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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find it interesting all the posts recently about peoples problems on here and how annoyed they are about this or frustrated by that.
Personally I think people take the whole thing far too seriously and don't appreciate that fab should never be a major part of anyone's life. From the sounds of some people it would be a total catastrophe if fab were to cease to exist.
While I appreciate that people have problems and would like some help with them from time to time, the public forums are hardly the place to be discussing them. If it was a real problem you wouldn't want to broadcast it to the world.
Just my thoughts. J
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone is entitled to an opinion.
As most people don't know the identities of each other on here, it can be a good way of getting anonymous advice without bias and judgment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it interesting all the posts recently about peoples problems on here and how annoyed they are about this or frustrated by that.
Personally I think people take the whole thing far too seriously and don't appreciate that fab should never be a major part of anyone's life. From the sounds of some people it would be a total catastrophe if fab were to cease to exist.
While I appreciate that people have problems and would like some help with them from time to time, the public forums are hardly the place to be discussing them. If it was a real problem you wouldn't want to broadcast it to the world.
Just my thoughts. J
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U on ur moon........love  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find it interesting all the posts recently about peoples problems on here and how annoyed they are about this or frustrated by that.
Personally I think people take the whole thing far too seriously and don't appreciate that fab should never be a major part of anyone's life. From the sounds of some people it would be a total catastrophe if fab were to cease to exist.
While I appreciate that people have problems and would like some help with them from time to time, the public forums are hardly the place to be discussing them. If it was a real problem you wouldn't want to broadcast it to the world.
Just my thoughts. J
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You're broadcasting your problem  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It also gives people the chance to be as bitchy as fuck with little chance of coming face to face with their victims"
Thank god we can all badmouth each other anonymously. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find it interesting all the posts recently about peoples problems on here and how annoyed they are about this or frustrated by that.
Personally I think people take the whole thing far too seriously and don't appreciate that fab should never be a major part of anyone's life. From the sounds of some people it would be a total catastrophe if fab were to cease to exist.
While I appreciate that people have problems and would like some help with them from time to time, the public forums are hardly the place to be discussing them. If it was a real problem you wouldn't want to broadcast it to the world.
Just my thoughts. J
You're broadcasting your problem "
I don't have a problem, it's just an observation. |
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By *itan79Man
over a year ago
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Hear hear Op, then of course the ones who object to your observation will defend that and say your a miserable git etc, but I normally find that's a great indicator of who NOT to approach in the first place.
People seem to ignore the more personal you get with others on a site like this the more open you are to letting real life merge with this life, and as we still life in a country of Judgmental narrow minded twits the repercussions can be great, and frankly not worth it.
When I see people claim to 'friendships' etc on the scene I shake my head in dismay, Friends are earned, think about the trust and lifetime worth of evaluation you make ing out the ones worthy of your inner circle. In the swinging world your only as valuable as you last verification.
I have seen so many get tossed by the roadside when they outlive theyre 'swing-ability'
This site is an element of a Lifestyle choice, a small escape from reality, something to maybe exorcise your kinks(yes I said Exorcise) and inner desires you might want to get out of your system before settling down? An added bit of spice to a relationship Maybe? or worse the couples who join these things as a last ditch effort to salvage a relationship. Whatever reasons thats fine, Just remember at the end of day, keep it simple, less strands and connections mean there is less to break free from when you want to depart, be it through necessity or choice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hear hear Op, then of course the ones who object to your observation will defend that and say your a miserable git etc, but I normally find that's a great indicator of who NOT to approach in the first place.
People seem to ignore the more personal you get with others on a site like this the more open you are to letting real life merge with this life, and as we still life in a country of Judgmental narrow minded twits the repercussions can be great, and frankly not worth it.
When I see people claim to 'friendships' etc on the scene I shake my head in dismay, Friends are earned, think about the trust and lifetime worth of evaluation you make ing out the ones worthy of your inner circle. In the swinging world your only as valuable as you last verification.
