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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok just read a article about the risks of giving a unprotected blow job,everything from it affecting a "loving" relationship,throat cancer to HIV....
As for any blow job pics here I've never seen a condom on...
So guys how would you feel about protected blow jobs?
Do you think you'd enjoy it???
Yayyyyyyyyyy....
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Nayyyyyyyyyy.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok just read a article about the risks of giving a unprotected blow job,everything from it affecting a "loving" relationship,throat cancer to HIV....
As for any blow job pics here I've never seen a condom on...
So guys how would you feel about protected blow jobs?
Do you think you'd enjoy it???
Yayyyyyyyyyy....
OR
Nayyyyyyyyyy.... "
it's definitely not the same but I can see reasons for it but at the end of the day if the lady wants a condom for head then you put one on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure of the statistics,but I would imagine oral without,as long as there is no ejaculation,is no more risky than passionate kissing "
oh so wrong |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure of the statistics,but I would imagine oral without,as long as there is no ejaculation,is no more risky than passionate kissing oh so wrong"
I know busty...miles apart!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure of the statistics,but I would imagine oral without,as long as there is no ejaculation,is no more risky than passionate kissing"
never found someone with pre-cum for saliva...so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure of the statistics,but I would imagine oral without,as long as there is no ejaculation,is no more risky than passionate kissing"
I can't believe he thinks that did they not teach him safe sex in school? it's risky but not as risky as sex if there are cuts blisters or open gums from brushing too hard there is huge potential for infection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did the article by any chance refer to bruised tonsils? The most mortifying moment in my life the day the GP told me that 
Was worth the pain however "
I'm a great believer in the power of strepsils lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Std are spread by bodily fluids,be that pre cum as you call it or saliva.kissing passes saliva,sounds horrible,but true"
From deep kissing I think the only ones you need worry about are Herpes & if you are very unlucky Syphilis. |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
Limavady |
"I'm not sure of the statistics,but I would imagine oral without,as long as there is no ejaculation,is no more risky than passionate kissing"
You're wrong.
Would you think that pulling out of a pussy before ejaculating would have no more more chance of creating a baby than passionate kissing would? I rather hope you don't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did the article by any chance refer to bruised tonsils? The most mortifying moment in my life the day the GP told me that
Was worth the pain however "
Bruised tonsils??....
Sounds interesting, humm me some more!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I ever have to start giving bj with a condom on I will give up swinging....Mrs Davie t"
Pmsl...Me toooooo
But there's so much emphasis on safe sex and absolutely no bareback it just makes ta think! That's all...  |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"If I ever have to start giving bj with a condom on I will give up swinging....Mrs Davie t
Puts the foil wrapper back in his pocket unopened 
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If you really want to wear a condom while your giving me oral cj that's fine.....whatever makes you happy |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"If I ever have to start giving bj with a condom on I will give up swinging....Mrs Davie t
Puts the foil wrapper back in his pocket unopened
If you really want to wear a condom while your giving me oral cj that's fine.....whatever makes you happy"
I am a man of simple pleasures Mrs d to have u cum on my face would make me very happy |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"If I ever have to start giving bj with a condom on I will give up swinging....Mrs Davie t
Puts the foil wrapper back in his pocket unopened
If you really want to wear a condom while your giving me oral cj that's fine.....whatever makes you happy
I am a man of simple pleasures Mrs d to have u cum on my face would make me very happy "
Good chance it would make me happy too |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"What's a blow job 
Never being asked to glove up.for a bj but if I was all ud hear is the foil wrapper tearing
Lol...Cj...The opportunist *-
A total one  "
Opportunity Rarely knocks twice I take it while its going |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's a blow job
Never being asked to glove up.for a bj but if I was all ud hear is the foil wrapper tearing
Lol...Cj...The opportunist *-
A total one
Opportunity Rarely knocks twice I take it while its going "
Strike while the irons hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I have used them, they are fine, there is also a good transition from oral to sex when she has put it on with her mouth.
