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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well here we go again,verifications,If you have none (your not real) if you've too many (you fucked everyone from fab!!) a lady here getting hassle from a few guys,she won't meet,gets called a slut (too many verifications)and blocked! Just because she's refused to meet them..are we on a swinging site or a moral bashing site?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a case of some people can't take rejection, then they come onto the forums to have a moan about it, nothing wrong with having preferences it's a good thing |
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You need to be thick skinned for this crack, mixed with a good dose of I don't give a shit,it's the only way to survive the crap that some people try to pull.
Take no notice of them and move on, anything else and your just giving them too much attention that they don't deserve |
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Hands up I been on site over a year.....and only bed hopping I been doing in that time is between beaumont and mater hospitals so meets not top of agenda. ...was on for flirty cheeky banter....yet when message any females the general rule of thumb is a reply saying I not verified and get blocked.....It so off putting.... only recently discovered the irish forums  maybe more joy in here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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they would have fucked her if she let them.
advice for her:
just block them, even report them if they're being abusive.
loads of guys love the fact that you fuck a lot of guys yourself, i know i have a few friends on here who love the idea or even want to fuck me after i've fucked loads of guys in a day.
yeah some guys like a woman to be more modest and sexually less available but they won't abuse you for it, they would just spend time looking for what they want and not waste it slagging you off.
their opinion means nothing, if you enjoy what you're doing then let those who also enjoy it join in, and balls to everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thankfully nobody gives us hassle,but a person is again thinking of leaving because of it...
1. Are you married
2. Playing away
3. Single
Who cares!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"they would have fucked her if she let them.
advice for her:
just block them, even report them if they're being abusive.
loads of guys love the fact that you fuck a lot of guys yourself, i know i have a few friends on here who love the idea or even want to fuck me after i've fucked loads of guys in a day.
yeah some guys like a woman to be more modest and sexually less available but they won't abuse you for it, they would just spend time looking for what they want and not waste it slagging you off.
their opinion means nothing, if you enjoy what you're doing then let those who also enjoy it join in, and balls to everyone else."
Very well said... 
She's reading this but doesn't partake in the forums... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And they say men have it hard on here, not so women have it the hardest on here by a mile in my eyes.
They ve to be thick skinned, look at vile pics and then take insult from total strangers thinking there gods gift - ya right.
Big words from little people sitting behind a computer.
Although a swinger site it doesn't always have to be about sex and I say that to all that I chat to.
If I could offer any advice would be treat people on here the way you de like to be treated simple
It's not rocket science
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't give them the satisfaction of leaving the site .. Some people can't take rejection and so what if she has plenty of verification s that's her own business .. Stick it out and to hell with the begrugers  |
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"And they say men have it hard on here, not so women have it the hardest on here by a mile in my eyes.
They ve to be thick skinned, look at vile pics and then take insult from total strangers thinking there gods gift - ya right.
Big words from little people sitting behind a computer.
Although a swinger site it doesn't always have to be about sex and I say that to all that I chat to.
If I could offer any advice would be treat people on here the way you de like to be treated simple
It's not rocket science
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The trouble with common sense is that its not very common. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately like anything else in life you have to take the good with the bad here
tell her just concentrate on what makes her happy here and ignore the rest
it's my new mantra
well that and the block button |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pure spacers if that's how they handle rejection I wouldn't say they would be worth wasting your breath or energy wee sad angry men Irelands full of them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't let anybody stand in my way if I want to do something, not even for my family and they do try believe me.... but I don't give in to them!! lol!
I wouldn't have done half the stuff I've done in my lifetime if I listened to my family.....and it's not just sexual stuff either!
If they found out I was on here, it wouldn't stop me from being on here..... I mean, what are they going to do, chain me to the door!! lol!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"they would have fucked her if she let them.
advice for her:
just block them, even report them if they're being abusive.
loads of guys love the fact that you fuck a lot of guys yourself, i know i have a few friends on here who love the idea or even want to fuck me after i've fucked loads of guys in a day.
yeah some guys like a woman to be more modest and sexually less available but they won't abuse you for it, they would just spend time looking for what they want and not waste it slagging you off.
their opinion means nothing, if you enjoy what you're doing then let those who also enjoy it join in, and balls to everyone else.
