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Coffee meet Etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok we all do them I presume, how far do or can you go on a coffee meet?? And where are your favourite places to meet for coffee ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

there is a costa coffee opened up 5 mins from me,,

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"Ok we all do them I presume, how far do or can you go on a coffee meet??

Are you asking distance or What you get up to?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

An hour radius for me!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys "
you not afraid of getting a weirdo ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok we all do them I presume, how far do or can you go on a coffee meet??

Are you asking distance or What you get up to?

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what you get up to ? Is there rules or just go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok we all do them I presume, how far do or can you go on a coffee meet??

Are you asking distance or What you get up to?

what you get up to ? Is there rules or just go with the flow"
. Entirely up too yourself how far depends on chemistry and time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys "

Coffee meet is just a term for a quick hello in my opinion..I don't drink coffee but would do 'coffee meets'

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

Coffee is to see if there is a spark and to test the sainity of a potential play meet. Some of mine ended up extended lunch and dinner with desert others were just coffee its down to the date and how u get on I think

An hrs radius but have being known to go further

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"Ok we all do them I presume, how far do or can you go on a coffee meet??

Are you asking distance or What you get up to?

what you get up to ? Is there rules or just go with the flow"
go with the flow. Only rules are your own boundaries.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Coffee is to see if there is a spark and to test the sainity of a potential play meet. Some of mine ended up extended lunch and dinner with desert others were just coffee its down to the date and how u get on I think

An hrs radius but have being known to go further "

You have described it in a nutshell CJ..... As always xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok we all do them I presume, how far do or can you go on a coffee meet??

Are you asking distance or What you get up to?

what you get up to ? Is there rules or just go with the flowgo with the flow. Only rules are your own boundaries. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Coffee meets can be fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ??"
no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

An hrs radius but have being known to go further "
ahem just how far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys

Coffee meet is just a term for a quick hello in my opinion..I don't drink coffee but would do 'coffee meets'

"
sure why not have a cuppa or chat before you get down too fun each too there own too me waste of time il save the coffee or tea for my friends and family not for my sex life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird "

Seems you've got the ideal setup then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird "

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

"
and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing like a good coffee over lunch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks "

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys

Coffee meet is just a term for a quick hello in my opinion..I don't drink coffee but would do 'coffee meets'

sure why not have a cuppa or chat before you get down too fun each too there own too me waste of time il save the coffee or tea for my friends and family not for my sex life

"
do they still not ask for a cuppa afterwards lol

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By *s louWoman over a year ago

Enniskillen

coffee meet for me usually means coffee meet, but I have been known to play if the sparks there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"coffee meet for me usually means coffee meet, but I have been known to play if the sparks there

I hear ya

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys

Coffee meet is just a term for a quick hello in my opinion..I don't drink coffee but would do 'coffee meets'

sure why not have a cuppa or chat before you get down too fun each too there own too me waste of time il save the coffee or tea for my friends and family not for my sex life

do they still not ask for a cuppa afterwards lol

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they can if they want I don't mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol"

That told us all

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By *irst officerMan over a year ago

Naas

Lucky for me, I love coffee, couldn't refuse a reason to have a few cups.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

That told us all

sure each to their own I'll still do coffee when I get the chance

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By *s louWoman over a year ago

Enniskillen

"coffee meet for me usually means coffee meet, but I have been known to play if the sparks there

I hear ya

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

That told us all

"
well u did put up a thread about coffee meets I gave my opinion I'm not telling anyone anything I'm just saying there waste of time and what I think of them that's all anyway going too have a cup of tea now all this talking about it is giving me cravings

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

That told us all

sure each to their own I'll still do coffee when I get the chance

'Do coffee'or do coffee?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

That told us all

sure each to their own I'll still do coffee when I get the chance

'Do coffee'or do coffee?

Oh I've only had one DO COFFEE

others have been just coffee lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Lucky for me, I love coffee, couldn't refuse a reason to have a few cups.

