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Contemplation of a marvelous lifestyle
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You all know at this stage that I tend to post threads that are maybe against the grain. Against the mundane threads that require no intellectual consideration.
I have been and will continue to be fascinated by the life that we choose to lead. Particularly when I've had a sexual encounter with a person from "real life".
It's 2.47am in the morning. I've returned from an encounter with a lady not in this lifestyle.
I don't smoke, I don't drink. I work and after work I work out. Therein lays my life. I'm sane and I have a ferocious sexual appetite.
I've sat across a table from someone I know who swings and I know where things will end up. In most cases its a given.
I've sat across a table from someone in the real world and never known where it will end up, initially.
Which scenario is the most endearing. Someone you know will fuck you senseless or someone who might fuck you senseless.
I love this lifestyle. I'm a libertarian. Sexual appetite should be worn on ones sleeve.
Sometimes I think its too easy, maybe its cheating the natural system of things. Maybe we should put ourselves through the initiation that most people have to go through, before one ends in naked bliss. I honestly don't know.
I would welcome your considered opinion. What that means is I would not welcome someone who comments with lackluster humour, there are plenty of other threads here that cater for that.
I give considered time to what I post. Hopefully it will be reciprocated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've read this a few times and to be honest OP... I'm not sure what to think..
Do you think its "Too" easy to get what you want on here..?
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do you prefer the unknown challenge of Sex with a Vanilla person...?
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Do I have it all wrong...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyway further to your op...
If that excited you tonight (and I'm glad it did for you) and this site is "too easy" for you do you not think that this is not the place for you??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This site cuts out that whole dating thing so comments like yours and refaring to yourself as a controversial character in making such comments as "easy" is actually quite insulting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No probs at all. Purely out of curiosity though where did I refer to myself as being a "controversial character"? "
First paragraph and perhaps refaring was not the correct work as u didn't directly refare but I think you like to think of yourself as a controversial character |
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"No probs at all. Purely out of curiosity though where did I refer to myself as being a "controversial character"? "
You insinuated it, to be fair...
First paragraph...  |
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"No probs at all. Purely out of curiosity though where did I refer to myself as being a "controversial character"?
You insinuated it, to be fair...
First paragraph... "
Insinuated was the word exactly thanks...lol |
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"Ah ok. So referring to going against the grain is interrupted as being controversial?
Is there any chance at all that it may, just may, be seen as proffering an alternative opinion?"
No |
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Ok. Thanks and noted. You might just comment on the context of the thread now and we'll see where it goes.
I do value you interaction. That's what makes the forum what it is.
I usually don't comment on my own threads, but I've made an exception. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's gotta be the most ridiculous thing anyone has posted. So what ....you put something up and let people discuss it without commenting on it. That's a load of rubbish |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This site cuts out that whole dating thing so comments like yours and refaring to yourself as a controversial character in making such comments as "easy" is actually quite insulting."
This post did discuss you op but obviously you didn't get that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok. Thanks and noted. You might just comment on the context of the thread now and we'll see where it goes.
I do value you interaction. That's what makes the forum what it is.
I usually don't comment on my own threads, but I've made an exception."
I commented I'm awaiting your response... |
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"Ah ok. So referring to going against the grain is interrupted as being controversial?
Is there any chance at all that it may, just may, be seen as proffering an alternative opinion?"
Do you honestly think a fab lady should be treated any different to any other lady. All ladies deserve the courtesy,the respect and the charm of the man sat opposite them. |
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"Ah ok. So referring to going against the grain is interrupted as being controversial?
Is there any chance at all that it may, just may, be seen as proffering an alternative opinion?
Do you honestly think a fab lady should be treated any different to any other lady. All ladies deserve the courtesy,the respect and the charm of the man sat opposite them."
Oh ffs man where did I say that I'm not respectful? Where did I say that a woman should not be treated with utmost respect? Where did I say that a woman should not be treat with courtesy? |
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Why use 11 paragraphs when 1 would do. Your pseudo-intillectual ramblings do my head in. And THEN you have the gall to say that you don't comment on your own threads.. as if you are here to impart your infinite wisdom on us mere mortals.
Oh and worst 'look at me i got laid' thread in a while too.
Hx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why use 11 paragraphs when 1 would do. Your pseudo-intillectual ramblings do my head in. And THEN you have the gall to say that you don't comment on your own threads.. as if you are here to impart your infinite wisdom on us mere mortals.
Oh and worst 'look at me i got laid' thread in a while too.
Hx
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Could not have put it better myself,
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"Why use 11 paragraphs when 1 would do. Your pseudo-intillectual ramblings do my head in. And THEN you have the gall to say that you don't comment on your own threads.. as if you are here to impart your infinite wisdom on us mere mortals.
