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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi how do u get invited to a swingers party?iv been to a couple of meets where two couples were there but would love to go to a full blown swingers party.any parties that are advertised in the meets section are always full up when i message the organising couple.always seems to be the same people going to the parties.anybody any ideas?or is it just coz im not part of the click lol?xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep....probably....people have to get to know you.. Dont give up!"
meet and greets. Face to face people will remember u and ur veris will stand to u It will happen. There is a couple of reasons why parties don't get advertised
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you want to join in the chat here on the forums do and if there is anything happening you will see it here
not so much parties but the likes of the cork m&g that is happening soon . go to things like that and you will get to know people .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep....probably....people have to get to know you.. Dont give up! meet and greets. Face to face people will remember u and ur veris will stand to u It will happen. There is a couple of reasons why parties don't get advertised "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Party organisers tend to have a small rota of single guys who they know are reliable, good in a party environment and will turn up and tend to give these guys first refusal on the limited single guy invites. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you believe there are 'clicks' on Fab.. do you think the best way to get into these 'clicks' is to whine about being excluded. Everyone in these 'clicks' were once outsiders too and they managed it.
The best way to get involved in parties is to make trusted friends in the scene. Get to know people and earn their trust and friendship. Meet socially and use every opportunity to show that you are honest safe and reliable.
Its the same as any other group of people in any other part of society. Reputation and networking. |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"If you believe there are 'clicks' on Fab.. do you think the best way to get into these 'clicks' is to whine about being excluded. Everyone in these 'clicks' were once outsiders too and they managed it.
The best way to get involved in parties is to make trusted friends in the scene. Get to know people and earn their trust and friendship. Meet socially and use every opportunity to show that you are honest safe and reliable.
Its the same as any other group of people in any other part of society. Reputation and networking."
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Party organisers tend to have a small rota of single guys who they know are reliable, good in a party environment and will turn up and tend to give these guys first refusal on the limited single guy invites."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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stooge if your serious about going to a a party and will turn up we will get you invited along to next one..
we seem to be just doing parties at the minute and always like to get new singles along, so, will mail you with details of next one
^^ all the points are valid by previous posters, and there are a lot of regular guys cus theyre trustworthy
theres always loads of new ppl being invited along so as to not get a 'clique'
anyone else looking to dip into a few parties, just mail
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you believe there are 'clicks' on Fab.. do you think the best way to get into these 'clicks' is to whine about being excluded. Everyone in these 'clicks' were once outsiders too and they managed it.
The best way to get involved in parties is to make trusted friends in the scene. Get to know people and earn their trust and friendship. Meet socially and use every opportunity to show that you are honest safe and reliable.
Its the same as any other group of people in any other part of society. Reputation and networking."
oh so u admit there is clicks on fab???i have no wish to get into any click just think everyone shud be treated the same.i have met lots of couples and made good friends everyone knows im genuine honest and reliable just want to go to the odd party or two and have lots of horny fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"stooge if your serious about going to a a party and will turn up we will get you invited along to next one..
we seem to be just doing parties at the minute and always like to get new singles along, so, will mail you with details of next one
^^ all the points are valid by previous posters, and there are a lot of regular guys cus theyre trustworthy
theres always loads of new ppl being invited along so as to not get a 'clique'
anyone else looking to dip into a few parties, just mail
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hi crazy thanks for ur reply yea I'm serious and i will defo turn up many couples on here will verify that.so if u let me know when the next one is thanks 
my point exactly bout a click it must get boring meeting with the same people all the time bit like a stale marriage lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yeah, sorted.. will mail u
deffo.. total understanding the clique point.. I think most party organisers would love to see new faces, and at most parties there are always new faces..
however there comes a point when so many regulars start to want to go to same party that theres too many numbers, then, that's where people start to fall out etc..... sighhhhh
parties r great relaxed way of meeting ne people without having to shag them there and then.. can always make private arrangements at a later date |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the word clique can be a little over used,I see it as people who are here a while get to know each other and gravitate to each other because of that.When we go to a party or M&G we would still feel a little nervous or shy(really)so would tend to start chatting to someone we know first before moving around and try to make new friends.If we see people on their own looking nervous we would go over and chat to them and help them settle in if possible but at the start of the night we'd probably be a bit shy with strangers ourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single guys are notoriously unreliable in turning up at parties. Normally down to stagefright, or in reality, they can't get away at the weekend, without the wife asking questions.....am I wrong?? lol
Hosts generally stick with guys recommended by the couples/ladies, or who have verifs, confirming they regularly attend parties.