"
I prefer hot chocolate

but do you think it's necessary and how far would you go on a coffee meet and I don't mean distance

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

Everyone has there own way of meeting. What works for one may not for another. That's what's great about this, its never the same. You can never predict what will/not happen when you meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

That told us all

well u did put up a thread about coffee meets I gave my opinion I'm not telling anyone anything I'm just saying there waste of time and what I think of them that's all anyway going too have a cup of tea now all this talking about it is giving me cravings

everyone's different most of mine turn into a full on meet but still like the option to be there to run

Enjoy your cuppa

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone has there own way of meeting. What works for one may not for another. That's what's great about this, its never the same. You can never predict what will/not happen when you meet someone."

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Coffee meets can be fun

"
they certainly can

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

That told us all

Do u do tea meets then?

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By *irst officerMan over a year ago

Naas

"Lucky for me, I love coffee, couldn't refuse a reason to have a few cups.

I prefer hot chocolate

but do you think it's necessary and how far would you go on a coffee meet and I don't mean distance

Normally coffee is just coffee and meet up again.

Have no problem booking a hotel ,telling the person you meet, " leave your bag in the car" if you like , you stay and if not its ok to disappear.

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By *elfastDMan over a year ago

belfast

There's nothing like the excitement and adrenalin when you do click over a coffee meet

It's like, how long can you resist before it turns into more than a coffee lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

That told us all

Do u do tea meets then?"
nope don't do coffee tea water alcohol hot chocolate or any liquid fluids as a social meet I just meet for fun and that's it noting more noting less

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By *ohn MingoMan over a year ago

Dublin

"Lucky for me, I love coffee, couldn't refuse a reason to have a few cups.

I prefer hot chocolate

but do you think it's necessary and how far would you go on a coffee meet and I don't mean distance

it depends on how good the meet goes and what you feel like doing i suppose.

I'm no expert though. all my coffee meets have just been for coffee

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing like the excitement and adrenalin when you do click over a coffee meet

It's like, how long can you resist before it turns into more than a coffee lol"

It's great when you really click!!

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By *licia cdTV/TS over a year ago

Lisburn

It depends on soooo many factors, some folk just like to get it on, others like to have a spark & some chemistry, whatever floats your boat. A coffee meet can be a good way to make sure you are not meeting a nut job..especially if you are accommodating, there are plenty of horror stories from the site. My presence is a no pressure meet first, could be coffee or a drink with a back up plan of a room if things are going well, be happy, have fun..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

That told us all

Do u do tea meets then? nope don't do coffee tea water alcohol hot chocolate or any liquid fluids as a social meet I just meet for fun and that's it noting more noting less

So a meet is a meet and no descritive word necessary? I applaud you, I have socials before anything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

That told us all

Do u do tea meets then? nope don't do coffee tea water alcohol hot chocolate or any liquid fluids as a social meet I just meet for fun and that's it noting more noting less

So a meet is a meet and no descritive word necessary? I applaud you, I have socials before anything

"
more or less yes a meet is a meet I don't waste time normally when I meet we have a chat for half hour then down too business like we arraged

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By *elfastDMan over a year ago

belfast

"There's nothing like the excitement and adrenalin when you do click over a coffee meet

It's like, how long can you resist before it turns into more than a coffee lol

It's great when you really click!!

It doesn't happen very often

But when it does

Wow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

That told us all

Do u do tea meets then? nope don't do coffee tea water alcohol hot chocolate or any liquid fluids as a social meet I just meet for fun and that's it noting more noting less

So a meet is a meet and no descritive word necessary? I applaud you, I have socials before anything

more or less yes a meet is a meet I don't waste time normally when I meet we have a chat for half hour then down too business like we arraged "

Ah I see.....so you arrange your business before meeting? Now the penny drops!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't do coffee meets pure waste of time if u ask me. I signed up here for sex not coffee but i love BBs coffee in Kilkenny yum yum yum if not Costa coffee and bewleys you not afraid of getting a weirdo ?? no sure what's the difference if I get a weirdo at a meet or at coffee plus I only meet well vertified members which are normally not weird

Plenty of verified creeps here too...I'd never meet unless a social one first! It's very important

and your point is but no socials for me unless I'm at a party or meet and greet that's as far as I do socials so coffee ain't one bit important too me il save that for the break between fucks

Oooooooo....That told me

lol

That told us all

Do u do tea meets then? nope don't do coffee tea water alcohol hot chocolate or any liquid fluids as a social meet I just meet for fun and that's it noting more noting less

So a meet is a meet and no descritive word necessary? I applaud you, I have socials before anything

more or less yes a meet is a meet I don't waste time normally when I meet we have a chat for half hour then down too business like we arraged

Ah I see.....so you arrange your business before meeting? Now the penny drops!

