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to go Dutch ..our are we still old fashioned
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Talking about hotel our house meets ..who should pay for the hotel...in my cause I never had to...not saying I won't but just worked out that way...what to my fello fabers think... |
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"Dutch is good after all it's fun for both , on another note I had a lady insist on paying for lunch recently , a pleasant surprise  "
Why a surprise?........ I like treating sometimes too especially if its a regular guy i see.... although do sometimes have to sneak off and pay without them knowing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dutch is good after all it's fun for both , on another note I had a lady insist on paying for lunch recently , a pleasant surprise
Why a surprise?........ I like treating sometimes too especially if its a regular guy i see.... although do sometimes have to sneak off and pay without them knowing "
Cos it don't happen to me that often  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dutch is good after all it's fun for both , on another note I had a lady insist on paying for lunch recently , a pleasant surprise
Why a surprise?........ I like treating sometimes too especially if its a regular guy i see.... although do sometimes have to sneak off and pay without them knowing "
I do the sneaky thing too!! I don't think it's fair that the guy should pay all the time! Fair is fair like!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If i invite a guy I'll pay though has left me enjoying a room by myself on occasion when something or someone else comes along. The few occasions lads have gotten a room they paid but would prefer pay half just hate the money discussions |
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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago
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I'm a bit funny about money when it comes to meets. It's not a conversation Id like to have...... Feels wrong somehow. We have always paid our hotel costs and will continue to do so.
Miss Mcjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a bit funny about money when it comes to meets. It's not a conversation Id like to have...... Feels wrong somehow. We have always paid our hotel costs and will continue to do so.
Miss Mcjoy "
Yea exactly, I'm the same. You don't like bring money into convo when meeting but if someone offers and insists, well yea. |
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Here's my social rule: "You invite, you pay.”
Especially if you’ve chosen the restaurant as well as making the invitation.
We all use phrases as code for "I’ll pay", like "Please be my guest"; "It will be my treat” and "I'd like to invite you to join me…
It's good manners to offer to pay for yourself or contribute a tip, and always wise to be prepared to pay for yourself, because, you never know.
Finally, rest assured that even if your date does pay for you, you're under no obligation to become horizontal.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went Dutch once,great fun and an absolutely lovely person as well
(heck of a dancer too)  "
Haha! Thanks Paddy lol. We'll have to go Dutch again sometime soon!! |
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