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are single guys scared of couples?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So an awful lot of single guys look at our profile but never more then that. We do wonder if their scared of couples. Yes we realise that doesn't apply to all guys on here but we're just looking for everyone's take on it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my opinion meeting with couples is fun, as there are so many interesting scenarios, fantasies or role playing that can be experienced through such configuration. There is usually less drama involved as well. Big  for playing with couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In my opinion meeting with couples is fun, as there are so many interesting scenarios, fantasies or role playing that can be experienced through such configuration. There is usually less drama involved as well. Big for playing with couples. "
. lol did we not discuss this Saturday |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not just single guys , I personally find couples very intimidating "
lady stardust I can see where ur coming from,way back when I was here as a single female I tried meeting with couples and like u said I was a shivering bundle of nerves. On the flip side when mr bossy was on here as a single he had many many meets with couples and never cast him a thought.
I guess as with any meets if the connection is there and everyone can get along its easier and more relaxed.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So an awful lot of single guys look at our profile but never more then that. We do wonder if their scared of couples. Yes we realise that doesn't apply to all guys on here but we're just looking for everyone's take on it? "
Not scared of couples no. Just sadly out of your age range  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think they're scared. Just rare that couples reply to messages. (My experience, please don't shoot me!)"
lol nikki only shootin we do is of mr bossys load 
To be fair we do make a decent effort to reply to any half decent message we get and even some of the not so decent messages too lol. |
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By *ohnbi01Man
over a year ago
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"So an awful lot of single guys look at our profile but never more then that. We do wonder if their scared of couples. Yes we realise that doesn't apply to all guys on here but we're just looking for everyone's take on it? "
If i see an attractive pic i usually click on the profile out of curiosity. I travel quiet a bit with work, so i use the who's nearby a lot as well. Up until the time of clicking on the profile, i don't know what that person or couple is looking for.
i swing both ways, so check a lot of profiles to see who is looking for the same as me.
Might explain some of the views ye get |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not just single guys , I personally find couples very intimidating
lady stardust I can see where ur coming from,way back when I was here as a single female I tried meeting with couples and like u said I was a shivering bundle of nerves. On the flip side when mr bossy was on here as a single he had many many meets with couples and never cast him a thought.
I guess as with any meets if the connection is there and everyone can get along its easier and more relaxed.
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That's why it's better to meet socially first then plan to meet on another ocasion for fun! It's more relaxing when there's no expectations of fun initially but if everyone gets on then you need to just go for it!!! That's my take on it anyway!!!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not just single guys , I personally find couples very intimidating
lady stardust I can see where ur coming from,way back when I was here as a single female I tried meeting with couples and like u said I was a shivering bundle of nerves. On the flip side when mr bossy was on here as a single he had many many meets with couples and never cast him a thought.
I guess as with any meets if the connection is there and everyone can get along its easier and more relaxed.
That's why it's better to meet socially first then plan to meet on another ocasion for fun! It's more relaxing when there's no expectations of fun initially but if everyone gets on then you need to just go for it!!! That's my take on it anyway!!! "
exactly totally agree with u there Rosebud,we always meet socially first for that very reason. None of us are so disillusioned as to think we are gonna be to everyones taste. And its always easier to make that decision fully clothed and over a beverage cos once the clothes come off then a person is rather vulnerable |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's why it's better to meet socially first then plan to meet on another ocasion for fun! It's more relaxing when there's no expectations of fun initially but if everyone gets on then you need to just go for it!!! That's my take on it anyway!!! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So an awful lot of single guys look at our profile but never more then that. We do wonder if their scared of couples. Yes we realise that doesn't apply to all guys on here but we're just looking for everyone's take on it?
If i see an attractive pic i usually click on the profile out of curiosity. I travel quiet a bit with work, so i use the who's nearby a lot as well. Up until the time of clicking on the profile, i don't know what that person or couple is looking for.
i swing both ways, so check a lot of profiles to see who is looking for the same as me.
