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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So have we forgot our manners? I hate when you sent a msg and they don't have the respect to reply!! Even if it's sorry I'm not interested... Or thanks for the msg... Manners people! They go along way and cost you nothing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Agreed ... a reply is the polite thing to do. "
It's not that most that don't reply have bad manners, simply the amount of messages it's very difficult to reply to all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be impossible to reply to all messages. "
i totaly agree. It is impossible and even if you do send a polite reply of thanks but no thanks,you still get messages back saying well fuck you then etc. You're damned if you do and damned if you don't so its totaly frustraighting on both sides.   |
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We'll a lot of people have up if I don't reply I'm not interested . I think it's fair when they have that up . IDE allways answer people yes r no sorry . I must say a good few people will reply n say yes r no thanks . We'll IDE rather not get a reply from sum people 2women now not on fab told me where to go if u get my drift with out being rude . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What kinda person replys like that . IDE just wish then d best n happy fabbing .
My moto is it's nice to n nice I find it's gets me every where . "
Plenty do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have a pain in my hole getting unsolicited mail from men who then demand a reason why i have ignored/ deleted their mail , so much so I have now disabled anyone messaging me unless they know me and have interacted with me previous, bearing in mind im fuck all special , I can only imagine what the stunning types have to put up with here . |
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"So have we forgot our manners? I hate when you sent a msg and they don't have the respect to reply!! Even if it's sorry I'm not interested... Or thanks for the msg... Manners people! They go along way and cost you nothing x"
. If a person is not interested in a message , there is little point in replying.
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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago
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"So have we forgot our manners? I hate when you sent a msg and they don't have the respect to reply!! Even if it's sorry I'm not interested... Or thanks for the msg... Manners people! They go along way and cost you nothing x"
maybe some people dont reply cos they dont want get bombarded with unwanted messages and they know u cant message them again for a few weeks, just saying like  |
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"i have a pain in my hole getting unsolicited mail from men who then demand a reason why i have ignored/ deleted their mail , so much so I have now disabled anyone messaging me unless they know me and have interacted with me previous, bearing in mind im fuck all special , I can only imagine what the stunning types have to put up with here ."
You disabled them ? Fuck, that's a bit extreme!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So have we forgot our manners? I hate when you sent a msg and they don't have the respect to reply!! Even if it's sorry I'm not interested... Or thanks for the msg... Manners people! They go along way and cost you nothing x"
I think the single guys on here completely underestimate the work involved in replying to every one of the messages that females receive. I could spend 30mins a day responding to males saying no.. and as loads already said I would then have to deal with the daily 'why not' responses. It's impossible.
I understand how frustrating it must be to send loads of messages without reply, but you can rest easy that if they don't reply then they weren't going to fuck you anyway so don't waste your time any further.
Oh, and bitching on the forum isn't going to improve your chances either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women do have it extremely hard on here. The way I look on it " treat others the way you de like to be treated "
If it was a newbie I wouldn't reply depending what was said if the person was well verified I then reply with whatever even just to say not interested and if it got nasty simple block and move on.
The females on here have a right to enjoy them selves on here just like everyone else - there not secretary's doing office work but people trying experience a bit of excitement on here
That's my view |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say women have it extremely hard... but this is supposed to be fun, not endlessly politely replying to every weirdo who wants to spunk on your feet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be impossible to reply to every message, and when I politely say "thanks for the mail but I'm not meeting, happy fabbing" nine times out of ten I get back "ok, can we chat?" To which I then have to reply "Im only popping in and out" to which they then reply "Ah cool, so where are you from" now imagine that from 50 guys a day over two years?? Your telling me manners cost nothing, to which I agree, but being able to take a polite no also costs nothing! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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maybe people should just get over it people don't have the time to reply to every mail they get. just take it as a non reply equals a not interested like most grown ups. also isnt it bad manners to have a cock pic are your main profile pic ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"maybe people should just get over it people don't have the time to reply to every mail they get. just take it as a non reply equals a not interested like most grown ups. also isnt it bad manners to have a cock pic are your main profile pic ?"
Who says it bad manners to have cock pic as you main pic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the girl has sent me a self-addressed stamped envelope with her message I always feel obliged to reply specially if the scratch card she sent also won a few bob and I needed to send her on her half of the winnings.