At the end of the day straight swingers are medium to high risk, bisexual people are high to very high risk, and black people are very high risk.
People on here have caught things, and statistically speaking people on here must be hiv positive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I have used them, they are fine, there is also a good transition from oral to sex when she has put it on with her mouth.
At the end of the day straight swingers are medium to high risk, bisexual people are high to very high risk, and black people are very high risk.
People on here have caught things, and statistically speaking people on here must be hiv positive."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the end of the day straight swingers are medium to high risk, bisexual people are high to very high risk, and black people are very high risk.
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Whoa buddy that's a bit off, slightly racist too, these days everyone has the same chances as everyone else HIV is not discrimantory like you're self it's not just a black and gay guy disease. Read a few journals on HIV and then comment
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like another con of an article to me ted. Cancer? Blowjob? Ah here ya have more cchance getting cancer off a kettle than off a blowjob. Surer that means I'm a cancer giver so |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whoa buddy that's a bit off, slightly racist too, these days everyone has the same chances as everyone else HIV is not discrimantory like you're self it's not just a black and gay guy disease. Read a few journals on HIV and then comment
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I did read the journals you should too. Black men in Ireland are 1000 times more likely to have hiv than a white man in Ireland.
This is because Ireland has a small population of native black people and most black people in Ireland are African born.
Bisexual people are a growing hiv rate, they are one of the few groups in Ireland where the hiv rate is climbing and it affects bisexual men and women equally.
Straight swingers are people who participate in risky sex so are at a higher risk rate than the normal straight population.
All these statistics can be found on the Irish disease sites, publicly availabl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whoa buddy that's a bit off, slightly racist too, these days everyone has the same chances as everyone else HIV is not discrimantory like you're self it's not just a black and gay guy disease. Read a few journals on HIV and then comment
I did read the journals you should too. Black men in Ireland are 1000 times more likely to have hiv than a white man in Ireland.
This is because Ireland has a small population of native black people and most black people in Ireland are African born.
Bisexual people are a growing hiv rate, they are one of the few groups in Ireland where the hiv rate is climbing and it affects bisexual men and women equally.
Straight swingers are people who participate in risky sex so are at a higher risk rate than the normal straight population.
All these statistics can be found on the Irish disease sites, publicly availabl."
Look you basically said if you're a black male you have the highest chance of catching HIV,
Yes of course it's more previlant among the MSM commuminty but only among people who BB or use IV drugs
the second highest occurrence of HIV is among junkies in dublin. You're statement came across as discriminatory and leads people to a false sense of safety if the don't fall under your aforementioned categories |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
Limavady |
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Whoa buddy that's a bit off, slightly racist too, these days everyone has the same chances as everyone else HIV is not discrimantory like you're self it's not just a black and gay guy disease. Read a few journals on HIV and then comment
I did read the journals you should too. Black men in Ireland are 1000 times more likely to have hiv than a white man in Ireland.
This is because Ireland has a small population of native black people and most black people in Ireland are African born.
Bisexual people are a growing hiv rate, they are one of the few groups in Ireland where the hiv rate is climbing and it affects bisexual men and women equally.
Straight swingers are people who participate in risky sex so are at a higher risk rate than the normal straight population.
All these statistics can be found on the Irish disease sites, publicly availabl."
Lies, damned lies and statistics
It all depends really on what group you're talking about. Eg All black people will have one rate of carrying HIV. Black children will have another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure of the statistics,but I would imagine oral without,as long as there is no ejaculation,is no more risky than passionate kissing
You're wrong.
Would you think that pulling out of a pussy before ejaculating would have no more more chance of creating a baby than passionate kissing would? I rather hope you don't!"
I didn't say std can be avoided by not taking ejaculate,I simply stated its no more risky than passionate kissing and the transfer of saliva |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure of the statistics,but I would imagine oral without,as long as there is no ejaculation,is no more risky than passionate kissing
You're wrong.
Would you think that pulling out of a pussy before ejaculating would have no more more chance of creating a baby than passionate kissing would? I rather hope you don't!