I'm all for giving single guys a chance but honestly, if you invite 12, it's likely only 4 or 5 will show. "Car trouble" and "Called into work" being the most common excuses.........oh and every one of them 'isn't a bullshitter'
woody u invited me to one of ur parties u took my num and were supposed to text me the location im still waiting on the text so if we don't get the location address how can we turn up.so mayb u shud think twice before labelling everyone as a timewaster.  "
The factual version being that YOU contacted me, requesting an invite. I said I was collecting info, of all interested and you sent your number in one of your numerous messages. At NO POINT, was an invite extended to you, nor were you left waiting for an address. Anyone, who has been to one of my parties, will know that an address is never sent by text.
As others have concurred, the guys are chosen on merit, usually by the females attending.
Re timewasters....I stand over my statement, it's fact and to be honest, you've shown yourself in a bad light, by posting untruths.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"stooge if your serious about going to a a party and will turn up we will get you invited along to next one..
we seem to be just doing parties at the minute and always like to get new singles along, so, will mail you with details of next one
^^ all the points are valid by previous posters, and there are a lot of regular guys cus theyre trustworthy
theres always loads of new ppl being invited along so as to not get a 'clique'
anyone else looking to dip into a few parties, just mail
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Can I go to one of your parties Crazy Diamonds?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Single guys are notoriously unreliable in turning up at parties. Normally down to stagefright, or in reality, they can't get away at the weekend, without the wife asking questions.....am I wrong?? lol
Hosts generally stick with guys recommended by the couples/ladies, or who have verifs, confirming they regularly attend parties.
I'm all for giving single guys a chance but honestly, if you invite 12, it's likely only 4 or 5 will show. "Car trouble" and "Called into work" being the most common excuses.........oh and every one of them 'isn't a bullshitter'
woody u invited me to one of ur parties u took my num and were supposed to text me the location im still waiting on the text so if we don't get the location address how can we turn up.so mayb u shud think twice before labelling everyone as a timewaster.
The factual version being that YOU contacted me, requesting an invite. I said I was collecting info, of all interested and you sent your number in one of your numerous messages. At NO POINT, was an invite extended to you, nor were you left waiting for an address. Anyone, who has been to one of my parties, will know that an address is never sent by text.
As others have concurred, the guys are chosen on merit, usually by the females attending.
Re timewasters....I stand over my statement, it's fact and to be honest, you've shown yourself in a bad light, by posting untruths...."
not the factual version ur version woody .i didn't come on here for a war of words just think its a bit rich u calling all single guys timewasters when i fact u are a single guy??and In my experience with u a timewaster lol then u have the cheek to come on here and slate single guys and more or less call me a liar.nuff said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single guys are notoriously unreliable in turning up at parties. Normally down to stagefright, or in reality, they can't get away at the weekend, without the wife asking questions.....am I wrong?? lol
Hosts generally stick with guys recommended by the couples/ladies, or who have verifs, confirming they regularly attend parties.
I'm all for giving single guys a chance but honestly, if you invite 12, it's likely only 4 or 5 will show. "Car trouble" and "Called into work" being the most common excuses.........oh and every one of them 'isn't a bullshitter'
woody u invited me to one of ur parties u took my num and were supposed to text me the location im still waiting on the text so if we don't get the location address how can we turn up.so mayb u shud think twice before labelling everyone as a timewaster.
The factual version being that YOU contacted me, requesting an invite. I said I was collecting info, of all interested and you sent your number in one of your numerous messages. At NO POINT, was an invite extended to you, nor were you left waiting for an address. Anyone, who has been to one of my parties, will know that an address is never sent by text.
As others have concurred, the guys are chosen on merit, usually by the females attending.
