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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to pick up on something that was posted earlier....
It has been said by many girls and couples here "dont want to see cock pic,they all look the same"
Or "seen a cock before dont need to see yours" that sort of thing.in actual fact cocks come in all shapes and sizes,bendy ones,long ones,short ones.....my question is how much does it actualy matter?would a mans cock put you off and is it important to see it before a meet? |
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over a year ago
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It matters a lot. Would defo want to see a pic before a meet. Yes, have chatted to people leading towards a meet then decided not to proceed after seeing the crown jewels. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It matters a lot. Would defo want to see a pic before a meet. Yes, have chatted to people leading towards a meet then decided not to proceed after seeing the crown jewels."
Oh really?ladies here seem to play down the importance of it but i think what your saying is probably more the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not necessary for me to see a man's penis, once he knows how to use it and I'm attracted to him. There's a lot more to sexual activties than a man's penis |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It matters a lot. Would defo want to see a pic before a meet. Yes, have chatted to people leading towards a meet then decided not to proceed after seeing the crown jewels.
Oh really?ladies here seem to play down the importance of it but i think what your saying is probably more the truth"
Single ladies???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have to see a cock pic before I meet him. But I'm curious of course! And no, like foo foos, not all cocks look the same! I have been put off by some pics actually. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It matters a lot. Would defo want to see a pic before a meet. Yes, have chatted to people leading towards a meet then decided not to proceed after seeing the crown jewels.
Oh really?ladies here seem to play down the importance of it but i think what your saying is probably more the truth
Single ladies????"
Not just single ladies iv seen it on couples profiles also.im just saying in general.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't have to see a cock pic before I meet him. But I'm curious of course! And no, like foo foos, not all cocks look the same! I have been put off by some pics actually. "
Not mine i hope  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But even if a guy had like a really small ugly cock?and they do exist iv seen them haha obviously not mine  "
He may have amazing oral skills to make up for it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would imagine what most people mean is that they don't want to be sent a cock pic and the sender is proud as punch and basically says "look what I have, what are you gone do to it" the women I know prefer to have a bitta banter first and then if a meets on the cards, then show the goods! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But even if a guy had like a really small ugly cock?and they do exist iv seen them haha obviously not mine
He may have amazing oral skills to make up for it lol"
So your a love all cock kinda gal? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would imagine what most people mean is that they don't want to be sent a cock pic and the sender is proud as punch and basically says "look what I have, what are you gone do to it" the women I know prefer to have a bitta banter first and then if a meets on the cards, then show the goods!"
And i understand that,it makes sense but there seems to be some out there that just dont seem botherd with its apperance...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would imagine what most people mean is that they don't want to be sent a cock pic and the sender is proud as punch and basically says "look what I have, what are you gone do to it" the women I know prefer to have a bitta banter first and then if a meets on the cards, then show the goods!
And i understand that,it makes sense but there seems to be some out there that just dont seem botherd with its apperance......"
Maybe they aren't each to their own tbh When I get pics sent to me on email I just don't bother scrolling down to look, problem solved |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would imagine what most people mean is that they don't want to be sent a cock pic and the sender is proud as punch and basically says "look what I have, what are you gone do to it" the women I know prefer to have a bitta banter first and then if a meets on the cards, then show the goods!
And i understand that,it makes sense but there seems to be some out there that just dont seem botherd with its apperance......"
with lolly on that one. I am bothered with its appearance but have yet to come across one in real life to run away from lol
OP are you bothered with how a pussy looks like? Besides the obvious hair or no hair question |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What im getting at really is that a mans cock is pretty essential to sex.so to not be botherd about it is baffling to me....."seen one,seen them all" just dosent make sense to me but hey its a crazy world we live in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would imagine what most people mean is that they don't want to be sent a cock pic and the sender is proud as punch and basically says "look what I have, what are you gone do to it" the women I know prefer to have a bitta banter first and then if a meets on the cards, then show the goods!