I didn't say std can be avoided by not taking ejaculate,I simply stated its no more risky than passionate kissing and the transfer of saliva"
And you're still wrong. |
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Guys, we should all play as safe as we can...some profiles on here say "clean" but they have no idea if they have been tested & who they play with. The "lifestyle" comes with some risks attached..... If you are not aware of that then you really need to use google and educate yourself. I used to work in the Genito urinary medicine clinic ( clap clinic to use the vernacular.......look it up) there are lots more things out there than HIV that are NOT good.
Play safe ALWAYS, & have fun. There are some on this site who only do bareback,,,,,,, that's such a lottery, don't EVER think about it until you really know someone well and have had the conversation...Std's are on the increase, as they used to say in Hill Street Blues, let's be careful out there, |
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"Std are spread by bodily fluids,be that pre cum as you call it or saliva.kissing passes saliva,sounds horrible,but true
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexually_transmitted_infection#Cause"
Watch the percentages its quite interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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swingers are at a higher risk?
Talking to some of my non-swinging male colleagues, they NEVER use a condom... sure they just pull out and get tested from time to time...
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By (user no longer on site)
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risk is based on behaviour not what group race or sexuality you belong to"
OK I'm gonna say this and probably get slated BUT I go for a health screen every 3 months coz I'm OCD that way and as a priority question (as those who get screened will know) is "have you recently had sex oral anal or unprotected with a person of the African community" "have you recently had sex oral anal or unprotected with a man who has had sex oral anal or unprotected with another man" now that's just fact. If the answer is yes to either of those questions your results are fast tracked. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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http://www.m.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/features/4-things-you-didnt-know-about-oral-sex?page=2
That's the article I read!!
And cancer is the first question asked.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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risk is based on behaviour not what group race or sexuality you belong to
OK I'm gonna say this and probably get slated BUT I go for a health screen every 3 months coz I'm OCD that way and as a priority question (as those who get screened will know) is "have you recently had sex oral anal or unprotected with a person of the African community" "have you recently had sex oral anal or unprotected with a man who has had sex oral anal or unprotected with another man" now that's just fact. If the answer is yes to either of those questions your results are fast tracked. "
Yep this is true and the same in my clinic... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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risk is based on behaviour not what group race or sexuality you belong to
OK I'm gonna say this and probably get slated BUT I go for a health screen every 3 months coz I'm OCD that way and as a priority question (as those who get screened will know) is "have you recently had sex oral anal or unprotected with a person of the African community" "have you recently had sex oral anal or unprotected with a man who has had sex oral anal or unprotected with another man" now that's just fact. If the answer is yes to either of those questions your results are fast tracked.
Yep this is true and the same in my clinic... "
The risks of infection are higher in those communities and that's not me speaking either that's fact. Thank mistress x for the back up coz the truth is the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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risk is based on behaviour not what group race or sexuality you belong to
OK I'm gonna say this and probably get slated BUT I go for a health screen every 3 months coz I'm OCD that way and as a priority question (as those who get screened will know) is "have you recently had sex oral anal or unprotected with a person of the African community" "have you recently had sex oral anal or unprotected with a man who has had sex oral anal or unprotected with another man" now that's just fact. If the answer is yes to either of those questions your results are fast tracked.
Yep this is true and the same in my clinic...
The risks of infection are higher in those communities and that's not me speaking either that's fact. Thank mistress x for the back up coz the truth is the truth "
My doctor phrases it 'have you had sex with someone from a high risk area i.e Africa' it's not racist, its a numbers things. There is a higher probability of someone from Africa having HIV than someone from say Ireland therefore your chances of catching something from someone from Africa is higher. Of course that's not to say you won't catch anything from an Irish person, it's just the probability isn't as high. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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risk is based on behaviour not what group race or sexuality you belong to
OK I'm gonna say this and probably get slated BUT I go for a health screen every 3 months coz I'm OCD that way and as a priority question (as those who get screened will know) is "have you recently had sex oral anal or unprotected with a person of the African community" "have you recently had sex oral anal or unprotected with a man who has had sex oral anal or unprotected with another man" now that's just fact. If the answer is yes to either of those questions your results are fast tracked.
