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To gay or not to gay???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Each to their own.
People should be less judgemental of others.
Life is for living and enjoying the adventure"
I'm not being judgemental but people always insist on labels I'm just curious of people's opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own.
People should be less judgemental of others.
Life is for living and enjoying the adventure
I'm not being judgemental but people always insist on labels I'm just curious of people's opinions "
If you have consenting sex with a man your BISEXUAL...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Each to their own.
People should be less judgemental of others.
Life is for living and enjoying the adventure
I'm not being judgemental but people always insist on labels I'm just curious of people's opinions
If you have consenting sex with a man your BISEXUAL... "
But some don't consider it to be a man or be gay this is the thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the opinion on men who indulge in fun with transexuals or maybe transvestites? Gay Bi or Straight opinions please  "
If they do it exclusively all the time, they are probably gay. If they do it half the time and half with women, they are probably bi. If only occasionally with tvs/cds and mostly with women then they are probably more straight/bi curious. But that's only if you are looking for labels...
People feel differently at different times and are consequently, never one thing all the time. Labels are for cans - let's face it. Live and let live and sod the categories and silly judgements. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own.
People should be less judgemental of others.
Life is for living and enjoying the adventure
I'm not being judgemental but people always insist on labels I'm just curious of people's opinions
If you have consenting sex with a man your BISEXUAL...
But some don't consider it to be a man or be gay this is the thing "
If a man wears makeup and dresses like a woman...and you have sex with them they are considered straight?
If a woman wears a jeans,no make up...is she a man? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Each to their own.
People should be less judgemental of others.
Life is for living and enjoying the adventure
I'm not being judgemental but people always insist on labels I'm just curious of people's opinions
If you have consenting sex with a man your BISEXUAL...
But some don't consider it to be a man or be gay this is the thing
If a man wears makeup and dresses like a woman...and you have sex with them they are considered straight?
If a woman wears a jeans,no make up...is she a man? "
Isn't it all about perception what u believe it to be?? I've a site friend who admittedly loves to suck but doesn't consider hitself gay or even bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own.
People should be less judgemental of others.
Life is for living and enjoying the adventure
I'm not being judgemental but people always insist on labels I'm just curious of people's opinions
If you have consenting sex with a man your BISEXUAL...
But some don't consider it to be a man or be gay this is the thing
If a man wears makeup and dresses like a woman...and you have sex with them they are considered straight?
If a woman wears a jeans,no make up...is she a man?
Isn't it all about perception what u believe it to be?? I've a site friend who admittedly loves to suck but doesn't consider hitself gay or even bi"
Honestly I think he bi curious then 
But why label it...
just enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own.
People should be less judgemental of others.
Life is for living and enjoying the adventure
I'm not being judgemental but people always insist on labels I'm just curious of people's opinions
If you have consenting sex with a man your BISEXUAL...
But some don't consider it to be a man or be gay this is the thing "
To be fair if there is a cock there wel then... sorry but to me... thats a man..
no matter what clothes or whatever he or she wears.. i think its amazing.. i would love to me a tv/ts and guys who meet them i would consider them bi.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own.
People should be less judgemental of others.
Life is for living and enjoying the adventure
I'm not being judgemental but people always insist on labels I'm just curious of people's opinions "
I'm not accusing you of been judgemental, it was in general. My opinion is life is for living, don't judge, be happy in yourself and how you treat others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Each to their own.
People should be less judgemental of others.
Life is for living and enjoying the adventure
I'm not being judgemental but people always insist on labels I'm just curious of people's opinions
If you have consenting sex with a man your BISEXUAL...
But some don't consider it to be a man or be gay this is the thing
To be fair if there is a cock there wel then... sorry but to me... thats a man..
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Maybe it's a MAHOOSIVE clit??
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the opinion on men who indulge in fun with transexuals or maybe transvestites? Gay Bi or Straight opinions please "
If you play with same sex transexuals/ tvs or men/women your gay.
If you play with both sexes whether it is transexuals/tv or men/women your bi.
If you play with the opposite sex your straight, I don't see where the grey area would be? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the opinion on men who indulge in fun with transexuals or maybe transvestites? Gay Bi or Straight opinions please
If you play with same sex transexuals/ tvs or men/women your gay.
If you play with both sexes whether it is transexuals/tv or men/women your bi.
If you play with the opposite sex your straight, I don't see where the grey area would be? "
I believe they are questioning if a tv/ts is classed as a man or a woman.. |
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A transexual, regardless of pre- or post-operative, considers themselves to be female so you should remove the terminology 'gay' from your subject unless you are deliberately trying to be offensive. Which i am sure you are not.
(Unless you are talking about female to male transexuals who dont seem to exist on fabs). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the opinion on men who indulge in fun with transexuals or maybe transvestites? Gay Bi or Straight opinions please
If you play with same sex transexuals/ tvs or men/women your gay.