And i understand that,it makes sense but there seems to be some out there that just dont seem botherd with its apperance...... with lolly on that one. I am bothered with its appearance but have yet to come across one in real life to run away from lol
OP are you bothered with how a pussy looks like? Besides the obvious hair or no hair question "
Iv never came across one (no pun intended) that i havent liked (or licked) so i cant say wether or not i would be put off.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What im getting at really is that a mans cock is pretty essential to sex.so to not be botherd about it is baffling to me....."seen one,seen them all" just dosent make sense to me but hey its a crazy world we live in"
I think you're safest not to send a cock pic first time around. Women who want to see it probably will ask. Otherwise just ask yourself before you send it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Iv never came across one (no pun intended) that i havent liked (or licked) so i cant say wether or not i would be put off...."
Cast your viewing net wide padawan, when you find yourself looking upside down at the screen and still not being able to figure how she got that in, you'll have your answer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What im getting at really is that a mans cock is pretty essential to sex.so to not be botherd about it is baffling to me....."seen one,seen them all" just dosent make sense to me but hey its a crazy world we live in
I think you're safest not to send a cock pic first time around. Women who want to see it probably will ask. Otherwise just ask yourself before you send it. "
Thats a given the golden rule. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Iv never came across one (no pun intended) that i havent liked (or licked) so i cant say wether or not i would be put off....
Cast your viewing net wide padawan, when you find yourself looking upside down at the screen and still not being able to figure how she got that in, you'll have your answer."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've never sent a cock pic on here, don't feel the need. Women are attracted to men for a lot more reasons than the size or shape of his cock.
It's also a pleasant surprise once they are already attracted and you and you release the 9" monster they weren't expecting. The look on their face is priceless  "
I bet the look is priceless if your the unfortunate bloke that whips out a 3 inch cock with a 45 degree bend in it....wonder would she still be attracted then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never sent a cock pic on here, don't feel the need. Women are attracted to men for a lot more reasons than the size or shape of his cock.
It's also a pleasant surprise once they are already attracted and you and you release the 9" monster they weren't expecting. The look on their face is priceless
I bet the look is priceless if your the unfortunate bloke that whips out a 3 inch cock with a 45 degree bend in it....wonder would she still be attracted then?"
Luckily I'm not that unfortunate but then I guess thes guy's aren't gonna send cock pics anyway. It's usually the guys who think just cause they have a big cock the ladies will be falling over themselves to have a piece of them without having a chat first  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've never sent a cock pic on here, don't feel the need. Women are attracted to men for a lot more reasons than the size or shape of his cock.
It's also a pleasant surprise once they are already attracted and you and you release the 9" monster they weren't expecting. The look on their face is priceless
I bet the look is priceless if your the unfortunate bloke that whips out a 3 inch cock with a 45 degree bend in it....wonder would she still be attracted then?
Luckily I'm not that unfortunate but then I guess thes guy's aren't gonna send cock pics anyway. It's usually the guys who think just cause they have a big cock the ladies will be falling over themselves to have a piece of them without having a chat first "
Personaly i tend to only send a cock pic if requested or after chatting for a bit....i think it would have to be pretty impressive to get response out of just a cock pic but dosent stop blokes from trying.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree Duffer. Have never seen a really small one on here.
Now lads, get them cocks out and stand in line. We want to compare "
You've got no chance!!! Mine only comes out when it's play time  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Agree Duffer. Have never seen a really small one on here.
Now lads, get them cocks out and stand in line. We want to compare "
Youv already seen mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree Duffer. Have never seen a really small one on here.
Now lads, get them cocks out and stand in line. We want to compare "
..Ahhh come on ...they say they all look the same.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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personally I will want to see it eventually, they dont have to send it in a first message and its better if they dont have it as their avatar as I feel like im talkin to nelly the elephant, but guys always want to know what I look like so why shouldn't I want to see what they are like?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"if a guy sends us a pic of a cock or if his avatar is a cick pic , we wont even read it , we just reply and say thanks but no thanks , a cock pic is such a major turn off for us big time , would u meet some one in a club and show them ur cock  dont think so , u would introduce urself , same goes for here but mail instead of face to face unless u meet up in party etc 
mrs crazy "
I havevdone in the past,it didnt go down well.....i agree about cock avatars and first mail cock pics but would you require a cock pic before agreeing a meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree Duffer. Have never seen a really small one on here.
