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men and women on the same page?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You get countless messages from men in here is it all in the chase and nothing else not even talking about love or anything of that sort but repeat meets at least. Guys claim they're looking for it then they get clingy any thoughts peeps! |
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Guys thinking: Jesus the amount of work to meet somebody here....wait here's someone that wants to meet! And we click! Wow the sex is great! Jesus I hope we can do this regularly otherwise I'm gonna have to go thorough all that work again.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The perfect woman is the woman who acts out all your dirty desires and then lets you be free to do as you wish.
So when you find that woman, hold onto her.
Its a cruel cosmic joke. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The perfect woman is the woman who acts out all your dirty desires and then lets you be free to do as you wish.
So when you find that woman, hold onto her.
Its a cruel cosmic joke."
Exactly but do guys get that that ya it can be that way without her getting stuck on him and have the freedom to do her own thing! Think the chase mentally is Alive and well ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guys thinking: Jesus the amount of work to meet somebody here....wait here's someone that wants to meet! And we click! Wow the sex is great! Jesus I hope we can do this regularly otherwise I'm gonna have to go thorough all that work again...."
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find it easy to separate sex and love on here...but I would say, that if your meeting one or two people regularly then..as a guy anyway..your less likely to put in all the hard work...and end up just posting in the forums constantly...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find it easy to separate sex and love on here...but I would say, that if your meeting one or two people regularly then..as a guy anyway..your less likely to put in all the hard work...and end up just posting in the forums constantly... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find it easy to separate sex and love on here...but I would say, that if your meeting one or two people regularly then..as a guy anyway..your less likely to put in all the hard work...and end up just posting in the forums constantly... "
Ahh S I love ya x
I know what I'm doing wrong! I just want some fun nsa used to hate that term lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Women can do the same. In Ireland women reward jealousy and possessiveness a lot.
I have had girls dump me, because I didn't get jealous seeing them talk to another guy, and that means I don't care.
If a guys only reason for getting possessive is it was hard work getting a meet in the first place, then the guy has issues he needs to deal with it. That's pretty needy lazy attitude to have and maybe its that attitude that is unattractive not them wanting you aagain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it easy to separate sex and love on here...but I would say, that if your meeting one or two people regularly then..as a guy anyway..your less likely to put in all the hard work...and end up just posting in the forums constantly... "
Exactly this...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it easy to separate sex and love on here...but I would say, that if your meeting one or two people regularly then..as a guy anyway..your less likely to put in all the hard work...and end up just posting in the forums constantly...
Ahh S I love ya x
I know what I'm doing wrong! I just want some fun nsa used to hate that term lol"
Ya need to cm back up here...u can mff fun if ya want  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Women can do the same. In Ireland women reward jealousy and possessiveness a lot.
I have had girls dump me, because I didn't get jealous seeing them talk to another guy, and that means I don't care.
If a guys only reason for getting possessive is it was hard work getting a meet in the first place, then the guy has issues he needs to deal with it. That's pretty needy lazy attitude to have and maybe its that attitude that is unattractive not them wanting you aagain."
Ya maybe seems like a whole lot of unwanted politics to me dear jesus just enjoy the fecking thing! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find it easy to separate sex and love on here...but I would say, that if your meeting one or two people regularly then..as a guy anyway..your less likely to put in all the hard work...and end up just posting in the forums constantly...
Ahh S I love ya x
I know what I'm doing wrong! I just want some fun nsa used to hate that term lol
Ya need to cm back up here...u can mff fun if ya want "
Think its the place to go S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it easy to separate sex and love on here...but I would say, that if your meeting one or two people regularly then..as a guy anyway..your less likely to put in all the hard work...and end up just posting in the forums constantly...
Ahh S I love ya x
I know what I'm doing wrong! I just want some fun nsa used to hate that term lol
Ya need to cm back up here...u can mff fun if ya want
Think its the place to go S x"
Ffs...by the looks if things cork is the place to go!!
Loves ya too  (nsa sex only  ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find it easy to separate sex and love on here...but I would say, that if your meeting one or two people regularly then..as a guy anyway..your less likely to put in all the hard work...and end up just posting in the forums constantly...
Exactly this... "
I like the idea of a repeat meet or fb at least that way you at least get to explore each other a little. The quick fuck does nothing For me the initial excitement is over in a flash but each to their own just wish people were straight up! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it easy to separate sex and love on here...but I would say, that if your meeting one or two people regularly then..as a guy anyway..your less likely to put in all the hard work...and end up just posting in the forums constantly...
Ahh S I love ya x
I know what I'm doing wrong! I just want some fun nsa used to hate that term lol"
Then J you have come back to the right place |
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I still meet guys that I have met since first on here... Never had the L word used. I have no problem separating lust from anything else and it's always made very clear I am not looking for anything more than occasional fun..... Never had anyone have an issue with it tbh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is possible to find repeat meets with the right people here, you have to put in some effort though. I've a couple of regulars and we respect each others boundaries. Its all about the fun when we do meet n there's no drama outside of that. I thought I'd never get what I wanted here, but eventually I found it and I'm a happy camper now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is possible to find repeat meets with the right people here, you have to put in some effort though. I've a couple of regulars and we respect each others boundaries. Its all about the fun when we do meet n there's no drama outside of that. I thought I'd never get what I wanted here, but eventually I found it and I'm a happy camper now"
Have had a few like that in the past and it's great to have a regular fb. |
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"It is possible to find repeat meets with the right people here, you have to put in some effort though. I've a couple of regulars and we respect each others boundaries. Its all about the fun when we do meet n there's no drama outside of that. I thought I'd never get what I wanted here, but eventually I found it and I'm a happy camper now"
Checked profile, read first line....got sad  |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"I still meet guys that I have met since first on here... Never had the L word used. I have no problem separating lust from anything else and it's always made very clear I am not looking for anything more than occasional fun..... Never had anyone have an issue with it tbh "
Same here never ever been a issue....maybe its different when your already part of a cpl and they know its not going anywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You get countless messages from men in here is it all in the chase and nothing else not even talking about love or anything of that sort but repeat meets at least. Guys claim they're looking for it then they get clingy any thoughts peeps!"
thought this site was supposed to be fun lol jaysusssssss repeat meets yeah of course if things works out but bloody hellllllll dont mention the L word |
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