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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey just seeing how different people felt on 1st meet. Ive chatted away to diff women and hopefully meetin in a few days, meeting at hers is it quiet normal to be very nervous ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah it's normal but after the first 30 seconds you'll be fine lol! Just smile and enjoy the anticipation - she'll be feeling it too  may be better to meet somewhere public first though - have a drink with no expectations so you can both relax … |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm always a little bit nervous when meeting somebody in person for the first time but once I've met them and if we get along well it's even better!! I find that when I've chatted with somebody for a while, I usually would hug the person when I meet them, I do find it helps to ease the nerves!!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah it's normal but after the first 30 seconds you'll be fine lol! Just smile and enjoy the anticipation - she'll be feeling it too may be better to meet somewhere public first though - have a drink with no expectations so you can both relax …"
thanks good advice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm always a little bit nervous when meeting somebody in person for the first time but once I've met them and if we get along well it's even better!! I find that when I've chatted with somebody for a while, I usually would hug the person when I meet them, I do find it helps to ease the nerves!! "
ya der has to b more den just unemotional sex like,, connection i think wud make it more sensual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel 'funny' when I meet with a couple. Meeting with a girl feels different, much more excitement it is with meeting for mfm, as it is less natural from the traditional standpoint and at the same time more fun :D |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I feel 'funny' when I meet with a couple. Meeting with a girl feels different, much more excitement it is with meeting for mfm, as it is less natural from the traditional standpoint and at the same time more fun :D"
ya it wud feel a bit strange fucking some guys wife in front of him wouldnt it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nerves are one thing but anticapation are another .First meet ever wasn't good as nerves got the better of me oh and the wine also .You got to remember it's first time for all of you and just go with the flow . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...
That was hardly necessary  "
European lad is starting to show his true colours it would seem and they arent all rainbows and nice. Quite dull actually. Much prefer the colourful and landscaped gardens of mr mccarthy |
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and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...
That was hardly necessary
European lad is starting to show his true colours it would seem and they arent all rainbows and nice. Quite dull actually. Much prefer the colourful and landscaped gardens of mr mccarthy"
Lol. Jaysus! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...
That was hardly necessary
European lad is starting to show his true colours it would seem and they arent all rainbows and nice. Quite dull actually. Much prefer the colourful and landscaped gardens of mr mccarthy
Lol. Jaysus! "
Hehehehe be afraid mccarthy be very afraid  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always feel nervous before a meet no matter what and depending on who it's with the added thing I'd butterflies "
I go from sick, to nervous to butterflies on my repeat meets.
This may be NSA fun but the meet where I feel nothing anymore will end it.
Not into 'robot' sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...
That was hardly necessary
Agreed  "
You guys are right. I went too far. I apologise to the OP. I was a dick here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"
and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...
That was hardly necessary
Agreed
You guys are right. I went too far. I apologise to the OP. I was a dick here."
And since u are admitting u were a dick perhaps u should check ur other posts from last night also cos u were a dick in several threads as it happens. Doesnt reflect well on a person being a dick |
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and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...
That was hardly necessary
European lad is starting to show his true colours it would seem and they arent all rainbows and nice. Quite dull actually. Much prefer the colourful and landscaped gardens of mr mccarthy
Lol. Jaysus!
Hehehehe be afraid mccarthy be very afraid "
 Terrified |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You guys are right. I went too far. I apologise to the OP. I was a dick here.
And since u are admitting u were a dick perhaps u should check ur other posts from last night also cos u were a dick in several threads as it happens. Doesnt reflect well on a person being a dick "
By 'other posts' you guys mean just one , right? I owe you no apology. You have been trying to prove that I am not a swinger and that I have been too short within the lifestyle to have a right to say or do anything. There was even a moment when someone else pointed this out to you some time ago in one of the threads and I haven't seen any apologies coming my way from you yet. So please do not call me out in public to do something that you have never felt good enough about doing yourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You guys are right. I went too far. I apologise to the OP. I was a dick here.
And since u are admitting u were a dick perhaps u should check ur other posts from last night also cos u were a dick in several threads as it happens. Doesnt reflect well on a person being a dick
By 'other posts' you guys mean just one , right? I owe you no apology. You have been trying to prove that I am not a swinger and that I have been too short within the lifestyle to have a right to say or do anything. There was even a moment when someone else pointed this out to you some time ago in one of the threads and I haven't seen any apologies coming my way from you yet. So please do not call me out in public to do something that you have never felt good enough about doing yourselves. "
Since u cant seem to figure it out for urself, MMF is not the root or foundation of swinging as u seem so convinced it is.
Never presume to know facts about individuals on here. Or should i say ASSume. You chose to poke fun at us and try to show ur superiority and then went on to poke fun at another user for their choice on their own profile. Remember my 'friend' there are two people on this profile not just one, and if u reread the post we originally made it was in regard to ms innocents mmf experience. Swinging originated with couples, not cocky and up their own arsehole males who think that a few mmf's makes him king of the swingers. Wake up to urself, ur attitude stinks from ur bragging original posts about how two females in a club were falling all over you yet u chose the mf couple u had arranged to ur more recent dig at an newbie forum user. Shame on u. And for the record this is ms innocent posting and i wouldnt touch u with a forty foot sewer rod for with all ur 'euro charm' u lack class |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" Never presume to know facts about individuals on here. "
I fully agree with this sentence.
Overinterpretation and too far going conclusions can lead to misunderstandings and misjudgments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And for the people that enjoyed dirt being washed publicly and mud thrown at people I kindly request a small donations towards a charity of your choice this Christmas. I hope you enjoyed the show.
Apologies were offered where required (hopefully are accepted), so it is time to get back into the Christmas spirit now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nerves are one thing but anticapation are another .First meet ever wasn't good as nerves got the better of me oh and the wine also .You got to remember it's first time for all of you and just go with the flow ."
thanks i know just let it flow ha
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Best of luck
Unusual that a lady here would meet an unverified person at hers !!
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well we hav been chattin away so she knows im genuine on here and fone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"
and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...
That was hardly necessary
European lad is starting to show his true colours it would seem and they arent all rainbows and nice. Quite dull actually. Much prefer the colourful and landscaped gardens of mr mccarthy"
well i know im athletic so i put it down like why not i play multiple sports go gym swim so ya im no couch potato |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always feel nervous before a meet no matter what and depending on who it's with the added thing I'd butterflies
I go from sick, to nervous to butterflies on my repeat meets.
This may be NSA fun but the meet where I feel nothing anymore will end it.
Not into 'robot' sex."
thanks ya nervousness ia prob good like sweetheart |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"
and BTW you ain't athletic... stop with the optimism...
That was hardly necessary
Agreed
You guys are right. I went too far. I apologise to the OP. I was a dick here."
thanks man. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And for the people that enjoyed dirt being washed publicly and mud thrown at people I kindly request a small donations towards a charity of your choice this Christmas. I hope you enjoyed the show.
Apologies were offered where required (hopefully are accepted), so it is time to get back into the Christmas spirit now
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thanks dude apology accepted hav a great xmas and new year |
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