Now lads, get them cocks out and stand in line. We want to compare
You've got no chance!!! Mine only comes out when it's play time "
I was messing! But since you asked us women to line up ourselves this week, I think you shouldn't be so shy |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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I get why ppl don't want cock pics on first message,or at all unless they ask,but i never got "they all look the same",when they don't
just their way of saying to them size doesn't matter i suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get why ppl don't want cock pics on first message,or at all unless they ask,but i never got "they all look the same",when they don't
just their way of saying to them size doesn't matter i suppose"
some are definitely nicer to look at than others, such is life! |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"if a guy sends us a pic of a cock or if his avatar is a cick pic , we wont even read it , we just reply and say thanks but no thanks , a cock pic is such a major turn off for us big time , would u meet some one in a club and show them ur cock dont think so , u would introduce urself , same goes for here but mail instead of face to face unless u meet up in party etc
mrs crazy
I havevdone in the past,it didnt go down well.....i agree about cock avatars and first mail cock pics but would you require a cock pic before agreeing a meet?"
no we defo wouldnt require a cock pic before meet anyone or a foo foo pic either , its just too personal of a thing to ask, just not our thing , but we like to unwrap our suprises
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I get why ppl don't want cock pics on first message,or at all unless they ask,but i never got "they all look the same",when they don't
just their way of saying to them size doesn't matter i suppose"
So why not just say size dosent matter?
Cocks look different not just size...i mean take into it wether it be cut or uncut,a bend which is fairly common,colour and what not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I want a pic I'll ask for it, just sending them in mails irritates me and will just put me off a guy. If I do want to meet a guy I'll more than likely see a pic of it but, again, only when I decide to ask for a picture. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"if a guy sends us a pic of a cock or if his avatar is a cick pic , we wont even read it , we just reply and say thanks but no thanks , a cock pic is such a major turn off for us big time , would u meet some one in a club and show them ur cock dont think so , u would introduce urself , same goes for here but mail instead of face to face unless u meet up in party etc
mrs crazy
I havevdone in the past,it didnt go down well.....i agree about cock avatars and first mail cock pics but would you require a cock pic before agreeing a meet?
no we defo wouldnt require a cock pic before meet anyone or a foo foo pic either , its just too personal of a thing to ask, just not our thing , but we like to unwrap our suprises
mrs crazy "
And if you dont like what you unwrap?continue anyway? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agree Duffer. Have never seen a really small one on here.
Now lads, get them cocks out and stand in line. We want to compare
You've got no chance!!! Mine only comes out when it's play time
I was messing! But since you asked us women to line up ourselves this week, I think you shouldn't be so shy "
Ha ha I know you were missing
I think you'll find the ladies offered to line up and I generously offered to be a judge lol but if you'd like a personal viewing I'm sure my shyness can be overcome |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If some woman asked me for a cock pic before deciding whether she'd meet me or not, I'd tell her where to and I'd tell her fairly lively."
Would you buy a car without test driving it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I want a pic I'll ask for it, just sending them in mails irritates me and will just put me off a guy. If I do want to meet a guy I'll more than likely see a pic of it but, again, only when I decide to ask for a picture. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If some woman asked me for a cock pic before deciding whether she'd meet me or not, I'd tell her where to and I'd tell her fairly lively."
lol can almost feel the sassiness coming through my keyboard! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd only send a cock pic after being sent several teasing pics of various scrumptious body parts..... "
lol, this is it though, I dont think Ive chatted to any guys on here who didnt at one point or another ask for pics of my body etc, so dont see what the big deal is in asking to see the lovegun! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sometimes the way pics are taken can make a cock look big but we got caught out big time or maybe WEE time..put it this way I didn't know it was possible to have such a small penis..actually lost between a finger and thumb. Embarrassing to say the least my hub didn't produce his cos that would've been cruel lol so guys you're better being honest!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what about cum pics? does anyone like them?
