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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OMG WTBF I was on a MMF recently, 1 of the guys f**ked me and then when he came, he left, just like that, no kiss goodbye or a word goodbye, just left...   
So guys tell me, why do men do this & how could they do this, fuck & just leave, I'd appreciate your input! Thank you!
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"OMG WTBF I was on a MMF recently, 1 of the guys f**ked me and then when he came, he left, just like that, no kiss goodbye or a word goodbye, just left...
So guys tell me, why do men do this & how could they do this, fuck & just leave, I'd appreciate your input! Thank you!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!  "
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
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Lol, it's pretty unusual I would've thought? The man's got balls though, and indivuality! Respect!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
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Was he dressed as a Panda? |
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
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lets give him the benefit of doubt ....perhaps nerves got the better of him ....felt his task was done or awkward and you guys didn't want or need him to hang about either that or was getting close to bed time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"LOL yea a bit! Have you spoken since or asked him? ?"
Not a word from him since last nite!
I will block everyone who does that to me, fuck & leave!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Lol, it's pretty unusual I would've thought? The man's got balls though, and indivuality! Respect! "
I give him no respect! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?"
I don't know I was blind-folded so I didn't see what he looked like, just as well seeing as he just left! Just heard his voice when he answered a question I asked him! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
lets give him the benefit of doubt ....perhaps nerves got the better of him ....felt his task was done or awkward and you guys didn't want or need him to hang about either that or was getting close to bed time "
It was 9.30pm!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?"
Damn you got there first |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only person can answer is him. Obviously someone sourced him so must be some form of contact."
The guy who arranged the 3sum found that guy from this site and he said your man seemed ok!
This has never happened to me before, so it came as a bit of a shock when he left like that! |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"Only person can answer is him. Obviously someone sourced him so must be some form of contact.
The guy who arranged the 3sum found that guy from this site and he said your man seemed ok!
This has never happened to me before, so it came as a bit of a shock when he left like that! "
Can't wait to read his verification |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"Only person can answer is him. Obviously someone sourced him so must be some form of contact.
The guy who arranged the 3sum found that guy from this site and he said your man seemed ok!
This has never happened to me before, so it came as a bit of a shock when he left like that! "
'Seemed OK' is very vague. Personally I'd have sourced him myself and met first.
And you never know maybe he'll ask for a veri!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only person can answer is him. Obviously someone sourced him so must be some form of contact.
The guy who arranged the 3sum found that guy from this site and he said your man seemed ok!
This has never happened to me before, so it came as a bit of a shock when he left like that! "
Did you have no contact before then? Coz Tbh maybe who ever arranged it for you may have told him that was all he had to do. There is a popular fantasy where a guy comes in to a couple and then leaves as soon as he us done, maybe that's what he was told all he had to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only person can answer is him. Obviously someone sourced him so must be some form of contact.
The guy who arranged the 3sum found that guy from this site and he said your man seemed ok!
This has never happened to me before, so it came as a bit of a shock when he left like that!
Did you have no contact before then? Coz Tbh maybe who ever arranged it for you may have told him that was all he had to do. There is a popular fantasy where a guy comes in to a couple and then leaves as soon as he us done, maybe that's what he was told all he had to do. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?
I don't know I was blind-folded so I didn't see what he looked like, just as well seeing as he just left! Just heard his voice when he answered a question I asked him! "
Maybe he was blind folded as well......and walked out the wrong door after |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?
I don't know I was blind-folded so I didn't see what he looked like, just as well seeing as he just left! Just heard his voice when he answered a question I asked him!
Maybe he was blind folded as well......and walked out the wrong door after "
Ha ha ha!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only person can answer is him. Obviously someone sourced him so must be some form of contact.
The guy who arranged the 3sum found that guy from this site and he said your man seemed ok!
This has never happened to me before, so it came as a bit of a shock when he left like that!
Did you have no contact before then? Coz Tbh maybe who ever arranged it for you may have told him that was all he had to do. There is a popular fantasy where a guy comes in to a couple and then leaves as soon as he us done, maybe that's what he was told all he had to do. "
Nah, the other guy is sound, I've been with him a few times before!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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maybe the other guy who had arranged this had said to him to leave as soon as the fun was over ?
i guess when it was a blindfold 3sum he staying around for a chat would have ruined the trill of it ?
maybe the idea behind it was for you to never no who this guy was ?
