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do single guys really want cpls
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think that could be the norm. And for the life of me just cannot believe how that could be true of you: especially if they looked at your photos. Great pics and a gorgeous body.  |
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
"Well I'd meet couples but only play with female.
I enjoy meeting couples as its better craic 3-4 people is always great conversation/craic wise"
Yes I agree the few 3 sums we have had were a lot of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.
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One thing that turns me off couples is thier lack of communication (with each other)
One replies to your mail and its flowing then the other comes back hours later and confuses things lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I'd meet couples but only play with female.
I enjoy meeting couples as its better craic 3-4 people is always great conversation/craic wise
Yes I agree the few 3 sums we have had were a lot of fun"
Organise another  |
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
"I don't think that could be the norm. And for the life of me just cannot believe how that could be true of you: especially if they looked at your photos. Great pics and a gorgeous body. "
Believe it lol....find at the start but cold feet seems to set in....thanks for the complement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got messaged by a couple who had a bi male but their profile said he was straight. . When i said i would not play with the male i got the reply "sure most guys here are bi " . . So even though i would like to meet a couple i am a little wary. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I'd meet couples but only play with female.
I enjoy meeting couples as its better craic 3-4 people is always great conversation/craic wise
Yes I agree the few 3 sums we have had were a lot of fun
yea id love to join a Cpl ,,never had a 3some
Organise another "
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.
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thank you nice to see I just might be wrong |
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.
One thing that turns me off couples is thier lack of communication (with each other)
One replies to your mail and its flowing then the other comes back hours later and confuses things lol"
Can see how that would be a downer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.
thank you nice to see I just might be wrong"
Yeah you're wrong  lol if yer genuine and are willing to meet there are PLENTY of male profiles here who would jump at meeting ye |
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I got messaged by a couple who had a bi male but their profile said he was straight. . When i said i would not play with the male i got the reply "sure most guys here are bi " . . So even though i would like to meet a couple i am a little wary. . "
Can understand that completely but that was very unfair of that cpl...ppl should be truthfull...saves time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't bother me. I ve have my fair share of 3 somes with couples and have loved every min of them. After all it is a swinging site and there letting you in on there fantasy / fun  |
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.
thank you nice to see I just might be wrong
Yeah you're wrong lol if yer genuine and are willing to meet there are PLENTY of male profiles here who would jump at meeting ye"
Must be going about it the wrong way...always thought it was best to block all males and look at profiles ourselves thought it less rude then not answering messages but maybe its time to change strategy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this"
Don't know what's wrong with them, I so would!
Get that kettle on neighbour! |
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this
Don't know what's wrong with them, I so would!
Get that kettle on neighbour! "
Hi there ....yes were so close it would be rude not to lol |
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Majority of couples I encounter fall into two categories.
1 - the male half only ever speaks/communicates and knows what she wants and google image search usually pokes a big hole in his story.
2 - the couples can't accommodate and state the other party of the meet "must", I ain't trusting of couples that insist on the meet being at my place.
This is from my experience and my opinion I meet with couples in the UK on occasion and it was fun, but find it hard to built trust when there's only communication with the guy or rules and requirements before a hello. |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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we find it can be hard to meet single guys too as we would only meet them if were away for a weekend as its much easier as we can accom then , but it can be tough as alot of guys just talk the talk and dont walk the walk so thats why we just hook up with single guys as at parties , much easier 
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Majority of couples I encounter fall into two categories.
1 - the male half only ever speaks/communicates and knows what she wants and google image search usually pokes a big hole in his story.
2 - the couples can't accommodate and state the other party of the meet "must", I ain't trusting of couples that insist on the meet being at my place.
This is from my experience and my opinion I meet with couples in the UK on occasion and it was fun, but find it hard to built trust when there's only communication with the guy or rules and requirements before a hello."
Time for a new category .....my husband is seldom on and have to say he prefers to chat to women when he is on...
