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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was chatting to someone recently who I'd verified and I noticed he had hidden my veri. Now I know it's a person's right as to what veri's they chose to display and/or hide but I was curious as to why he had chosen to hide mine as he had many veri's still displayed...a good few before mine and a few after. He told me he hid it because he had been chatting to a young girl whom he wanted to meet and it seems she didn't like guys who met older women. I'm 20 years his senior.
Have many guys here come up against this where young girls don't like a young guy meeting older women? I wonder what is it that the girls don't like about it? Isn't age just a number?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a mature cpl and while this might seem silly we are more comfortable in a more mature surrounding but at the same time we are considered to be younger than our age and having been in clubs where younger people are it certainly does not seem to be an issue with most people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was chatting to someone recently who I'd verified and I noticed he had hidden my veri. Now I know it's a person's right as to what veri's they chose to display and/or hide but I was curious as to why he had chosen to hide mine as he had many veri's still displayed...a good few before mine and a few after. He told me he hid it because he had been chatting to a young girl whom he wanted to meet and it seems she didn't like guys who met older women. I'm 20 years his senior.
Have many guys here come up against this where young girls don't like a young guy meeting older women? I wonder what is it that the girls don't like about it? Isn't age just a number?
Any ideas???"
Age is just a number I couldn't say no to u  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's ridiculous of him! You have the body of a twenty year old! Not that many women are that well in shape as you are! And you're a great dancer!!  Silly man! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was chatting to someone recently who I'd verified and I noticed he had hidden my veri. Now I know it's a person's right as to what veri's they chose to display and/or hide but I was curious as to why he had chosen to hide mine as he had many veri's still displayed...a good few before mine and a few after. He told me he hid it because he had been chatting to a young girl whom he wanted to meet and it seems she didn't like guys who met older women. I'm 20 years his senior.
Have many guys here come up against this where young girls don't like a young guy meeting older women? I wonder what is it that the girls don't like about it? Isn't age just a number?
Any ideas???"
. I would wear a veri from u like a trophy ms cheeky Xxdreamsmightcometruexx |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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I don't understand why it would bother anyone, the age of a person(s) that someone has been with or how that makes any difference after all its not that person they're having sex with.
The mind boggles. Sounds to me the girl is just picking reasons not to have sex with this guy and more fool this guy for changing just to have sex with her. Seems a bit desperate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was chatting to someone recently who I'd verified and I noticed he had hidden my veri. Now I know it's a person's right as to what veri's they chose to display and/or hide but I was curious as to why he had chosen to hide mine as he had many veri's still displayed...a good few before mine and a few after. He told me he hid it because he had been chatting to a young girl whom he wanted to meet and it seems she didn't like guys who met older women. I'm 20 years his senior.
Have many guys here come up against this where young girls don't like a young guy meeting older women? I wonder what is it that the girls don't like about it? Isn't age just a number?
Any ideas???"
I find that very inconsiderate and hurtful.you are a beautiful woman and he should be proud to display your veri. Silly silly man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was chatting to someone recently who I'd verified and I noticed he had hidden my veri. Now I know it's a person's right as to what veri's they chose to display and/or hide but I was curious as to why he had chosen to hide mine as he had many veri's still displayed...a good few before mine and a few after. He told me he hid it because he had been chatting to a young girl whom he wanted to meet and it seems she didn't like guys who met older women. I'm 20 years his senior.
Have many guys here come up against this where young girls don't like a young guy meeting older women? I wonder what is it that the girls don't like about it? Isn't age just a number?
Any ideas???"
Hes loss hun i meet yea at the social and ur a lovely lady and im honoured to show ur verfie on my profile. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Why would a girl not want to meet a guy that has met an older woman insecurities maybe that she doesnt have the experience of the older lady ???
Which is crap i have met a young lady that opened my eyes to domonation and a few other things. i dont think id change my profile to meet some one that i may not gel with his loss cheeky ur one of the genuine one on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was chatting to someone recently who I'd verified and I noticed he had hidden my veri. Now I know it's a person's right as to what veri's they chose to display and/or hide but I was curious as to why he had chosen to hide mine as he had many veri's still displayed...a good few before mine and a few after. He told me he hid it because he had been chatting to a young girl whom he wanted to meet and it seems she didn't like guys who met older women. I'm 20 years his senior.