Nail on head
Oh and worst 'look at me i got laid' thread in a while too.
Hx
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This post can be boiled down to "Which scenario is the most endearing. Someone you know will fuck you senseless or someone who might fuck you senseless".
hardly an intellectual disccussion  and lets be honest here this thread is not really about the question you asked is it?As Hunter eloquently put it its just another one of your "look how clever I am" threads.You have the unendearing habit of presuming your verbosity is some sort of intelletualism when in reality it comes across as arrogant sneering at others.What you consider a thread raising things above the mundane I, and most here I would think, see it for what it is .Just another "look at me,I'm clever,wanna fuck?"thread.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Couldn't have put it better myself , paddyandemily !!!! Lets move on to the next sensible thread ! 
btw....terribaby would you mind contacting me.....I seem to be outside your age range !!....Thanks. |
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"Ah ok. So referring to going against the grain is interrupted as being controversial?
Is there any chance at all that it may, just may, be seen as proffering an alternative opinion?
Do you honestly think a fab lady should be treated any different to any other lady. All ladies deserve the courtesy,the respect and the charm of the man sat opposite them."
Such a gentleman you are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You all know at this stage that I tend to post threads that are maybe against the grain. Against the mundane threads that require no intellectual consideration.
I have been and will continue to be fascinated by the life that we choose to lead. Particularly when I've had a sexual encounter with a person from "real life".
It's 2.47am in the morning. I've returned from an encounter with a lady not in this lifestyle.
I don't smoke, I don't drink. I work and after work I work out. Therein lays my life. I'm sane and I have a ferocious sexual appetite.
I've sat across a table from someone I know who swings and I know where things will end up. In most cases its a given.
I've sat across a table from someone in the real world and never known where it will end up, initially.
Which scenario is the most endearing. Someone you know will fuck you senseless or someone who might fuck you senseless.
I love this lifestyle. I'm a libertarian. Sexual appetite should be worn on ones sleeve.
Sometimes I think its too easy, maybe its cheating the natural system of things. Maybe we should put ourselves through the initiation that most people have to go through, before one ends in naked bliss. I honestly don't know.
I would welcome your considered opinion. What that means is I would not welcome someone who comments with lackluster humour, there are plenty of other threads here that cater for that.
I give considered time to what I post. Hopefully it will be reciprocated. "
This clown needs to get a fucking life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well op I can't tell your attempt to be or try to come across as intellectual have fail, miserably.... Also yes maybe when you meet someone from here people are more open and less apprehensive about sex or in some sense more liberal than what a person from "real life" would. Not that everyone here is from a fucking parallel universe that is not "real life" ffs Man really?
Another thing I can tell you as a single male nothing is guaranteed not even here, and it's bloody hard to get meet and have fun and I don't do too bad... Why? Because I don't take for granted that if I arrange a meet it would be an immediate easy fuck, it really shitty and irrespectful to consider all women "easy". Remember we are all the same even if you meet somesomeone on fabs they are real people that deserve to be treat it exactly the samE!
Now for the vroom part you actually showed how much of a twat you are congratulations  |
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"You all know at this stage that I tend to post threads that are maybe against the grain. Against the mundane threads that require no intellectual consideration.
I have been and will continue to be fascinated by the life that we choose to lead. Particularly when I've had a sexual encounter with a person from "real life".
It's 2.47am in the morning. I've returned from an encounter with a lady not in this lifestyle.
I don't smoke, I don't drink. I work and after work I work out. Therein lays my life. I'm sane and I have a ferocious sexual appetite.
I've sat across a table from someone I know who swings and I know where things will end up. In most cases its a given.
I've sat across a table from someone in the real world and never known where it will end up, initially.
Which scenario is the most endearing. Someone you know will fuck you senseless or someone who might fuck you senseless.
I love this lifestyle. I'm a libertarian. Sexual appetite should be worn on ones sleeve.
Sometimes I think its too easy, maybe its cheating the natural system of things. Maybe we should put ourselves through the initiation that most people have to go through, before one ends in naked bliss. I honestly don't know.
I would welcome your considered opinion. What that means is I would not welcome someone who comments with lackluster humour, there are plenty of other threads here that cater for that.
I give considered time to what I post. Hopefully it will be reciprocated.
This clown needs to get a fucking life"
He is worse than me  !  |
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"You all know at this stage that I tend to post threads that are maybe against the grain. Against the mundane threads that require no intellectual consideration.
I have been and will continue to be fascinated by the life that we choose to lead. Particularly when I've had a sexual encounter with a person from "real life".
