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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How subtle are people on here when first contacting someone. First impressions last so they say!!, you don't want to come across as desperate or in the other case naïve. Discuss..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely mail anyone on here first...
Never have had to... 
Only though with the exception of the forums...."
Lair having a hard time getting this crazy one out of my inbox  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How subtle are people on here when first contacting someone. First impressions last so they say!!, you don't want to come across as desperate or in the other case naïve. Discuss....."
I have to admit my first few emails to people where terrible hoping to redeem myself at the limerick social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just come across eager who gives a.shit besides that is what you are here for.... Posting on the forum about it says you are eager anyways
Be yourself that's all you can do!
If you are good people will talk about you if you are bad people will talk so you will never win do best you can be yourself even if you sound over eage! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately we don't know the preference of approach people who we message prefer, sometimes I come on strong if I think they will appreciate it other times I just introduce myself and if they like me great and if not I cry for hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just say "Hi, how are you?" when I message someone. If its not good enough for them then that's fine by me."
Best approach 
I wouldn't walk up to a girl on a night out and simply ask if she needed filling or if she's "lookin any fun", so not going to kick it off like that on here either :L
On the other hand, if I see a great ass, I'll let you know, and that isn't fab exclusive either |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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A hi how are you message is pointless in my eyes and a waste of a chance to make a good first impression,when u have a cpl profile that's all guys seem to send
Try be witty or whatever your forte is,try stand out,I try comment on something they have written in their profile
And never good idea to seem over eager either,you're a guy its a given you're eager. In fact I never bring up meeting,let them,desperation aint pretty
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say approach an email the same you would someone in person at a meet and greet... bit of mannerly wit and banter something other than..hi...or what yous into |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty fickle - sometimes I'll reply to guys who message us and sometimes I just delete. Neither Hunter nor I are the type of people to just meet someone in a hotel room, fuck 'em and go our separate ways... There has to be attraction and we have to like the person involved. So for us, first impressions in mail count for a lot. We also get to know people in the chat rooms - the banter in there is great for ing out the idiots lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delightful one line example of how not to first contact has just landed in my inbox...
I'd actually f**k the shite outta you
Obviously I'm so taken by this offer I'm winging my way to meet as I type this    |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Delightful one line example of how not to first contact has just landed in my inbox...
I'd actually f**k the shite outta you
Obviously I'm so taken by this offer I'm winging my way to meet as I type this "
if that same lad gave a lovely detailed opening Mail would you have replied? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely mail anyone on here first...
Never have had to...
Only though with the exception of the forums....
Lair having a hard time getting this crazy one out of my inbox "
You're very lucky as very few get near my box... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely mail anyone on here first...
Never have had to...
Only though with the exception of the forums....
Lair having a hard time getting this crazy one out of my inbox
You're very lucky as very few get near my box... "
mmmmm intresting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I rarely mail anyone on here first...
Never have had to...
Only though with the exception of the forums....
Lair having a hard time getting this crazy one out of my inbox
You're very lucky as very few get near my box... mmmmm intresting "
You're dirty mind playing tricks again??? |
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