Might explain some of the views ye get"
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say I am afraid of couples. I do look at couples profile and actually read them. I prefer to try chat to couples in the chat rooms. I find it easier to break the ice so to speak as they can see what I look like on cam. I also like to send a wink and if I get one back I send a message. J |
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By *SKFUNMan
over a year ago
Dublin 8 |
Love meeting couples; less drama, more discreet and definitely know what they want from a meet ...pre-meet drinks are always full of anticipation and excitement..except for the odd miss-match  S4I much better for meeting couples than here though; its cuckoo heaven |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have come across couples who won't meet me because I want to meet socially first without committing to any fun that day/nite! I'm not to everybody's taste neither are the couple you're going to meet! |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Love meeting couples; less drama, more discreet and definitely know what they want from a meet ...pre-meet drinks are always full of anticipation and excitement..except for the odd miss-match S4I much better for meeting couples than here though; its cuckoo heaven "
what's S41 when it's at home? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have come across couples who won't meet me because I want to meet socially first without committing to any fun that day/nite! I'm not to everybody's taste neither are the couple you're going to meet! "
we have come across same and sometimes people take offence when u say u prefer to meet socially first. In those cases we just move along they werent for us anyway. Pressure is for tyres lol |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Love meeting couples; less drama, more discreet and definitely know what they want from a meet ...pre-meet drinks are always full of anticipation and excitement..except for the odd miss-match S4I much better for meeting couples than here though; its cuckoo heaven "
Currently I believe here is 'better' for meeting couples than S4I. Lets just say I'm having more fab couple meets than i am on S4I (which is another swinging site by the way). |
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"So an awful lot of single guys look at our profile but never more then that. We do wonder if their scared of couples. Yes we realise that doesn't apply to all guys on here but we're just looking for everyone's take on it? "
still looking for my first couple |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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Have found even though most single men have cpls on their profile a lot are not interested in meeting.... When we want to meet a guy we go looking ourselves....have had a few really good meets this way.....can understand it could be very intimidating for a single guy to meet a cpl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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MY experience is that most couples (up here anyway) don't want single guys - nearly every single profile I looked at said as much. Age being a factor I'm well outside your limits to start with, and also a fair bit away from you - not forgetting the fact when I use the search engine it leaves out everybody across the border so you would not have shown up in a search anyway  But to answer your post, as a single guy I have no problem with couples at all |
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"Not just single guys , I personally find couples very intimidating
lady stardust I can see where ur coming from,way back when I was here as a single female I tried meeting with couples and like u said I was a shivering bundle of nerves. On the flip side when mr bossy was on here as a single he had many many meets with couples and never cast him a thought.
I guess as with any meets if the connection is there and everyone can get along its easier and more relaxed.
That's why it's better to meet socially first then plan to meet on another ocasion for fun! It's more relaxing when there's no expectations of fun initially but if everyone gets on then you need to just go for it!!! That's my take on it anyway!!!
exactly totally agree with u there Rosebud,we always meet socially first for that very reason. None of us are so disillusioned as to think we are gonna be to everyones taste. And its always easier to make that decision fully clothed and over a beverage cos once the clothes come off then a person is rather vulnerable"
precisely |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think if op didn't have me blocked for no apparent reason I would definitely mail .
There are lots of lurker in this site that's happens to everyone not just cpls "
theres always a reason noone blocks for no apparent reason,well we dont thats for sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From my side at times I don't send cpls messages as they may have issues with my weight/size! So if I see a cpl has meet nothing only athletic guys I simply don't send a message. Maybe silly but just my feelings on the issue |
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I know this Is directed at singles but we do it alot too, we browse lots of profiles every day but message very few. Sometimes it's because the couple might be too far away, outside our age limit or we're outside if theirs. We are also a curvy couple so we don't message people who state they are looking for fit people, and we're a little shy so I don't think it's that people are afraid I just think that there are alot of factors.
Mrs. Curvy |
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By *rian78Man
over a year ago
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I wouldnt say scared but nervous some times. You arn't trying to woo just 1 person but 2. It can be intimidating at times. So a social meet for coffee or a drink really helps before setting up a meet as an ice breaker and to see if there is an attraction and if the other can acualy hold a conversation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know this Is directed at singles but we do it alot too, we browse lots of profiles every day but message very few. Sometimes it's because the couple might be too far away, outside our age limit or we're outside if theirs. We are also a curvy couple so we don't message people who state they are looking for fit people, and we're a little shy so I don't think it's that people are afraid I just think that there are alot of factors.
Mrs. Curvy"
Its directed at everyone. Not going to tell you you can't post on this thread unlike other forum users have done in the last day. A couples opinion and thoughts on it are extremely welcome as more more then likely they've experienced the same thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there are a lot of single men on here that are wanting to live the fantasy but when push comes to shove fantasy is all it remains. They will tick all the boxes regarding their interests on their profile, 3some, group fun, parties etc.... In their head maybe. If it's 3some or group fun you are looking for there are only a select few that are up for it.