It's 2.47am in the morning. I've returned from an encounter with a lady not in this lifestyle.
I don't smoke, I don't drink. I work and after work I work out. Therein lays my life. I'm sane and I have a ferocious sexual appetite.
I've sat across a table from someone I know who swings and I know where things will end up. In most cases its a given.
I've sat across a table from someone in the real world and never known where it will end up, initially.
Which scenario is the most endearing. Someone you know will fuck you senseless or someone who might fuck you senseless.
I love this lifestyle. I'm a libertarian. Sexual appetite should be worn on ones sleeve.
Sometimes I think its too easy, maybe its cheating the natural system of things. Maybe we should put ourselves through the initiation that most people have to go through, before one ends in naked bliss. I honestly don't know.
I would welcome your considered opinion. What that means is I would not welcome someone who comments with lackluster humour, there are plenty of other threads here that cater for that.
I give considered time to what I post. Hopefully it will be reciprocated.
This clown needs to get a fucking life
He is worse than me ! "
That in itself is a remarkable feat... |
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"You all know at this stage that I tend to post threads that are maybe against the grain. Against the mundane threads that require no intellectual consideration.
I have been and will continue to be fascinated by the life that we choose to lead. Particularly when I've had a sexual encounter with a person from "real life".
It's 2.47am in the morning. I've returned from an encounter with a lady not in this lifestyle.
I don't smoke, I don't drink. I work and after work I work out. Therein lays my life. I'm sane and I have a ferocious sexual appetite.
I've sat across a table from someone I know who swings and I know where things will end up. In most cases its a given.
I've sat across a table from someone in the real world and never known where it will end up, initially.
Which scenario is the most endearing. Someone you know will fuck you senseless or someone who might fuck you senseless.
I love this lifestyle. I'm a libertarian. Sexual appetite should be worn on ones sleeve.
Sometimes I think its too easy, maybe its cheating the natural system of things. Maybe we should put ourselves through the initiation that most people have to go through, before one ends in naked bliss. I honestly don't know.
I would welcome your considered opinion. What that means is I would not welcome someone who comments with lackluster humour, there are plenty of other threads here that cater for that.
I give considered time to what I post. Hopefully it will be reciprocated.
This clown needs to get a fucking life
He is worse than me !
That in itself is a remarkable feat..."
Too true |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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Agree with most comments but I see this as a 'I've just had a fuck (allegedly) and I want to brag about it' thread. Just like all the other 'controversial' , not I hasten to add, threads you post at whatever hours of the morning.
The only phrase you've mentioned I will debate about is the ' real world'. Is meeting people, from Fab or any other online medium, not real? Its as real as meeting in a pub or club to me. |
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"Agree with most comments but I see this as a 'I've just had a fuck (allegedly) and I want to brag about it' thread. Just like all the other 'controversial' , not I hasten to add, threads you post at whatever hours of the morning.
The only phrase you've mentioned I will debate about is the ' real world'. Is meeting people, from Fab or any other online medium, not real? Its as real as meeting in a pub or club to me. "
I wouldnt even massage this morons ego by even mentioning any line in his post. I took one look at the length of it, saw the typo in the title, read the first line and knew straight away, another saddo trying too hard to sound intelligent and offbeat |
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"Agree with most comments but I see this as a 'I've just had a fuck (allegedly) and I want to brag about it' thread. Just like all the other 'controversial' , not I hasten to add, threads you post at whatever hours of the morning.
The only phrase you've mentioned I will debate about is the ' real world'. Is meeting people, from Fab or any other online medium, not real? Its as real as meeting in a pub or club to me.
I wouldnt even massage this morons ego by even mentioning any line in his post. I took one look at the length of it, saw the typo in the title, read the first line and knew straight away, another saddo trying too hard to sound intelligent and offbeat"
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By *imwildWoman
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"Agree with most comments but I see this as a 'I've just had a fuck (allegedly) and I want to brag about it' thread. Just like all the other 'controversial' , not I hasten to add, threads you post at whatever hours of the morning.
The only phrase you've mentioned I will debate about is the ' real world'. Is meeting people, from Fab or any other online medium, not real? Its as real as meeting in a pub or club to me.
I wouldnt even massage this morons ego by even mentioning any line in his post. I took one look at the length of it, saw the typo in the title, read the first line and knew straight away, another saddo trying too hard to sound intelligent and offbeat"
So why are you commenting? |
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In my mild humble opinion there are lots of pros n cons sitting across from either swinger or vanilla, but it all comes down to one thing (well 2) sexual chemistry and that first kiss!!