We would never insist on someone accommodating cause that's a huge ask hotel is best |
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The category one guys are usually easy to spot "tell me what you want to do to my wife" if that's one of there opening lines I just block them
And I'm sure there are genuine rational couples I'm not generalising just going by my experience so far |
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
"we find it can be hard to meet single guys too as we would only meet them if were away for a weekend as its much easier as we can accom then , but it can be tough as alot of guys just talk the talk and dont walk the walk so thats why we just hook up with single guys as at parties , much easier
mrs crazy "
Exactly the same for us Mrs crazy there for a while I thought we were the only cpl finding this....we do the same at parties but have found on the few occasions when we met alone it was much better more time to enjoy ...but I agree a lot like the idea but difficult getting them to follow through |
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"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this"
. Most of my meets are couples as there are a lot more on the site than singles . However I always read their profile carefully and only contact them if I am a match. Meeting couples can often be better than singles .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well I'd meet couples but only play with female.
I enjoy meeting couples as its better craic 3-4 people is always great conversation/craic wise
totally agree "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am straight, I would meet a mf couple. I would be there for the girl, but if they wanted me to slap the guy around and pee on him I probably would. As long as he was into it.
Most couples who message me are short notice, I don't know them, its normally a bit far away. |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"I am straight, I would meet a mf couple. I would be there for the girl, but if they wanted me to slap the guy around and pee on him I probably would. As long as he was into it.
Most couples who message me are short notice, I don't know them, its normally a bit far away."
we be dublin a bit 
mrs crazy |
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I am straight, I would meet a mf couple. I would be there for the girl, but if they wanted me to slap the guy around and pee on him I probably would. As long as he was into it.
Most couples who message me are short notice, I don't know them, its normally a bit far away."
Don't fancy your chances of getting away with it if he wasn't lol....but ya distance is usually a problem as a coffee meet is always a must for us first and its a big ask for someone to travel just for a coffee |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One thing that turns me off couples is thier lack of communication (with each other)
One replies to your mail and its flowing then the other comes back hours later and confuses things lol"
That's why myself mark do the mailing and show her the interested. Saves confusion. |
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By *hillMan
over a year ago
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"I am straight, I would meet a mf couple. I would be there for the girl, but if they wanted me to slap the guy around and pee on him I probably would. As long as he was into it.
Most couples who message me are short notice, I don't know them, its normally a bit far away.
Don't fancy your chances of getting away with it if he wasn't lol....but ya distance is usually a problem as a coffee meet is always a must for us first and its a big ask for someone to travel just for a coffee"
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"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this"
have to agree lots of offers but a hell of a lot of let downs over the years too. Mostly due to being nervous course other sudden death of grannies uncles cats dogs or weddings they forgot about lol |
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I have met couples in the past and every experience was different.
When chatting here you never know who you are chatting to whether is the m or f member, Does the other party know can be an issue too as meets can be sprung on them, Too many first timers and pushy people also.
I as a single guy prefer one on one fun with single females, its alot more straight forward, couples are too much drama for me. |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"Meeting couples has been just a good and exciting as meeting singles. So I defo would not have a problem meeting you, you have great profile.
One thing that turns me off couples is thier lack of communication (with each other)
One replies to your mail and its flowing then the other comes back hours later and confuses things lol"
we both on mobile all day every day so its both of us that would be in contact with others here as we just fowllow on with mails as so far we havent had any problems with it yet , so we know whats going on from the moment a conversation is going , if we have a problem we would contact by fone if not together , or if there are pics to be viewed so we would see them together
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90% of the meets I've had are with couples. I joined fab for group fun and I'm not about to have a mff anytime soon so couples are where its at. I love meeting them. Mfm is one of my fave things to do. |
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"90% of the meets I've had are with couples. I joined fab for group fun and I'm not about to have a mff anytime soon so couples are where its at. I love meeting them. Mfm is one of my fave things to do. "
Mime too! |
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"90% of the meets I've had are with couples. I joined fab for group fun and I'm not about to have a mff anytime soon so couples are where its at. I love meeting them. Mfm is one of my fave things to do.