I find them very off putting
I don't like cum pics myself, looks like weeping pus  "
yeah I know, it just doesn't work in still pictures, doesn't it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what about cum pics? does anyone like them?
I find them very off putting"
I don't like them either, but I have had partners send me vids before of then cuming and talking to me in the vid while doing it. That's quite hot! |
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"what about cum pics? does anyone like them?
I find them very off putting
I don't like cum pics myself, looks like weeping pus
yeah I know, it just doesn't work in still pictures, doesn't it? "
not at all, i've seen some profiles where that's all they have as well, various pics of a tightly gripped cock(to make it look as big as possible of course) squeezing out the last drips of spunk, not my cup of tea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what about cum pics? does anyone like them?
I find them very off putting"
That's a mixed bag.. sometimes they are done proper sexy and sometimes it's just a woman drenched from head to toe.. definitely a 'less is more' kinda guy :/ :L |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what about cum pics? does anyone like them?
I find them very off putting
I don't like them either, but I have had partners send me vids before of then cuming and talking to me in the vid while doing it. That's quite hot! "
yeah that's totally different, especially when you know someone and it just looks better in a video |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what about cum pics? does anyone like them?
I find them very off putting
I don't like them either, but I have had partners send me vids before of then cuming and talking to me in the vid while doing it. That's quite hot!
yeah that's totally different, especially when you know someone and it just looks better in a video"
And they are doing it just for you aswell. But Defo not a fan of cum pics and especially not all over someone's face |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always look for a cock picture, but only when I feel there is a meet imminent . I don't mind getting them in a mail as long as it's not the only one they send . I had a bad experience a while back when I had not looked for one , the guy had a small forest going on down there ! I stopped play immediately and went back to the party . I don't like them as avatar as I think it cries desperation
I don't like cum shots either.
The notion that all Cocks are the same is like saying all breasts are the same !
So not true !
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"if a guy sends us a pic of a cock or if his avatar is a cick pic , we wont even read it , we just reply and say thanks but no thanks , a cock pic is such a major turn off for us big time , would u meet some one in a club and show them ur cock dont think so , u would introduce urself , same goes for here but mail instead of face to face unless u meet up in party etc
mrs crazy
I havevdone in the past,it didnt go down well.....i agree about cock avatars and first mail cock pics but would you require a cock pic before agreeing a meet?
no we defo wouldnt require a cock pic before meet anyone or a foo foo pic either , its just too personal of a thing to ask, just not our thing , but we like to unwrap our suprises
mrs crazy
And if you dont like what you unwrap?continue anyway?"
we have been lucky , never got dissappointed with cocks lol but its how u use it that counts , we have met guys with below average size and had great fun with them , u could have a guy with a large one and not last long , pot luck really
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"If some woman asked me for a cock pic before deciding whether she'd meet me or not, I'd tell her where to and I'd tell her fairly lively.
Would you buy a car without test driving it?"
No I wouldn't buy a car without testing it as I'd be paying between €20k/€30k for it and I'd keep it for about 3 years.
I don't think a woman would pay €20k/€30k for a guy nor keep him for 3 years. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If some woman asked me for a cock pic before deciding whether she'd meet me or not, I'd tell her where to and I'd tell her fairly lively.
Would you buy a car without test driving it?
No I wouldn't buy a car without testing it as I'd be paying between €20k/€30k for it and I'd keep it for about 3 years.
I don't think a woman would pay €20k/€30k for a guy nor keep him for 3 years."
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Personally I don't like cock pic avatars... and I'm not impressed at receiving one in the first message. .. better when you've been chatting a while or maybe in friends pics. Some are nicer than others! . .. and a lot depends on the angle of the pic  ... But yes it's nice if you're going to play to not be in an awkward position when Mrhunglikeadonkey turns out to be more of a deluded ass |
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