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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
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Some on here seem to think I am a no due to not turning up to a recent event..however I am free this week if and females or couples are up for a meet or coffee...no males but fair play to John for offering.you have my word I will show....well im not driving to Galway for a meet so within range as I drive |
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I believe it was two events you did not show for
you may have had valid reasons why you did not show up but like any meet on here if a lady gets let down by a no show twice that guy will never get another chance
I know some will say this is unfair but I'm being honest with you not trying to have a go
I'd say your chances of getting a meet on here are slim
unless of course it is with a non forum user that will be unaware of your tendency not to show
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
wicklow |
"I believe it was two events you did not show for
you may have had valid reasons why you did not show up but like any meet on here if a lady gets let down by a no show twice that guy will never get another chance
I know some will say this is unfair but I'm being honest with you not trying to have a go
I'd say your chances of getting a meet on here are slim
unless of course it is with a non forum user that will be unaware of your tendency not to show
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well you have my word hence why I am seeking a meet here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's wrong with meeting up with a male for a chat ? Surely you could get some tips from him ? "
He doesnt want tips...he wants a shag. I still maintain the hand is a good idea |
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"What's wrong with meeting up with a male for a chat ? Surely you could get some tips from him ?
He doesnt want tips...he wants a shag. I still maintain the hand is a good idea"
Well, he's not going to get a shag if he's not going to show up in fairness! I'm beginning to think he's married and that's why he can't commit to a meet or a party!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's wrong with meeting up with a male for a chat ? Surely you could get some tips from him ?
He doesnt want tips...he wants a shag. I still maintain the hand is a good idea"
Damien is not looking to meet so he can get verified, he's already been verified. That kind of explains why he doesn't want to meet men, he's obviously hoping for a meet that might lead to sex......just like lots of other people. However damien, in your case you might be as well to meet with anyone who offers, because your credibility has taken a bashing, and what you need now more than anything is to meet someone who will say you turned up and you're a decent person, despite the bad publicity you've had on the forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"M&G advertised right above you fella.what do you mean candy"
When you posted, there was a thread above yours regarding a night out in Dublin this Friday I think. |
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"M&G advertised right above you fella.what do you mean candy
When you posted, there was a thread above yours regarding a night out in Dublin this Friday I think."
I think he realized he wasn't getting an invitation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's wrong with meeting up with a male for a chat ? Surely you could get some tips from him ?
He doesnt want tips...he wants a shag. I still maintain the hand is a good idea
Well, he's not going to get a shag if he's not going to show up in fairness! I'm beginning to think he's married and that's why he can't commit to a meet or a party! "
His profile says he's attached, unless that's a new addition? |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
wicklow |
"What's wrong with meeting up with a male for a chat ? Surely you could get some tips from him ?
He doesnt want tips...he wants a shag. I still maintain the hand is a good idea Damien is not looking to meet so he can get verified, he's already been verified. That kind of explains why he doesn't want to meet men, he's obviously hoping for a meet that might lead to sex......just like lots of other people. However damien, in your case you might be as well to meet with anyone who offers, because your credibility has taken a bashing, and what you need now more than anything is to meet someone who will say you turned up and you're a decent person, despite the bad publicity you've had on the forum."
much appreciated but yes you nailed it on the head. Nice to see someone understanding as oppose to constant negative comments etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's wrong with meeting up with a male for a chat ? Surely you could get some tips from him ?
He doesnt want tips...he wants a shag. I still maintain the hand is a good idea Damien is not looking to meet so he can get verified, he's already been verified. That kind of explains why he doesn't want to meet men, he's obviously hoping for a meet that might lead to sex......just like lots of other people. However damien, in your case you might be as well to meet with anyone who offers, because your credibility has taken a bashing, and what you need now more than anything is to meet someone who will say you turned up and you're a decent person, despite the bad publicity you've had on the forum.much appreciated but yes you nailed it on the head. Nice to see someone understanding as oppose to constant negative comments etc"
Listen pal, if i were you id just delete your current profile, wait a few days and then come back on with diff pics and a different spiel. Try a different profile name as well so nobody will guess who you are...maybe damien89  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's wrong with meeting up with a male for a chat ? Surely you could get some tips from him ?
He doesnt want tips...he wants a shag. I still maintain the hand is a good idea
Well, he's not going to get a shag if he's not going to show up in fairness! I'm beginning to think he's married and that's why he can't commit to a meet or a party!
His profile says he's attached, unless that's a new addition? "
Sorry yes, you are right, he is attached and it's mentioned on his profile!  |
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To be fair he had been giving a hard time on the forums.