I gave up sending carrier pigeon by train because the last one never came back and I'm sure the recipient made a gamey soup out of it.Now that's just plain rude !!  |
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By *auraxxWoman
over a year ago
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"So have we forgot our manners? I hate when you sent a msg and they don't have the respect to reply!! Even if it's sorry I'm not interested... Or thanks for the msg... Manners people! They go along way and cost you nothing x
I think the single guys on here completely underestimate the work involved in replying to every one of the messages that females receive. I could spend 30mins a day responding to males saying no.. and as loads already said I would then have to deal with the daily 'why not' responses. It's impossible.
I understand how frustrating it must be to send loads of messages without reply, but you can rest easy that if they don't reply then they weren't going to fuck you anyway so don't waste your time any further.
Oh, and bitching on the forum isn't going to improve your chances either. "
This xxx again im nothing special but I get 15 or so messages a day which I am not interested in. If i replied to all of these I wouldn't get time to interact with friends and possible meets on here. I do have on my profile that a non response means that I'm afraid I am not interested. It's cruel but it's the way fab works. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why should people have to justify not answering mail?
What makes such delicate little flowers want to mail folk if there's a chance that won't get a reply?
Do these same guys answer every piece of junk mail that lands on their doorstep each day?double glazing?life insurance?take way menus?etc etc
Do these senders feel aggrieved when you don't write back with a thanks but no thanks?
Grow up guys.it's a cruel world,stop flapping about those that don't reply n concentrate on those that do.and if no one replies perhaps look at who you are messaging and what they actually want.
Or better still,wait for the ladies/couples/gents to contact you first,then you can be the "rude" one and not reply
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why should people have to justify not answering mail?
What makes such delicate little flowers want to mail folk if there's a chance that won't get a reply?
Do these same guys answer every piece of junk mail that lands on their doorstep each day?double glazing?life insurance?take way menus?etc etc
Do these senders feel aggrieved when you don't write back with a thanks but no thanks?
Grow up guys.it's a cruel world,stop flapping about those that don't reply n concentrate on those that do.and if no one replies perhaps look at who you are messaging and what they actually want.
Or better still,wait for the ladies/couples/gents to contact you first,then you can be the "rude" one and not reply
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Think the ladies have to many men to pick from on fab.like i say b4 some of them nt gt second look in real world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why should people have to justify not answering mail?
What makes such delicate little flowers want to mail folk if there's a chance that won't get a reply?
Do these same guys answer every piece of junk mail that lands on their doorstep each day?double glazing?life insurance?take way menus?etc etc
Do these senders feel aggrieved when you don't write back with a thanks but no thanks?
Grow up guys.it's a cruel world,stop flapping about those that don't reply n concentrate on those that do.and if no one replies perhaps look at who you are messaging and what they actually want.
Or better still,wait for the ladies/couples/gents to contact you first,then you can be the "rude" one and not reply
Think the ladies have to many men to pick from on fab.like i say b4 some of them nt gt second look in real world."
And your picture perfect right,
Why so many negative comments , are you really looking to have meets, as with them remark you make will definitly get you none, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why should people have to justify not answering mail?
What makes such delicate little flowers want to mail folk if there's a chance that won't get a reply?
Do these same guys answer every piece of junk mail that lands on their doorstep each day?double glazing?life insurance?take way menus?etc etc
Do these senders feel aggrieved when you don't write back with a thanks but no thanks?
Grow up guys.it's a cruel world,stop flapping about those that don't reply n concentrate on those that do.and if no one replies perhaps look at who you are messaging and what they actually want.
Or better still,wait for the ladies/couples/gents to contact you first,then you can be the "rude" one and not reply
Think the ladies have to many men to pick from on fab.like i say b4 some of them nt gt second look in real world.
And your picture perfect right,
Why so many negative comments , are you really looking to have meets, as with them remark you make will definitly get you none, "
Im deff nt perfect but think a lot of peep on fab think they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So have we forgot our manners? I hate when you sent a msg and they don't have the respect to reply!! Even if it's sorry I'm not interested... Or thanks for the msg... Manners people! They go along way and cost you nothing x"
We had to put a part in our profile to state that we wernt being nasty in not ying to certain emails.
If you get a load of emails it gets repetative and boring having to reply every time, so, a we paragraph on ours helps out for us.
I dont think people are being rude on here if they dont reply, weve sent some emails and never got a reply, we just took it that they wernt interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Im deff nt perfect but think a lot of peep on fab think they are."
Lol.. You think that because people don't reply to all messages they are claiming to be picture perfect.
A rather odd thing to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Im deff nt perfect but think a lot of peep on fab think they are.
Lol.. You think that because people don't reply to all messages they are claiming to be picture perfect.