Hope you have a 100% trust in your first guy though
anyway hope you enjoyed it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"maybe the other guy who had arranged this had said to him to leave as soon as the fun was over ?
i guess when it was a blindfold 3sum he staying around for a chat would have ruined the trill of it ?
maybe the idea behind it was for you to never no who this guy was ?
Hope you have a 100% trust in your first guy though
anyway hope you enjoyed it "
I won't go blind-fold again, learned my lessen there I think! I enjoyed it to a point, I squirted & came before he did!! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?
Damn you got there first "
Ahh but did he eat?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?
Damn you got there first
Ahh but did he eat?? "
He ate!!! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?
Damn you got there first
Ahh but did he eat??
He ate!!! lol "
We'll then, that explains it. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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You were blindfolded on a mmf,didnt see the guy before he fucked you and you wonder why he didnt say goodbye?
I dont think you can expect normal social niceties under such circumstances
the guy obviously thought you were into anonymous sex and a goodbye didnt suit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OMG WTBF I was on a MMF recently, 1 of the guys f**ked me and then when he came, he left, just like that, no kiss goodbye or a word goodbye, just left...
So guys tell me, why do men do this & how could they do this, fuck & just leave, I'd appreciate your input! Thank you!
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His wife was beeping the car horn outside? lolol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You were blindfolded on a mmf,didnt see the guy before he fucked you and you wonder why he didnt say goodbye?
I dont think you can expect normal social niceties under such circumstances
the guy obviously thought you were into anonymous sex and a goodbye didnt suit"
He was being presumptious then! |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"You were blindfolded on a mmf,didnt see the guy before he fucked you and you wonder why he didnt say goodbye?
I dont think you can expect normal social niceties under such circumstances
the guy obviously thought you were into anonymous sex and a goodbye didnt suit
He was being presumptious then! "
When's the next round  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You were blindfolded on a mmf,didnt see the guy before he fucked you and you wonder why he didnt say goodbye?
I dont think you can expect normal social niceties under such circumstances
the guy obviously thought you were into anonymous sex and a goodbye didnt suit
He was being presumptious then!
When's the next round "
No next round with him anyway! |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"You were blindfolded on a mmf,didnt see the guy before he fucked you and you wonder why he didnt say goodbye?
I dont think you can expect normal social niceties under such circumstances
the guy obviously thought you were into anonymous sex and a goodbye didnt suit
He was being presumptious then!
When's the next round
No next round with him anyway! "
You'll hurt his feelings |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You were blindfolded on a mmf,didnt see the guy before he fucked you and you wonder why he didnt say goodbye?
I dont think you can expect normal social niceties under such circumstances
the guy obviously thought you were into anonymous sex and a goodbye didnt suit
He was being presumptious then!
When's the next round
No next round with him anyway!
You'll hurt his feelings "
I'm sure I won't! |
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"OMG WTBF I was on a MMF recently, 1 of the guys f**ked me and then when he came, he left, just like that, no kiss goodbye or a word goodbye, just left...
So guys tell me, why do men do this & how could they do this, fuck & just leave, I'd appreciate your input! Thank you!
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That is just appalling conduct , the height of ignorant behaviour . Try not to dwell on it. |
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"OMG WTBF I was on a MMF recently, 1 of the guys f**ked me and then when he came, he left, just like that, no kiss goodbye or a word goodbye, just left...
So guys tell me, why do men do this & how could they do this, fuck & just leave, I'd appreciate your input! Thank you!
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That is just appalling conduct , the height of ignorant behaviour . Try not to dwell on it. |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"You were blindfolded on a mmf,didnt see the guy before he fucked you and you wonder why he didnt say goodbye?
I dont think you can expect normal social niceties under such circumstances
the guy obviously thought you were into anonymous sex and a goodbye didnt suit
He was being presumptious then!
When's the next round
No next round with him anyway!