Have many guys here come up against this where young girls don't like a young guy meeting older women? I wonder what is it that the girls don't like about it? Isn't age just a number?
Any ideas???"
I noticed you draw the line at 28. Isn't that the same thing really. I mean it's all done to the person own preferences.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People publish/hide verifs for various reasons - mine just depending on my mood at the time.
I know it's difficult not to take this particular incident personally but think of this as his issue. You have many friends here more than willing to have your company and proudly display their admiration.
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"Was chatting to someone recently who I'd verified and I noticed he had hidden my veri. Now I know it's a person's right as to what veri's they chose to display and/or hide but I was curious as to why he had chosen to hide mine as he had many veri's still displayed...a good few before mine and a few after. He told me he hid it because he had been chatting to a young girl whom he wanted to meet and it seems she didn't like guys who met older women. I'm 20 years his senior.
Have many guys here come up against this where young girls don't like a young guy meeting older women? I wonder what is it that the girls don't like about it? Isn't age just a number?
Any ideas???"
as you can see from my veris I go for older generally..find them more adventurous |
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"Was chatting to someone recently who I'd verified and I noticed he had hidden my veri. Now I know it's a person's right as to what veri's they chose to display and/or hide but I was curious as to why he had chosen to hide mine as he had many veri's still displayed...a good few before mine and a few after. He told me he hid it because he had been chatting to a young girl whom he wanted to meet and it seems she didn't like guys who met older women. I'm 20 years his senior.
Have many guys here come up against this where young girls don't like a young guy meeting older women? I wonder what is it that the girls don't like about it? Isn't age just a number?
Any ideas???"
Lucky man/boy
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It is in most cases but not all. But for the indvidual it's their choice. What happened I feel is sad on them being so superficial and not true to themselves. Nothing worse than pretenting to be whY you are or not |
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"Was chatting to someone recently who I'd verified and I noticed he had hidden my veri. Now I know it's a person's right as to what veri's they chose to display and/or hide but I was curious as to why he had chosen to hide mine as he had many veri's still displayed...a good few before mine and a few after. He told me he hid it because he had been chatting to a young girl whom he wanted to meet and it seems she didn't like guys who met older women. I'm 20 years his senior.
Have many guys here come up against this where young girls don't like a young guy meeting older women? I wonder what is it that the girls don't like about it? Isn't age just a number?
Any ideas???"
You certainly have made your point.
To answer your question, age really only matters if your a cheese.
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"People publish/hide verifs for various reasons - mine just depending on my mood at the time.
I know it's difficult not to take this particular incident personally but think of this as his issue. You have many friends here more than willing to have your company and proudly display their admiration.
XXXXXXXX"
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Cheeky you are a beautiful woman fantastic figure any man would be proud to display your verification. Your the life and soul of any party and anyway that has had the pleasure to meet you can verify that too . |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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Some women don't like guys that meet married women, older women, younger woman, 'popular' women, women that they've heard have been b*tching about them...... I've heard of them all and have gone beyond questioning their rational.
I wouldn't take it personally that he froze out your verification I don't think of it as a slur on you but just a temporary thing to try to please someone else  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cheeky...We were told by lots of couples that having single guys verifications on our profile that it "didn't look good" you can imagine my reply,anyway this guy is a boy yet to be a man! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I noticed you draw the line at 28. Isn't that the same thing really. I mean it's all done to the person own preferences.
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Yes I have and I use age filters n other filters to cut down the amount of mail ...women will understand why.
i do realise that being a guy on Fab is tougher re getting meets so I can understand the logic in why he did it. I wonder is it quite common and why the girls dont like it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just keep all my verifications hidden cause as far as I am concerned it's nobody's business who I meet and I discovered in the past that people made it their business  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just keep all my verifications hidden cause as far as I am concerned it's nobody's business who I meet and I discovered in the past that people made it their business "
as I said in my OP it is each persons right to display or not display veris. I am curious about the fact that young girls seem to not like young guys who meet older women and that guys would hide veris because of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just keep all my verifications hidden cause as far as I am concerned it's nobody's business who I meet and I discovered in the past that people made it their business
as I said in my OP it is each persons right to display or not display veris. I am curious about the fact that young girls seem to not like young guys who meet older women and that guys would hide veris because of it."