If you play with both sexes whether it is transexuals/tv or men/women your bi.
If you play with the opposite sex your straight, I don't see where the grey area would be?
I believe they are questioning if a tv/ts is classed as a man or a woman.. "
That's what I'm taking from it too, but isn't up to the tv/transexual/person to decide which gender the consider the person to be and go from there. It doesn't need to be made difficult |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the opinion on men who indulge in fun with transexuals or maybe transvestites? Gay Bi or Straight opinions please
If you play with same sex transexuals/ tvs or men/women your gay.
If you play with both sexes whether it is transexuals/tv or men/women your bi.
If you play with the opposite sex your straight, I don't see where the grey area would be?
I believe they are questioning if a tv/ts is classed as a man or a woman..
That's what I'm taking from it too, but isn't up to the tv/transexual/person to decide which gender the consider the person to be and go from there. It doesn't need to be made difficult "
I dont know and ill say no more for fear if getting attacked....... |
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"What's the opinion on men who indulge in fun with transexuals or maybe transvestites? Gay Bi or Straight opinions please
If you play with same sex transexuals/ tvs or men/women your gay.
If you play with both sexes whether it is transexuals/tv or men/women your bi.
If you play with the opposite sex your straight, I don't see where the grey area would be?
I believe they are questioning if a tv/ts is classed as a man or a woman..
That's what I'm taking from it too, but isn't up to the tv/transexual/person to decide which gender the consider the person to be and go from there. It doesn't need to be made difficult "
Everyone has the right to decide their own gender and their own sexuality. The OP has a problem in his question in that he confuses two very different things - transsexualism and transvestitism and, as does fabs, lumps them into one. A transexual regards themselves as female and everyone else on fabs should afford them the same courtsey.
Both TS and TVs face huge discrimination and oppression in Ireland and it would be nice to think that fabs is one place their preferences and choices could be respected. |
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I don't think people should judge anyone's choices. ... It's up to each person what they like. .Who they want to play with. .. and what they want to do
if that doesn't appeal to another person or someone judges them by it. .. It's simple. . Move on to someone else who doesn't inspire those feelings .. No? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don't thinks it's a grey area but to me there is a lot variations of them all.
To me I'd say Bi but only to play with couples but never just guys alone. Doesn't work for me....
I don't look at men in any sexual way just women but if couples come in a package then sexual fun to me is different so it's all open to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you think a transsexual is a woman in her mind (which they are) and you have sex with one then you're straight, open minded.
If you see a tv/cd as a guy that will bottom for you, will let you fuck, will suck your dick, and its a man in drag, then you're gay or bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've been reluctant to out down bi curious on my profile and lately I have. I'm curious about it, dunno if I will like it or not. Does that make me bi? I'm thinking curious until otherwise and if I meet a nice cpl to pop my cherry so to speak, I may not like it. Would I be straight with no more curiosity again in the eyes of Fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't agree with putting labeled on if Simone is bi,straight, or gay. I just beleve in consenting adults who are attracted to each other either physically or emotionally having an amazing sex life. I do not have any right to judge others and therefor others should not judge me. If we all live by that saying life will be rosy, p,s. I'm free this morning lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Plenty of women who kiss and play with other women are convinced they are 100% straight..but they aren't! It's not labelling anyone but it is curious...bicurious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Why do people feel that everyone needs labelling how many guys do u think are on this site that would be curious but to afraid to put it on their profile?? It's crazy to think people are still worried about stiff like that in this day an age especially in this environment |
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"I don't agree with putting labeled on if Simone is bi,straight, or gay. I just beleve in consenting adults who are attracted to each other either physically or emotionally having an amazing sex life. I do not have any right to judge others and therefor others should not judge me. If we all live by that saying life will be rosy, p,s. I'm free this morning lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people feel that everyone needs labelling how many guys do u think are on this site that would be curious but to afraid to put it on their profile?? It's crazy to think people are still worried about stiff like that in this day an age especially in this environment "
Your the one who asked for a opinion... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well unfortunately people will always have strong opinions on things that don't affect them. So people need to do what make them happy and screw the begrudgers |
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.... "judgemental" is such a horrible word. It immediately makes the conclusion you have come to, sound like a bad one. We all do it whether you mean to or not, but just because you label someone, it doesn't mean it's a bad thing! It's just the way our minds work, trying to group things together and make sense of it.
I prefer to "asses" peoples preferences  sounds less invasive than judging, as I said before, I do not care about what people do or what they like.
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"Why do people feel that everyone needs labelling how many guys do u think are on this site that would be curious but to afraid to put it on their profile?? It's crazy to think people are still worried about stiff like that in this day an age especially in this environment
Your the one who asked for a opinion... "
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