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over a year ago
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"We are all here doing what we do...mum is bi, dad is bi, we love swapping partners....do we encourage our kids to do the same?"
No..let them find their own way in life. They will be who they will be.  |
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i would agree with Kim on this we all find what works for ourselves without any help
i can remember when i was 16 or so i found a little lump on the lady bits and asked my mother what might it be
she said to me its more then likely just a spot ( it was )
but then she said how did i know it was there i said i felt it
and she said i should not be feeling myself down there lol
so my mom was a total prude ......
And now look at me 
neither one of us was right or wrong we just found what was right for us
My kids will find what is right for them as well  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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I have two boys I'd hope they experience as much of life as their can , if they ask the right questions I answer as truthfully as I can. We raised them to respect others as they expect to be respected not to judge any body by race, religon, sex or preferences in life that's about all u can do give them the tools to make their own choices |
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Something in this thread has reminded me of the story of little Mary's mother arriving at little Johnny's house with Johnny by the ear. When the door opens she flings him in and starts having a go at his mother about how she caught them in Mary's bedroom playing doctors and nurses. "Ah sure, weren't we all curious about sex at that age?", says Johnny's mother.
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"Curious about sex? Curious about fucking sex?" says Mary's mother, "he's taken her fucking appendix out!" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Something in this thread has reminded me of the story of little Mary's mother arriving at little Johnny's house with Johnny by the ear. When the door opens she flings him in and starts having a go at his mother about how she caught them in Mary's bedroom playing doctors and nurses. "Ah sure, weren't we all curious about sex at that age?", says Johnny's mother.
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"Curious about sex? Curious about fucking sex?z" says Mary's mother, "he's taken her fucking appendix out!" "
Hahaha! Funny  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm telling my kids I'm like the virgin Mary
Mine thinks I am the virgin mary....
Sex education in schools is gone to hell these days! "
Totally! It's replaced by Google and porn!!  |
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"I'm telling my kids I'm like the virgin Mary
Mine thinks I am the virgin mary....
Sex education in schools is gone to hell these days!
Totally! It's replaced by Google and porn!! "
Mmmmm.. I love Google |
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"I'm telling my kids I'm like the virgin Mary
Mine thinks I am the virgin mary....
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my gkids think I'm Mrs santas best friend. . The tooth fairy's cousin and that I have coffee with the easter bunny. ... I'm so screwed when they get old enough to realise nana lied   |
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"I'm telling my kids I'm like the virgin Mary
Mine thinks I am the virgin mary....
my gkids think I'm Mrs santas best friend. . The tooth fairy's cousin and that I have coffee with the easter bunny. ... I'm so screwed when they get old enough to realise nana lied "
Wait 'til they find out you had a gang bang with all three of them though. They'll be well chuffed! |
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"I'm telling my kids I'm like the virgin Mary
Mine thinks I am the virgin mary....
my gkids think I'm Mrs santas best friend. . The tooth fairy's cousin and that I have coffee with the easter bunny. ... I'm so screwed when they get old enough to realise nana lied
Wait 'til they find out you had a gang bang with all three of them though. They'll be well chuffed! "
I know. . They don't realise Mrs santa is bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm telling my kids I'm like the virgin Mary
Mine thinks I am the virgin mary....
my gkids think I'm Mrs santas best friend. . The tooth fairy's cousin and that I have coffee with the easter bunny. ... I'm so screwed when they get old enough to realise nana lied
Wait 'til they find out you had a gang bang with all three of them though. They'll be well chuffed! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have two boys I'd hope they experience as much of life as their can , if they ask the right questions I answer as truthfully as I can. We raised them to respect others as they expect to be respected not to judge any body by race, religon, sex or preferences in life that's about all u can do give them the tools to make their own choices "
I have an adult boy and girl and they were brought up likewise.
My daughter and I are going to see 50 Shades when it comes out in the cinema next year along with others and she said I wasn't to ask lots of questions about what is happening as I wouldn't understand most of it..... |
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"I have two boys I'd hope they experience as much of life as their can , if they ask the right questions I answer as truthfully as I can. We raised them to respect others as they expect to be respected not to judge any body by race, religon, sex or preferences in life that's about all u can do give them the tools to make their own choices
I have an adult boy and girl and they were brought up likewise.
My daughter and I are going to see 50 Shades when it comes out in the cinema next year along with others and she said I wasn't to ask lots of questions about what is happening as I wouldn't understand most of it..... "
our daughter gave me the book when it came out in case we needed some advice as we get older! ! Lol.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have two boys I'd hope they experience as much of life as their can , if they ask the right questions I answer as truthfully as I can. We raised them to respect others as they expect to be respected not to judge any body by race, religon, sex or preferences in life that's about all u can do give them the tools to make their own choices
I have an adult boy and girl and they were brought up likewise.