"
yep most of the time it's arranged and we know what's gonna happen that's why I don't do coffee meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's nothing like the excitement and adrenalin when you do click over a coffee meet

It's like, how long can you resist before it turns into more than a coffee lol

It's great when you really click!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I once had a coffee meet that lasted 6 hours and yes it was ONLY coffee.

Ohh and of course the all important kiss test

because if I'm not turned on by our conversation and kiss then I'm afraid it wouldn't go any further

Only once did I "meet" without having the social first and it was a complete disaster so NEVER again!

But as they say different strokes for different folks

and no matter what works for you just stay safe

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I once had a coffee meet that lasted 6 hours and yes it was ONLY coffee.

Ohh and of course the all important kiss test

because if I'm not turned on by our conversation and kiss then I'm afraid it wouldn't go any further

Only once did I "meet" without having the social first and it was a complete disaster so NEVER again!

But as they say different strokes for different folks

and no matter what works for you just stay safe

Xx"

please tell me you met after all that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I once had a coffee meet that lasted 6 hours and yes it was ONLY coffee.

Ohh and of course the all important kiss test

because if I'm not turned on by our conversation and kiss then I'm afraid it wouldn't go any further

Only once did I "meet" without having the social first and it was a complete disaster so NEVER again!

But as they say different strokes for different folks

and no matter what works for you just stay safe

please tell me you met after all that

Ohhh god yesssssss.. LOTS

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I once had a coffee meet that lasted 6 hours and yes it was ONLY coffee.

Ohh and of course the all important kiss test

because if I'm not turned on by our conversation and kiss then I'm afraid it wouldn't go any further

Only once did I "meet" without having the social first and it was a complete disaster so NEVER again!

But as they say different strokes for different folks

and no matter what works for you just stay safe

please tell me you met after all that

Ohhh god yesssssss.. LOTS

"
good girl see love a happy ending lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I once had a coffee meet that lasted 6 hours and yes it was ONLY coffee.

Ohh and of course the all important kiss test

because if I'm not turned on by our conversation and kiss then I'm afraid it wouldn't go any further

Only once did I "meet" without having the social first and it was a complete disaster so NEVER again!

But as they say different strokes for different folks

and no matter what works for you just stay safe

please tell me you met after all that

Ohhh god yesssssss.. LOTS

good girl see love a happy ending lol

Believe me miss there were lots of happy endings

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I once had a coffee meet that lasted 6 hours and yes it was ONLY coffee.

Ohh and of course the all important kiss test

because if I'm not turned on by our conversation and kiss then I'm afraid it wouldn't go any further

Only once did I "meet" without having the social first and it was a complete disaster so NEVER again!

But as they say different strokes for different folks

and no matter what works for you just stay safe

please tell me you met after all that

Ohhh god yesssssss.. LOTS

good girl see love a happy ending lol

Believe me miss there were lots of happy endings

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By *irst officerMan over a year ago

Naas

Hot coffee date next week, she is hot...

Better coffee then nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I once had a coffee meet that lasted 6 hours and yes it was ONLY coffee.

Ohh and of course the all important kiss test

because if I'm not turned on by our conversation and kiss then I'm afraid it wouldn't go any further

Only once did I "meet" without having the social first and it was a complete disaster so NEVER again!

But as they say different strokes for different folks

and no matter what works for you just stay safe

Xx"

I once met a girl at a M&G and we got on like a house on fire but nothing happened. Took us ages to arrange the actual follow up meet but when we did let's just say the kiss was the deal breaker. Shamazing!!!!! There was no going back after that and each time I get that kiss it still takes my breath away.......

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By *irst officerMan over a year ago

Naas

"I once had a coffee meet that lasted 6 hours and yes it was ONLY coffee.

Ohh and of course the all important kiss test

because if I'm not turned on by our conversation and kiss then I'm afraid it wouldn't go any further

Only once did I "meet" without having the social first and it was a complete disaster so NEVER again!