It seems weird alright! What difference should it make, he's entitled to see who he wants no matter what the age is! The fact that he would hide a veri so he could be with that girl is a bit pathetic & sad...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm lost on the part where young women are suddenly girls. If any of the young women wrote anything similar and referred to the older women as old women or worse we'd be grilled for it. A lot of guys I've come across change in the hopes of a meet or he could have used that as an excuse. He could have just picked his favourite 10 or 20 or whatever amount he has up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm lost on the part where young women are suddenly girls. If any of the young women wrote anything similar and referred to the older women as old women or worse we'd be grilled for it. A lot of guys I've come across change in the hopes of a meet or he could have used that as an excuse. He could have just picked his favourite 10 or 20 or whatever amount he has up"
women in general are called girls here! I've been called a girl many times! Never an old woman though....not yet anyway
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"I'm lost on the part where young women are suddenly girls. If any of the young women wrote anything similar and referred to the older women as old women or worse we'd be grilled for it. A lot of guys I've come across change in the hopes of a meet or he could have used that as an excuse. He could have just picked his favourite 10 or 20 or whatever amount he has up women in general are called girls here! I've been called a girl many times! Never an old woman though....not yet anyway "
The OP makes a distinction between young girls and older women where it could easily have been young women and older women. It reads as a dig at young women by saying we're girls (just an observation) |
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"I'm lost on the part where young women are suddenly girls. If any of the young women wrote anything similar and referred to the older women as old women or worse we'd be grilled for it. A lot of guys I've come across change in the hopes of a meet or he could have used that as an excuse. He could have just picked his favourite 10 or 20 or whatever amount he has up"
but older or old is the same ebony as you just stated I've been called girl and ive probably been called worse too. But to think op was having a dig at younger women (girl) I think your reading more into it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm lost on the part where young women are suddenly girls. If any of the young women wrote anything similar and referred to the older women as old women or worse we'd be grilled for it. A lot of guys I've come across change in the hopes of a meet or he could have used that as an excuse. He could have just picked his favourite 10 or 20 or whatever amount he has upbut older or old is the same ebony as you just stated I've been called girl and ive probably been called worse too. But to think op was having a dig at younger women (girl) I think your reading more into it. "
I call anyone who's older an older man or older woman unless they're practically senile then I view them as old. After reading it a few times there's still a huge distinction between the "girls" and "women" in that OP |
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"I'm lost on the part where young women are suddenly girls. If any of the young women wrote anything similar and referred to the older women as old women or worse we'd be grilled for it. A lot of guys I've come across change in the hopes of a meet or he could have used that as an excuse. He could have just picked his favourite 10 or 20 or whatever amount he has upbut older or old is the same ebony as you just stated I've been called girl and ive probably been called worse too. But to think op was having a dig at younger women (girl) I think your reading more into it.
I call anyone who's older an older man or older woman unless they're practically senile then I view them as old. After reading it a few times there's still a huge distinction between the "girls" and "women" in that OP "
so me than I'm classed as an older woman or old woman right ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm lost on the part where young women are suddenly girls. If any of the young women wrote anything similar and referred to the older women as old women or worse we'd be grilled for it. A lot of guys I've come across change in the hopes of a meet or he could have used that as an excuse. He could have just picked his favourite 10 or 20 or whatever amount he has upbut older or old is the same ebony as you just stated I've been called girl and ive probably been called worse too. But to think op was having a dig at younger women (girl) I think your reading more into it.
I call anyone who's older an older man or older woman unless they're practically senile then I view them as old. After reading it a few times there's still a huge distinction between the "girls" and "women" in that OP so me than I'm classed as an older woman or old woman right ? "
You'd be an older woman cause you're not old yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm lost on the part where young women are suddenly girls. If any of the young women wrote anything similar and referred to the older women as old women or worse we'd be grilled for it. A lot of guys I've come across change in the hopes of a meet or he could have used that as an excuse. He could have just picked his favourite 10 or 20 or whatever amount he has upbut older or old is the same ebony as you just stated I've been called girl and ive probably been called worse too. But to think op was having a dig at younger women (girl) I think your reading more into it.
