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Eh dilemma time

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have noticed I got a fab from a couple which meant I looked at their profile as u do. But her distinctive tattoo with hair made me relize they could be neighbours now the dilemma is in play I have seen her/him nude in pics and vice versa they want to exchange face pics but tbh same road same pub same near circle of friends. I am 90% sure it's them the car in one of the outdoor pics sealed if for me exactly the same as theirs. Do I continue the engage ? Or leave well enough alone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well sweetie I'm pretty sure they are going to put the pieces together after this thread so I suggest you tell them you think you may know them.after all they are on here too and I'm sure won't want go telling people you are here.. Xx

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Tell them....but add that your not sure....and you would rather not continue to mail...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would be no harm to mention ye might be closer than what they think and if so all depends if u want to play that close to home ..best of luck whatever you decide

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't be inclined to, they could have gobby mouths and tell people you're on this site...it seems it has happened to people where photos were being shown around so I'd think carefully if I were you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had the same dilemma twice here, I came clean both times, as if they know I'm here and I know they are here then we have dirt on each other. Plus if I hadn't of said it then I would have always wondered if they knew it was me and would they be saying it to other mutual friends of ours, least with it out on the open we both agreed that it's our little secret

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By *idandnancy69Couple over a year ago

carrickfergus

This,has happened to me three times,but not through photos initially,swapping messages,they had down each time that they lived approx 30 mile away,sent face pic,and got reply,i know you turned out they lived in the same town fs

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By *llie and ApplesCouple over a year ago

where ever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This happened to me a while back. Unfortunately the person still wanted to play and when got declined tried.to out me to mutual friends. Luckily none of them gave a shit but there are drawbacks to realising you know someone

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By *aid backMan over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"This happened to me a while back. Unfortunately the person still wanted to play and when got declined tried.to out me to mutual friends. Luckily none of them gave a shit but there are drawbacks to realising you know someone "

what kind of a wanker does that ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A serious one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My cousin msged me here one day sent a pic in the first msg! He's not single and I certainly didn't want to have that conversation with him!! So I just blocked him and never replied!

if I was you id steer well clear...my secret life is so much more fun when it's just that...my little secret.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My cousin msged me here one day sent a pic in the first msg! He's not single and I certainly didn't want to have that conversation with him!! So I just blocked him and never replied!

if I was you id steer well clear...my secret life is so much more fun when it's just that...my little secret.

This..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

all good ideas so far,,but as i said just uncomfotbale with the idea,,too close for comfort same pub as local,,etc dont think we have ever even spoken ,,i maybe have bumped into him watching a match at the local..but as none of my own mates have any idea,,i think it would be too close,,,now im wondering if we ever bump into each other at a m n g,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

personally, I'd ignore any further emails or attempts to contact me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"all good ideas so far,,but as i said just uncomfotbale with the idea,,too close for comfort same pub as local,,etc dont think we have ever even spoken ,,i maybe have bumped into him watching a match at the local..but as none of my own mates have any idea,,i think it would be too close,,,now im wondering if we ever bump into each other at a m n g,,"
they will expect the same privacy as what you will I'd hope

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