Re timewasters....I stand over my statement, it's fact and to be honest, you've shown yourself in a bad light, by posting untruths....
not the factual version ur version woody .i didn't come on here for a war of words just think its a bit rich u calling all single guys timewasters when i fact u are a single guy??and In my experience with u a timewaster lol then u have the cheek to come on here and slate single guys and more or less call me a liar.nuff said "
Single and proud....I don't go whinging about rejection though, it's part of Swinging life, for everyone.
My version = fact....so by default that makes your version?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Single guys are notoriously unreliable in turning up at parties. Normally down to stagefright, or in reality, they can't get away at the weekend, without the wife asking questions.....am I wrong?? lol
Hosts generally stick with guys recommended by the couples/ladies, or who have verifs, confirming they regularly attend parties.
I'm all for giving single guys a chance but honestly, if you invite 12, it's likely only 4 or 5 will show. "Car trouble" and "Called into work" being the most common excuses.........oh and every one of them 'isn't a bullshitter'
woody u invited me to one of ur parties u took my num and were supposed to text me the location im still waiting on the text so if we don't get the location address how can we turn up.so mayb u shud think twice before labelling everyone as a timewaster.
The factual version being that YOU contacted me, requesting an invite. I said I was collecting info, of all interested and you sent your number in one of your numerous messages. At NO POINT, was an invite extended to you, nor were you left waiting for an address. Anyone, who has been to one of my parties, will know that an address is never sent by text.
As others have concurred, the guys are chosen on merit, usually by the females attending.
Re timewasters....I stand over my statement, it's fact and to be honest, you've shown yourself in a bad light, by posting untruths....
not the factual version ur version woody .i didn't come on here for a war of words just think its a bit rich u calling all single guys timewasters when i fact u are a single guy??and In my experience with u a timewaster lol then u have the cheek to come on here and slate single guys and more or less call me a liar.nuff said
Single and proud....I don't go whinging about rejection though, it's part of Swinging life, for everyone.
My version = fact....so by default that makes your version??"
i wasn't whinging about rejection just came on here to find out other peoples opinion not to be called a timewaster and a liar.so if u said u were a pro footballer wud that be fact to wud it??ur full of shit.why come on here and post if u haven't something constructive to say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now now. Calm down! !
Your both genuine !!
Gloves away. Kiss n make up !!"
Stoodge was out of order, in his post, the forum is no place for such personal comments. No doubt i'll get a ban for responding with the facts of the matter but i'll not sit idly by and let people post untruths, to make themselves feel big |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single guys are notoriously unreliable in turning up at parties. Normally down to stagefright, or in reality, they can't get away at the weekend, without the wife asking questions.....am I wrong?? lol
Hosts generally stick with guys recommended by the couples/ladies, or who have verifs, confirming they regularly attend parties.
I'm all for giving single guys a chance but honestly, if you invite 12, it's likely only 4 or 5 will show. "Car trouble" and "Called into work" being the most common excuses.........oh and every one of them 'isn't a bullshitter'
woody u invited me to one of ur parties u took my num and were supposed to text me the location im still waiting on the text so if we don't get the location address how can we turn up.so mayb u shud think twice before labelling everyone as a timewaster.
The factual version being that YOU contacted me, requesting an invite. I said I was collecting info, of all interested and you sent your number in one of your numerous messages. At NO POINT, was an invite extended to you, nor were you left waiting for an address. Anyone, who has been to one of my parties, will know that an address is never sent by text.
As others have concurred, the guys are chosen on merit, usually by the females attending.
Re timewasters....I stand over my statement, it's fact and to be honest, you've shown yourself in a bad light, by posting untruths....
not the factual version ur version woody .i didn't come on here for a war of words just think its a bit rich u calling all single guys timewasters when i fact u are a single guy??and In my experience with u a timewaster lol then u have the cheek to come on here and slate single guys and more or less call me a liar.nuff said
Single and proud....I don't go whinging about rejection though, it's part of Swinging life, for everyone.
My version = fact....so by default that makes your version??
i wasn't whinging about rejection just came on here to find out other peoples opinion not to be called a timewaster and a liar.so if u said u were a pro footballer wud that be fact to wud it??ur full of shit.why come on here and post if u haven't something constructive to say?"
I posted a generalisation from experience as a long time host...you posted a personal comment, your call...you also choose to be abusive, I don't. Jog on.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now now. Calm down! !
Your both genuine !!