You'll hurt his feelings
I'm sure I won't! "
He's maybe a very shy and retiring guy...did you say "hello" to him |
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"OMG WTBF I was on a MMF recently, 1 of the guys f**ked me and then when he came, he left, just like that, no kiss goodbye or a word goodbye, just left...
So guys tell me, why do men do this & how could they do this, fuck & just leave, I'd appreciate your input! Thank you!
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maybe he was a bit disappointed didn't feel u were giving it 100% |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
dublin |
"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?
I don't know I was blind-folded so I didn't see what he looked like, just as well seeing as he just left! Just heard his voice when he answered a question I asked him! "
As many are saying I think the fact that you were blindfolded means 'normal' niceties may not apply. I've been involved in a couple of MMFs where the lady was blindfolded. In one although I'd met her socially before we'd not played and I kept very silent (limited conversation) so she wouldn't be sure who I was. In that instance I did say my goodbyes but as others have pointed out he may have thought such niceties were neither expected or required. It's not 'yer average Saturday night' after all. When role play or fantasy play is involved sometimes people expect different things unless discussed in advance.
Have you spoken to the other guy involved? Did he tell the other guy to 'make like a panda' (as it were)? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OMG WTBF I was on a MMF recently, 1 of the guys f**ked me and then when he came, he left, just like that, no kiss goodbye or a word goodbye, just left...
So guys tell me, why do men do this & how could they do this, fuck & just leave, I'd appreciate your input! Thank you!
That is just appalling conduct , the height of ignorant behaviour . Try not to dwell on it."
Is it because I put a blind-fold on, I just wanted to bring some excitement to the meet!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?
I don't know I was blind-folded so I didn't see what he looked like, just as well seeing as he just left! Just heard his voice when he answered a question I asked him!
As many are saying I think the fact that you were blindfolded means 'normal' niceties may not apply. I've been involved in a couple of MMFs where the lady was blindfolded. In one although I'd met her socially before we'd not played and I kept very silent (limited conversation) so she wouldn't be sure who I was. In that instance I did say my goodbyes but as others have pointed out he may have thought such niceties were neither expected or required. It's not 'yer average Saturday night' after all. When role play or fantasy play is involved sometimes people expect different things unless discussed in advance.
Have you spoken to the other guy involved? Did he tell the other guy to 'make like a panda' (as it were)? "
Well, I won't be wearing a blindfold again that's for sure if I'm going to get a response like that! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He may have wanted to catch the big game, I must agree that is appauling and very very rude, he could have at least made you a cuppa xx"
Yes indeed, he was very rude! Won't be meeting him again anyway, he will get blocked! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He may have wanted to catch the big game, I must agree that is appauling and very very rude, he could have at least made you a cuppa xx
Yes indeed, he was very rude! Won't be meeting him again anyway, he will get blocked! "
once you find out who he is,obviously |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He may have wanted to catch the big game, I must agree that is appauling and very very rude, he could have at least made you a cuppa xx
Yes indeed, he was very rude! Won't be meeting him again anyway, he will get blocked!
once you find out who he is,obviously "
Yes, the other guy showed me his profile, I've just blocked him now! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Were you blindfolded before he came into the room. Could be he recognised you from outside Fab and was embarrassed .just a thought. "
Yes, I was blind-folded before he came in! Why would he play with me then if he recognised me!? |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"He may have wanted to catch the big game, I must agree that is appauling and very very rude, he could have at least made you a cuppa xx
Yes indeed, he was very rude! Won't be meeting him again anyway, he will get blocked!
once you find out who he is,obviously
Yes, the other guy showed me his profile, I've just blocked him now! "
Better luck next time....maybe you need to tie them down |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Were you blindfolded before he came into the room. Could be he recognised you from outside Fab and was embarrassed .just a thought.
Yes, I was blind-folded before he came in! Why would he play with me then if he recognised me!? "
Because you'd be none the wiser? Some people are like that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Were you blindfolded before he came into the room. Could be he recognised you from outside Fab and was embarrassed .just a thought.
Yes, I was blind-folded before he came in! Why would he play with me then if he recognised me!?
Because you'd be none the wiser? Some people are like that."
A fair point I suppose! Some guys are such a**holes! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What a complete dick......
