My vanilla bestie has decided she is tired of being single and is looking to go on a dating site for professional people. (No she wouldn't be into swinging in a million years before anyone suggests it)
the agency she is looking at costs quite a lot of money and I think it's probably a bit of a take on but I don't really know about these things tbh. I trying to advise her to just save get money and leave it to fate. ..She is great fun but really looking for a relationship rather than casual ....any helpful or genuine advice as to this out there ?? Anybody tried this kind of thing? |
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"She works a lot so doesn't have much time. She did go on plenty of fish think that put her of.i think she thinks she will meet some one more serious on this site but I doubt it personally  "
well if she works alot how is she gonna have time for her partner there is other sites and like all sites some people are rude others are nice |
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Because free sites will attract the people only looking for casual
if someone is paying money to sign up to a dating site there is a good chance they are more committed into finding a partner and less chance of being a time waster |
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"Because free sites will attract the people only looking for casual
if someone is paying money to sign up to a dating site there is a good chance they are more committed into finding a partner and less chance of being a time waster "
that's where she is coming from. . I trying to get her to find a better balance between work and social life and she would make time if she met someone. . It's getting her to meet someone is tough lol |
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"Because free sites will attract the people only looking for casual
if someone is paying money to sign up to a dating site there is a good chance they are more committed into finding a partner and less chance of being a time waster "
but sure there could be messers anywhere the same as this site and plenty of other pay and non payment sites just because its an agency that dont mean shes gonna meet a prince either i personally think shes wasting her time and money paying someone too help her find a partner when she can do it herself and still find that special partner |
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There is going to be good and bad every where just like on a average night out
just got to out the bad ones
I found that site to be quote good but like all things in life you have to use good judgement |
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"There is going to be good and bad every where just like on a average night out
just got to out the bad ones
I found that site to be quote good but like all things in life you have to use good judgement "
Will try and steer her that direction.. Thanks for your help. She isn't a silly girl she knows there is no guarantee and that its down to her to as well. . Sure you will meet idiots everywhere but I think she just wants to try and meet someone that is interested in the same thing as her . I understand that Im just wary of spending a lot of money to do it as I don't know it will work but maybe will be more likely to be someone more seriously interested in an actual relationship I suppose |
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"Don't know if it will help but e-harmony were offering a free trial until Jan 1st..."
Thanks miss candy... I having tea with her tomorrow night. .preparing all my info/homework lol..I feel like a bit like a bit scout lol just don't want to see her messed about ... I'm a very loyal wee friend |
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"Don't know if it will help but e-harmony were offering a free trial until Jan 1st...
Thanks miss candy... I having tea with her tomorrow night. .preparing all my info/homework lol..I feel like a bit like a bit scout lol just don't want to see her messed about ... I'm a very loyal wee friend "
You have more information than she needs to know on the 'after dark' side of online matchmaking! Keep us in a sealed envelope.  |
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"Don't know if it will help but e-harmony were offering a free trial until Jan 1st...
Thanks miss candy... I having tea with her tomorrow night. .preparing all my info/homework lol..I feel like a bit like a bit scout lol just don't want to see her messed about ... I'm a very loyal wee friend
You have more information than she needs to know on the 'after dark' side of online matchmaking! Keep us in a sealed envelope. "
she would faint lol !!   |
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