Gloves away. Kiss n make up !!
Stoodge was out of order, in his post, the forum is no place for such personal comments. No doubt i'll get a ban for responding with the facts of the matter but i'll not sit idly by and let people post untruths, to make themselves feel big"
woody u were the one that lowered the tone and made it personal by calling me a liar oh and a timewaster too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now now. Calm down! !
Your both genuine !!
Gloves away. Kiss n make up !!
Stoodge was out of order, in his post, the forum is no place for such personal comments. No doubt i'll get a ban for responding with the facts of the matter but i'll not sit idly by and let people post untruths, to make themselves feel big
woody u were the one that lowered the tone and made it personal by calling me a liar oh and a timewaster too "
Highligt where exactly I used those terms about you?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Single guys are notoriously unreliable in turning up at parties. Normally down to stagefright, or in reality, they can't get away at the weekend, without the wife asking questions.....am I wrong?? lol
Hosts generally stick with guys recommended by the couples/ladies, or who have verifs, confirming they regularly attend parties.
I'm all for giving single guys a chance but honestly, if you invite 12, it's likely only 4 or 5 will show. "Car trouble" and "Called into work" being the most common excuses.........oh and every one of them 'isn't a bullshitter'
woody u invited me to one of ur parties u took my num and were supposed to text me the location im still waiting on the text so if we don't get the location address how can we turn up.so mayb u shud think twice before labelling everyone as a timewaster.
The factual version being that YOU contacted me, requesting an invite. I said I was collecting info, of all interested and you sent your number in one of your numerous messages. At NO POINT, was an invite extended to you, nor were you left waiting for an address. Anyone, who has been to one of my parties, will know that an address is never sent by text.
As others have concurred, the guys are chosen on merit, usually by the females attending.
Re timewasters....I stand over my statement, it's fact and to be honest, you've shown yourself in a bad light, by posting untruths....
not the factual version ur version woody .i didn't come on here for a war of words just think its a bit rich u calling all single guys timewasters when i fact u are a single guy??and In my experience with u a timewaster lol then u have the cheek to come on here and slate single guys and more or less call me a liar.nuff said
Single and proud....I don't go whinging about rejection though, it's part of Swinging life, for everyone.
My version = fact....so by default that makes your version??
i wasn't whinging about rejection just came on here to find out other peoples opinion not to be called a timewaster and a liar.so if u said u were a pro footballer wud that be fact to wud it??ur full of shit.why come on here and post if u haven't something constructive to say?
I posted a generalisation from experience as a long time host...you posted a personal comment, your call...you also choose to be abusive, I don't. Jog on...."
excuse me woody where in all this have i been abusive to you?ur the one that label me a timewaster and a liar |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single guys are notoriously unreliable in turning up at parties. Normally down to stagefright, or in reality, they can't get away at the weekend, without the wife asking questions.....am I wrong?? lol
Hosts generally stick with guys recommended by the couples/ladies, or who have verifs, confirming they regularly attend parties.
I'm all for giving single guys a chance but honestly, if you invite 12, it's likely only 4 or 5 will show. "Car trouble" and "Called into work" being the most common excuses.........oh and every one of them 'isn't a bullshitter'
woody u invited me to one of ur parties u took my num and were supposed to text me the location im still waiting on the text so if we don't get the location address how can we turn up.so mayb u shud think twice before labelling everyone as a timewaster.
The factual version being that YOU contacted me, requesting an invite. I said I was collecting info, of all interested and you sent your number in one of your numerous messages. At NO POINT, was an invite extended to you, nor were you left waiting for an address. Anyone, who has been to one of my parties, will know that an address is never sent by text.
As others have concurred, the guys are chosen on merit, usually by the females attending.
Re timewasters....I stand over my statement, it's fact and to be honest, you've shown yourself in a bad light, by posting untruths....
not the factual version ur version woody .i didn't come on here for a war of words just think its a bit rich u calling all single guys timewasters when i fact u are a single guy??and In my experience with u a timewaster lol then u have the cheek to come on here and slate single guys and more or less call me a liar.nuff said
Single and proud....I don't go whinging about rejection though, it's part of Swinging life, for everyone.