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Coming from a guy, it's nice to hear u say that! I'm feel quite embarrassed now after putting this post up due to the fact that some guys think it's because of the blind-fold that I'd want the wham bam thing but I hate quickies, I just wanted to bring some excitement to the meet!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well rosebud , all joking aside , there are obviously guys on here like him but they dont the majority of guys and as someone else has said , ur better off picking them urself in future !!! |
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"Were you blindfolded before he came into the room. Could be he recognised you from outside Fab and was embarrassed .just a thought.
Yes, I was blind-folded before he came in! Why would he play with me then if he recognised me!? "
Because you are so hot??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well rosebud , all joking aside , there are obviously guys on here like him but they dont the majority of guys and as someone else has said , ur better off picking them urself in future !!!"
I will pick them myself in future!! Is that a hint you're giving me!!? |
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"He may have wanted to catch the big game, I must agree that is appauling and very very rude, he could have at least made you a cuppa xx
Yes indeed, he was very rude! Won't be meeting him again anyway, he will get blocked! "
Don't ever let a man treat you like that regardless of what fantasies are being acted out or the situation, a polite thank you and good bye I need to go would have been the minimum I would expect. I would never meet him again even if he came crawling, how dare he be that ignorant, no excuses for that. It's my opinion before I'm accused of being judgemental |
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If he left like that and the other guy said he didn't ask him to then he is a PRICK
You blocked him so he won't be getting that again from you
If you do a MMF again blindfolded make sure you tell the extra male you would like him to hang around or say goodbye at least. Then you can experience this the way you want it. Please don't let one bad experience with a PRICK turn you off something fun.
Was it fun up to then for you? If so some ground rules next time should leave a more pleasant after thought.
PS I'd stay after if you want. |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe it was a fantasy of his to just go into a room and f**k a blindfolded woman...totally anonymously 
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Fair point. With fantasy play its advisable to discuss things in advance so each party knows what they are getting (so to speak). Thus avoiding issues of confusion after the event. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He may have wanted to catch the big game, I must agree that is appauling and very very rude, he could have at least made you a cuppa xx
Yes indeed, he was very rude! Won't be meeting him again anyway, he will get blocked!
Don't ever let a man treat you like that regardless of what fantasies are being acted out or the situation, a polite thank you and good bye I need to go would have been the minimum I would expect. I would never meet him again even if he came crawling, how dare he be that ignorant, no excuses for that. It's my opinion before I'm accused of being judgemental"
Well, u said everything right today anyway!! He was a complete and otter wanker! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If he left like that and the other guy said he didn't ask him to then he is a PRICK
You blocked him so he won't be getting that again from you
If you do a MMF again blindfolded make sure you tell the extra male you would like him to hang around or say goodbye at least. Then you can experience this the way you want it. Please don't let one bad experience with a PRICK turn you off something fun.
Was it fun up to then for you? If so some ground rules next time should leave a more pleasant after thought.
PS I'd stay after if you want."
Yes, it was great fun up til he left! |
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"Did u ask him the question before sex r in the middle of it "
I hadn't chatted to him before, the other guy did though! He said that guy sounded nice when he was chatting to him! |
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"He may have wanted to catch the big game, I must agree that is appauling and very very rude, he could have at least made you a cuppa xx
Yes indeed, he was very rude! Won't be meeting him again anyway, he will get blocked!
Don't ever let a man treat you like that regardless of what fantasies are being acted out or the situation, a polite thank you and good bye I need to go would have been the minimum I would expect. I would never meet him again even if he came crawling, how dare he be that ignorant, no excuses for that. It's my opinion before I'm accused of being judgemental
Well, u said everything right today anyway!! He was a complete and otter wanker! "
Rosebud we would never want to see any human being treated that way, we never claim to always be right here on the forums we just give our opinions on various topics which people either agree with or not. Basic respect for an individual is highly important regardless of differences and your experience is just the epitome of arrogant and ignorant behaviour |
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"He may have wanted to catch the big game, I must agree that is appauling and very very rude, he could have at least made you a cuppa xx
Yes indeed, he was very rude! Won't be meeting him again anyway, he will get blocked!