Very well said...
She's reading this but doesn't partake in the forums..."
Thanks.
Hope she doesn't leave the site because of them.
I don't actually reply to any of the guys who want to meet me if i'm not interested in them, not even to say no thanks, because i do not want them to think it's ok to contact me in any way if i'm not interested in them.
Although this means i come across as impolite and bad mannered, it also means i have set limits on what interaction will happen with other people on this site.
Just by contacting some guys to reject them gives them the impression i am alright with interacting with them, and i don't want that or the hassle that might come with it.
Unfortunately a lot of polite guys do not receive the courtesy they would like because plenty of us on here do the same thing, but i put myself first on here, i don't want anything to spoil my enjoyment of this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well here we go again,verifications,If you have none (your not real) if you've too many (you fucked everyone from fab!!) a lady here getting hassle from a few guys,she won't meet,gets called a slut (too many verifications)and blocked! Just because she's refused to meet them..are we on a swinging site or a moral bashing site?
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Sure people aren't allowed have standards of their own on here.
I've been called a fake numerous times because I don't show mine. Like I care.
I was going to leave earlier this week because of the bitchiness, the hypocrisy and the bullying on here that seems to be supported on here. But after chatting to a friend I've decided to stick it out. Fuck them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only had this yest he had 1 veri which he said wasnt great meet but he would go back so then says quality he was after so thats the first sign there telling u why if they have this frame of mind why bother ladies who are swingers if they want lovers go to pof or a dating site v bloody simple instead of going and insulting us tbh water of a ducks back now i care less what they think so yes the block button is great 9 times outa 10 they will b gone in a day or 2 anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I heard alot this too. Only cause some leave site,but verification stay as meet and when same person after while come back and write new, its counting like new meet.
And lately I start going to social meets after what always got some verification so all of them together make number bigger and bigger, plus some other meets But most people will read only first 2 verification.
Some just should learn read..as we all know most people even don't bother read profile info.. |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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I don't actually reply to any of the guys who want to meet me if i'm not interested in them, not even to say no thanks, because i do not want them to think it's ok to contact me in any way if i'm not interested in them.
Although this means i come across as impolite and bad mannered, it also means i have set limits on what interaction will happen with other people on this site.
Just by contacting some guys to reject them gives them the impression i am alright with interacting with them, and i don't want that or the hassle that might come with it.
Unfortunately a lot of polite guys do not receive the courtesy they would like because plenty of us on here do the same thing, but i put myself first on here, i don't want anything to spoil my enjoyment of this site."
My sentiments exactly.
Fair enough it may result in missing out meeting some nice guys but I prefer to be safe then sorry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't actually reply to any of the guys who want to meet me if i'm not interested in them, not even to say no thanks, because i do not want them to think it's ok to contact me in any way if i'm not interested in them.
Although this means i come across as impolite and bad mannered, it also means i have set limits on what interaction will happen with other people on this site.
Just by contacting some guys to reject them gives them the impression i am alright with interacting with them, and i don't want that or the hassle that might come with it.
Unfortunately a lot of polite guys do not receive the courtesy they would like because plenty of us on here do the same thing, but i put myself first on here, i don't want anything to spoil my enjoyment of this site.
My sentiments exactly.
Fair enough it may result in missing out meeting some nice guys but I prefer to be safe then sorry."
Yeah i love chatting as well, so i know i'm missing out on some fun conversations and fun chats. Oh well, the few guys that spoil it for us women really do spoil it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And they say men have it hard on here, not so women have it the hardest on here by a mile in my eyes.
They ve to be thick skinned, look at vile pics and then take insult from total strangers thinking there gods gift - ya right.
Big words from little people sitting behind a computer.
Although a swinger site it doesn't always have to be about sex and I say that to all that I chat to.
If I could offer any advice would be treat people on here the way you de like to be treated simple
It's not rocket science
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I could offer any advice would be treat people on here the way you de like to be treated simple
It's not rocket science
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Rocket science is actually pretty simple.... What goes up must come down!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thankfully nobody gives us hassle,but a person is again thinking of leaving because of it...