I call anyone who's older an older man or older woman unless they're practically senile then I view them as old. After reading it a few times there's still a huge distinction between the "girls" and "women" in that OP so me than I'm classed as an older woman or old woman right ?
You'd be an older woman cause you're not old yet"
"Old" is subjective though.
My parents are in their 50s and to me they are far from old. To my younger siblings, they're ancient.
My grandparents were in their 70s but I never considered them old.
I'm 28 I'm considered old by younger cousins etc.
I agree that you're reading too much into the op. I still refer to myself and others as girls. I use women too but mainly girls..
Oh and the guy is a dope cheeky x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So tell us ebony, from a younger woman's point of view, does the age of past meets matter?"
The age of past meets doesn't matter to me but the age of the potential meet does. Even at that, I've met a few older people for socials |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"So tell us ebony, from a younger woman's point of view, does the age of past meets matter?
The age of past meets doesn't matter to me but the age of the potential meet does. Even at that, I've met a few older people for socials "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Age is only a number and more so in your case, you have a body most 20 year old woman would only wish the had, your also stunning and such a nice person and amazing in bed
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"Was chatting to someone recently who I'd verified and I noticed he had hidden my veri. Now I know it's a person's right as to what veri's they chose to display and/or hide but I was curious as to why he had chosen to hide mine as he had many veri's still displayed...a good few before mine and a few after. He told me he hid it because he had been chatting to a young girl whom he wanted to meet and it seems she didn't like guys who met older women. I'm 20 years his senior.
Have many guys here come up against this where young girls don't like a young guy meeting older women? I wonder what is it that the girls don't like about it? Isn't age just a number?
Any ideas???"
if I was lucky to get one off you nutty I defo would not hide it... I'd brag  |
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I think age is subjective, I personally prefer older guys but prefer women closer to my own age that being said there are plenty of people that don't look their age and others that don't act it lol so for me it really depends on the person. If we meet people we like and find them attractive then it doesn't really matter. |
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"I think age is subjective, I personally prefer older guys but prefer women closer to my own age that being said there are plenty of people that don't look their age and others that don't act it lol so for me it really depends on the person. If we meet people we like and find them attractive then it doesn't really matter. "
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"Was chatting to someone recently who I'd verified and I noticed he had hidden my veri. Now I know it's a person's right as to what veri's they chose to display and/or hide but I was curious as to why he had chosen to hide mine as he had many veri's still displayed...a good few before mine and a few after. He told me he hid it because he had been chatting to a young girl whom he wanted to meet and it seems she didn't like guys who met older women. I'm 20 years his senior.
Have many guys here come up against this where young girls don't like a young guy meeting older women? I wonder what is it that the girls don't like about it? Isn't age just a number?
Any ideas???"
Personally would love to be verified by you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm lost on the part where young women are suddenly girls. If any of the young women wrote anything similar and referred to the older women as old women or worse we'd be grilled for it. A lot of guys I've come across change in the hopes of a meet or he could have used that as an excuse. He could have just picked his favourite 10 or 20 or whatever amount he has up women in general are called girls here! I've been called a girl many times! Never an old woman though....not yet anyway
The OP makes a distinction between young girls and older women where it could easily have been young women and older women. It reads as a dig at young women by saying we're girls (just an observation)"
Ebony teen...my apologies that you feel my use of the term young girl is a dig at young women as it was never meant to be but I do see your point. I shall be more aware of the terminology I use in future. Thanks for pointing it out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You don't meet people over 48 so I guess age isn't just a number "
Pure Honey
...as I said previously I have age filters and other filters (as many profiles on here do) to keep messages down. My real life partner is 56 so I do love an older man too
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"You don't meet people over 48 so I guess age isn't just a number
Pure Honey
...as I said previously I have age filters and other filters (as many profiles on here do) to keep messages down. My real life partner is 56 so I do love an older man too
Thanks to all for the varied and interesting
replies...much appreciated "
I understand the point about keeping message numbers down - but you could be filtering out some good guys !
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