A rather odd thing to say"
whare did i say that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Im deff nt perfect but think a lot of peep on fab think they are.
Lol.. You think that because people don't reply to all messages they are claiming to be picture perfect.
A rather odd thing to saywhare did i say that."
If you didn't mean that I think you're going to need to elaborate a bit on what you did mean.
I didn't see anyone in the thread making any claim on how good looking they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Im deff nt perfect but think a lot of peep on fab think they are.
Lol.. You think that because people don't reply to all messages they are claiming to be picture perfect.
A rather odd thing to saywhare did i say that.
If you didn't mean that I think you're going to need to elaborate a bit on what you did mean.
I didn't see anyone in the thread making any claim on how good looking they are. "
again i never say that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Im deff nt perfect but think a lot of peep on fab think they are.
Lol.. You think that because people don't reply to all messages they are claiming to be picture perfect.
A rather odd thing to say"
I think uve hit the nail on the head there, guys get all offended when gals don't reply and then assume the girls are all up their own arses! |
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Everywhere we look on fab we see the concept of No reply = Not interested.
It's clear as day.
By taking part on fab we're basically signing up to that simple concept.
Op, that concept, if accepted for what it is, is designed to avoid frustration for everyone on the site. Try accepting it and maybe your experience on fab will be a better one |
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By *auraxxWoman
over a year ago
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" Im deff nt perfect but think a lot of peep on fab think they are.
Lol.. You think that because people don't reply to all messages they are claiming to be picture perfect.
A rather odd thing to say
I think uve hit the nail on the head there, guys get all offended when gals don't reply and then assume the girls are all up their own arses! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Im deff nt perfect but think a lot of peep on fab think they are.
Lol.. You think that because people don't reply to all messages they are claiming to be picture perfect.
A rather odd thing to say
I think uve hit the nail on the head there, guys get all offended when gals don't reply and then assume the girls are all up their own arses! "
Well I certainly am. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To OP with all due respect get real man, grow a pair of balls! But the less I'll give you few reasons and tips
1) girls and cpls get shit lots of messages at best of times, especially if they are /look hot!
2)majority of this messages are hey how are you? Or do you wanna fuck style message! Even would get bored of answering 20 how are you messages a day
3) to fault of their own that might miss your message or forget about it! So it might be worth trying in a week or so then if no reply leave it move on
4)quit bitching in forum about it, people notice that and only small percentage of people will post most just lurke around
Now how is that for an explanation nothing to do with manners |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Im deff nt perfect but think a lot of peep on fab think they are.
Lol.. You think that because people don't reply to all messages they are claiming to be picture perfect.
A rather odd thing to saywhare did i say that.
If you didn't mean that I think you're going to need to elaborate a bit on what you did mean.
I didn't see anyone in the thread making any claim on how good looking they are. "
Perhaps I should clear something up,I am gorgeous,stunning even. Mr.G. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How many more times do women have to justify not answering every last mail. I don't answer all mails, simply because of the sheer volume I get. I answer as many, politely I might add, as I can and have time to. Even with a polite answer like 'thanks for the nice mail but I'm not interested', I still get mails back saying sure lets chat and see where it goes, you might change your mind. So I don't think I'm the unmannerly one, I think the guys who don't respect my decision of not being interested are unmannerly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many more times do women have to justify not answering every last mail. I don't answer all mails, simply because of the sheer volume I get. I answer as many, politely I might add, as I can and have time to. Even with a polite answer like 'thanks for the nice mail but I'm not interested', I still get mails back saying sure lets chat and see where it goes, you might change your mind. So I don't think I'm the unmannerly one, I think the guys who don't respect my decision of not being interested are unmannerly. "
True,guys bleat on about respect,yet can't respect the wishes of others
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By (user no longer on site)
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Reason I don't reply very often..
First mail i opened today
Random Guy: Hey how RU, I luv your pics xx
Me: Thanks for the message but I'm not interested, and I have no pics on display.
Random Dude: That's OK do u wanna chat on Kik get to know eachother more, I can change your mind.
Me: Like I said I'm not interested. Happy fabbing 
Random Dude: Your probily a ugly looking whore anyway, your a Fat Cunt up your own arse!!!
And you wonder why ladies of Fab don't Reply....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many more times do women have to justify not answering every last mail. I don't answer all mails, simply because of the sheer volume I get. I answer as many, politely I might add, as I can and have time to. Even with a polite answer like 'thanks for the nice mail but I'm not interested', I still get mails back saying sure lets chat and see where it goes, you might change your mind. So I don't think I'm the unmannerly one, I think the guys who don't respect my decision of not being interested are unmannerly.