1. Are you married
2. Playing away
3. Single
Who cares!!!! "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Can't understand why some get upset over the amount of veris a person has if they are not meeting their preferences move along most here have social veris not all play dates. So they don't want to fuck with the whole site then maybe go out clubbing find a play date and take the chance that that date hasn't had a sexual partner before them. Or join the christian virgins club
Its a SEX SITE for consenting adults last I looked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't understand why some get upset over the amount of veris a person has if they are not meeting their preferences move along most here have social veris not all play dates. So they don't want to fuck with the whole site then maybe go out clubbing find a play date and take the chance that that date hasn't had a sexual partner before them. Or join the christian virgins club
Its a SEX SITE for consenting adults last I looked"
Are you sure this is a sex site, damn I thought all along this is a dating site, for those looking for love!! Damn damn damn, why didn't somebody tell me this before ffs!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can't understand why some get upset over the amount of veris a person has if they are not meeting their preferences move along most here have social veris not all play dates. So they don't want to fuck with the whole site then maybe go out clubbing find a play date and take the chance that that date hasn't had a sexual partner before them. Or join the christian virgins club
Its a SEX SITE for consenting adults last I looked
Are you sure this is a sex site, damn I thought all along this is a dating site, for those looking for love!! Damn damn damn, why didn't somebody tell me this before ffs! "
Ahhhhhh Rose I love you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And they say men have it hard on here, not so women have it the hardest on here by a mile in my eyes.
They ve to be thick skinned, look at vile pics and then take insult from total strangers thinking there gods gift - ya right.
Big words from little people sitting behind a computer.
Although a swinger site it doesn't always have to be about sex and I say that to all that I chat to.
If I could offer any advice would be treat people on here the way you de like to be treated simple
It's not rocket science
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Said like a true gentleman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't understand why some get upset over the amount of veris a person has if they are not meeting their preferences move along most here have social veris not all play dates. So they don't want to fuck with the whole site then maybe go out clubbing find a play date and take the chance that that date hasn't had a sexual partner before them. Or join the christian virgins club
Its a SEX SITE for consenting adults last I looked
Are you sure this is a sex site, damn I thought all along this is a dating site, for those looking for love!! Damn damn damn, why didn't somebody tell me this before ffs!
Ahhhhhh Rose I love you "
Aww Monsters.inc!! Where have you been all my life!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can't understand why some get upset over the amount of veris a person has if they are not meeting their preferences move along most here have social veris not all play dates. So they don't want to fuck with the whole site then maybe go out clubbing find a play date and take the chance that that date hasn't had a sexual partner before them. Or join the christian virgins club
Its a SEX SITE for consenting adults last I looked
Are you sure this is a sex site, damn I thought all along this is a dating site, for those looking for love!! Damn damn damn, why didn't somebody tell me this before ffs!
Ahhhhhh Rose I love you
Aww Monsters.inc!! Where have you been all my life!!! "
Been here looking for love too...  |
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Single ladies have to be so so so careful on this site. I'm certainly not being facetious when I say that sex sites attract perverted, unstable, dangerous and vulnerable single men.
Some appear in the guise of being a reasonable person until they are rejected, then they revert to form and get abusive.
It's terrible that this happened to this lady.
Be safe ladies. |
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Us ladies get called one min.
Wow ur gorgeous
To god your a fat cow.
To hey would you like to chat for a bit.
To hey I'm in your area wanna fuck.
The good out way the bad...
its life on this site.
Block and delete ate the best invention ever.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Can't understand why some get upset over the amount of veris a person has if they are not meeting their preferences move along most here have social veris not all play dates. So they don't want to fuck with the whole site then maybe go out clubbing find a play date and take the chance that that date hasn't had a sexual partner before them. Or join the christian virgins club
Its a SEX SITE for consenting adults last I looked
Are you sure this is a sex site, damn I thought all along this is a dating site, for those looking for love!! Damn damn damn, why didn't somebody tell me this before ffs!
Ahhhhhh Rose I love you
Aww Monsters.inc!! Where have you been all my life!!!
Been here looking for love too... "
Looking for love my ass a victim more like |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"And they say men have it hard on here, not so women have it the hardest on here by a mile in my eyes.
They ve to be thick skinned, look at vile pics and then take insult from total strangers thinking there gods gift - ya right.
Big words from little people sitting behind a computer.