If there isn't sexual or just plain chemistry the kiss won't come and if it does it won't be good!!
For me if the kiss doesn't work neither will the sex!
Just my humble opinion   |
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"Agree with most comments but I see this as a 'I've just had a fuck (allegedly) and I want to brag about it' thread. Just like all the other 'controversial' , not I hasten to add, threads you post at whatever hours of the morning.
The only phrase you've mentioned I will debate about is the ' real world'. Is meeting people, from Fab or any other online medium, not real? Its as real as meeting in a pub or club to me.
I wouldnt even massage this morons ego by even mentioning any line in his post. I took one look at the length of it, saw the typo in the title, read the first line and knew straight away, another saddo trying too hard to sound intelligent and offbeat
So why are you commenting? "
Im not commenting on anything within his post, which is what i suggested |
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By *lympia98Couple
over a year ago
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While I do have sympathy for the Poster for being ridiculed by most others on this thread, there is a big whiff of "look at me I'm so deep and intelligent and I've just gotten laid"
On the flipside the forums are a good tool for realising who to avoid as a potential playmate. |
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By *imwildWoman
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"Agree with most comments but I see this as a 'I've just had a fuck (allegedly) and I want to brag about it' thread. Just like all the other 'controversial' , not I hasten to add, threads you post at whatever hours of the morning.
The only phrase you've mentioned I will debate about is the ' real world'. Is meeting people, from Fab or any other online medium, not real? Its as real as meeting in a pub or club to me.
I wouldnt even massage this morons ego by even mentioning any line in his post. I took one look at the length of it, saw the typo in the title, read the first line and knew straight away, another saddo trying too hard to sound intelligent and offbeat
So why are you commenting?
Im not commenting on anything within his post, which is what i suggested"
how can you suggest others not to comment on something you have not read? Just because you deem something unreadable does not mean others don't? |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"This post can be boiled down to "Which scenario is the most endearing. Someone you know will fuck you senseless or someone who might fuck you senseless".
hardly an intellectual disccussion and lets be honest here this thread is not really about the question you asked is it?As Hunter eloquently put it its just another one of your "look how clever I am" threads.You have the unendearing habit of presuming your verbosity is some sort of intelletualism when in reality it comes across as arrogant sneering at others.What you consider a thread raising things above the mundane I, and most here I would think, see it for what it is .Just another "look at me,I'm clever,wanna fuck?"thread.
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its a look how clever i THINK i am thread,
only thing i took from it is he doesn't drink,i put his late night ramblings down to being pissed. Doesn't even have that as an excuse |
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I don't meet girls to have sex. I meet them to see if I like them.
I'm not interested in sparks, or chemistry or any of that nonsense. I wont flirt, I wont sweet talk, I wont give romantic gestures.
Ill sit across from them and talk to them as if they were an old friend I was meeting.
Vanilla or swinger, if I am going to have sex with them then they have to be okay with it being strings free. Sometimes swingers and vanilla people have a problem with this, they get their feelings hurt, their emotions hurt, so Ill try gauge that before sleeping with them.
I said no to a girl who wanted nsa, who then had her heart broken by the next guy that jumped on the offer. Because she wasnt able to cope with nsa. It was obvious she wouldnt be able to cope with it, why would someone hurt a girl like that, I dunno, Ill stay friends instead.
In conclusion, its all the same to me, when Im sitting across from them they are a person Im trying to figure out, not a sexual object, yet. |
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its a look how clever i THINK i am thread,
only thing i took from it is he doesn't drink,i put his late night ramblings down to being pissed. Doesn't even have that as an excuse"
Thats what I thought as well.You live and learn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im sure most people enjoy the thrill of the chase, but then meeting someone you know is into swinging isnt a guarantee that you will get laid either you still have to work at it.
Im sure most singles who aint involved or interested in swinging have great kinky sex when they want anyway. |
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I don't think it's a 'given' that meeting someone from fab will end in sex any more than meeting someone not from fab WON'T end in sex. Truth is if i meet you, wherever it's from, we have the same chance as long as we click. Not clicking obviously changes everything, no matter how well any previous interaction went. Willow, i don't know what your objectives are when you post your late night ramblings. I don't really care either. I enjoy them |
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"I don't think it's a 'given' that meeting someone from fab will end in sex any more than meeting someone not from fab WON'T end in sex. Truth is if i meet you, wherever it's from, we have the same chance as long as we click. Not clicking obviously changes everything, no matter how well any previous interaction went. Willow, i don't know what your objectives are when you post your late night ramblings. I don't really care either. I enjoy them "
I'm glad that you do. Thank you. |
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