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That they were a wife beater? That they had had their kids taken by Social Services? That they advocate sectarian views? Big 'IVF / IRA' tattoo on their bicep? Some unfortunate racist language during your initial drinks?
Forum is always full of 'no-judgement' statements but what boundaries wont you cross when meeting a fellow swinger? And are the limits the same for single fems / couples as they are for males? |
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"When my 6'2 38 yr old buff silver fox turns out to be a 5'4 seventy yr old who used pictures of his son when chatting for weeks on end!    "
Ouch! That's wrong on so many levels. |
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"When my 6'2 38 yr old buff silver fox turns out to be a 5'4 seventy yr old who used pictures of his son when chatting for weeks on end! "
Nah, that's not so bad. I do that all the time and I don't even have a son. |
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"That they were a wife beater? That they had had their kids taken by Social Services? That they advocate sectarian views? Big 'IVF / IRA' tattoo on their bicep? Some unfortunate racist language during your initial drinks?
Forum is always full of 'no-judgement' statements but what boundaries wont you cross when meeting a fellow swinger? And are the limits the same for single fems / couples as they are for males?"
hairy chest too and nothing as disgusting as bad hygiene |
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"Did you at least get the son's phone number?
Serious question tho, once you know a bit about some people reading their constant 'status updates' can become a bit unpalatable.
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I wish lol
I suppose everyone's boundaries are different and very personal and I definitely have quite a few but if I read very graphic updates ie my ball bag needs emptied ....I wouldn't be meeting that person. Same if I see someone being nasty or rude in the forums. |
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So most agrees they would most likely not meet a person if they are related too ops question what happens if u bump into this person at a party you can't really say I won't meet you as their already there do ya get me  |
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Forum is always full of 'no-judgement' statements but what boundaries wont you cross when meeting a fellow swinger? And are the limits the same for single fems / couples as they are for males?"
Anything remotely racist and I'm out the door. Biggest turn-off ever. Bad hygeine even comes second to that. |
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"Did you at least get the son's phone number?
Serious question tho, once you know a bit about some people reading their constant 'status updates' can become a bit unpalatable.
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I agree when peoples status sound uninteresting it puts you off them |
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"That they were a wife beater? That they had had their kids taken by Social Services? That they advocate sectarian views? Big 'IVF / IRA' tattoo on their bicep? Some unfortunate racist language during your initial drinks?
Forum is always full of 'no-judgement' statements but what boundaries wont you cross when meeting a fellow swinger? And are the limits the same for single fems / couples as they are for males?"
We once had a meet where the guy was really sectarian guess who didn't get to play leave that rubbish back in the last decade |
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"Did you at least get the son's phone number?
Serious question tho, once you know a bit about some people reading their constant 'status updates' can become a bit unpalatable.
I wish lol
I suppose everyone's boundaries are different and very personal and I definitely have quite a few but if I read very graphic updates ie my ball bag needs emptied ....I wouldn't be meeting that person. Same if I see someone being nasty or rude in the forums. "
I agree with you there, Mrs S |
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Forum is always full of 'no-judgement' statements but what boundaries wont you cross when meeting a fellow swinger? And are the limits the same for single fems / couples as they are for males?
Anything remotely racist and I'm out the door. Biggest turn-off ever. Bad hygeine even comes second to that."
Racisim??? Really?? |
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"So most agrees they would most likely not meet a person if they are related too ops question what happens if u bump into this person at a party you can't really say I won't meet you as their already there do ya get me "
Wouldn't that depend if you had said to them 'I wont meet you because of X' (you're a racist / d*unk / whatever) rahter than 'I don't think there is a match'..
Most of us have 'encountered' for a second time a person we declined to play with for whatever reason. The scene is very small so people do overlap a lot.
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"So most agrees they would most likely not meet a person if they are related too ops question what happens if u bump into this person at a party you can't really say I won't meet you as their already there do ya get me
Wouldn't that depend if you had said to them 'I wont meet you because of X' (you're a racist / d*unk / whatever) rahter than 'I don't think there is a match'..
Most of us have 'encountered' for a second time a person we declined to play with for whatever reason. The scene is very small so people do overlap a lot.