And has taking it well never got abusive has been polite. .
He has not not showed up to a few events and I understand people being cautious of him.
But to constantly get at him really is not the way forward. |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
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"To be fair he had been giving a hard time on the forums.
And has taking it well never got abusive has been polite. .
He has not not showed up to a few events and I understand people being cautious of him.
But to constantly get at him really is not the way forward. "
why would you be abusive....only feeding the keyboard trolls |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's wrong with meeting up with a male for a chat ? Surely you could get some tips from him ?
He doesnt want tips...he wants a shag. I still maintain the hand is a good idea Damien is not looking to meet so he can get verified, he's already been verified. That kind of explains why he doesn't want to meet men, he's obviously hoping for a meet that might lead to sex......just like lots of other people. However damien, in your case you might be as well to meet with anyone who offers, because your credibility has taken a bashing, and what you need now more than anything is to meet someone who will say you turned up and you're a decent person, despite the bad publicity you've had on the forum."
Such a balanced and we'll thought out post, and not a typo anywhere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's wrong with meeting up with a male for a chat ? Surely you could get some tips from him ?
He doesnt want tips...he wants a shag. I still maintain the hand is a good idea Damien is not looking to meet so he can get verified, he's already been verified. That kind of explains why he doesn't want to meet men, he's obviously hoping for a meet that might lead to sex......just like lots of other people. However damien, in your case you might be as well to meet with anyone who offers, because your credibility has taken a bashing, and what you need now more than anything is to meet someone who will say you turned up and you're a decent person, despite the bad publicity you've had on the forum.
Such a balanced and we'll thought out post, and not a typo anywhere "
I wish i could say the same for you  |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
wicklow |
"To be fair he had been giving a hard time on the forums.
And has taking it well never got abusive has been polite. .
He has not not showed up to a few events and I understand people being cautious of him.
But to constantly get at him really is not the way forward. "
thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well constantly messaging after being told no may be another factor. No one likes being hounded by guys for a meet especially when they have shown they cant show up for anything they put their names to. |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Well constantly messaging after being told no may be another factor. No one likes being hounded by guys for a meet especially when they have shown they cant show up for anything they put their names to. "
as I stated ..you have my word ...hence the point of this thread
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well constantly messaging after being told no may be another factor. No one likes being hounded by guys for a meet especially when they have shown they cant show up for anything they put their names to. as I stated ..you have my word ...hence the point of this thread"
But you gave your word you'd make the events and never went. Shows what your word means really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Justa coffee even is proving difficult"
This isn't exactly easy for singles on here, even without your apparent record..
I've spent the better part of the week trying to organise some social meets with no concrete plans.. just have some patience and all will be rewarded  |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
wicklow |
"Justa coffee even is proving difficult
This isn't exactly easy for singles on here, even without your apparent record..
I've spent the better part of the week trying to organise some social meets with no concrete plans.. just have some patience and all will be rewarded "
you think being verified and the wonderful comments above would help |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Well constantly messaging after being told no may be another factor. No one likes being hounded by guys for a meet especially when they have shown they cant show up for anything they put their names to. as I stated ..you have my word ...hence the point of this thread
But you gave your word you'd make the events and never went. Shows what your word means really. "
free till Friday so no excuses now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Justa coffee even is proving difficult
This isn't exactly easy for singles on here, even without your apparent record..
I've spent the better part of the week trying to organise some social meets with no concrete plans.. just have some patience and all will be rewarded you think being verified and the wonderful comments above would help"
Being verified does kinda help, but they also have to like you
My suggestion is to try some non forum users who might be a little more unbiased?? No harm but you've set yourself up bad here, even with all your politeness :L |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
wicklow |
"Justa coffee even is proving difficult
This isn't exactly easy for singles on here, even without your apparent record..
I've spent the better part of the week trying to organise some social meets with no concrete plans.. just have some patience and all will be rewarded you think being verified and the wonderful comments above would help
Being verified does kinda help, but they also have to like you
My suggestion is to try some non forum users who might be a little more unbiased?? No harm but you've set yourself up bad here, even with all your politeness :L"
well im the one up for meeting and promise so up to someone to step up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Justa coffee even is proving difficult
This isn't exactly easy for singles on here, even without your apparent record..
