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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We were wondering how people can meet without first seeing face pics?? We understand for privacy reasons people may not want to share pics but there are different ways of sharing them other than on here...Some profiles state quite clearly not to ask for face pics??
We are not a couple that judges a book by it's cover but we definitely feel there has to be an initial attraction before meeting. What do other people think? 
E & J xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did meet once without exchanging and the girl was gorgeous...but ive discovered for most the facepic is easily the most important...coffee meets much better idea tbh.. |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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I meet without face pics. I'd hate anyone to judge me on my face pic. So unphotogenic ( I hope  ) . it will always be a social meet first and the expectations and boundaries understood by the other party. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah the coffee meet can be a good way but depends. .. if the mails aren't adding up I prefer to even chat on phone before coffee meet. It happens every day here where folk don't show up (because they're not the person they say they are)
Wouldn't "meet" proper though without ever seeing a face unfortunately as it's not BLIND DATE  |
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I usually don't send face pics nor do I request them. I personally find it takes a lot more than just a face to catch my interest....I like someone to have a personality and intelligence . I will meet for a coffee if I'm interested ... They can have a little faith in my veris , if they choose not to on the basis of no face pic that's their choice. If that chemistry isn't there well at worst I have had coffee with a like minded person and may remain in contact .I view this a community not a guaranteed free sex site! And at best I may meet them to play on another occasion. Coffee is coffee and no expectation given of anything else. After all we're all adults. .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We totally agree it's defo not blind date
Everyone's time is precious so exchanging pics is all good 
We also definitely agree on the coffee and drinks meets to make sure there's a spark.
E & J xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to see a face pic before a meet on here....Ive noticed lately people are getting reluctant to swap face pics on here due to happenings, so its good to have kik or some app on your phone to send pics Maybe they prefer to swap pics this way. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I usually don't send face pics nor do I request them. I personally find it takes a lot more than just a face to catch my interest....I like someone to have a personality and intelligence . I will meet for a coffee if I'm interested ... They can have a little faith in my veris , if they choose not to on the basis of no face pic that's their choice. If that chemistry isn't there well at worst I have had coffee with a like minded person and may remain in contact .I view this a community not a guaranteed free sex site! And at best I may meet them to play on another occasion. Coffee is coffee and no expectation given of anything else. After all we're all adults. .. "
Totally agree with u I have become very protective after the shite that went on last month coffee first |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes _ecretly seductive if not exchanging face pics definitely meet for a drink or coffee and arrange a "play" date at another time 
Blind meets wouldn't do much for us there has to be a connection/chemistry...intelligence and a good sense of humour very important!
E & J xx |
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"Also M&G's are a great way of meeting "potential" meets "
I find they are the best tbh... If everyone was decent and discreet there wouldn't be issues around exchanging pics and I'm not saying I don't do it ever. .. But sadly having been the victim of pics being taken and used and seen it happen to many others it's only sensible to be more cautious. I have met many at m&gs and had some of the best social nights out tbh.. Nothing like partying with fellow perves lol and I have gained some very solid friendships . Its a shame a few ruin it for others but that pretty much reflects life in general  and I hate getting my face pic taken. . Only ever done under duress or alchol.. Neither a great look |
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By *idpunkMan
over a year ago
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"Also M&G's are a great way of meeting "potential" meets
I find they are the best tbh... If everyone was decent and discreet there wouldn't be issues around exchanging pics and I'm not saying I don't do it ever. .. But sadly having been the victim of pics being taken and used and seen it happen to many others it's only sensible to be more cautious. I have met many at m&gs and had some of the best social nights out tbh.. Nothing like partying with fellow perves lol and I have gained some very solid friendships . Its a shame a few ruin it for others but that pretty much reflects life in general and I hate getting my face pic taken. . Only ever done under duress or alchol.. Neither a great look "
sure your lovely |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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We never ever play on a first meet always drink first for us there's a lot more to it then looks alone... And not a bit comfortable send face pics have only ever sent them to cpls that were verified by cpls we know...some ppl don't mind some do...but its just how we like to do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually don't send face pics nor do I request them. I personally find it takes a lot more than just a face to catch my interest....I like someone to have a personality and intelligence . I will meet for a coffee if I'm interested ... They can have a little faith in my veris , if they choose not to on the basis of no face pic that's their choice. If that chemistry isn't there well at worst I have had coffee with a like minded person and may remain in contact .I view this a community not a guaranteed free sex site! And at best I may meet them to play on another occasion. Coffee is coffee and no expectation given of anything else. After all we're all adults. ..
I'm begging to think we where seperated at birth SS, you've just said all I was about to but saved me a lot of bother typing it all out .Hope to get to meet you some day for a coffee meet "
Beginning !!
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By (user no longer on site)
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If its a local meet for coffee then I never send a face PIC. I have no problem if the guy doesn't fancy me etc. I'm just cautious about sending them etc. We all have our own way of doing things and how comfortable we feel about sending pics. So many collectors on here as well. I've had one or two meets where we just didn't click and some that went great.. |
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"I usually don't send face pics nor do I request them. I personally find it takes a lot more than just a face to catch my interest....I like someone to have a personality and intelligence . I will meet for a coffee if I'm interested ... They can have a little faith in my veris , if they choose not to on the basis of no face pic that's their choice. If that chemistry isn't there well at worst I have had coffee with a like minded person and may remain in contact .I view this a community not a guaranteed free sex site! And at best I may meet them to play on another occasion. Coffee is coffee and no expectation given of anything else. After all we're all adults. ..
I'm begging to think we where seperated at birth SS, you've just said all I was about to but saved me a lot of bother typing it all out .Hope to get to meet you some day for a coffee meet
Beginning !!
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anytime  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I usually don't send face pics nor do I request them. I personally find it takes a lot more than just a face to catch my interest....I like someone to have a personality and intelligence . I will meet for a coffee if I'm interested ... They can have a little faith in my veris , if they choose not to on the basis of no face pic that's their choice. If that chemistry isn't there well at worst I have had coffee with a like minded person and may remain in contact .I view this a community not a guaranteed free sex site! And at best I may meet them to play on another occasion. Coffee is coffee and no expectation given of anything else. After all we're all adults. ..
I'm begging to think we where seperated at birth SS, you've just said all I was about to but saved me a lot of bother typing it all out .Hope to get to meet you some day for a coffee meet
Beginning !!
anytime "
We ll def have to arrange something. |
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"I usually don't send face pics nor do I request them. I personally find it takes a lot more than just a face to catch my interest....I like someone to have a personality and intelligence . I will meet for a coffee if I'm interested ... They can have a little faith in my veris , if they choose not to on the basis of no face pic that's their choice. If that chemistry isn't there well at worst I have had coffee with a like minded person and may remain in contact .I view this a community not a guaranteed free sex site! And at best I may meet them to play on another occasion. Coffee is coffee and no expectation given of anything else. After all we're all adults. ..
I'm begging to think we where seperated at birth SS, you've just said all I was about to but saved me a lot of bother typing it all out .Hope to get to meet you some day for a coffee meet
Beginning !!
anytime
We ll def have to arrange something."
are ya not going to Cork? ? |
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