Don't ever let a man treat you like that regardless of what fantasies are being acted out or the situation, a polite thank you and good bye I need to go would have been the minimum I would expect. I would never meet him again even if he came crawling, how dare he be that ignorant, no excuses for that. It's my opinion before I'm accused of being judgemental
Well, u said everything right today anyway!! He was a complete and otter wanker!
Rosebud we would never want to see any human being treated that way, we never claim to always be right here on the forums we just give our opinions on various topics which people either agree with or not. Basic respect for an individual is highly important regardless of differences and your experience is just the epitome of arrogant and ignorant behaviour "
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"He may have wanted to catch the big game, I must agree that is appauling and very very rude, he could have at least made you a cuppa xx
Yes indeed, he was very rude! Won't be meeting him again anyway, he will get blocked!
Don't ever let a man treat you like that regardless of what fantasies are being acted out or the situation, a polite thank you and good bye I need to go would have been the minimum I would expect. I would never meet him again even if he came crawling, how dare he be that ignorant, no excuses for that. It's my opinion before I'm accused of being judgemental
Well, u said everything right today anyway!! He was a complete and otter wanker!
Rosebud we would never want to see any human being treated that way, we never claim to always be right here on the forums we just give our opinions on various topics which people either agree with or not. Basic respect for an individual is highly important regardless of differences and your experience is just the epitome of arrogant and ignorant behaviour "
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"Did you talk to the guy at all during the sex ?
Did u say hello to him when he came in ?
Just trying to act detective here to ascertain some facts. ..."
I said hello to him when he came in! I asked him something else & he answered me so it wasn't complete silence, but mostly it was! |
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"OMG WTBF I was on a MMF recently, 1 of the guys f**ked me and then when he came, he left, just like that, no kiss goodbye or a word goodbye, just left...
So guys tell me, why do men do this & how could they do this, fuck & just leave, I'd appreciate your input! Thank you!
His wife was beeping the car horn outside? lolol"
No, I think he had to collect her from bingo. |
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"OMG WTBF I was on a MMF recently, 1 of the guys f**ked me and then when he came, he left, just like that, no kiss goodbye or a word goodbye, just left...
So guys tell me, why do men do this & how could they do this, fuck & just leave, I'd appreciate your input! Thank you!
His wife was beeping the car horn outside? lolol
No, I think he had to collect her from bingo. "
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"Mine is a blindfold mmf and I do find it horny the other party I don't really know.
But after hearing rosebuds I'm slightly unsure now "
Hey Michael we could set up s couples profile the blue shirt duo what u think |
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It's a shame this has annoyed you but maybe best to chalk it up to experience. I have only ever done mmf with guys I know and trust for a number of reasons ie safe sex , discretion, trust etc esp if i thought about being blindfolded. .. You were putting your trust in a complete stranger. . And not all people are trustworthy sadly. If I was doing it blindfolded and wanted it to be a "stranger "in that I didn't know who was touching me then I would be very sure about the guy who was organising it and that he made sure the other guy was safe. .respectful and aware of how it should go. Communication is key in these things.maybe the guy did think he should leave in that way. . It's a very common fantasy but if that was the case you should have been made aware of that. If he's blocked he can't really let you know that and he may now to be too embarrassed to if it was a misunderstanding. As I say. . Chalk it up to experience ... like most things mmf is great fun and a personal favourite but only with trusted respectful people .. hope you have a better experience next time hun |
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"Mine is a blindfold mmf and I do find it horny the other party I don't really know.
But after hearing rosebuds I'm slightly unsure now Hey Michael we could set up s couples profile the blue shirt duo what u think "
Phwooarr! Why not? |
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"Mine is a blindfold mmf and I do find it horny the other party I don't really know.
But after hearing rosebuds I'm slightly unsure now Hey Michael we could set up s couples profile the blue shirt duo what u think "
Letmebeyurmichael? |
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"Mine is a blindfold mmf and I do find it horny the other party I don't really know.
But after hearing rosebuds I'm slightly unsure now Hey Michael we could set up s couples profile the blue shirt duo what u think
Letmebeyurmichael? "
Ha ha I love it |
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"He may have wanted to catch the big game, I must agree that is appauling and very very rude, he could have at least made you a cuppa xx
Yes indeed, he was very rude! Won't be meeting him again anyway, he will get blocked!
