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Quality over Quantity

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What is that crap about quality makes no sense nor does the quanity me id meet anyone aslong as there nice in the heart etc who cares about quantity an yeh i had recent row with a couple well not row but a talk about there more for quality than quanitity its a swing site i dont care what they look like who they are or there back round im here for nsa sexual meets not quality or quanitity so thoes words too my eyes here mean fuk all too me ms kinky xxx

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By *entleman36Man over a year ago

dublin

A lot of people seem to go for looks on this

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Kinda fecked up there lol at the end of it im saying its makes no differnece on numbers of who we meet or what they look like etc kinda bugs me when someone says too u sure your meeting too many that are ugly in a way

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A lot of people seem to go for looks on this "
thats my question too why whya are they going for looks im fat and proud of it i got refused too a an upcoming party an i quote your not the style for my party like wtf lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Each to their own. I don't think people should be judged on how they use this site. Personally I need to be physically attracted to someone to have sex with them. That on top of being able to have a normal conversation with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Each to their own. I don't think people should be judged on how they use this site. Personally I need to be physically attracted to someone to have sex with them. That on top of being able to have a normal conversation with them. "
so in our case getting refused too a private party cause of my weight is is correct im sorry but thats just mean but anyway yes i undertsand wha ur saying but im not fukin every tom dick and harry like its clear i have too like them before i have sex wit them.

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By *entleman36Man over a year ago

dublin

Don't use the word fat, use the word curvy, fat is not a nice word or at least I don't think it's nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't use the word fat, use the word curvy, fat is not a nice word or at least I don't think it's nice"
well u explain it too some of the people here lol feckin tossers is all they are i couldin give 2 shits what people say about me im fat and proud of it at least i have more sexual meets than them thats for sure lol dont mind me im just pissed off with this crap

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not saying it's correct. But if I organised a party with people I intend to have fun with I would invite people within my preference.

Some people are not into big people and there's no point getting frustrated about it. You'd rather want to meet people who find you sexy than sitting at a party and being rejected.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ssshhh put on some nice classical music.....or fleetwood mac...andre boccelli....much nicer than fretting over idiots.....you will feel much better

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By *entleman36Man over a year ago

dublin

Personally I find bigger women to be a big turn on, I know that's not everyone's cup of tea, I think some people use this site for dating too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not saying it's correct. But if I organised a party with people I intend to have fun with I would invite people within my preference.

Some people are not into big people and there's no point getting frustrated about it. You'd rather want to meet people who find you sexy than sitting at a party and being rejected.

Xx"
thats fair but too say your weight is not what where looking for is stupid really considering theres other guests that may like chubby women no

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman over a year ago

Palookaville

I think its up to each person who they choose to play with and the reasons are as varied as we are. Everyone has attributes they find attractive and others they don't. I don't think people should be so judgemental or tactless or nasty but sure some seem to get a kick out of it .

You enjoy the site How you want and never worry about what someone else thinks of you Mrs wex. ..

haters gonna hate etc. .. shake it off hun!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying it's correct. But if I organised a party with people I intend to have fun with I would invite people within my preference.

Some people are not into big people and there's no point getting frustrated about it. You'd rather want to meet people who find you sexy than sitting at a party and being rejected.

Xx thats fair but too say your weight is not what where looking for is stupid really considering theres other guests that may like chubby women no "
it's inconsiderate but their right who they invite. They should have just said they're full. Fuck them. Plenty of fish around

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a nice pattern

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman over a year ago

Palookaville

"I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a nice pattern

Mr Hardy! !... Back on the bus..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its hard to please everyone i guess... you werent accepted.. it was the hosts party... build a bridge and get over it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"its hard to please everyone i guess... you werent accepted.. it was the hosts party... build a bridge and get over it..."
oh im well over it chicken there loss not mine like i give a shite weather they want us there not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It just won't work for me unless I'm strongly attracted to some one and I don't apologise for that. I get turned on by what I see first and then the mental connection and those two are present then the sex is set to be amazing !