One on one meets is what a lot of guys are here for. Single guys will happily meet but if you throw in I'd like to meet you and another guy at the same time then it's a different story. Just my tuppence worth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there are a lot of single men on here that are wanting to live the fantasy but when push comes to shove fantasy is all it remains. They will tick all the boxes regarding their interests on their profile, 3some, group fun, parties etc.... In their head maybe. If it's 3some or group fun you are looking for there are only a select few that are up for it.
One on one meets is what a lot of guys are here for. Single guys will happily meet but if you throw in I'd like to meet you and another guy at the same time then it's a different story. Just my tuppence worth "
I find this is what the majority of guys are here for, have been told I shouldn't be here if I don't want to meet, no dear I just don't want to meet you! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not afraid of couples atall just not into meeting couples is all jaysis biggs done a rhyme there ha ha ha.
Can't let you have that one, I'm afraid. It's just the same word in each line  "
ah come on mick its xmas ha ha |
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"Not afraid of couples atall just not into meeting couples is all jaysis biggs done a rhyme there ha ha ha.
Can't let you have that one, I'm afraid. It's just the same word in each line
ah come on mick its xmas ha ha "
Fair enough. Biggles for Poet laureate of Kilkenny! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not afraid of couples atall just not into meeting couples is all jaysis biggs done a rhyme there ha ha ha.
Can't let you have that one, I'm afraid. It's just the same word in each line
ah come on mick its xmas ha ha
Fair enough. Biggles for Poet laureate of Kilkenny! "
Pmsl ha ha ha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this Is directed at singles but we do it alot too, we browse lots of profiles every day but message very few. Sometimes it's because the couple might be too far away, outside our age limit or we're outside if theirs. We are also a curvy couple so we don't message people who state they are looking for fit people, and we're a little shy so I don't think it's that people are afraid I just think that there are alot of factors.
Mrs. Curvy"
thanks! But you replied your lovely |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think there are a lot of single men on here that are wanting to live the fantasy but when push comes to shove fantasy is all it remains. They will tick all the boxes regarding their interests on their profile, 3some, group fun, parties etc.... In their head maybe. If it's 3some or group fun you are looking for there are only a select few that are up for it.
One on one meets is what a lot of guys are here for. Single guys will happily meet but if you throw in I'd like to meet you and another guy at the same time then it's a different story. Just my tuppence worth "
we agree. A large part of the single men on site wouldn't be actual swingers. Treat it more like a sex site then a swing site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So an awful lot of single guys look at our profile but never more then that. We do wonder if their scared of couples. Yes we realise that doesn't apply to all guys on here but we're just looking for everyone's take on it? "
Maybe they can't contact you because they are outside your preferred age range |
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I don't message very many couples because in my experience they message who they are interested in. I don't want to clog up their mailboxes despite the fact they are ideally what I am looking for on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most couples state that they want to message you so I don't really go messaging them. Having said that, when a couple winks or messages I always get nervous. That's just me though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most couples state that they want to message you so I don't really go messaging them. Having said that, when a couple winks or messages I always get nervous. That's just me though "
This!
Would still depend on the couple though :/ :L |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So an awful lot of single guys look at our profile but never more then that. We do wonder if their scared of couples. Yes we realise that doesn't apply to all guys on here but we're just looking for everyone's take on it? "
I think it might be your partner with whips and handcuffs, that's putting them off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not scared of couples
Just prefer singles as it's easier to communicate with.
I love couples but a lot don't communicate that well with each other and at times its very difficult to for the chat to have any fluency.
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Not scared of couples
Just prefer singles as it's easier to communicate with.
I love couples but a lot don't communicate that well with each other and at times its very difficult to for the chat to have any fluency.
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That's why a face to face chat is so much easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not scared of couples
Just prefer singles as it's easier to communicate with.
I love couples but a lot don't communicate that well with each other and at times its very difficult to for the chat to have any fluency.
That's why a face to face chat is so much easier "
Indeed! You can't beat face to face communication!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not scared of couples
Just prefer singles as it's easier to communicate with.
I love couples but a lot don't communicate that well with each other and at times its very difficult to for the chat to have any fluency.
That's why a face to face chat is so much easier "
Hence our insistence on a coffee or social meet prior to anything happening. Messages onsite are always open to interpretation and not always in a good way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not scared of couples
Just prefer singles as it's easier to communicate with.
