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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We would never refuse to send a face picture if we are hoping to plan a meet. We don't do blind dates and don't expect anyone else to either.
Miss McJoy  "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"pic or cam
I'm sure you brought this up before - a few times actually"
i cannot understand for the life of me how someone could meet another without seen a face pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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gosh don't be so dramatic! some people just don't want to send face pics. doesn't mean they fuck them right away. Some meet for coffee first and that's the way they're going to see the person for the first time
each to their own |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"gosh don't be so dramatic! some people just don't want to send face pics. doesn't mean they fuck them right away. Some meet for coffee first and that's the way they're going to see the person for the first time
each to their own"
its just my opinion! I would of thought there would have to be an initial attraction there to even meet for coffee unles it was totally platonic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"gosh don't be so dramatic! some people just don't want to send face pics. doesn't mean they fuck them right away. Some meet for coffee first and that's the way they're going to see the person for the first time
each to their ownits just my opinion! I would of thought there would have to be an initial attraction there to even meet for coffee unles it was totally platonic "
I agree, I wouldn't meet anyone for coffee without seeing a face pic  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"gosh don't be so dramatic! some people just don't want to send face pics. doesn't mean they fuck them right away. Some meet for coffee first and that's the way they're going to see the person for the first time
each to their ownits just my opinion! I would of thought there would have to be an initial attraction there to even meet for coffee unles it was totally platonic
I agree, I wouldn't meet anyone for coffee without seeing a face pic "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yes yes yes we know... you said this so many times before with your old profiles
we also know that you don't travel very far for coffee meets only
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id travel any distance if I thought there was an initial attraction |
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A nice face is nice...but that's it. And fair play to ye if that is what you need,a nice face and a good body...... Personally , I prefer to meet and feel the chemistry, if it's not there...coffee and pleasantries is fine....sometimes the face/ body is not your ideal but it works....go figure!!! I'm sure the opposite applies...it certainly has for me, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes yes yes we know... you said this so many times before with your old profiles
we also know that you don't travel very far for coffee meets only
id travel any distance if I thought there was an initial attraction "
but not for a verification... which you complained about not getting the last time. But even though you were offered by many to meet up for coffee you declined
anyway snickers... same old story. good luck for your xth time on here. Good way of getting around the forum bans lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"yes yes yes we know... you said this so many times before with your old profiles
we also know that you don't travel very far for coffee meets only
id travel any distance if I thought there was an initial attraction
but not for a verification... which you complained about not getting the last time. But even though you were offered by many to meet up for coffee you declined
anyway snickers... same old story. good luck for your xth time on here. Good way of getting around the forum bans lol"
unless it was dead handy I don't see the point in meeting with someone who I see no atteaction in lol! It defeats the propose of what I'm looking for! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"yes yes yes we know... you said this so many times before with your old profiles
we also know that you don't travel very far for coffee meets only
id travel any distance if I thought there was an initial attraction
but not for a verification... which you complained about not getting the last time. But even though you were offered by many to meet up for coffee you declined
anyway snickers... same old story. good luck for your xth time on here. Good way of getting around the forum bans lolunless it was dead handy I don't see the point in meeting with someone who I see no atteaction in lol! It defeats the propose of my search for a hot guy to suck his cock!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I intend to meet the person I'd send onewould you send One early to avoid endless chat and then to realise there is no attraction?"
"Endless chat"? I don't want to avoid the chatting part! Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I intend to meet the person I'd send onewould you send One early to avoid endless chat and then to realise there is no attraction?
"Endless chat"? I don't want to avoid the chatting part! Lol "
lol I mean chat to a person for a week or so then swap pics, to realise there is no attraction |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I intend to meet the person I'd send onewould you send One early to avoid endless chat and then to realise there is no attraction?
"Endless chat"? I don't want to avoid the chatting part! Lol lol I mean chat to a person for a week or so then swap pics, to realise there is no attraction "
Can't do anything about it if there's no attraction but it wouldn't bother me, I'd still meet for a coffee with the person if there was a good banter between us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I intend to meet the person I'd send onewould you send One early to avoid endless chat and then to realise there is no attraction?