I would personally don't understand the ability to have sex without attraction, but this site works it's magic in different ways for people so make the most of it and as S.S said haters going to hate !

If anything .. Ye will have a lot more fun if that's yer attitude . I find one person in every 50 hot !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a nice pattern

Mr Hardy! !... Back on the bus..

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beep beep mrs s

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not saying it's correct. But if I organised a party with people I intend to have fun with I would invite people within my preference.

Some people are not into big people and there's no point getting frustrated about it. You'd rather want to meet people who find you sexy than sitting at a party and being rejected.

Xx thats fair but too say your weight is not what where looking for is stupid really considering theres other guests that may like chubby women no it's inconsiderate but their right who they invite. They should have just said they're full. Fuck them. Plenty of fish around

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well thats what im saying theres a nice way and a wrong way like i dont give a shit if they dont want lager people there but it was the message we got bavk from them that has me pissed off

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If anything .. Ye will have a lot more fun if that's yer attitude . I find one person in every 50 hot !

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ah fair play too u love

ur more than looks than numbers but really who cares

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman over a year ago

Palookaville

"I'd get up on a cracked plate but I do like a nice pattern

Mr Hardy! !... Back on the bus..

beep beep mrs s

did you just beep me

Now where's that bridge ... and the orgy at the back. .?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If anything .. Ye will have a lot more fun if that's yer attitude . I find one person in every 50 hot !

ah fair play too u love

ur more than looks than numbers but really who cares "

Why start a thread If you dont care ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Last time I started a thread it kept unravelling until I was naked!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If anything .. Ye will have a lot more fun if that's yer attitude . I find one person in every 50 hot !

ah fair play too u love

ur more than looks than numbers but really who cares

Why start a thread If you dont care ? "
cause it pissed me off thats why your the party woman would u have fat people at your party or people who have a bit of weight question btw not giving out but when u apply for an invite too a party with 30+ people attending nicely of course only too be told na sorry i seen u in cork your too fat too attend my party is that right in your eyes hello wake up call i dont think so

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Last time I started a thread it kept unravelling until I was naked!"
ah good owl trolls ya cant beat them big wanna bees in my eyes lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think we should start a thread and see if there anybody likes the big beautiful body in men and women!what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think we should start a thread and see if there anybody likes the big beautiful body in men and women!what do you think?"
i dunno but i think its bin done before but the barbie wanna bees where giving out lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think we should start a thread and see if there anybody likes the big beautiful body in men and women!what do you think? i dunno but i think its bin done before but the barbie wanna bees where giving out lol"
pmsl classic

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have to say wexy's your a very funny cpl even your profile made me smile.all in a good way may i add.tntally backing the chubby cause of equal rights!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have to say wexy's your a very funny cpl even your profile made me smile.all in a good way may i add.tntally backing the chubby cause of equal rights!"
ah now now u dont want too upset the trolls now pmsl glad i made u smile hehe thats what swinging is having fun and having a laugh regardless of looks weight height race etc who cares lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have to say wexy's your a very funny cpl even your profile made me smile.all in a good way may i add.tntally backing the chubby cause of equal rights! ah now now u dont want too upset the trolls now pmsl glad i made u smile hehe thats what swinging is having fun and having a laugh regardless of looks weight height race etc who cares lol"
trolls those funny lil plastic figures with stupid looks on there faces!oh and the toys aswell.lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have to say wexy's your a very funny cpl even your profile made me smile.all in a good way may i add.tntally backing the chubby cause of equal rights! ah now now u dont want too upset the trolls now pmsl glad i made u smile hehe thats what swinging is having fun and having a laugh regardless of looks weight height race etc who cares lol trolls those funny lil plastic figures with stupid looks on there faces!oh and the toys aswell.lol"
well at least u copped them fast lol but im glad i made u smile im proud of that lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's very much a fair point that larger people so often don't fit the criteria for some people's party's I have been refused many times myself in the past just because I'm a bbw size and weight shouldn't come into it but sadly it does however each to there own on here but never feel your not as beautiful as others on here for everyone is in there own right regardless of size perhaps someone should hold bbw parties that way everyone gets an opportunity to have lots of naughty fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's very much a fair point that larger people so often don't fit the criteria for some people's party's I have been refused many times myself in the past just because I'm a bbw size and weight shouldn't come into it but sadly it does however each to there own on here but never feel your not as beautiful as others on here for everyone is in there own right regardless of size perhaps someone should hold bbw parties that way everyone gets an opportunity to have lots of naughty fun"
i could not agree more but that message we got was way out of control coming from a well known host i was stunned being honest but then u will have the same problem the other way round the barbies will be giving out and where the worst in the world for not inviting them or not allowing thin women attend