Don't ever let a man treat you like that regardless of what fantasies are being acted out or the situation, a polite thank you and good bye I need to go would have been the minimum I would expect. I would never meet him again even if he came crawling, how dare he be that ignorant, no excuses for that. It's my opinion before I'm accused of being judgemental
Well, u said everything right today anyway!! He was a complete and otter wanker!
Rosebud we would never want to see any human being treated that way, we never claim to always be right here on the forums we just give our opinions on various topics which people either agree with or not. Basic respect for an individual is highly important regardless of differences and your experience is just the epitome of arrogant and ignorant behaviour "
You put the nail in the head there! |
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"It's a shame this has annoyed you but maybe best to chalk it up to experience. I have only ever done mmf with guys I know and trust for a number of reasons ie safe sex , discretion, trust etc esp if i thought about being blindfolded. .. You were putting your trust in a complete stranger. . And not all people are trustworthy sadly. If I was doing it blindfolded and wanted it to be a "stranger "in that I didn't know who was touching me then I would be very sure about the guy who was organising it and that he made sure the other guy was safe. .respectful and aware of how it should go. Communication is key in these things.maybe the guy did think he should leave in that way. . It's a very common fantasy but if that was the case you should have been made aware of that. If he's blocked he can't really let you know that and he may now to be too embarrassed to if it was a misunderstanding. As I say. . Chalk it up to experience ... like most things mmf is great fun and a personal favourite but only with trusted respectful people .. hope you have a better experience next time hun
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"He may have wanted to catch the big game, I must agree that is appauling and very very rude, he could have at least made you a cuppa xx
Yes indeed, he was very rude! Won't be meeting him again anyway, he will get blocked!
Don't ever let a man treat you like that regardless of what fantasies are being acted out or the situation, a polite thank you and good bye I need to go would have been the minimum I would expect. I would never meet him again even if he came crawling, how dare he be that ignorant, no excuses for that. It's my opinion before I'm accused of being judgemental
Well, u said everything right today anyway!! He was a complete and otter wanker!
Rosebud we would never want to see any human being treated that way, we never claim to always be right here on the forums we just give our opinions on various topics which people either agree with or not. Basic respect for an individual is highly important regardless of differences and your experience is just the epitome of arrogant and ignorant behaviour
You put the nail in the head there! "
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gosh I wouldn't want that to happen and it sounds really rude.
But maybe he thought this was expected from him. I wonder if your friend really did a good job there and didn't set the right expectations beforehand. And/Or did you tell your friend what you exactly expect? You know men, you have to tell them everything!!! (sorry guys!)
How much do you really trust your fuck buddy with the job of finding someone? You literally put your life into their hands as he picked a stranger to come into a room where you're completely vulnerable. I would have to know someone extremely well before giving them that power. |
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"gosh I wouldn't want that to happen and it sounds really rude.
But maybe he thought this was expected from him. I wonder if your friend really did a good job there and didn't set the right expectations beforehand. And/Or did you tell your friend what you exactly expect? You know men, you have to tell them everything!!! (sorry guys!)
How much do you really trust your fuck buddy with the job of finding someone? You literally put your life into their hands as he picked a stranger to come into a room where you're completely vulnerable. I would have to know someone extremely well before giving them that power. "
Well, that's a lesson well learned for me I think! Will be more prepared next time if I decide to use the blindfold again! |
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"gosh I wouldn't want that to happen and it sounds really rude.
But maybe he thought this was expected from him. I wonder if your friend really did a good job there and didn't set the right expectations beforehand. And/Or did you tell your friend what you exactly expect? You know men, you have to tell them everything!!! (sorry guys!)
How much do you really trust your fuck buddy with the job of finding someone? You literally put your life into their hands as he picked a stranger to come into a room where you're completely vulnerable. I would have to know someone extremely well before giving them that power.
Well, that's a lesson well learned for me I think! Will be more prepared next time if I decide to use the blindfold again!"
tough lesson indeed! poor girl! but don't think about it too much. it has nothing to do with you xx |
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"gosh I wouldn't want that to happen and it sounds really rude.
