . The only completely safe sex ...is no sex ! bisexual and gay men are at higher risk of exposure to the virus due to the fact they are more likely to participate in anal sex which has the highest infection route of all other sexual practices .

Are they hetro or saying that there hetro what im saying is nobodys sexuality can be taken at face value.

Where did ya say that.... "

Is that English,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

all I can say is that perhaps some people consider risky sexual history to be more assosiated with bi sexual men . That might be a reason , amongst the other reasons people have for not wanting to expose themselves to greater risk than is absolutely necessary whilst indulging in a swing scenario . On a seperate note , I am always horrified at the amount of people who arrange meets and turn up with no protection on them .They are playing russian roulette .

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By *owdyBoobyMan  over a year ago

limerick


"all I can say is that perhaps some people consider risky sexual history to be more assosiated with bi sexual men . That might be a reason , amongst the other reasons people have for not wanting to expose themselves to greater risk than is absolutely necessary whilst indulging in a swing scenario . On a seperate note , I am always horrified at the amount of people who arrange meets and turn up with no protection on them .They are playing russian roulette ."

Id agree there and go as far as saying anal sex male or female is playing russian roulette

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with bi men,we have made some very good friends that are bi men through the site,we just choose not to play with them sexually.why do you and others deem it a problem when some choose not to want to play with a particular type of person.concentrate on those that do want to play instead of questioning those that don't.You will find the site so much more fulfilling.

ok "Where do i state"

that its a problem??

I stated its ok for women to be bi but not guys ???

your missing the point completely!

this is a mixed sex site,am I correct?

I personally am orally bi, I'm here to hookup with bi couples n the odd male if I wish,

would you rather I stated.I was 100% straight and lie,just to meet up ?

I'm really not that desperate !!

this is a public forum,so I posted what I had on my mind.

food for thought mate,how many secret bi guys you met on Here n whatever other sites your on,let on they where straight ?

"

Hold back there fella,you asked a question on an open forum,I put forward my opinion.if you don't like the answers don't ask the question.

No matter what you feel,people have choice.That's all I said.there are plenty of ladies and couples happy to play with Bi guys,don't have a go at those that don't just because you can't get your own way

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I think its you that needs to

"hold back fella"

yes I did put up this post !

and you did put up YOUR opinion !

so because I answered your opinion ,you seem to have taken those personal !!

had I wanted just your opinion,idve private mailed you

where did you get it,that I didn't like your answer? (ego problem)

and at no stage have I been having a go at anyone!!

what exactly is "my own way" ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Doesn't matter,good luck with converting people that don't want Bi guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Doesn't matter,good luck with converting people that don't want Bi guys"

yea I know it doesn't matter!! public forum,free speech n all that !!

like its been mentioned,if you don't like what you read,Move On !

yet again another unnecessary, non-fact comment,

where did I ever say I wanted to convert non bi folk into bi,s ?

your reading things as you see fit !!

this wasn't specifically aimed at you,I don't know why your getting a wee bit uptight about it all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bi women are men are higher risk than gay or straight people.

Gay people are higher risk than straight people, but their risk is static, its not rising (the risk in bi people keeps rising).

But it makes no sense to use that as an excuse as bisexual men and women are both catching diseases and the bias seems to be against men.

Also straight swingers are in a moderate risk group compared to a straight non swinger who would be low risk.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"there such a "bias"/"stigma" against bi/bi curious fellas ?

it seems perfectly acceptable for women to munch on a bit of their own !

but

if your a bi/curious or whatever male,its extremely hard to get folk to meet !

yet most on here say they,are adventurous/open minded etc !!

doesn't look that way to me !

shouldn't be too hard to get some opinions on this?

especially from the "WILL NOT MEET BI GUYS" brigade.

let the flaming/trolling begin "

Personally we've no problem with bi-guys. I'm straight & will never play with a guy, but I'm not that insecure, nor am I that big headed to think he'd prefer me to Mrs K.

As long as everyone knows where they stand, I see no problem.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

...As long as everyone knows where they stand, I see no problem."

Maybe that's the problem...maybe the straight guys don't want to stand in front of the bi-guy?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

...As long as everyone knows where they stand, I see no problem.

Maybe that's the problem...maybe the straight guys don't want to stand in front of the bi-guy? "

Haha

No id stand in front of him as long as it's in a que to a pussy...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a straight man thing.. We don't like bi men, I think it's the fear of been taken up the exit only while we're munching our missus it's always there, I've dreams about it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It's a straight man thing.. We don't like bi men, I think it's the fear of been taken up the exit only while we're munching our missus it's always there, I've dreams about it lol"

and what makes you think all bi guys are gonna want to get with you ?

get over yourself!!

ego trip or what ??

lmao maybe your dreaming of being I !!!

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