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By *unfella 1Man over a year ago

dublin

Guy said it here earlier, curvy women so much more what a real woman shud look like, for me. Everybody has their own preference , but would always judge someone by what's in their head and what comes outta their mouth. Have had meets where the body is to die for but the mind is not . Sooo boring, excite me!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Guy said it here earlier, curvy women so much more what a real woman shud look like, for me. Everybody has their own preference , but would always judge someone by what's in their head and what comes outta their mouth. Have had meets where the body is to die for but the mind is not . Sooo boring, excite me!!"
lol if only there where more people in this world that sees what u see we would be happy out in swinging ur name says it funfella its about fun not weight age race looks

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By *unfella 1Man over a year ago

dublin

Ohh how true. Have met too many, what they christen themselves " beautiful people" . Their heads normally so far up their own asses that I'm surprised they can see anything!! The mind, for me, the biggest sexual organ of all, excite the mind the rest is easy! A big mind so sexier then a big, thin, short, tall body. Sexy is , as sexy does!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ohh how true. Have met too many, what they christen themselves " beautiful people" . Their heads normally so far up their own asses that I'm surprised they can see anything!! The mind, for me, the biggest sexual organ of all, excite the mind the rest is easy! A big mind so sexier then a big, thin, short, tall body. Sexy is , as sexy does!

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i could not agree more that is a fact there in black and white well done mr fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i do think it is down to each person what works for them or not ?

im a bbw and a confident one at that ffs you can see from my profile pull out a camera and im stripping off straight away but i am not to everyone taste and that is fair enough

i would not want to be at a party if pepole where judging me on my body shape but that is there choice to make

after all you say on your profile you dont want to meet single women and that is very fair also as this is your choice but i wont get bent out of shape over it

use the site for what it is a good place to meet like minded people for fun and friendship

why would you want to meet people that are just not attracted to you anyway ?

Now tell me where is this BBW party ??

the revolution has started for us curvy lady's

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By *rishpleasureMan over a year ago

about

I have found that BBW enjoy themselves more and please far better that the skinny body beautifuls who spend all their time on here saying how good they are.

That said, a party host is entitled to set whatever criteria they want for their party. they choose how many cpls, males females, size, colour, kinkiness etc. There is no point in getting upset as you clearly are (or this post would not be here) and enjoy the parties that welcome you or arrange one to your own liking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyone has the right to invite who they want to their party, if they are putting the time and effort in to arrange it then they can cherrypick who they want to attend, and there are groups on here who prefer to stick to people of similar body types, you see it on loads of profiles and can see from verifications that they meet people of similar attitude. There is nothing wrong with that , everyone has preferences but it's when the nastiness comes out is what makes it uncool, there is no need for that at all.

There are plenty of parties that welcome all walks of life so I wouldn't let it bother you too much, better to find out now than actually attend the party and feel even worse!

