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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Getting alot of mails lately saying how can i get a vert no one wont meet me cause i have no verts and so on and i seen here in the forums about how can i get a vert so how would this sound where willing too help a few out to get them started i was thinking of having an afternoon coffee meet for those who wish too be vertified noting special thoughts everyone xx |
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"Getting alot of mails lately saying how can i get a vert no one wont meet me cause i have no verts and so on and i seen here in the forums about how can i get a vert so how would this sound where willing too help a few out to get them started i was thinking of having an afternoon coffee meet for those who wish too be vertified noting special thoughts everyone xx"
Myself and another member were saying we would do this in Galway
Newbie amnesty so to speak ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Getting alot of mails lately saying how can i get a vert no one wont meet me cause i have no verts and so on and i seen here in the forums about how can i get a vert so how would this sound where willing too help a few out to get them started i was thinking of having an afternoon coffee meet for those who wish too be vertified noting special thoughts everyone xx
Myself and another member were saying we would do this in Galway
Newbie amnesty so to speak ! "
just an idea cause theres quite few down are way wexford waterford areas well if i get intrest il arrange it down here one afternoon just too give guys a chance i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Someone tried it before. ... no one showed.
There are some people that are on here that if you drove to their nearest hotel/got them a cab/gave them a piggy back in... they still wouldn't show up...
•All talk
•Haven't the balls to make the step (may I suggest Facebook)
**obviously some do show up** |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Someone tried it before. ... no one showed.
There are some people that are on here that if you drove to their nearest hotel/got them a cab/gave them a piggy back in... they still wouldn't show up...
•All talk
•Haven't the balls to make the step (may I suggest Facebook)
**obviously some do show up**"
was thinking along the same lines lol but im addicted too coffee so its a win win for me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Name and shame the timewasters (aka assholes/no balls), they can usually be spotted wen they make a new profile. Ps milk no sugar and a choccy digestive please and thank |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Name and shame the timewasters (aka assholes/no balls), they can usually be spotted wen they make a new profile. Ps milk no sugar and a choccy digestive please and thank "
is that a new profile you have?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Name and shame the timewasters (aka assholes/no balls), they can usually be spotted wen they make a new profile. Ps milk no sugar and a choccy digestive please and thank
is that a new profile you have? "
it is indeed but unlike some idiots on here I actually do meet people and have been verified on my last profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just a few thoughts here, no doubt I'll be lynched.
I do understand the frustrations of single guys trying to get verified but I do worry about these mass coffee meet things just to get a green tick.
Coffee meets for me are for meeting someone with a view of taking things much further. Handy for getting to know someone a little better if you've never met them at a party, social M&G or they are unverified. I'm not comfortable meeting someone for a coffee just cause they want a blurb on their profile. I've had coffee meets where verifications were never left and some were I'm happy out writing something about them.
I think there is too much emphasis on a green tick and not enough actual networking and having a half decent convo with the person your talking to. No one has it easy when they join a site like this including me. When I joined many moons ago there was a lot of word of mouth and a huge amount of trust involved. Just cause you joined a site it didn't mean you were guaranteed swinger status. Maybe it's me but a lot of single guys join here think they are owed something and have a right. It couldn't be more further from the truth. We've all had to put in the effort. Sorry for waffling on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a few thoughts here, no doubt I'll be lynched.
I do understand the frustrations of single guys trying to get verified but I do worry about these mass coffee meet things just to get a green tick.
Coffee meets for me are for meeting someone with a view of taking things much further. Handy for getting to know someone a little better if you've never met them at a party, social M&G or they are unverified. I'm not comfortable meeting someone for a coffee just cause they want a blurb on their profile. I've had coffee meets where verifications were never left and some were I'm happy out writing something about them.
I think there is too much emphasis on a green tick and not enough actual networking and having a half decent convo with the person your talking to. No one has it easy when they join a site like this including me. When I joined many moons ago there was a lot of word of mouth and a huge amount of trust involved. Just cause you joined a site it didn't mean you were guaranteed swinger status. Maybe it's me but a lot of single guys join here think they are owed something and have a right. It couldn't be more further from the truth. We've all had to put in the effort. Sorry for waffling on. "
I agree, was on the site a while back got nice verifies by meeting some girls for fun, then wen you don't meet them again for a while after leaving the site you come back on the site you ask for a re verify and they either write a shit one or none because you won't meet them every week,,so it's like starting over again, just be careful who we meet next time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Jeez only trying too help some people if we met we will always leave a vert like the recent cork party we met tons and left vert for some people and some never returned a vert its the nature of the site really but im just trying too help get group too meet up for a coffee in order for me too see them in person and leave them a vert so there some what vertified as real and genuine thats all people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jeez only trying too help some people if we met we will always leave a vert like the recent cork party we met tons and left vert for some people and some never returned a vert its the nature of the site really but im just trying too help get group too meet up for a coffee in order for me too see them in person and leave them a vert so there some what vertified as real and genuine thats all people "
go for it, it's a great idea pitty there's wasn't one near belfast I'd be there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a few thoughts here, no doubt I'll be lynched.
I do understand the frustrations of single guys trying to get verified but I do worry about these mass coffee meet things just to get a green tick.
Coffee meets for me are for meeting someone with a view of taking things much further. Handy for getting to know someone a little better if you've never met them at a party, social M&G or they are unverified. I'm not comfortable meeting someone for a coffee just cause they want a blurb on their profile. I've had coffee meets where verifications were never left and some were I'm happy out writing something about them.
I think there is too much emphasis on a green tick and not enough actual networking and having a half decent convo with the person your talking to. No one has it easy when they join a site like this including me. When I joined many moons ago there was a lot of word of mouth and a huge amount of trust involved. Just cause you joined a site it didn't mean you were guaranteed swinger status. Maybe it's me but a lot of single guys join here think they are owed something and have a right. It couldn't be more further from the truth. We've all had to put in the effort. Sorry for waffling on. "
I just want to know what is spatchcocked poussin! |
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