My daughter and I are going to see 50 Shades when it comes out in the cinema next year along with others and she said I wasn't to ask lots of questions about what is happening as I wouldn't understand most of it.....
our daughter gave me the book when it came out in case we needed some advice as we get older! ! Lol.... "
lmao.....if they only knew!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are all here doing what we do...mum is bi, dad is bi, we love swapping partners....do we encourage our kids to do the same?"
Would you have liked to have heard such things from your parents ..  |
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i have a grandson also that is at the age he believes everything i tell him
at the moment he is mad into ninja turtles .
so i told him when i was small like him i was a ninja
he was so impressed with me he went into school and told his teacher  |
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"i have a grandson also that is at the age he believes everything i tell him
at the moment he is mad into ninja turtles .
so i told him when i was small like him i was a ninja
he was so impressed with me he went into school and told his teacher "
glad I'm not the only one lol |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"i have a grandson also that is at the age he believes everything i tell him
at the moment he is mad into ninja turtles .
so i told him when i was small like him i was a ninja
he was so impressed with me he went into school and told his teacher "
I hope he told her granny was a ninja turtles and not a ninja perver |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are all here doing what we do...mum is bi, dad is bi, we love swapping partners....do we encourage our kids to do the same?"
Let them decide for themselves about life's decisions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i have a grandson also that is at the age he believes everything i tell him
at the moment he is mad into ninja turtles .
so i told him when i was small like him i was a ninja
he was so impressed with me he went into school and told his teacher
I hope he told her granny was a ninja turtles and not a ninja perver "
the ninja perver would be more accurate |
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I think that you can show kids that although sex and sexuality s a mature subject the should appreciate that there are many aspects people can enjoy or experiment with lovers. As long as there is mutual respect, safety and desire then enjoy.
One of my siblings is gay and When my kid asked questions I just said 'Hey some boys like girls and some like boys, some girls like boys and others like girls and some boys and girls like boys and girls. Just depends on what ever they like'. I may have likened it to the preference for mayonnaise or ketchup with chips. No big deal, just a different preference. I just hope that my one grows up to be happy and secure and not freaked out and worrying or ashamed of one aspect of their personality. Vive la difference!! |
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"I have two boys I'd hope they experience as much of life as their can , if they ask the right questions I answer as truthfully as I can. We raised them to respect others as they expect to be respected not to judge any body by race, religon, sex or preferences in life that's about all u can do give them the tools to make their own choices "
Agree wholeheartedly CJ.
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"i would agree with Kim on this we all find what works for ourselves without any help
i can remember when i was 16 or so i found a little lump on the lady bits and asked my mother what might it be
she said to me its more then likely just a spot ( it was )
but then she said how did i know it was there i said i felt it
and she said i should not be feeling myself down there lol
so my mom was a total prude ......
And now look at me
neither one of us was right or wrong we just found what was right for us
My kids will find what is right for them as well "
you were supposed to say you were washing yourself lol I washed the bejasus out of myself at that age |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i would agree with Kim on this we all find what works for ourselves without any help
i can remember when i was 16 or so i found a little lump on the lady bits and asked my mother what might it be
she said to me its more then likely just a spot ( it was )
but then she said how did i know it was there i said i felt it
and she said i should not be feeling myself down there lol
so my mom was a total prude ......
And now look at me
neither one of us was right or wrong we just found what was right for us
My kids will find what is right for them as well
you were supposed to say you were washing yourself lol I washed the bejasus out of myself at that age "
I was not fast enough to think of that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are all here doing what we do...mum is bi, dad is bi, we love swapping partners....do we encourage our kids to do the same?
Would you have liked to have heard such things from your parents .. "
I didn't suggest we tell all I was just wondering |
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By (user no longer on site)
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All our parents went bareback, they were hardly prudes despite what they told us.
They told us how they wanted to be, how they hoped we would be, pure.
Tell your kids gender and sexuality are two different things. Gender is if the person is male, female, or somewhere in between. Sexuality is who they like, male, female or both.
Then explain these things are in our mind. Our gender is in our mind, a boys mind can be in a girls body, and a boys mind can be in a girls body.
Somone with a boys mind can like boys, girls or both.
Tell them that no matter how they feel in their mind you love them, and give them a kiss.
Then ask them how they feel. Ask them how they would feel in the wrong body. Tell them there are people out there like that and they are afraid to tell anyone.
Little kids can handle this stuff, if they ewww and say yucky dont punish them, let them be kids, and explain it to them. If its an ongoing thing they should just end up thinking its normal. |
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