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By *al2001Man over a year ago

kildare

Every party i was at had curve bbw women at it,1 memorable party just had bows,so i sdont think bbws are discriminated against here,u just met a rude host,he could have handled it better

you seem to be saying every larger person is genuine and fun and every slim person has there head up their arse,that's as small minded as the party host you're complaining about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think as long as you keep your self well should not matter..I am curvy lady..but I look seXy all times...so people can think what they like....thin is not always seXy...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personality counts for a lot no point been gorgeous and full of yourself .. A spark is the most important part

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By *ohn MingoMan over a year ago

Dublin

I have quality over quantity mentioned on my profile but it has nothing to do with physicality and more with vibe and attitude. If I turn up to a meet and I dont click with the person personality-wise, or if they're unable to have a bit of craic or banter I'm less likely to play. Ditto if they have to get fairly locked before they swing.

I dont want to be someone's experiment to see if they like swinging.

Despite what it may look like on my profile, I'm not into racking up notches on my bedpost......like I say, a few quality meets are better than many mediocre ones.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman over a year ago

Palookaville

Aren't you taking the very same attitude to non bbw people now that so upset you? ?

People are people regardless of their size. .. There are some who are more fun than others. . And some who are ruder than others! But I think its as unfair to label everyone who isn't a bbw as"up their own arse"or "barbie wannabes" as it is to be so judged on your weight! I take people as I find them. .I like people for who they are ,there are nice people of all body shapes. .. But attraction is many things .... and it's down to each person what that choice is. When you ask for an invite to any party/whatever you are putting yourself up to be judged by the host as to how you will fit in with their party and it is their choice and is a shame they couldn't be more tactful.... But it's your choice to put yourself in that position. .and people can be very judgemental and crass. .. But that doesn't mean you should actually take the same attitude to non bbw .

The least attractive attribute in anyone is arrogance or anyone thinking they are better than others for any reason...

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By *al2001Man over a year ago

kildare

"Personality counts for a lot no point been gorgeous and full of yourself .. A spark is the most important part

large ppl can be arseholes too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

to summarise,

some people are arseholes

some people aren't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sexiness comes in all shapes and sizes.

However, just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean Id sleep with anyone!

You mention it shouldn't matter what they look like as long as they have a good heart. Well no one likes an asshole true, but if All it is is a few hours of Nsa fun Id rather do it with a guy I find attractive than a guy who I don't fancy but rescues kittens!

Does that make me shallow or a Barbie wannabe? Nope, I think it's quite normal.

In saying all that I understand your anger at being refused an invite. It seems very narrow minded indeed.

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"Sexiness comes in all shapes and sizes.

However, just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean Id sleep with anyone!

Does that make me shallow or a Barbie wannabe? Nope, I think it's quite normal.

In saying all that I understand your anger at being refused an invite. It seems very narrow minded indeed. "

damn it saving all those kittens was for nothing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality counts for a lot no point been gorgeous and full of yourself .. A spark is the most important part

large ppl can be arseholes too"
maybe but were not all that way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sexiness comes in all shapes and sizes.

However, just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean Id sleep with anyone!

Does that make me shallow or a Barbie wannabe? Nope, I think it's quite normal.

In saying all that I understand your anger at being refused an invite. It seems very narrow minded indeed.

damn it saving all those kittens was for nothing

You rescue puppies which is even better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sexiness comes in all shapes and sizes.

However, just because it's a swinging site doesn't mean Id sleep with anyone!

Does that make me shallow or a Barbie wannabe? Nope, I think it's quite normal.

In saying all that I understand your anger at being refused an invite. It seems very narrow minded indeed. "

a note to one self dont rescue any trap kittens ha ha ha.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman over a year ago

Palookaville

Note to all. . Please keep rescuing little furry babies of any type lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think as long as you keep your self well should not matter..I am curvy lady..but I look seXy all times...so people can think what they like....thin is not always seXy...

She sure does

Mr Nightlight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Il love all fur babies guys!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It does really annoy me sometimes where a person can judge someone by the way they look from behind a computer if people dont like on how i look well thats up to them but it does hurt one feelings i Suppose.Im happy in my own skin dont need to change or prove myself on here to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It does really annoy me sometimes where a person can judge someone by the way they look from behind a computer if people dont like on how i look well thats up to them but it does hurt one feelings i Suppose.Im happy in my own skin dont need to change or prove myself on here to anyone."