I've spent the better part of the week trying to organise some social meets with no concrete plans.. just have some patience and all will be rewarded you think being verified and the wonderful comments above would help
Being verified does kinda help, but they also have to like you
My suggestion is to try some non forum users who might be a little more unbiased?? No harm but you've set yourself up bad here, even with all your politeness :Lwell im the one up for meeting and promise so up to someone to step up"
. As Laid said I think your trolling here. Your lack of awareness I both silly and entertaining. Ask yourself what have you done do far to inspire confidence in a meet with anyone. You could be a nice bloke or then again you could be just windin people up to be honest I offered to meet you for a coffee in Dublin so did john Mingo and you either blanked or refused. Maybe you like playing the forum game. Your entertaining but in a weirdly sinister way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Justa coffee even is proving difficult
This isn't exactly easy for singles on here, even without your apparent record..
I've spent the better part of the week trying to organise some social meets with no concrete plans.. just have some patience and all will be rewarded you think being verified and the wonderful comments above would help
Being verified does kinda help, but they also have to like you
My suggestion is to try some non forum users who might be a little more unbiased?? No harm but you've set yourself up bad here, even with all your politeness :Lwell im the one up for meeting and promise so up to someone to step up"
I'll call your bluff. Meet me during the week for a coffee. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Justa coffee even is proving difficult
This isn't exactly easy for singles on here, even without your apparent record..
I've spent the better part of the week trying to organise some social meets with no concrete plans.. just have some patience and all will be rewarded you think being verified and the wonderful comments above would help
Being verified does kinda help, but they also have to like you
My suggestion is to try some non forum users who might be a little more unbiased?? No harm but you've set yourself up bad here, even with all your politeness :Lwell im the one up for meeting and promise so up to someone to step up
I'll call your bluff. Meet me during the week for a coffee. "
That's the diehard romantic coming out in you stardust :L
And they lived happily ever after.. |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
wicklow |
"Justa coffee even is proving difficult
This isn't exactly easy for singles on here, even without your apparent record..
I've spent the better part of the week trying to organise some social meets with no concrete plans.. just have some patience and all will be rewarded you think being verified and the wonderful comments above would help
Being verified does kinda help, but they also have to like you
My suggestion is to try some non forum users who might be a little more unbiased?? No harm but you've set yourself up bad here, even with all your politeness :Lwell im the one up for meeting and promise so up to someone to step up
I'll call your bluff. Meet me during the week for a coffee. "
much appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Justa coffee even is proving difficult
This isn't exactly easy for singles on here, even without your apparent record..
I've spent the better part of the week trying to organise some social meets with no concrete plans.. just have some patience and all will be rewarded you think being verified and the wonderful comments above would help
Being verified does kinda help, but they also have to like you
My suggestion is to try some non forum users who might be a little more unbiased?? No harm but you've set yourself up bad here, even with all your politeness :Lwell im the one up for meeting and promise so up to someone to step up
I'll call your bluff. Meet me during the week for a coffee. "
there is your offer . Here is your last chance to redeem yourself
let us know lady s if he shows up
I for one won't be holding my breath |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately I've had to take back my offer of coffee. I've explained to Damien and hopefully someone closer can meet him. Good luck "
thats a that's, but you did offer, hopefully someone else makes an offer now |
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"Unfortunately I've had to take back my offer of coffee. I've explained to Damien and hopefully someone closer can meet him. Good luck thats a that's, but you did offer, hopefully someone else makes an offer now"
Damien, are you actively looking for a meet or just posting and waiting for people to offer? |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately I've had to take back my offer of coffee. I've explained to Damien and hopefully someone closer can meet him. Good luck thats a that's, but you did offer, hopefully someone else makes an offer now Damien, are you actively looking for a meet or just posting and waiting for people to offer? "
both to be honest....more so looking as the othr would be rare |
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"Unfortunately I've had to take back my offer of coffee. I've explained to Damien and hopefully someone closer can meet him. Good luck thats a that's, but you did offer, hopefully someone else makes an offer now Damien, are you actively looking for a meet or just posting and waiting for people to offer? both to be honest....more so looking as the othr would be rare"
Good, i was going to say it's rare to get an offer. Hopefully someone near you will agree to a meet. Mind you, if you have plenty free time this week, you could easily travel a bit farther. I'm in donegal, but i have travelled to Dublin before to meet people, so it can be worth broadening your parameters. Good luck. |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately I've had to take back my offer of coffee. I've explained to Damien and hopefully someone closer can meet him. Good luck thats a that's, but you did offer, hopefully someone else makes an offer now Damien, are you actively looking for a meet or just posting and waiting for people to offer? both to be honest....more so looking as the othr would be rare Good, i was going to say it's rare to get an offer. Hopefully someone near you will agree to a meet. Mind you, if you have plenty free time this week, you could easily travel a bit farther. I'm in donegal, but i have travelled to Dublin before to meet people, so it can be worth broadening your parameters. Good luck."