Mime too! "
I think we could help each other out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So far so good for us. ,any guys that we made arrangements with turned up and all went well .Suppose it's just the luck of the draw but with you guys having. Such a great profile and pics it amazes us you haven't had better experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"90% of the meets I've had are with couples. I joined fab for group fun and I'm not about to have a mff anytime soon so couples are where its at. I love meeting them. Mfm is one of my fave things to do. "
Oh and mine |
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On fab for various reasons, biggest one being able to meet couples for mutual pleasure, being a straight voyeuristic exhibitionist playing with couples ticks all the boxes , but one on ones are good too!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"90% of the meets I've had are with couples. I joined fab for group fun and I'm not about to have a mff anytime soon so couples are where its at. I love meeting them. Mfm is one of my fave things to do. "
Ours too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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actually, if a single guy says he wants to meet a couple, and then develops mononucleosis in the process, and does it repeatedly, that is just pure plain false advertising. right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this"
Prob because u have males blocked.... Numnuts lol |
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
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To those guys that pointed out we have guys blocked....we already know that but if you read the profile you will see why....its always better to read the profile never know what you might learn....
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I've met a few couples in my time. I quiet enjoy it as its up there with my favourite scenarios. Single guys cant mail ye though.  "
Yes that's right we rather read profiles and hopefully see someone that we might get along with....we think it saves everyone's time...but thanks for taking the trouble to post |
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
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"So far so good for us. ,any guys that we made arrangements with turned up and all went well .Suppose it's just the luck of the draw but with you guys having. Such a great profile and pics it amazes us you haven't had better experiences."
We have had some great meets with guys...just surprised at the number who have cpls on their profiles but have zero interest in meeting them |
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"I've met a few couples in my time. I quiet enjoy it as its up there with my favourite scenarios. Single guys cant mail ye though.
Yes that's right we rather read profiles and hopefully see someone that we might get along with....we think it saves everyone's time...but thanks for taking the trouble to post"
No worries at all. I take your point. |
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By *avie t OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Most single guys have women and cpls on their profiles..... But we have found that most are reluctant to meet us as a cpl....Mr Davie t is straight so that's not the problem....just wondered if other ppl found this have to agree lots of offers but a hell of a lot of let downs over the years too. Mostly due to being nervous course other sudden death of grannies uncles cats dogs or weddings they forgot about lol "
I think cold feet is a big problem |
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By *itreMan
over a year ago
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Interesting post. Have met some great couples in my time..and perhaps one or two.."others". Always read profile carefully to make sure i fit what couple are looking for. Then, whatever the distance, coffee meet is essential. That way both parties will know if there is a further. , more intimate meeting possible.
In my age, however, find that i cannot now seem to contact couples who may appeal.. Travel occasionally to England and do find that couples look for the mature man more.. but, as we have always said...each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fantasy V. Reality
For us the 'fantasy' is not the meet. For us the fantasy begins when what we have in our minds comes to fruition.
Nothing deflates us more than a meet that doesn't do what it says on the tin.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fantasy V. Reality
For us the 'fantasy' is not the meet. For us the fantasy begins when what we have in our minds comes to fruition.
Nothing deflates us more than a meet that doesn't do what it says on the tin.
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Hi...xxplicit here...friends call me ronseal |
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Hi Davie,
From my experience, I have found it very difficult to meet with couples and they would be my first choice. I often thisnk th my bi status must be putting couples off ...but most times I dont get a chance to find out!
I would love to have chat and see where it leads....just to prove there are genuine guys on here...Jay |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The only thing I would say is that on a couples profile it's not always easy to distinguish between which profile is for male and which is for female profile...and if one is set to bi or bicurious then your in no mans land...so to speak |
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