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very true like we bumped into a person we disliked and when we met in person face2face he turned out too be a really really nice guy that's what I'm saying really if an x why and z person was attending a party and you know they did something or where a racist what ever the reasons what would u do if ya bumped into them stories do go around like wild fire here so it's hard too believe some people Yano |
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" very true like we bumped into a person we disliked and when we met in person face2face he turned out too be a really really nice guy that's what I'm saying really if an x why and z person was attending a party and you know they did something or where a racist what ever the reasons what would u do if ya bumped into them stories do go around like wild fire here so it's hard too believe some people Yano "
Am more thinking of the opposite senario - someone you liked on here, and liked when you first met (lets say physical attraction is not an issue) and then they start up about 'them poles' or 'my kids are in a care home'... what makes you balk and decide despite looking like George Clooney / Charisma Carpenter you are NOT going there?
(Always ignore fab 'rumours' - if a trusted friend tells some X,Y,Z is trouble I'd believe it, if its just another person off fabs I'd assume 'an agenda'.) |
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" very true like we bumped into a person we disliked and when we met in person face2face he turned out too be a really really nice guy that's what I'm saying really if an x why and z person was attending a party and you know they did something or where a racist what ever the reasons what would u do if ya bumped into them stories do go around like wild fire here so it's hard too believe some people Yano
Am more thinking of the opposite senario - someone you liked on here, and liked when you first met (lets say physical attraction is not an issue) and then they start up about 'them poles' or 'my kids are in a care home'... what makes you balk and decide despite looking like George Clooney / Charisma Carpenter you are NOT going there?
(Always ignore fab 'rumours' - if a trusted friend tells some X,Y,Z is trouble I'd believe it, if its just another person off fabs I'd assume 'an agenda'.)"
well if their kids are in care that don't bother me coming from a person who was in care people have there reasons but if a lot of friends said stay away well of course I'd stay away if some Radom person said it too me I'd most likely just block that person and go ahead with the meet |
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"Somebody with a big IVF tattoo wouldnt put us off. Just because they need assisted conception methods does not mean they are bad people   "
what has assisted conception methods got too do with the ops question |
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"Somebody with a big IVF tattoo wouldnt put us off. Just because they need assisted conception methods does not mean they are bad people what has assisted conception methods got too do with the ops question"
I have never met wexcpl but by the sounds of things they are nice people |
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"Somebody with a big IVF tattoo wouldnt put us off. Just because they need assisted conception methods does not mean they are bad people what has assisted conception methods got too do with the ops question"
I typo'd 'IVF' instead of 'UVF' as 'I' and 'U' are beside each other on the keyboard.
The usual ITV3 comedians on the forum can't resist the 'hilarity' of commenting. |
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"Somebody with a big IVF tattoo wouldnt put us off. Just because they need assisted conception methods does not mean they are bad people what has assisted conception methods got too do with the ops question
I typo'd 'IVF' instead of 'UVF' as 'I' and 'U' are beside each other on the keyboard.
The usual ITV3 comedians on the forum can't resist the 'hilarity' of commenting. "
just proves how mature they are really |
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"Somebody with a big IVF tattoo wouldnt put us off. Just because they need assisted conception methods does not mean they are bad people what has assisted conception methods got too do with the ops question
I typo'd 'IVF' instead of 'UVF' as 'I' and 'U' are beside each other on the keyboard.
The usual ITV3 comedians on the forum can't resist the 'hilarity' of commenting. "
I agreed with you on what you said so how come you still taking the mick |
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Sectarian shite is sooooo last century - this is a defo deal breaker, if they are that narrow minded in regards of something so trivial (and yes, it is trivial bc in 1000 yrs is ANY of it gonna matter) what will they be like on day to day issues.
It isn't just this alone tho, manners and how you hold yourself play a big part too |
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"Somebody with a big IVF tattoo wouldnt put us off. Just because they need assisted conception methods does not mean they are bad people what has assisted conception methods got too do with the ops question
I typo'd 'IVF' instead of 'UVF' as 'I' and 'U' are beside each other on the keyboard.
The usual ITV3 comedians on the forum can't resist the 'hilarity' of commenting. "
Don't know about hilarious but was funny  |
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