within leinster is my boundary....think that's reasonable |
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Hope it works out for you Damien. I am not verified and find it extremely difficult to get anywhere in an arses roar of a meet... I haven't let anyone down but not been verified is killing me... |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hope it works out for you Damien. I am not verified and find it extremely difficult to get anywhere in an arses roar of a meet... I haven't let anyone down but not been verified is killing me... "
hence why setting up a new page is a big no
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hope it works out for you Damien. I am not verified and find it extremely difficult to get anywhere in an arses roar of a meet... I haven't let anyone down but not been verified is killing me... "
hence why setting up a new page is a big no
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"What's wrong with meeting up with a male for a chat ? Surely you could get some tips from him ?
He doesnt want tips...he wants a shag. I still maintain the hand is a good idea
Well, he's not going to get a shag if he's not going to show up in fairness! I'm beginning to think he's married and that's why he can't commit to a meet or a party!
His profile says he's attached, unless that's a new addition? "
That's definitely been there for months. |
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I have no problem meeting anyone for coffee or a drink if they're genuinely looking for verification, male or female.
If I meet you and think you're on the level, I'll do it. But I only make the offer once. If you're a bloke and dont take my offer then you're not looking for verification, you're looking for a ride. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I have no problem meeting anyone for coffee or a drink if they're genuinely looking for verification, male or female.
If I meet you and think you're on the level, I'll do it. But I only make the offer once. If you're a bloke and dont take my offer then you're not looking for verification, you're looking for a ride."
I looking a ride just saying like |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"It's an ass.
We can see the ass and a mighty fine ass it is what about the ride u have outside
I set that one up for you. You're welcome. "
I being waiting for ages to say it but u never gave me the opportunity |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I have no problem meeting anyone for coffee or a drink if they're genuinely looking for verification, male or female.
If I meet you and think you're on the level, I'll do it. But I only make the offer once. If you're a bloke and dont take my offer then you're not looking for verification, you're looking for a ride."
of course I am but saying that Im not comfortable meeting males....straight or not |
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"I have no problem meeting anyone for coffee or a drink if they're genuinely looking for verification, male or female.
If I meet you and think you're on the level, I'll do it. But I only make the offer once. If you're a bloke and dont take my offer then you're not looking for verification, you're looking for a ride.of course I am but saying that Im not comfortable meeting males....straight or not"
Who do you think is gonna turn up to a group wank exactly??!  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I have no problem meeting anyone for coffee or a drink if they're genuinely looking for verification, male or female.
If I meet you and think you're on the level, I'll do it. But I only make the offer once. If you're a bloke and dont take my offer then you're not looking for verification, you're looking for a ride.of course I am but saying that Im not comfortable meeting males....straight or not
Who do you think is gonna turn up to a group wank exactly??! "
Feck it Elfie I was waiting to hear if Damian turned up |
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"Wind up merchant "
Totally. "Not comfortable meeting males, straight or not"?
Do you think some bloke off fab is gonna try and ride ya over a pint?
Get real.
Proof positive that this guy isnt genuine. Final nail in the coffin. |
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"I have no problem meeting anyone for coffee or a drink if they're genuinely looking for verification, male or female.
If I meet you and think you're on the level, I'll do it. But I only make the offer once. If you're a bloke and dont take my offer then you're not looking for verification, you're looking for a ride.of course I am but saying that Im not comfortable meeting males....straight or not"
if your not comfortable meeting males it also means you wouldnt be comfortable meeting couples!! |
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"I have no problem meeting anyone for coffee or a drink if they're genuinely looking for verification, male or female.
If I meet you and think you're on the level, I'll do it. But I only make the offer once. If you're a bloke and dont take my offer then you're not looking for verification, you're looking for a ride.of course I am but saying that Im not comfortable meeting males....straight or not
Who do you think is gonna turn up to a group wank exactly??! "
LMFFAO!!
We ALL thought it Miss Elfie,
But you said it....  |
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By *amien88 OP Man
over a year ago
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"What's wrong with meeting up with a male for a chat ? Surely you could get some tips from him ?
He doesnt want tips...he wants a shag. I still maintain the hand is a good idea
Well, he's not going to get a shag if he's not going to show up in fairness! I'm beginning to think he's married and that's why he can't commit to a meet or a party!
His profile says he's attached, unless that's a new addition? "
don't remember last time I was single |
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