Although a swinger site it doesn't always have to be about sex and I say that to all that I chat to.
If I could offer any advice would be treat people on here the way you de like to be treated simple
It's not rocket science
Said like a true gentleman "
Yes he is....one of the good ones....
Well the day we start careing about what ppl think of us on here is the day we leave....we have a real life for that shit.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely the girl in question has the balls to just Block N Delete hun!!! I don't understand the problem here I'm not being funny if she wants to get off the site fair enough wev all been through it but it's not Rocket Science if u don't like what people say to ya on here Block N Delete Move On n Have Some Fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm verified over 50 times in 8 months. I'm a slut.
How the fuck did u pull that off??
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Sorry John only saw your profile now. Thought you were superman there for a minute lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not verified but know I'll have to bide time for tht 1st verified meet ??doesn't bother me how many verifications some people have ,fair play tht they are having fun. |
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"I'm verified over 50 times in 8 months. I'm a slut.
How the fuck did u pull that off??
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Socials, coffee meets, getting out there, being genuine, polite and turning up. It's not rocket science as already mentioned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm verified over 50 times in 8 months. I'm a slut.
How the fuck did u pull that off??
Socials, coffee meets, getting out there, being genuine, polite and turning up. It's not rocket science as already mentioned. "
Oh it was ur sheer figure of 50 in 8 months with your busy life that didn't add up. Didn't realise it was 99% coffee and socials. . not rocket science at all lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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. Didn't realise it was 99% coffee and socials. . not rocket science at all lol "
well I was at the same party as mr Mingo recently and saw him get 3 veri's for playing (at least)so thats at least 6 per cent that night alone which throws you maths out a tad. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They only LOOK like coffee meets. Some may not be. What happens is between me and the people involved. "
Oh ur a man of mystery so. . you should change your name to ........AUSTIN POWERS!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And they say men have it hard on here, not so women have it the hardest on here by a mile in my eyes.
They ve to be thick skinned, look at vile pics and then take insult from total strangers thinking there gods gift - ya right.
Big words from little people sitting behind a computer.
Although a swinger site it doesn't always have to be about sex and I say that to all that I chat to.
If I could offer any advice would be treat people on here the way you de like to be treated simple
It's not rocket science
Said like a true gentleman "
I say it as I see it. As my mother always said manners are totally free so use them at every opportunity in life - simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got told recently that I can't claim to want quality over quantity if I've had a foursome
Who is to say they weren't 3 other quality people!!! "
I couldn't be arsed explaining that to him |
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"they would have fucked her if she let them.
advice for her:
just block them, even report them if they're being abusive.
loads of guys love the fact that you fuck a lot of guys yourself, i know i have a few friends on here who love the idea or even want to fuck me after i've fucked loads of guys in a day.
yeah some guys like a woman to be more modest and sexually less available but they won't abuse you for it, they would just spend time looking for what they want and not waste it slagging you off.
their opinion means nothing, if you enjoy what you're doing then let those who also enjoy it join in, and balls to everyone else.
Very well said...
She's reading this but doesn't partake in the forums...
Thanks.
Hope she doesn't leave the site because of them.
I don't actually reply to any of the guys who want to meet me if i'm not interested in them, not even to say no thanks, because i do not want them to think it's ok to contact me in any way if i'm not interested in them.
Although this means i come across as impolite and bad mannered, it also means i have set limits on what interaction will happen with other people on this site.
Just by contacting some guys to reject them gives them the impression i am alright with interacting with them, and i don't want that or the hassle that might come with it.
Unfortunately a lot of polite guys do not receive the courtesy they would like because plenty of us on here do the same thing, but i put myself first on here, i don't want anything to spoil my enjoyment of this site."
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is increasingly becoming a Kindergarten here. One could believe here sign up adult people with the same interests namely finding a partner for fun, and not for absolutely idiotic discussions or unwelcome additional problems. And because I see here cock boobs and pussy avatars I guess we are here not for Bible study or how to breed roses. When I look at some idiotic profiles including statements here, I wonder why these people are here. rude bossy profile texts, disrespectful messages,would one speak in such a style to someone in a bar or supermarket if one want a positive response ? Manners, fairness and friendliness cost nothing and that goes for Women and Men..just my p20  |
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