"Endless chat"? I don't want to avoid the chatting part! Lol lol I mean chat to a person for a week or so then swap pics, to realise there is no attraction
Can't do anything about it if there's no attraction but it wouldn't bother me, I'd still meet for a coffee with the person if there was a good banter between us "
fair dues |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We only send our face pics when we're planning to meet.
The way we see it it's only common decency to do so, no-one wants to be walking into a meet not knowing who their looking for
Tina "
I do same as well!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We only send our face pics when we're planning to meet.
The way we see it it's only common decency to do so, no-one wants to be walking into a meet not knowing who their looking for
Tina "
I once agreed to meet a guy who wouldn't show his face, he described himself and said he would be wearing a grey suit. I accosted the first grey suit I saw only to see the look of surprise by the face attached to the suit....yes, wrong grey suit! Mortified!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We only send our face pics when we're planning to meet.
The way we see it it's only common decency to do so, no-one wants to be walking into a meet not knowing who their looking for
Tina
I once agreed to meet a guy who wouldn't show his face, he described himself and said he would be wearing a grey suit. I accosted the first grey suit I saw only to see the look of surprise by the face attached to the suit....yes, wrong grey suit! Mortified!!
 Oh scarlet for u miss hunni, I hope the right guy at least turned up "
Thankfully yes but omg that feeling of not knowing who to look out for is horrendous!xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A nice face is nice...but that's it. And fair play to ye if that is what you need,a nice face and a good body...... Personally , I prefer to meet and feel the chemistry, if it's not there...coffee and pleasantries is fine....sometimes the face/ body is not your ideal but it works....go figure!!! I'm sure the opposite applies...it certainly has for me, "
same for us .we've had incredible fun with people who if they had sent a face pic we would have been tempted to politely decline.we prefer to meet people and feel the chemistry as well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A nice face is nice...but that's it. And fair play to ye if that is what you need,a nice face and a good body...... Personally , I prefer to meet and feel the chemistry, if it's not there...coffee and pleasantries is fine....sometimes the face/ body is not your ideal but it works....go figure!!! I'm sure the opposite applies...it certainly has for me,
same for us .we've had incredible fun with people who if they had sent a face pic we would have been tempted to politely decline.we prefer to meet people and feel the chemistry as well."
chemistry for me starts with a physical attraction! I could get on great with a girl having a coffee but my ultimate aim is fun and that won't happen unless I physically like her! Everyone's diff tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it's a necessity before I meet someone! Anyone here refuse to send a face pic? "
nope face pics are a necessity, what I don't like is people who ask for face pic but refuse to send back |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"We only send our face pics when we're planning to meet.
The way we see it it's only common decency to do so, no-one wants to be walking into a meet not knowing who their looking for
Tina
I once agreed to meet a guy who wouldn't show his face, he described himself and said he would be wearing a grey suit. I accosted the first grey suit I saw only to see the look of surprise by the face attached to the suit....yes, wrong grey suit! Mortified!!
Oh scarlet for u miss hunni, I hope the right guy at least turned up
Thankfully yes but omg that feeling of not knowing who to look out for is horrendous!xx"
Had a meet like that once no face pics ohh the excitment will I like her will she like me. She told me where she be sitting with a red bag and red shoes how ever when I arrived the only woman fitting the description was chatting to a guy my heart near stopped so I messaged her did u bring a safety with u she replied no I said well I am here but only lady I see is with a guy she replied well that's me . later she told me he was some random guy who started chatting her up its lucky u showed or I had scored she said we still laugh at it |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"We only send our face pics when we're planning to meet.
The way we see it it's only common decency to do so, no-one wants to be walking into a meet not knowing who their looking for
Tina
I once agreed to meet a guy who wouldn't show his face, he described himself and said he would be wearing a grey suit. I accosted the first grey suit I saw only to see the look of surprise by the face attached to the suit....yes, wrong grey suit! Mortified!!
Oh scarlet for u miss hunni, I hope the right guy at least turned up
Thankfully yes but omg that feeling of not knowing who to look out for is horrendous!xx
It sure is, u feel like a deer caught in the headlights looking around like a fool wondering who it is and u imagine all eyes are on u. Well I do anyway  "
But the excitment is worth it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We only send our face pics when we're planning to meet.
