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Starting slow

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi everyone

We are new to this and are looking to take things slow. We are finding it hard to get a meet with what we are looking for

She wants us to be watched then watch then some soft play. Why is it so hard to get this kind of meet sorted? ( n.ireland )

Any help is welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's a numbers game. The more filters (choices) you have the less people are going to be available wanting the same.

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

It takes time there a few looking soft swing u just need to settle in and u will find them

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You could try a club and make the night what you want.

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Or a party...less pressure then everyone imagines

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By *-4pleasureCouple over a year ago

Belfast

"Hi everyone

We are new to this and are looking to take things slow. We are finding it hard to get a meet with what we are looking for

She wants us to be watched then watch then some soft play. Why is it so hard to get this kind of meet sorted? ( n.ireland )

Any help is welcome

Maybe if your interests didn't include dp and gangbangs people wouldn't be confused.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone

We are new to this and are looking to take things slow. We are finding it hard to get a meet with what we are looking for

She wants us to be watched then watch then some soft play. Why is it so hard to get this kind of meet sorted? ( n.ireland )

Any help is welcome

tbh Ive seen a lot of profiles looking for soft play only on here, have you tried doing a search for soft swing only?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you all, we just hope by posting here we may catch the eye of people with filters on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi everyone

We are new to this and are looking to take things slow. We are finding it hard to get a meet with what we are looking for

She wants us to be watched then watch then some soft play. Why is it so hard to get this kind of meet sorted? ( n.ireland )

Any help is welcome

Maybe if your interests didn't include dp and gangbangs people wouldn't be confused......."

We just updated that , thanx

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By *rishCouple2kCouple over a year ago

Berkshire

Hi,

And welcome

Take it from us:

Its very tough to get a couple to do soft swing. Just read the recent threads..

I/C

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By *es deux lapinCouple over a year ago

dublin

Its really tough to get a meet here at the best of times ,cant speak for everybody of course but most people we play with wont meet soft swingers , gives off the impression its the husband trying to force the wife or else your just messers .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Welcome to the mad house hope yea have fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can take a while to get a meet on here. Ye are only here two weeks so I wouldn't give up hope. Ye done the right thing about posting a thread on the forum and get yourselves known on here.

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"Hi everyone

We are new to this and are looking to take things slow. We are finding it hard to get a meet with what we are looking for

She wants us to be watched then watch then some soft play. Why is it so hard to get this kind of meet sorted? ( n.ireland )

Any help is welcome

"
As you only joined a few weeks ago, it may take time to get the result that you want . How much effort have you made in contacting other couples or are you just relying on people to reply to your advert. ? Have you tried posting in the meets section ?. Lots of people only after soft play so you will get there eventually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's soft swing and hard swing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Welcome to the madhouse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Welcome

hope ye find what yer looking for or at least have fun looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What's soft swing and hard swing"

Soft is without a hard on. not an easy one, that is why not many are willing to do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol. I thought soft swing was everything except intercourse. Silly me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanx all for your input and we will take it all on board, this is not a case of the male forcing the female as suggest above, the female has suggested the whole adding people to the bedroom not the male.

We know 2 weeks is not alot of time and will continue as ws are and hopefully we get more good feedback and the meet /-)

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