But maybe he thought this was expected from him. I wonder if your friend really did a good job there and didn't set the right expectations beforehand. And/Or did you tell your friend what you exactly expect? You know men, you have to tell them everything!!! (sorry guys!)
How much do you really trust your fuck buddy with the job of finding someone? You literally put your life into their hands as he picked a stranger to come into a room where you're completely vulnerable. I would have to know someone extremely well before giving them that power.
Well, that's a lesson well learned for me I think! Will be more prepared next time if I decide to use the blindfold again!
tough lesson indeed! poor girl! but don't think about it too much. it has nothing to do with you xx"
You learn from mistakes you make, I feel foolish for not having found out more about that rude guy, I should have been more careful! |
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Just read through this and I'm curious as to what you expected to happen ? Neither you or the guy you know in the threesome seem to know this guy ? Was he a complete stranger to both of you ? You have said
'The guy who arranged the 3sum found that guy from this site and he said your man seemed ok!'
Had you had any discussions with this guy about what was going to happen or what was expected or did you just leave it up to your male friend ? If he was a complete stranger to both of you was it not unrealistic to think he would stay around after to make small talk ?
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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This thread was a piss take right???
I did say in my first post that i was busy and couldnt read it all so didnt spot the tongue in cheek
its the funniest thread iv read in a long time.pisstake or not |
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"This thread was a piss take right???
I did say in my first post that i was busy and couldnt read it all so didnt spot the tongue in cheek
its the funniest thread iv read in a long time.pisstake or not"
Maybe I'll laugh at u the next time something shitty happens to u! |
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"You need to be seriously out of touch with reality to think a blindfold mmf with strangers is anything but a hardcore act
you sound way too niave to be doing things like this
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One of the guys wasn't a stranger, just the guy who left! |
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?
I don't know I was blind-folded so I didn't see what he looked like, just as well seeing as he just left! Just heard his voice when he answered a question I asked him! "
Maybe he was wearing a blindfold as well and when he went to the loo he got lost?
Keep an eye on the headlines in your local paper:- "Blindfolded man arrested for streaking outside swinger's house" |
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?
I don't know I was blind-folded so I didn't see what he looked like, just as well seeing as he just left! Just heard his voice when he answered a question I asked him!
Maybe he was wearing a blindfold as well and when he went to the loo he got lost?
Keep an eye on the headlines in your local paper:- "Blindfolded man arrested for streaking outside swinger's house" "
I know this is a serious thread but your comment did make me laugh |
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"You need to be seriously out of touch with reality to think a blindfold mmf with strangers is anything but a hardcore act
you sound way too niave to be doing things like this
One of the guys wasn't a stranger, just the guy who left! "
If the guy who left was a stranger to both you and the guy you knew, why would you think he would hang around ? That's naive. It would have just been awkward. Maybe better to choose the third person more carefully in future |
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"You need to be seriously out of touch with reality to think a blindfold mmf with strangers is anything but a hardcore act
you sound way too niave to be doing things like this
One of the guys wasn't a stranger, just the guy who left!
If the guy who left was a stranger to both you and the guy you knew, why would you think he would hang around ? That's naive. It would have just been awkward. Maybe better to choose the third person more carefully in future "
The guy who organised the mmf, well he had chatted to him on the site several times and I was told that he had good chats with him! |
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"You need to be seriously out of touch with reality to think a blindfold mmf with strangers is anything but a hardcore act
you sound way too niave to be doing things like this
One of the guys wasn't a stranger, just the guy who left!
If the guy who left was a stranger to both you and the guy you knew, why would you think he would hang around ? That's naive. It would have just been awkward. Maybe better to choose the third person more carefully in future
The guy who organised the mmf, well he had chatted to him on the site several times and I was told that he had good chats with him!"
Seriously ?? You put your health, safety and body on the line with a guy who a friend of yours had 'several chats' with online and you're wondering why it wasn't a good experience ? As I said, you need to choose your third person more carefully if you want a better experience. |
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?
I don't know I was blind-folded so I didn't see what he looked like, just as well seeing as he just left! Just heard his voice when he answered a question I asked him!