My version = fact....so by default that makes your version??
i wasn't whinging about rejection just came on here to find out other peoples opinion not to be called a timewaster and a liar.so if u said u were a pro footballer wud that be fact to wud it??ur full of shit.why come on here and post if u haven't something constructive to say?
I posted a generalisation from experience as a long time host...you posted a personal comment, your call...you also choose to be abusive, I don't. Jog on....
excuse me woody where in all this have i been abusive to you?ur the one that label me a timewaster and a liar "
I refer to my earlier post....where do I call you that??
"ur full of shit", your words..... I personally view that as abusive |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Single guys are notoriously unreliable in turning up at parties. Normally down to stagefright, or in reality, they can't get away at the weekend, without the wife asking questions.....am I wrong?? lol
Hosts generally stick with guys recommended by the couples/ladies, or who have verifs, confirming they regularly attend parties.
I'm all for giving single guys a chance but honestly, if you invite 12, it's likely only 4 or 5 will show. "Car trouble" and "Called into work" being the most common excuses.........oh and every one of them 'isn't a bullshitter'
woody u invited me to one of ur parties u took my num and were supposed to text me the location im still waiting on the text so if we don't get the location address how can we turn up.so mayb u shud think twice before labelling everyone as a timewaster.
The factual version being that YOU contacted me, requesting an invite. I said I was collecting info, of all interested and you sent your number in one of your numerous messages. At NO POINT, was an invite extended to you, nor were you left waiting for an address. Anyone, who has been to one of my parties, will know that an address is never sent by text.
As others have concurred, the guys are chosen on merit, usually by the females attending.
Re timewasters....I stand over my statement, it's fact and to be honest, you've shown yourself in a bad light, by posting untruths...."
well if this isn't more or less calling me a liar i give up u made it personal woody why cant u just admit it and take it on the chin much easier |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single guys are notoriously unreliable in turning up at parties. Normally down to stagefright, or in reality, they can't get away at the weekend, without the wife asking questions.....am I wrong?? lol
Hosts generally stick with guys recommended by the couples/ladies, or who have verifs, confirming they regularly attend parties.
I'm all for giving single guys a chance but honestly, if you invite 12, it's likely only 4 or 5 will show. "Car trouble" and "Called into work" being the most common excuses.........oh and every one of them 'isn't a bullshitter'
woody u invited me to one of ur parties u took my num and were supposed to text me the location im still waiting on the text so if we don't get the location address how can we turn up.so mayb u shud think twice before labelling everyone as a timewaster.
The factual version being that YOU contacted me, requesting an invite. I said I was collecting info, of all interested and you sent your number in one of your numerous messages. At NO POINT, was an invite extended to you, nor were you left waiting for an address. Anyone, who has been to one of my parties, will know that an address is never sent by text.
As others have concurred, the guys are chosen on merit, usually by the females attending.
Re timewasters....I stand over my statement, it's fact and to be honest, you've shown yourself in a bad light, by posting untruths....
well if this isn't more or less calling me a liar i give up u made it personal woody why cant u just admit it and take it on the chin much easier "
You made it personal by choosing to post about me, if you can't even read your own posts, there's no point in continuing.
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By *ugarcplCouple
over a year ago
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Jaysus. Two lads clawing at each other.
Its usually the ladies doing the fighting.
This site should be called meowswingers or bickeringswingers.com
Always fights and people slagging off others without mentioning the names of the ones they slag off.
So boring and negative to put it mildly |
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By *idpunkMan
over a year ago
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"Jaysus. Two lads clawing at each other.
Its usually the ladies doing the fighting.
This site should be called meowswingers or bickeringswingers.com
Always fights and people slagging off others without mentioning the names of the ones they slag off.
So boring and negative to put it mildly"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jaysus. Two lads clawing at each other.
Its usually the ladies doing the fighting.
This site should be called meowswingers or bickeringswingers.com
Always fights and people slagging off others without mentioning the names of the ones they slag off.
So boring and negative to put it mildly"
Couldn't agree more! .............. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jaysus. Two lads clawing at each other.
Its usually the ladies doing the fighting.
This site should be called meowswingers or bickeringswingers.com
Always fights and people slagging off others without mentioning the names of the ones they slag off.
So boring and negative to put it mildly
Couldn't agree more! .............."
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