You're a lovely guy and then some!!!

lol! Don't change for anyone, you're great as you are!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can understand that you were pissed off by someone who you felt judged you on your size and was rude about it.

But you're doing now pretty much the same calling slim people names such as Barbie wannabes.

I've been bullied and called names pretty much my whole life because of my size. I can't condone that kind of behaviour towards anyone, whether because they're big, slim, young, old, have a different race or religion. Making fun now or generalising about slim people (even about big women and how much better they are in the sack) is wrong behaviour in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can understand that you were pissed off by someone who you felt judged you on your size and was rude about it.

But you're doing now pretty much the same calling slim people names such as Barbie wannabes.

Totally agree

I'm slim and work out and feel good about myself , I was size 14 a few years ago and tbh I didn't feel confident in myself at all. I think there is an idea amongst some that we are dry , no fun and up our own holes !

Generic comments aren't helpful

I host and try to have a good mix but not dominated by any one type !

I think a BBW party is a great idea

But what if someone hosted a size 6 -10 party

There would be uproar !!

Double standards I think !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love all forms of the female body, i think every woman has a a certain sex appeal about them, regardless of size

I think women who are confident in their own skin exude a certain aura/sexiness....Just my 2 cents worth!!

It’s the only thing sexier than a sexy woman. A sexy woman cooking fuckin’ sausages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love all forms of the female body, i think every woman has a a certain sex appeal about them, regardless of size

I think women who are confident in their own skin exude a certain aura/sexiness....Just my 2 cents worth!!

It’s the only thing sexier than a sexy woman. A sexy woman cooking fuckin’ sausages

(In an apron)(they spit).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There really are tons of sad cunts on here as I found out recently enough shallow hals as I like to call them. No pun intended to the guy Hal I'll point out lol. These are sad people that judge others on a few pics while sitting behind a pc if they bothered their arse to have a simple conversation with them they would realise they are sound etc. So to the original poster I'll say fuck them cunts they don't deserve your attention and least u know you're a much better person for it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There really are tons of sad cunts on here as I found out recently enough shallow hals as I like to call them. No pun intended to the guy Hal I'll point out lol. These are sad people that judge others on a few pics while sitting behind a pc if they bothered their arse to have a simple conversation with them they would realise they are sound etc. So to the original poster I'll say fuck them cunts they don't deserve your attention and least u know you're a much better person for it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Aren't you taking the very same attitude to non bbw people now that so upset you? ?

The least attractive attribute in anyone is arrogance or anyone thinking they are better than others for any reason...

the op complains about people being judged on size or shape,and then proceeds to do exactly the same thing?

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By *idandnancy69Couple over a year ago

carrickfergus

Some people don't find curvy people attractive,just as some don't like thin people,however sometimes you meet someone who totally turns you on,and bodyshape doesn't matter after all there are plenty of horses for plenty of courses

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Im not slagging anyone off what has me pissed off is that someone can say your too fat for party ad you have met too many people all i asked was is right too say that i aint that fat im hardly gonna break a chair if i sit on it so what if i met tons of people im here for nsa fun the reason why i signed up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im not slagging anyone off what has me pissed off is that someone can say your too fat for party ad you have met too many people all i asked was is right too say that i aint that fat im hardly gonna break a chair if i sit on it so what if i met tons of people im here for nsa fun the reason why i signed up "

Exactly how I feel

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By *icketyupWoman over a year ago

dublin

I think quality means different things to different people. Yeah okay for some people it may be looks etc, but for me personally it's people that I really get on with and for me there has to be attraction but that attraction may not be through looks.

With regard to the size thing, I was a size 18-20 about 18months ago and there's no way I was comfortable in my own skin. I worked my ass off to get where I am now and I feel a lot more confident. Each person is completely different, and depending on the person I have been and will be attracted to curvy people!! I don't think it's in anyway fair to judge people based on size whether that be skinny or curvy once your comfortable in your own skin that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people don't take the hint in the first polite refusal...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some people don't take the hint in the first polite refusal..."
by calling someone is fat how is that polite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people don't take the hint in the first polite refusal... by calling someone is fat how is that polite "

Did he ask why not ?