Maybe he was wearing a blindfold as well and when he went to the loo he got lost?
Keep an eye on the headlines in your local paper:- "Blindfolded man arrested for streaking outside swinger's house"
I know this is a serious thread but your comment did make me laugh "
To the op, my sympathies, as I do think the guy treating you like that was both rude and disrespectful. I personally deal with situations like that by making light of them. maybe having a mental picture of the guy sitting in a jail cell, naked as a jaybird, still wearing the blindfold and surrounded by heardened thugs will help take away your hurt |
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?
I don't know I was blind-folded so I didn't see what he looked like, just as well seeing as he just left! Just heard his voice when he answered a question I asked him!
Maybe he was wearing a blindfold as well and when he went to the loo he got lost?
Keep an eye on the headlines in your local paper:- "Blindfolded man arrested for streaking outside swinger's house"
I know this is a serious thread but your comment did make me laugh
To the op, my sympathies, as I do think the guy treating you like that was both rude and disrespectful. I personally deal with situations like that by making light of them. maybe having a mental picture of the guy sitting in a jail cell, naked as a jaybird, still wearing the blindfold and surrounded by heardened thugs will help take away your hurt "
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Funniest thread I read in a long time. The man was disrepectful and rude to leave but he could have been famous and didn't want u to recognise him. It could have been Eamon Dunphy? Did he offer u some cadbury's dairy milk chocolate? |
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"Funniest thread I read in a long time. The man was disrepectful and rude to leave but he could have been famous and didn't want u to recognise him. It could have been Eamon Dunphy? Did he offer u some cadbury's dairy milk chocolate?"
Could have been a family member, neighbour or relative for that matter !! |
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"Funniest thread I read in a long time. The man was disrepectful and rude to leave but he could have been famous and didn't want u to recognise him. It could have been Eamon Dunphy? Did he offer u some cadbury's dairy milk chocolate?
Could have been a family member, neighbour or relative for that matter !!"
local vicar ? |
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"Funniest thread I read in a long time. The man was disrepectful and rude to leave but he could have been famous and didn't want u to recognise him. It could have been Eamon Dunphy? Did he offer u some cadbury's dairy milk chocolate?
Could have been a family member, neighbour or relative for that matter !!
local vicar ?"
Or even the priest......
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"LOL yea a bit! Have you spoken since or asked him? ?
Not a word from him since last nite!
I will block everyone who does that to me, fuck & leave!! "
I experience something similar last year, guy couldn't understand why I wouldn't veri him. I told him it would read " he fucked me and left" so no he never got the veri or another chance!!! |
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The type of 3some you organised will nearly always play out the way you described. Why would a stranger stay around and chat with you both? The whole point of bringing a stranger in is because you want to feel used, you want to feel dirty, you want him to fuck you and leave, you dont want anything more.
If you wanted a different type of 3some, then you organised it wrong.
Did you not explain what you wanted clearly?
Was it the first time you were with the guy who organised? |
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not trying to be funny here but you had anonymous sex AND you were blindfolded??? and your upset bc the guy didnt kiss you goodbye? you cant be serious. |
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I think like any other meets, the clearer you are in saying what you like and/or set expectations, the better. The other party either withdraws because they are not into that or they agree and you more likely get what you want. |
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"Meh, there's not much to be said once you've shot your load. Sure the only reason we talk to women in the first place is to see if we can get a ride! Job done!
The point is this wasn't discussed beforehand that he was just going to leave straight after he fucked me..
He just left without saying a word to any of us! It's rude don't u think!?
Was he dressed as a Panda?"
Haha brilliant I love it, you have been waiting to use that one a long time |
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In my opinion, it is down to the situation itself! What was the arrangement for the meet? What was discussed (agenda) to take place? For example: my Lib told me she had a fantasy where she was blindfolded for an entire mmf meet. The thrill was that she didn't know who she was meeting and playing with. I set this up for her in her birthday two weeks ago and it was one of the most erotic experiences of her life. It was a week after before she knew who she had met! My point being, the guy came over had a quick chat with me then played with Lib as I supervised and played. Then the guy left.... As planned! Mind you, he was a class gent, very funny. |
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