True,guys bleat on about respect,yet can't respect the wishes of others
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Exactly. To say I don't have any manners because I don't answer every Mail I recieve on fab is absurd. Laughable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reason I don't reply very often..
First mail i opened today
Random Guy: Hey how RU, I luv your pics xx
Me: Thanks for the message but I'm not interested, and I have no pics on display.
Random Dude: That's OK do u wanna chat on Kik get to know eachother more, I can change your mind.
Me: Like I said I'm not interested. Happy fabbing
Random Dude: Your probily a ugly looking whore anyway, your a Fat Cunt up your own arse!!!
And you wonder why ladies of Fab don't Reply.... "
But how u gt to know peep if you not answer . |
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"Reason I don't reply very often..
First mail i opened today
Random Guy: Hey how RU, I luv your pics xx
Me: Thanks for the message but I'm not interested, and I have no pics on display.and what about the gen folk?
Random Dude: That's OK do u wanna chat on Kik get to know eachother more, I can change your mind.
Me: Like I said I'm not interested. Happy fabbing
Random Dude: Your probily a ugly looking whore anyway, your a Fat Cunt up your own arse!!!
And you wonder why ladies of Fab don't Reply.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reason I don't reply very often..
First mail i opened today
Random Guy: Hey how RU, I luv your pics xx
Me: Thanks for the message but I'm not interested, and I have no pics on display.
Random Dude: That's OK do u wanna chat on Kik get to know eachother more, I can change your mind.
Me: Like I said I'm not interested. Happy fabbing
Random Dude: Your probily a ugly looking whore anyway, your a Fat Cunt up your own arse!!!
And you wonder why ladies of Fab don't Reply.... But how u gt to know peep if you not answer ."
I generally Grow a pair and Mail who I want to chat with...  |
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By *auraxxWoman
over a year ago
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"Reason I don't reply very often..
First mail i opened today
Random Guy: Hey how RU, I luv your pics xx
Me: Thanks for the message but I'm not interested, and I have no pics on display.
Random Dude: That's OK do u wanna chat on Kik get to know eachother more, I can change your mind.
Me: Like I said I'm not interested. Happy fabbing
Random Dude: Your probily a ugly looking whore anyway, your a Fat Cunt up your own arse!!!
And you wonder why ladies of Fab don't Reply.... But how u gt to know peep if you not answer ."
based on your profile, what they know of you from forum or chat, pics and type of message sent they decide they are not interested therefore don't reply.... |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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If all things were equal here it would be men who wouldn't bother to reply to women,like in real life,generally,women are more polite than guys,women get fucked around more.how many women here have had a 1 nite stand or just met a guy out but then find their texts ignored
ha keep it up girls,just ignore guys who don't interest you,if guys were getting lots of meets here they would do it to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reason I don't reply very often..
First mail i opened today
Random Guy: Hey how RU, I luv your pics xx
Me: Thanks for the message but I'm not interested, and I have no pics on display.
Random Dude: That's OK do u wanna chat on Kik get to know eachother more, I can change your mind.
Me: Like I said I'm not interested. Happy fabbing
Random Dude: Your probily a ugly looking whore anyway, your a Fat Cunt up your own arse!!!
And you wonder why ladies of Fab don't Reply.... But how u gt to know peep if you not answer .
I generally Grow a pair and Mail who I want to chat with... "
Arent you the lucky one. |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"If all things were equal here it would be men who wouldn't bother to reply to women,like in real life,generally,women are more polite than guys,women get fucked around more.how many women here have had a 1 nite stand or just met a guy out but then find their texts ignored
ha keep it up girls,just ignore guys who don't interest you,if guys were getting lots of meets here they would do it to you"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If all things were equal here it would be men who wouldn't bother to reply to women,like in real life,generally,women are more polite than guys,women get fucked around more.how many women here have had a 1 nite stand or just met a guy out but then find their texts ignored
ha keep it up girls,just ignore guys who don't interest you,if guys were getting lots of meets here they would do it to you"
Haha spot on |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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Well i dont send that many messages to Girls in here as i make sure i'm potentially what they are looking for but i find to be honest i get a reply to most that i send.
Some dont reply and thats life.
If its ment to be it will be be.
And sometimes i notice they have read the message and it might take a while for them to reply but i know they maybe just dont have the time to send me the reply immediatly.
Some it takes weeks, others it has taken months, but it's nice if a reply finally comes through.