The way we see it it's only common decency to do so, no-one wants to be walking into a meet not knowing who their looking for
Tina
I once agreed to meet a guy who wouldn't show his face, he described himself and said he would be wearing a grey suit. I accosted the first grey suit I saw only to see the look of surprise by the face attached to the suit....yes, wrong grey suit! Mortified!!
Oh scarlet for u miss hunni, I hope the right guy at least turned up
Thankfully yes but omg that feeling of not knowing who to look out for is horrendous!xx
Had a meet like that once no face pics ohh the excitment will I like her will she like me. She told me where she be sitting with a red bag and red shoes how ever when I arrived the only woman fitting the description was chatting to a guy my heart near stopped so I messaged her did u bring a safety with u she replied no I said well I am here but only lady I see is with a guy she replied well that's me . later she told me he was some random guy who started chatting her up its lucky u showed or I had scored she said we still laugh at it "
That's gas, love it!! lol! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Don't mind sending face pic but some ppl want them before even chatting !! What's the story there "
No way after a few msgs fine but blind no way hell u never know who ur sending it to even after chatting u can be caught out |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"We only send our face pics when we're planning to meet.
The way we see it it's only common decency to do so, no-one wants to be walking into a meet not knowing who their looking for
Tina
I once agreed to meet a guy who wouldn't show his face, he described himself and said he would be wearing a grey suit. I accosted the first grey suit I saw only to see the look of surprise by the face attached to the suit....yes, wrong grey suit! Mortified!!
Oh scarlet for u miss hunni, I hope the right guy at least turned up
Thankfully yes but omg that feeling of not knowing who to look out for is horrendous!xx
Had a meet like that once no face pics ohh the excitment will I like her will she like me. She told me where she be sitting with a red bag and red shoes how ever when I arrived the only woman fitting the description was chatting to a guy my heart near stopped so I messaged her did u bring a safety with u she replied no I said well I am here but only lady I see is with a guy she replied well that's me . later she told me he was some random guy who started chatting her up its lucky u showed or I had scored she said we still laugh at it
That's gas, love it!! lol! "
Do it again in a heartbeat |
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I had a meet that I never got a photo from, just back off a trip and agreed to meet in one of the airport hotels.
She was standing very close to me, on the phone and still couldnt see her, had no idea she was black.
Turned out to be a great evening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it's a necessity before I meet someone! Anyone here refuse to send a face pic? "
I don't use any chat apps, so if I request a face pic and they say they have none in here but do on kik or WhatsApp I just say ok thank you and move on,
I'd never meet anyone with out first seeing what they look like, because for me I have to have some form of visual attraction to agree to a meet. |
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I hesitate when it comes to sending face pics and I 100% wouldn't send them on fab.
We chat first if there is chemistry and body shots work for all involved then we swap face pics on Kik. If it seals the deal we arrange a meet be it social or social possible play! If people are not happy with this then we are happy to pass them by. Different strokes for different folks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hesitate when it comes to sending face pics and I 100% wouldn't send them on fab.
We chat first if there is chemistry and body shots work for all involved then we swap face pics on Kik. If it seals the deal we arrange a meet be it social or social possible play! If people are not happy with this then we are happy to pass them by. Different strokes for different folks "
Everyone has their way of doing things, and each should be respected, as in general they normally are, happy fabbing  |
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"I hesitate when it comes to sending face pics and I 100% wouldn't send them on fab.
We chat first if there is chemistry and body shots work for all involved then we swap face pics on Kik. If it seals the deal we arrange a meet be it social or social possible play! If people are not happy with this then we are happy to pass them by. Different strokes for different folks
Everyone has their way of doing things, and each should be respected, as in general they normally are, happy fabbing "
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By (user no longer on site)
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We never have and never will send face pics, coffee meet never did anyone any harm and if we agree to take it further great and if not so got to meet another fabber |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We never have and never will send face pics, coffee meet never did anyone any harm and if we agree to take it further great and if not so got to meet another fabber "
but would it not cut out any middle man..so to speak...just saying specialy if one has to traval a distance... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We never have and never will send face pics, coffee meet never did anyone any harm and if we agree to take it further great and if not so got to meet another fabber but would it not cut out any middle man..so to speak...just saying specialy if one has to traval a distance..."