I have seen so many get tossed by the roadside when they outlive theyre 'swing-ability'
This site is an element of a Lifestyle choice, a small escape from reality, something to maybe exorcise your kinks(yes I said Exorcise) and inner desires you might want to get out of your system before settling down? An added bit of spice to a relationship Maybe? or worse the couples who join these things as a last ditch effort to salvage a relationship. Whatever reasons thats fine, Just remember at the end of day, keep it simple, less strands and connections mean there is less to break free from when you want to depart, be it through necessity or choice.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hear hear Op, then of course the ones who object to your observation will defend that and say your a miserable git etc, but I normally find that's a great indicator of who NOT to approach in the first place.
People seem to ignore the more personal you get with others on a site like this the more open you are to letting real life merge with this life, and as we still life in a country of Judgmental narrow minded twits the repercussions can be great, and frankly not worth it.
When I see people claim to 'friendships' etc on the scene I shake my head in dismay, Friends are earned, think about the trust and lifetime worth of evaluation you make ing out the ones worthy of your inner circle. In the swinging world your only as valuable as you last verification.
I have seen so many get tossed by the roadside when they outlive theyre 'swing-ability'
This site is an element of a Lifestyle choice, a small escape from reality, something to maybe exorcise your kinks(yes I said Exorcise) and inner desires you might want to get out of your system before settling down? An added bit of spice to a relationship Maybe? or worse the couples who join these things as a last ditch effort to salvage a relationship. Whatever reasons thats fine, Just remember at the end of day, keep it simple, less strands and connections mean there is less to break free from when you want to depart, be it through necessity or choice.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Hear hear Op, then of course the ones who object to your observation will defend that and say your a miserable git etc, but I normally find that's a great indicator of who NOT to approach in the first place.
People seem to ignore the more personal you get with others on a site like this the more open you are to letting real life merge with this life, and as we still life in a country of Judgmental narrow minded twits the repercussions can be great, and frankly not worth it.
When I see people claim to 'friendships' etc on the scene I shake my head in dismay, Friends are earned, think about the trust and lifetime worth of evaluation you make ing out the ones worthy of your inner circle. In the swinging world your only as valuable as you last verification.
I have seen so many get tossed by the roadside when they outlive theyre 'swing-ability'
This site is an element of a Lifestyle choice, a small escape from reality, something to maybe exorcise your kinks(yes I said Exorcise) and inner desires you might want to get out of your system before settling down? An added bit of spice to a relationship Maybe? or worse the couples who join these things as a last ditch effort to salvage a relationship. Whatever reasons thats fine, Just remember at the end of day, keep it simple, less strands and connections mean there is less to break free from when you want to depart, be it through necessity or choice.
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Well said man |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hear hear Op, then of course the ones who object to your observation will defend that and say your a miserable git etc, but I normally find that's a great indicator of who NOT to approach in the first place.
People seem to ignore the more personal you get with others on a site like this the more open you are to letting real life merge with this life, and as we still life in a country of Judgmental narrow minded twits the repercussions can be great, and frankly not worth it.
When I see people claim to 'friendships' etc on the scene I shake my head in dismay, Friends are earned, think about the trust and lifetime worth of evaluation you make ing out the ones worthy of your inner circle. In the swinging world your only as valuable as you last verification.
I have seen so many get tossed by the roadside when they outlive theyre 'swing-ability'
This site is an element of a Lifestyle choice, a small escape from reality, something to maybe exorcise your kinks(yes I said Exorcise) and inner desires you might want to get out of your system before settling down? An added bit of spice to a relationship Maybe? or worse the couples who join these things as a last ditch effort to salvage a relationship. Whatever reasons thats fine, Just remember at the end of day, keep it simple, less strands and connections mean there is less to break free from when you want to depart, be it through necessity or choice.
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The voice of reason as always
Well said T |
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