And if i dont get one i assume i'm not what they are looking for and leave them in peace.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A cut and paste " thanks but no thanks" kinda message takes 10 seconds to send ..so I do it
any more mails after that from the same guy are ignored
not laughable just simple ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reason I don't reply very often..
First mail i opened today
Random Guy: Hey how RU, I luv your pics xx
Me: Thanks for the message but I'm not interested, and I have no pics on display.
Random Dude: That's OK do u wanna chat on Kik get to know eachother more, I can change your mind.
Me: Like I said I'm not interested. Happy fabbing
Random Dude: Your probily a ugly looking whore anyway, your a Fat Cunt up your own arse!!!
And you wonder why ladies of Fab don't Reply.... But how u gt to know peep if you not answer .
I generally Grow a pair and Mail who I want to chat with... Arent you the lucky one."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well i dont send that many messages to Girls in here as i make sure i'm potentially what they are looking for but i find to be honest i get a reply to most that i send.
Some dont reply and thats life.
If its ment to be it will be be.
And sometimes i notice they have read the message and it might take a while for them to reply but i know they maybe just dont have the time to send me the reply immediatly.
Some it takes weeks, others it has taken months, but it's nice if a reply finally comes through.
And if i dont get one i assume i'm not what they are looking for and leave them in peace.
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This is exactly how I feel. Taking the time to find people I think might be compatible with us rather than sending a one liner to as many as possible. If we get a nicely written and personal message we will reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Reason I don't reply very often..
First mail i opened today
Random Guy: Hey how RU, I luv your pics xx
Me: Thanks for the message but I'm not interested, and I have no pics on display.
Random Dude: That's OK do u wanna chat on Kik get to know eachother more, I can change your mind.
Me: Like I said I'm not interested. Happy fabbing
Random Dude: Your probily a ugly looking whore anyway, your a Fat Cunt up your own arse!!!
And you wonder why ladies of Fab don't Reply.... "
I think getting messages like that is absolutely disgusting and ladies such as yourself shouldn't have to put up with scum like that.
And I agree, no wonder men hardly get any replys.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So have we forgot our manners? I hate when you sent a msg and they don't have the respect to reply!! Even if it's sorry I'm not interested... Or thanks for the msg... Manners people! They go along way and cost you nothing x"
A really tiring idle theme. One should not take everything too seriously here. See it sporty, if you get a reply fine, if not also good. If you rule out all the women who will not come into question, the number of messages you would have to send stays manageable. |
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"i have a pain in my hole getting unsolicited mail from men who then demand a reason why i have ignored/ deleted their mail , so much so I have now disabled anyone messaging me unless they know me and have interacted with me previous, bearing in mind im fuck all special , I can only imagine what the stunning types have to put up with here .
You disabled them ? Fuck, that's a bit extreme! "
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This is an woman place here, they have the pick ...you can write a nice hello , if you get reply fine , if not, also ok . get an grip ... see it as an funny place and dont take it too serious . get a real life |
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"It would be impossible to reply to all messages. "
This is especially true for women. I convinced a friend of mine to join fab. Guess how many mails she got in the first 6 hours.
5?
Nope...
10?
Still no.
20?
Again... No.
40?
Keep guessing.
100?
Getting closer, but still no.
200?
Wrong again.
300?
There we go.
That's 50 mails every hour. Now, imagine having to actually read the mail to see if you're interested. If that was me, I wouldn't even bother read to read half the mails. I'd maybe reply to less than 10% of them.
While I do agree it'd be polite to reply, I'm gonna tell you guys:
Give the girls some slack! |
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"It would be impossible to reply to all messages.
This is especially true for women. I convinced a friend of mine to join fab. Guess how many mails she got in the first 6 hours.
5?
Nope...
10?
Still no.
20?
Again... No.
40?
Keep guessing.
100?
Getting closer, but still no.
200?
Wrong again.
300?
There we go.
That's 50 mails every hour. Now, imagine having to actually read the mail to see if you're interested. If that was me, I wouldn't even bother read to read half the mails. I'd maybe reply to less than 10% of them.
While I do agree it'd be polite to reply, I'm gonna tell you guys:
Give the girls some slack!"
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"A cut and paste " thanks but no thanks" kinda message takes 10 seconds to send ..so I do it
any more mails after that from the same guy are ignored
not laughable just simple !"
Some don't even deserve a c and p no thanks. If they cant read profiles tough! Instant block. I'm here for my pleasure only not to ponder to sad saps egos. |
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