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How to get girlfriend to swing?!?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I really want to throw myself in at the deep end when it comes to swinging and meeting up with couples, other women and that. But how do I convince my gf to try it just for some fun!?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really want to throw myself in at the deep end when it comes to swinging and meeting up with couples, other women and that. But how do I convince my gf to try it just for some fun!?!"
ask her! She might go mental tho
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She would not be impressed if I bought it straight up! i think you no ur answer straight off then"
Bring up "have u ever had 3sum" take it from there if she looks disgusted just u be all yeah me either euch lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lolita, I like it!
Then I suppose I just look for a girl or a guy if she agrees to that! "
Yeah see what she's into maybe get her drinking when U have this convo then if she doesn't like it or questions u just blame the drink  most girls have a bit of bi in them just some don't wanna show it lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lolita, I like it!
Then I suppose I just look for a girl or a guy if she agrees to that!
Yeah see what she's into maybe get her drinking when U have this convo then if she doesn't like it or questions u just blame the drink most girls have a bit of bi in them just some don't wanna show it lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Introduce another man in to dirtytalk as part of foreplay. Whisper filthy ideas into her ear. See what effect it has on her body- you should be able to tell if she likes the idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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does she watch porn with you ?
start off by downloading a nice we sensible porn with a bit of "swingers action", and say "oh, do you fancy trying that, it looks good"...
just a thought.. mite help..
make sure your down licking her pussy as you ask the question.. if your looking a "yes" from your bitch... the best way is always on your knees m8 !! |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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Take her to the play ground and put her on a swing, when ur pushing her really high and shes having fun on it ask her would she like to fun on a different swing "site" . Tis bound to work
Mr crazy |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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firstly id not show her your profile thats 9 weeks old and called milfhunter unless she is a milf and u are a hunter other wise she will think you where wanting to play away.
then just behonest and ask her whats the worse that could happen ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"firstly id not show her your profile thats 9 weeks old and called milfhunter unless she is a milf and u are a hunter other wise she will think you where wanting to play away.
then just behonest and ask her whats the worse that could happen ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"firstly id not show her your profile thats 9 weeks old and called milfhunter unless she is a milf and u are a hunter other wise she will think you where wanting to play away.
then just behonest and ask her whats the worse that could happen ?"
Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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blindfold her telling her your going to give her a surprise and lead her into a gangbang then take the blindfold off and see her reaction then you will be able to tell whether she likes it or not |
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"I really want to throw myself in at the deep end when it comes to swinging and meeting up with couples, other women and that. But how do I convince my gf to try it just for some fun!?!"
Be a fucking man!! Tell her you're the man and you want to bring others into your relationship. Don't be like other Irish guys who turn into pussies and become "good husbands" while their wives fuck every guy in sight. Stand up for yourself, tell her what's what and if she doesn't like it move on!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whats wrong with the guy wanting to get his gf into this....
nothing wrong with him playing around or being BI..
sure, loads of the males of the couples on this site are BI and playing away and their wives dont know ffs...
i think hell blend in well here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"blindfold her telling her your going to give her a surprise and lead her into a gangbang then take the blindfold off and see her reaction then you will be able to tell whether she likes it or not"
lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put on a prono of a gangbang and undo your trousers and have her suck you off as you watch, then bend her over, her face toward the porno, then fuck her as she watches it.
When you're finished say you're trying a gangbang for real next weekend.
Never fails. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"whats wrong with the guy wanting to get his gf into this....
nothing wrong with him playing around or being BI..
sure, loads of the males of the couples on this site are BI and playing away and their wives dont know ffs...
i think hell blend in well here"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in the same situation I'd love to swing with my girlfriend but she doesn't seem to be into threesomes she says but I know she is no curious but way too body aware but she is as sexy as hell can you guys tell me how ye got yer partners involved |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm in the same situation I'd love to swing with my girlfriend but she doesn't seem to be into threesomes she says but I know she is no curious but way too body aware but she is as sexy as hell can you guys tell me how ye got yer partners involved"
read last message before you..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm in the same situation I'd love to swing with my girlfriend but she doesn't seem to be into threesomes she says but I know she is no curious but way too body aware but she is as sexy as hell can you guys tell me how ye got yer partners involved"
Hypnosis. |
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Its actually a serious issue for any single guy vanilla dating.