But as they say different strokes for different folks

and no matter what works for you just stay safe

It's not impossible to get your vanilla on fab. Lucky guys.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Been on coffee meets and love them most of times we have end up in my place so lots of hot wet fun plus the wet hot coffee to lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing like the excitement and adrenalin when you do click over a coffee meet

It's like, how long can you resist before it turns into more than a coffee lol"

Don't think you and I ever made the café pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hot lady like u blondie mmmmmmm nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never had a coffee meet

Any takers?

Hunter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never had a coffee meet

Any takers?

Hunter "

Awe poor hunter

I'm sure you'll get loads of offers now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've actually a few coffee dates this week.... just let's hope I don't mix the fab ones and the business ones up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None of my coffee meets have ever turned into anything more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's nothing like the excitement and adrenalin when you do click over a coffee meet

It's like, how long can you resist before it turns into more than a coffee lol"

couldn't agree more with you!

See you for a Coffee sometime

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got a bonus blow job after meeting for coffee once

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never had a coffee meet

Any takers?

Hunter "

Ahhhhhh...Well as it happens I'm in cork on the 20th

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never had a coffee meet

Any takers?

Hunter

Ahhhhhh...Well as it happens I'm in cork on the 20th

Lol I can't imagine there will be a great deal of coffee consumed that night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lucky for me, I love coffee, couldn't refuse a reason to have a few cups.

I prefer hot chocolate

but do you think it's necessary and how far would you go on a coffee meet and I don't mean distance

it depends on how good the meet goes and what you feel like doing i suppose.

I'm no expert though. all my coffee meets have just been for coffee

"
that's not what I have heard Mingo lol

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

ive ad a few coffee meets. one even involved pints on a Thursday afternoon lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ive ad a few coffee meets. one even involved pints on a Thursday afternoon lol"

Did someone say Bulmers?

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"None of my coffee meets have ever turned into anything more

Always first time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ive ad a few coffee meets. one even involved pints on a Thursday afternoon lol

Did someone say Bulmers?

Are you a pear woman?

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

An hrs radius but have being known to go further ahem just how far

Pretty far the whole hog if truth be known

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ive ad a few coffee meets. one even involved pints on a Thursday afternoon lol

Did someone say Bulmers?

Are you a pear woman?"

Pear shaped!

Yes pear or Apple im partial to both.

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"ive ad a few coffee meets. one even involved pints on a Thursday afternoon lol

Did someone say Bulmers?

well if you're asking

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By *elfastDMan over a year ago

belfast

"There's nothing like the excitement and adrenalin when you do click over a coffee meet

It's like, how long can you resist before it turns into more than a coffee lol

Don't think you and I ever made the café pmsl

No, the car park in daylight was enough to get your tongue wet

Lol

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By *elfastDMan over a year ago

belfast

"There's nothing like the excitement and adrenalin when you do click over a coffee meet

It's like, how long can you resist before it turns into more than a coffee lol

couldn't agree more with you!

See you for a Coffee sometime

Lol if only!

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By *ean0001Man over a year ago

Dublin West

Coffee for me is always only coffee, but its what i use to see if i have a spark with someone as I dont play if i dont get the spark.

Always nice to get a little smooch at the end just as a little taster, but i work on the basis if i have no expectations then i wont have any dissapointments.

Its always nice when they exceed my expectations and i see that twinkle in their eye. Sadly it doesn't happen as often as i would like, but hey thats life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I once had a coffee meet that lasted 6 hours and yes it was ONLY coffee.

Ohh and of course the all important kiss test

because if I'm not turned on by our conversation and kiss then I'm afraid it wouldn't go any further

Only once did I "meet" without having the social first and it was a complete disaster so NEVER again!

But as they say different strokes for different folks

and no matter what works for you just stay safe

Duffer you old romantic you! So you defrosted Miss Frosty

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We always meet socially before any play....and I like the time between social and play.....nice sexy texts,build up of anticipation..... Couldn't imagine jumping right in and to do it as a single I think is just crazy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I once had a coffee meet that lasted 6 hours and yes it was ONLY coffee.

Ohh and of course the all important kiss test

because if I'm not turned on by our conversation and kiss then I'm afraid it wouldn't go any further

Only once did I "meet" without having the social first and it was a complete disaster so NEVER again!