we haven't travelled much to be honest , two hours at the most so far but hasn't been a problem so far ,normally we ve been chatting for a while and would only meet up with people we really click with so a social without the Fun wouldn't be a problem . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me personaly I would send a face pic no problem and I used to think I'd need to see a face before a meet. Now though it really wouldn't bother me if I didn't get to see the person before a meet. For me chemistry is far more important than physical attraction |
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"If I intend to meet the person I'd send onewould you send One early to avoid endless chat and then to realise there is no attraction?"
It is so telling that you feel that "endless chat" is not a contributory factor in establishing attraction .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If planning a meet then it's definitely a good idea to face pic but there's been a few times I'd send a first message to fem or couple (and I do like to think I put some effort in) and they reply with simply 'face pic?'
I may be a man, but I'm not that easy  |
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Never have sent and never will and it hasn't been a problem - looking at the responses it seems to be more an Irish requirement than we have found in the UK - Claire starts off blindfolded anyway so she doesn't see faces and sometimes hasn't taken it off and other times she has - each person has their requirements for meeting and we simply say good luck to people and hope they have fun if it is their rule before a meeting |
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"If I intend to meet the person I'd send onewould you send One early to avoid endless chat and then to realise there is no attraction?
It is so telling that you feel that "endless chat" is not a contributory factor in establishing attraction ...."
endless chat for me is non worthwhile If there is no visual atteaction there! That's why I like swapping a pic early |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think for me if you want a face pic I have to get one too otherwise no deal there is too.many over demanding people, I like equality so but I also has no problem meeting someone that is really nice and respectful without face pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it's a necessity before I meet someone! Anyone here refuse to send a face pic?
nope face pics are a necessity, what I don't like is people who ask for face pic but refuse to send back"
This.I uploaded face pic last week on my friends only pics ,as 1 young lady asked me for face pic I asked was she willing to do same,replied of course.she saw my pic then told me she was having problems uploading her face pic,so never received 1.Naive by me maybe??,so now I look for face pic 1st.What's annoying is tht she said I wasn't bad looking lol. |
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"For me it's a necessity before I meet someone! Anyone here refuse to send a face pic?
nope face pics are a necessity, what I don't like is people who ask for face pic but refuse to send back
This.I uploaded face pic last week on my friends only pics ,as 1 young lady asked me for face pic I asked was she willing to do same,replied of course.she saw my pic then told me she was having problems uploading her face pic,so never received 1.Naive by me maybe??,so now I look for face pic 1st.What's annoying is tht she said I wasn't bad looking lol."
what you will find usually is women ask you to send yours first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it's a necessity before I meet someone! Anyone here refuse to send a face pic?
nope face pics are a necessity, what I don't like is people who ask for face pic but refuse to send back
This.I uploaded face pic last week on my friends only pics ,as 1 young lady asked me for face pic I asked was she willing to do same,replied of course.she saw my pic then told me she was having problems uploading her face pic,so never received 1.Naive by me maybe??,so now I look for face pic 1st.What's annoying is tht she said I wasn't bad looking lol.what you will find usually is women ask you to send yours first "
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I did show her my face pic 1st,I upload ed it as friends only image ,I then accepted her friend request so she could see it ,not a huge deal really I was miffed for a few mins ,but I'm alright now lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I never send my face pic first and I'm really careful nowadays who I send it to.
If I ask for a pic, I will send one back - even if I don't fancy the person.
But a guy sent me his face pic with his first message and when I replied thanks but I'm not interested, he told me that I have no manners for not sending a pic back. But I never asked him to send me his pic, so not sure what his problem was. ha |
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"I never send my face pic first and I'm really careful nowadays who I send it to.
If I ask for a pic, I will send one back - even if I don't fancy the person.
But a guy sent me his face pic with his first message and when I replied thanks but I'm not interested, he told me that I have no manners for not sending a pic back. But I never asked him to send me his pic, so not sure what his problem was. ha"
same happened to me as well. He got quite aggressive as well |
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And never would we put our face pictures on line! But that's just us !
