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over a year ago
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With all the talk about BDSM Does every on on here have a safe word we have one unfortunately we have never had to use it but we both know it and what it means ie to stop straight away |
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We used the word orange for awhile .....alas the only time I went to use it ....In a swing club in London...it was completely wasted on Ollie. ...ended up having to say ..For feck sake Ollie. ..ORANGE ORANGE! !! Only to get some puzzling looks lol |
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"We used the word orange for awhile .....alas the only time I went to use it ....In a swing club in London...it was completely wasted on Ollie. ...ended up having to say ..For feck sake Ollie. ..ORANGE ORANGE! !! Only to get some puzzling looks lol"
That is brilliant |
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"We used the word orange for awhile .....alas the only time I went to use it ....In a swing club in London...it was completely wasted on Ollie. ...ended up having to say ..For feck sake Ollie. ..ORANGE ORANGE! !! Only to get some puzzling looks lol"
At an fetish event last night, we heard PINEAPPLE been screamed out several times...! It made me turn my head everytime 
Everyone should have a safe word 
Ms D xx |
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"We used the word orange for awhile .....alas the only time I went to use it ....In a swing club in London...it was completely wasted on Ollie. ...ended up having to say ..For feck sake Ollie. ..ORANGE ORANGE! !! Only to get some puzzling looks lol
At an fetish event last night, we heard PINEAPPLE been screamed out several times...! It made me turn my head everytime
Everyone should have a safe word
Ms D xx"
Yeah, that was us as well, Apples thought I might remember the safe word better if she increased the size of the fruit. ....
Whoops, Ollie  |
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I always play with safe words, the only exception to this is with a close friend who knows my body and its reactions well enough by now to stop once im close to my limit. Saying that anyone asking someone to play without safewords after a very short time should run for the hills!!!! |
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"I always play with safe words, the only exception to this is with a close friend who knows my body and its reactions well enough by now to stop once im close to my limit. Saying that anyone asking someone to play without safewords after a very short time should run for the hills!!!!"
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"I always play with safe words, the only exception to this is with a close friend who knows my body and its reactions well enough by now to stop once im close to my limit. Saying that anyone asking someone to play without safewords after a very short time should run for the hills!!!!"
Wise words!! A little playful kink is fun with someone new but when things need to go to a level where safe words are required people can only let themselves go beyond their limits when they have serious trust in the person. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper
 
Was thinking MORE myself
More..or..harder?????
What wrong with both "
Haha ur only get what I give u ul have to work harder for more
A lot harder for deeper
And ul be worn out by the time we get to harder  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"With all the talk about BDSM Does every on on here have a safe word we have one unfortunately we have never had to use it but we both know it and what it means ie to stop straight away "
Unfortunately? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper
Was thinking MORE myself
More..or..harder?????
What wrong with both
Haha ur only get what I give u ul have to work harder for more
A lot harder for deeper
And ul be worn out by the time we get to harder "
Lol...in your dreams!!!! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper
Was thinking MORE myself
More..or..harder?????
What wrong with both
Haha ur only get what I give u ul have to work harder for more
A lot harder for deeper
And ul be worn out by the time we get to harder
Lol...in your dreams!!!! "
Haha do u think we shall see |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Used to use harder but found it a bit confusing now I use deeper
Was thinking MORE myself
More..or..harder?????
What wrong with both
Haha ur only get what I give u ul have to work harder for more
A lot harder for deeper
And ul be worn out by the time we get to harder "
Mmmmm is a that a challenge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually ,the traffic light system works well,amber im near my limit and red is stop"
That's what we use too. Until you know someone and trust them enough to have one word because you know they know your limits its a good system. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Usually ,the traffic light system works well,amber im near my limit and red is stop
That's what we use too. Until you know someone and trust them enough to have one word because you know they know your limits its a good system. "
yes miss belle i used the system with an ex partner we found it worked well having said that i didn't use red too much i have to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Usually ,the traffic light system works well,amber im near my limit and red is stop
That's what we use too. Until you know someone and trust them enough to have one word because you know they know your limits its a good system. yes miss belle i used the system with an ex partner we found it worked well having said that i didn't use red too much i have to say"
Nope, I safeword very rarely (well used to, haven't been subby for a while - I top from the bottom ) but that's mostly because hunter knows me so well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"FUCKING STOPPPPPPP YOUR KILLING ME...is a good one  "
The beauty of a safeword means that you get to use language like that, butI know you want me to carry on really |
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"I'm a yellow/red person too. Rarely used as most have said but I find that having them pushes me further. I am able to take more as I know I have that safety net."
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) if playing in area where it's noisy because himself obviously won't hear me.
Ms. D 