But as they say different strokes for different folks

and no matter what works for you just stay safe

Duffer you old romantic you! So you defrosted Miss Frosty

Miss. Frosty thawed King Duffer that said cud never fall....Would love to see him with his dozens roses this weekend ....aw shucks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"coffee meet for me usually means coffee meet, but I have been known to play if the sparks there

I hear ya

"
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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By *s louWoman over a year ago

Enniskillen

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By *s louWoman over a year ago

Enniskillen

"coffee meet for me usually means coffee meet, but I have been known to play if the sparks there

I hear ya

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Another couple that agrees.....we'll have to arrange a coffee soon

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By *illbillMan over a year ago

dublin

I don't drink coffee....

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By *s louWoman over a year ago

Enniskillen

och....sure we can have a pint

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A coffee meet to me is a quick hello to see if you are the same person as in photos, check you actually turn.

I'm not looking for sparks, or romance lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A coffee meet to me is a quick hello to see if you are the same person as in photos, check you actually turn.

I'm not looking for sparks, or romance lol."

No maybe not looking for sparks and definitely not looking for romance but there would have to be something to make a further meet possible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I once had a coffee meet that lasted 6 hours and yes it was ONLY coffee.

Ohh and of course the all important kiss test

because if I'm not turned on by our conversation and kiss then I'm afraid it wouldn't go any further

Only once did I "meet" without having the social first and it was a complete disaster so NEVER again!

But as they say different strokes for different folks

and no matter what works for you just stay safe

It's not impossible to get your vanilla on fab. Lucky guys.

I doubt very much they are vanilla

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By *illbillMan over a year ago

dublin

"och....sure we can have a pint

"
or two

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By *s louWoman over a year ago

Enniskillen

or more....

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By *illow1972Man over a year ago

Naas

Coffee meet is a must for me. Too many weirdos on here to jump straight in.

Costa Coffee in Carlow is yummy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like a blowjob while having a coffee, seems reasonable in my opinion

I love seeing the froth on the base of my shaft

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like a blowjob while having a coffee, seems reasonable in my opinion

I love seeing the froth on the base of my shaft

Sounds more like a cappuccino

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A coffee meet to me is a quick hello to see if you are the same person as in photos, check you actually turn.

I'm not looking for sparks, or romance lol."
so what connection ? Just that they look hot?

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By *illbillMan over a year ago

dublin

"A coffee meet to me is a quick hello to see if you are the same person as in photos, check you actually turn.

I'm not looking for sparks, or romance lol. so what connection ? Just that they look hot?

"
and can crack. A smile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok we all do them I presume, how far do or can you go on a coffee meet?? And where are your favourite places to meet for coffee ?

An absolute must. Meeting at best somewhere in a nice cafe for the first hello

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By *adylaceWoman over a year ago

Waterford City

"Coffee for me is always only coffee, but its what i use to see if i have a spark with someone as I dont play if i dont get the spark.

Always nice to get a little smooch at the end just as a little taster, but i work on the basis if i have no expectations then i wont have any dissapointments.

Its always nice when they exceed my expectations and i see that twinkle in their eye. Sadly it doesn't happen as often as i would like, but hey thats life."

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By *s louWoman over a year ago

Enniskillen

"A coffee meet to me is a quick hello to see if you are the same person as in photos, check you actually turn.

I'm not looking for sparks, or romance lol. so what connection ? Just that they look hot?

and can crack. A smile"

I can shmile

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By *illbillMan over a year ago

dublin

"A coffee meet to me is a quick hello to see if you are the same person as in photos, check you actually turn.

I'm not looking for sparks, or romance lol. so what connection ? Just that they look hot?

and can crack. A smile

I can shmile

a great smile too

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By *s louWoman over a year ago

Enniskillen

"A coffee meet to me is a quick hello to see if you are the same person as in photos, check you actually turn.

I'm not looking for sparks, or romance lol. so what connection ? Just that they look hot?

and can crack. A smile

I can shmile

a great smile too"

aww fanx xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't like them..feel way too much like a client meet...and unfortunately I often behave that way on them as well..old habits an all that..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't like them..feel way too much like a client meet...and unfortunately I often behave that way on them as well..old habits an all that..

"
you'll have to introduce yourself some other way so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like a blowjob while having a coffee, seems reasonable in my opinion

I love seeing the froth on the base of my shaft

Sounds more like a cappuccino

Frothy latte actually

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