Yep this is true and the same in my clinic...
The risks of infection are higher in those communities and that's not me speaking either that's fact. Thank mistress x for the back up coz the truth is the truth
My doctor phrases it 'have you had sex with someone from a high risk area i.e Africa' it's not racist, its a numbers things. There is a higher probability of someone from Africa having HIV than someone from say Ireland therefore your chances of catching something from someone from Africa is higher. Of course that's not to say you won't catch anything from an Irish person, it's just the probability isn't as high."
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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STIs do not distinguish between race creed or colour ur are sexualy active with multiple partner's u need to test regular, and after that u can add in the high risk factors that can influence the contraction of an sti
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By (user no longer on site)
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"STIs do not distinguish between race creed or colour ur are sexualy active with multiple partner's u need to test regular, and after that u can add in the high risk factors that can influence the contraction of an sti
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Of course. Only an ignorant person would think otherwise |
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"STIs do not distinguish between race creed or colour ur are sexualy active with multiple partner's u need to test regular, and after that u can add in the high risk factors that can influence the contraction of an sti
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The more people you sleep with the more you need to get tested that just the crust of it. Weather a swinger is likey to have more sex with more partners rather than their non swinging counterpart is up for debate. What I do know is your average male doesnt wear protection and a swinger is more likely to test themselves and wear protection of some kind. So in essence I wouldnt consider from a male to female perspective swinging is any more risky. Now that risk factor changes significantly when you introduce bbc gay bi and tv/tg into the equation. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"STIs do not distinguish between race creed or colour ur are sexualy active with multiple partner's u need to test regular, and after that u can add in the high risk factors that can influence the contraction of an sti
Of course. Only an ignorant person would think otherwise "
Exactly...
I agree with Sweet too...
I think you have a greater risk of catching something off a non swinger...All my non swinger friends laugh when I say ya better mind yourselves and get checked regularly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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http://www.guideclinic.ie/sti-clinic/stis-and-treatments/common-stis
The information in the above link is worth reading all the way through.Even condoms don't protect against some sti's.As for blowjobs ,there's nothing wrong with a strawberry flavored condom,you just get used to the feeling of it.I personally haven't had intercourse without a condom in over 20 yrs,by choice,I'd reckon I've had about 3 uncovered blowjobs,in that same timespan,2 of them from extremely safe girls.My failing is giving a woman oral unsafely but I am very selective about with whom I play with in this respect.
You can just develop a safe way to play,fingerblasting and hand shandys can go on for ages if done correctly for sensitive orgasms,use some of the different play creams that you can buy in the sex shops are great there are many types of massages are great too and even better than sex sometimes.A girl I used to play with had a thing for smearing natural yogurt on my bare cock before giving a blowjob and then the ice cube trick too.Now that was something for the memory bank,lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"http://www.guideclinic.ie/sti-clinic/stis-and-treatments/common-stis
The information in the above link is worth reading all the way through.Even condoms don't protect against some sti's.As for blowjobs ,there's nothing wrong with a strawberry flavored condom,you just get used to the feeling of it.I personally haven't had intercourse without a condom in over 20 yrs,by choice,I'd reckon I've had about 3 uncovered blowjobs,in that same timespan,2 of them from extremely safe girls.My failing is giving a woman oral unsafely but I am very selective about with whom I play with in this respect.
You can just develop a safe way to play,fingerblasting and hand shandys can go on for ages if done correctly for sensitive orgasms,use some of the different play creams that you can buy in the sex shops are great there are many types of massages are great too and even better than sex sometimes.A girl I used to play with had a thing for smearing natural yogurt on my bare cock before giving a blowjob and then the ice cube trick too.Now that was something for the memory bank,lol."
wtf are you sniffing too much time on your hands |
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