I love couples but a lot don't communicate that well with each other and at times its very difficult to for the chat to have any fluency.
That's why a face to face chat is so much easier
Hence our insistence on a coffee or social meet prior to anything happening. Messages onsite are always open to interpretation and not always in a good way"
Do you guys find yourselves struggling to communicate with each other on a meet? I don't even know what that means. If anything, it's usually the single that seems to wilt during interrogation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not scared of couples
Just prefer singles as it's easier to communicate with.
I love couples but a lot don't communicate that well with each other and at times its very difficult to for the chat to have any fluency.
That's why a face to face chat is so much easier
Hence our insistence on a coffee or social meet prior to anything happening. Messages onsite are always open to interpretation and not always in a good way
Do you guys find yourselves struggling to communicate with each other on a meet? I don't even know what that means. If anything, it's usually the single that seems to wilt during interrogation "
Lol nope never had an issue with communication between the two of us yet. Have had instances though plenty of times where there is no problem while the outside male is chatting onsite with the fem of the couple but once the male half comes online and responds then the issues seem to rear their ugly heads. Makes us wonder do certain males think that in a couple scenario that my partner is going to sit in a corner quietly like a good little boy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had this exact conversation last night with a few single guys....Yeahhhhhh they are terrified at meeting couples!!!
Lol Really?? 
Yep...They are just afraid of me I think!! They said id chew them up and spit them out...But I never spit "
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"Not scared of couples
Just prefer singles as it's easier to communicate with.
I love couples but a lot don't communicate that well with each other and at times its very difficult to for the chat to have any fluency.
That's why a face to face chat is so much easier
Hence our insistence on a coffee or social meet prior to anything happening. Messages onsite are always open to interpretation and not always in a good way
Do you guys find yourselves struggling to communicate with each other on a meet? I don't even know what that means. If anything, it's usually the single that seems to wilt during interrogation
Lol nope never had an issue with communication between the two of us yet. Have had instances though plenty of times where there is no problem while the outside male is chatting onsite with the fem of the couple but once the male half comes online and responds then the issues seem to rear their ugly heads. Makes us wonder do certain males think that in a couple scenario that my partner is going to sit in a corner quietly like a good little boy "
Jaysus no, everyone joins in. Otherwise what's the point? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not scared of couples
Just prefer singles as it's easier to communicate with.
I love couples but a lot don't communicate that well with each other and at times its very difficult to for the chat to have any fluency.
That's why a face to face chat is so much easier
Hence our insistence on a coffee or social meet prior to anything happening. Messages onsite are always open to interpretation and not always in a good way
Do you guys find yourselves struggling to communicate with each other on a meet? I don't even know what that means. If anything, it's usually the single that seems to wilt during interrogation
Lol nope never had an issue with communication between the two of us yet. Have had instances though plenty of times where there is no problem while the outside male is chatting onsite with the fem of the couple but once the male half comes online and responds then the issues seem to rear their ugly heads. Makes us wonder do certain males think that in a couple scenario that my partner is going to sit in a corner quietly like a good little boy
Jaysus no, everyone joins in. Otherwise what's the point?"
Precisely mingo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After a less than pleasant experience I'm pretty apprehensive about meeting couples alright... Shame as lots of people have had the best of times! Ah well! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I actually love chatting to and meeting couples, but usually unable to mail them as they have singles blocked or they're out of my age range! It's a nightmare!"
I find that also .....lots of couples I'd love to meet !!
Maybe "they're just not that into me" !! Lol |
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By *ig A300Man
over a year ago
North. love to chat please. |
It's very important to meet up before anything happens. It's hard to meet couples on hear they either won't reply or just say no all the time. Are their any real couples on here that genuinely want to meet single straight guys.  |
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"It's very important to meet up before anything happens. It's hard to meet couples on hear they either won't reply or just say no all the time. Are their any real couples on here that genuinely want to meet single straight guys. "
Does Dolly Parton sleep on her back? Are there mostly cocks in gay porn? |
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By *ig A300Man
over a year ago
North. love to chat please. |
I think a lot of them could be false may not be couples at all.
Sorry to the genuine ones but I have been talking to sum for ages then just don't reply or answer and are gone never to be seen again. Maybe it's me fighting them haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id say some are out of your age or physical requirements there by respecting your choice. Your pics are hot so they're bound to be popular,also with the ratio of cpl to men, you're bound get respectful men. |
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