And if ye did be prepared for an honest answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some people don't take the hint in the first polite refusal... by calling someone is fat how is that polite

Did he ask why not ?

And if ye did be prepared for an honest answer "
so calling me as in her not he fat is polite yeah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If she/he said I'm unable to offer ye a place and left it at that .. Ok ! Can't be faulted

If ye did not accept this polite refusal and asked for a reason then ye must be prepared for an honest answer

That's what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No

If she/he said I'm unable to offer ye a place and left it at that .. Ok ! Can't be faulted

If ye did not accept this polite refusal and asked for a reason then ye must be prepared for an honest answer

That's what I mean "

well that said person never said it like that and it was straight too a your too fat so there was none of this im sorry i cannot invite u the list is full or anything it was straight im too fat so yeah very polite there indeed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If ye can't rejection your in for a hard journey here

we have all been told no at some stage or another

and the fact your like a dog with a bone over it will put off any other potential party invites being sent your way

just let it go and move on

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By *-4pleasureCouple over a year ago

Belfast

"No

If she/he said I'm unable to offer ye a place and left it at that .. Ok ! Can't be faulted

If ye did not accept this polite refusal and asked for a reason then ye must be prepared for an honest answer

That's what I mean

Better to block and move on. You're letting this get to you and the only one that that's affecting is yourself. If someone doesn't wanna know us it's their choice as far as we are concerned (and their loss in my opinion) and certainly not worth our getting annoyed over

If I had a pound for every time i'd been slagged in life I'd be typing this from the Côte d'Azur

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If ye can't rejection your in for a hard journey here

we have all been told no at some stage or another

and the fact your like a dog with a bone over it will put off any other potential party invites being sent your way

just let it go and move on "
rejection is one thing too which im used too but slagging and caling people fat is another thing yano people commit suicide cause of people bragging about there weight a simple no sorry full up would have bin ok i can handle rejection im in this life style a while now an only rejoined so rejection is not the issue the issue is some twat calling me fat is

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No

If she/he said I'm unable to offer ye a place and left it at that .. Ok ! Can't be faulted

If ye did not accept this polite refusal and asked for a reason then ye must be prepared for an honest answer

That's what I mean

If I had a pound for every time i'd been slagged in life I'd be typing this from the Côte d'Azur

"
oh i know what your saying and i agree with u fully

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel i need to say something here,im not saying this to offend or hurt.theres been plenty of that already!now wex i can fully understand your feelings on this,it does hurt!but your feeding the pain,all that has needed been said has been.i know where you are i was and still am fat,euen though in the last year ive lost 10 inches around the waist im still very aware how big i am!so for your own health sake let it go.xxx

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By *oughandCurvyCouple over a year ago

galway

I agree with what others have said, people have different ideas on what a quality meet is, for us its having a fantastic time on all levels like getting on great with the person or people, attraction and great fun inside and outside of the bed room. I think that's what alot of people mean by quality.

But regarding being judged on size that's life unfortunately. It happens every single day and it's something we all have to deal with here regardless of size. We can't all suit each others taste all of the time and everyone is entitled to their preferences. I'm bbw and yeah sometimes we have been rejected on account of that and yeah it stings a bit but we also get messages every day complimenting my figure so you have to take the good with the bad!

We both think a bbw party is a great Idea too btw!

Mrs Curvy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kinky... I was turned down for a party too. I'm of slim build so the reason I was turned down was not cos I'm fat so I was obviously refused for some other reason. I just replied with a polite message, wished the person the best of luck with the event and said thanks for the reply. I didn't ask the reason why I was refused...no point as it would not change anything. My advice, for what it's worth, is you're better off not knowing their reason(s) and just move on. That way you don't leave yourself open to insults or being offended and hurt. There's something here for everyone. Do what you want to do and how you want to do it. As many wiser people than me have often said use the site as you want to. Try to be careful and respectful regardless of how anyone else behaves. We are not responsible for their behaviour towards us but we are responsible for our actions and how we react.