The best policy is to be upfront and open from the start. If you haven't been then you deserve a slapped wrist but lets look at how to progress.
Honesty is best but if you've been swinging without her since you met then that is not going to go down well. Put a cap on it for now and tell her that in the past you have and its part of what you enjoy.
Express to her that multiple partner sex makes up part of your sexuality. To have a full and active sex life you need to partake in group sex activities. There are many reasons why you feel such so outline some of them to her.
At all times stress that non-monogamy dosen't represent a threat to HER relationship to you.
Then if she is inclined to stay and investigate the most important thing is MAKE ALL YOUR SWINIGING CHOICES ABOUT HER DESIRES - ie... if you meet a couple where the fem is hot (and YOU want her) but the guy is not (and it's unlikely your girlfriend would want him) then DO NOT proceed with play. Make all the choices about what your gf would want.. ask her her preferences, find her men / women / couples that SHE wants to explore with.
The most important thing for women in the lifestyle, be they single or in a relationship, is security. Security that they are safe, that they are comfy, that they feel in control of their body and the night of pleasure.
After a while if you both take to the lifestyle she doubtless will be more about also accomadating your desires and particular wants because she has become comfortable in her own.
A great many younger women thesedays are comfortable with the idea of group sex, it is a much more common conception due to the widespread nature of porn and representations of it on TV etc. Many single men seem scared to bring it up but dont be. Women are just as sexual and kinky as men, provided they feel safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its actually a serious issue for any single guy vanilla dating.
The best policy is to be upfront and open from the start. If you haven't been then you deserve a slapped wrist but lets look at how to progress.
Honesty is best but if you've been swinging without her since you met then that is not going to go down well. Put a cap on it for now and tell her that in the past you have and its part of what you enjoy.
Express to her that multiple partner sex makes up part of your sexuality. To have a full and active sex life you need to partake in group sex activities. There are many reasons why you feel such so outline some of them to her.
At all times stress that non-monogamy dosen't represent a threat to HER relationship to you.
Then if she is inclined to stay and investigate the most important thing is MAKE ALL YOUR SWINIGING CHOICES ABOUT HER DESIRES - ie... if you meet a couple where the fem is hot (and YOU want her) but the guy is not (and it's unlikely your girlfriend would want him) then DO NOT proceed with play. Make all the choices about what your gf would want.. ask her her preferences, find her men / women / couples that SHE wants to explore with.
The most important thing for women in the lifestyle, be they single or in a relationship, is security. Security that they are safe, that they are comfy, that they feel in control of their body and the night of pleasure.
After a while if you both take to the lifestyle she doubtless will be more about also accomadating your desires and particular wants because she has become comfortable in her own.
A great many younger women thesedays are comfortable with the idea of group sex, it is a much more common conception due to the widespread nature of porn and representations of it on TV etc. Many single men seem scared to bring it up but dont be. Women are just as sexual and kinky as men, provided they feel safe. "
holy moly batman if she read that she would fall asleep too much info |
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that's constructive. Maybe you should stick to twitter and leave the forums for people who want to give positive advice to a serious question.
Not every forum thread needs to turn into the same 12 people making jokes and come-ons to each other. Endlessly. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"that's constructive. Maybe you should stick to twitter and leave the forums for people who want to give positive advice to a serious question.
Not every forum thread needs to turn into the same 12 people making jokes and come-ons to each other. Endlessly. "
This ^^^^^^
Please leave people to ask and give advice without trying to ridicule them for it.
There are plenty of others threads to add to instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"that's constructive. Maybe you should stick to twitter and leave the forums for people who want to give positive advice to a serious question.
Not every forum thread needs to turn into the same 12 people making jokes and come-ons to each other. Endlessly.
This ^^^^^^
Please leave people to ask and give advice without trying to ridicule them for it.
There are plenty of others threads to add to instead "
Well said... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Introduce another man in to dirtytalk as part of foreplay. Whisper filthy ideas into her ear. See what effect it has on her body- you should be able to tell if she likes the idea "
Eh three guesses as to whether it worked for hunter  |
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