I hope you have fun x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Btw...I need a sexual/physical attraction and chemistry to be turned on enough to play

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Kinky... I was turned down for a party too. I'm of slim build so the reason I was turned down was not cos I'm fat so I was obviously refused for some other reason. I just replied with a polite message, wished the person the best of luck with the event and said thanks for the reply. I didn't ask the reason why I was refused...no point as it would not change anything. My advice, for what it's worth, is you're better off not knowing their reason(s) and just move on. That way you don't leave yourself open to insults or being offended and hurt. There's something here for everyone. Do what you want to do and how you want to do it. As many wiser people than me have often said use the site as you want to. Try to be careful and respectful regardless of how anyone else behaves. We are not responsible for their behaviour towards us but we are responsible for our actions and how we react.

I hope you have fun x

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well we have met before cheeky last year i dont see why u got refused for being thin sure a right lady for any party for sure lol the crack we had was brilliant that night

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By *illow1972Man over a year ago

Naas

Shur I'm not allowed go to any parties.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Shur I'm not allowed go to any parties."
whats the reason why ur not allowed too attend partys not bad 2 verts an ur only here 7 weeks seems too me your genuine an doing very well

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By *illow1972Man over a year ago

Naas

Don't know, maybe I'm too sexy for them

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By *at-cWoman over a year ago

Ballyshannon

People need to stop referring to women as 'real women' this drives me mad. It's just as harmful a statement as fat, skinny, bloater, bag of bones etc. So size determines your authenticity as a woman? Since when? My weight has seen a fluctuation of 2.5 stone during my adult life but at no point have I been less 'real' to my knowledge.

You detract from your own point when defending yourself against a slight based on size and then respond by negatively commenting on other people based on looks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People need to stop referring to women as 'real women' this drives me mad. It's just as harmful a statement as fat, skinny, bloater, bag of bones etc. So size determines your authenticity as a woman? Since when? My weight has seen a fluctuation of 2.5 stone during my adult life but at no point have I been less 'real' to my knowledge.

You detract from your own point when defending yourself against a slight based on size and then respond by negatively commenting on other people based on looks.

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By *al2001Man over a year ago

kildare

"Shur I'm not allowed go to any parties."

will your mammy not let you out late?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't know, maybe I'm too sexy for them

Im too sexy for you party too sexy for your party, no way i'm disco dancing!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39YUXIKrOFk

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You detract from your own point when defending yourself against a slight based on size and then respond by negatively commenting on other people based on looks.

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i never said anything too anyone about looks dunno where u got that from

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By *at-cWoman over a year ago

Ballyshannon

You detract from your own point when defending yourself against a slight based on size and then respond by negatively commenting on other people based on looks.

i never said anything too anyone about looks dunno where u got that from "

It's a general observation on the forum topic where women are called 'real women' and 'wanna be Barbies'.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yawn.......

Think its time this thread was closed

De poor horse has been dead for hours!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You detract from your own point when defending yourself against a slight based on size and then respond by negatively commenting on other people based on looks.

i never said anything too anyone about looks dunno where u got that from

It's a general observation on the forum topic where women are called 'real women' and 'wanna be Barbies'."
thats your opinion and i have mine as i said if someone is gonna call me fat im gonna come back at them simple as that i never said anyhing again about real women as i dont meet single women so i dont care what they look like size and shape as i wont and dont meet them but sorry too burst ya bubble but there is small number of women who think there barbies same way theres a few guys who think there ken im not paint every single woman a barbie on here u have me all wrong some some thats all

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yawn.......

Think its time this thread was closed

De poor horse has been dead for hours!

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wll im trying too leave it but people keep posting on it il get rid of it now whoop whoop

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yawn.......

Think its time this thread was closed

De poor horse has been dead for hours!

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