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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only........."

I don't want to feel stupid by asking, what is soft swing!?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

I don't want to feel stupid by asking, what is soft swing!? "

It's the opposite to hard swing

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only........."

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

I don't want to feel stupid by asking, what is soft swing!?

It's the opposite to hard swing"

That's a great help!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ha ha.....its all the foreplay fun without going all the way.......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ha ha.....its all the foreplay fun without going all the way......."

God! You sound like you're a school kid! Going all the way, who says that these days!!!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ha....I was trying to think of a polite way of doing everything except fk .....lol....

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By *oxic1998Woman  over a year ago

Belfast


"Ha....I was trying to think of a polite way of doing everything except fk .....lol...."

Nice to see someone can be a gentleman still....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Ah.....thanks!! I try...lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ha....I was trying to think of a polite way of doing everything except fk .....lol...."

Haha ha!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet"

Isn't he blessed

The man is forthrite with the truth and you slate him maybe a simple your not for us would suffice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ha....I was trying to think of a polite way of doing everything except fk .....lol....

Nice to see someone can be a gentleman still.... "

That's rare on this site!!

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"Ha....I was trying to think of a polite way of doing everything except fk .....lol....

Nice to see someone can be a gentleman still....

That's rare on this site!! "

No we are here just a little hard to find

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I don't worry about criticism like that.....its wasted worry....lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ha....I was trying to think of a polite way of doing everything except fk .....lol....

Nice to see someone can be a gentleman still....

That's rare on this site!!

No we are here just a little hard to find "

Smooth!!

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By *oxic1998Woman  over a year ago

Belfast


"Ha....I was trying to think of a polite way of doing everything except fk .....lol....

Nice to see someone can be a gentleman still....

That's rare on this site!!

No we are here just a little hard to find "

But worth the search and hard work when we find one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ha....I was trying to think of a polite way of doing everything except fk .....lol....

Nice to see someone can be a gentleman still....

That's rare on this site!!

No we are here just a little hard to find

But worth the search and hard work when we find one "

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By *idpunkMan  over a year ago

carrickfergus

I'm allways holding doors open,giving my seat up and things like that,manners cost nothing after all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm allways holding doors open,giving my seat up and things like that,manners cost nothing after all"

That's great!! but do u put down the seat after you've been to the loo!! lol

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By *idpunkMan  over a year ago

carrickfergus

I know better

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Always!!!! Or id risk serious injury....lol

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

Isn't he blessed

The man is forthrite with the truth and you slate him maybe a simple your not for us would suffice"

I did not slate him I just quoted his own truth and ours and our stance on married men who play behind their wives backs. It's cheating full stop

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

Isn't he blessed

The man is forthrite with the truth and you slate him maybe a simple your not for us would suffice"

have to say I agree with u there! I wouldn't mind but he did mention on his profile that he's married, u have to give it to him for his honesty!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet"

Jesus Christ where is the throw your eyes to heaven emoticon when ya need it....

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

Isn't he blessed

The man is forthrite with the truth and you slate him maybe a simple your not for us would suffice

I did not slate him I just quoted his own truth and ours and our stance on married men who play behind their wives backs. It's cheating full stop"

By the way yea he is truthful on his profile on a swingers site , wouldn't it be better if he have the truth to his wife and have her rather than us the choice to make an informed decision about how she feels!

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

The guy asked about soft swing and u brought his marital status in to it for what reason ??? Have a look at the profile if its not for u move on simples

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By *idpunkMan  over a year ago

carrickfergus

Lol

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

U have no idea how she feels u don't know his full circumstance he open and for trite enough for u to make ur own decisions

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If only life was that simple!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If only life was that simple!! "

I'm with u there sister...!!!!

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"If only life was that simple!! "

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By *idpunkMan  over a year ago

carrickfergus

Now now play nice

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"The guy asked about soft swing and u brought his marital status in to it for what reason ??? Have a look at the profile if its not for u move on simples"

I am fully entitled to my opinion it's a public form and if I feel that I want to say something I will just like you feel the need to try and tell me what I can and cannot say, that is for site mods not you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Now now play nice"

I am being nice, I'm a nice girl u see!!

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

I never told u what to say or not I just thought u could have said it nicer

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"I never told u what to say or not I just thought u could have said it nicer"

Why , cheating is cheating , you can dress it up anyway you choose , it's still cheating

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

Isn't he blessed

The man is forthrite with the truth and you slate him maybe a simple your not for us would suffice

I did not slate him I just quoted his own truth and ours and our stance on married men who play behind their wives backs. It's cheating full stop

By the way yea he is truthful on his profile on a swingers site , wouldn't it be better if he have the truth to his wife and have her rather than us the choice to make an informed decision about how she feels!"

I think that is between him and her tbh....he says he's married and if you don't meet married men move on without judging him! Just my view.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing against anyone on here but if a married lady posted a question about soft swing would she be jumped on too.

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By *oxic1998Woman  over a year ago

Belfast


"Nothing against anyone on here but if a married lady posted a question about soft swing would she be jumped on too."

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By *oxic1998Woman  over a year ago

Belfast


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

Isn't he blessed

The man is forthrite with the truth and you slate him maybe a simple your not for us would suffice

I did not slate him I just quoted his own truth and ours and our stance on married men who play behind their wives backs. It's cheating full stop

By the way yea he is truthful on his profile on a swingers site , wouldn't it be better if he have the truth to his wife and have her rather than us the choice to make an informed decision about how she feels!

I think that is between him and her tbh....he says he's married and if you don't meet married men move on without judging him! Just my view. "

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Nothing against anyone on here but if a married lady posted a question about soft swing would she be jumped on too."

I would say the same to any married person regardless of sex if they are playing behind their partners back. So in short yes

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

But is he playing behind her back

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But is he playing behind her back "

Chill! Time for a kit kat & a cuppa I think!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing against anyone on here but if a married lady posted a question about soft swing would she be jumped on too.

I would say the same to any married person regardless of sex if they are playing behind their partners back. So in short yes "

So it this Ben or holly talking????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing against anyone on here but if a married lady posted a question about soft swing would she be jumped on too.

I would say the same to any married person regardless of sex if they are playing behind their partners back. So in short yes

So it this Ben or holly talking???? "

Sorry.... Molly

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"But is he playing behind her back "

Well that's for the op to answer or choose not to answer. I'm presuming from his profile that she doesn't know because he says if a married man is not for you move on.

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Nothing against anyone on here but if a married lady posted a question about soft swing would she be jumped on too.

I would say the same to any married person regardless of sex if they are playing behind their partners back. So in short yes

So it this Ben or holly talking???? "

Both here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

Isn't he blessed

The man is forthrite with the truth and you slate him maybe a simple your not for us would suffice

I did not slate him I just quoted his own truth and ours and our stance on married men who play behind their wives backs. It's cheating full stop

By the way yea he is truthful on his profile on a swingers site , wouldn't it be better if he have the truth to his wife and have her rather than us the choice to make an informed decision about how she feels!

I think that is between him and her tbh....he says he's married and if you don't meet married men move on without judging him! Just my view. "

Well said!!!

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

Good night guys the wife's calling me I am off to bed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Good night guys the wife's calling me I am off to bed "

hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Good night guys the wife's calling me I am off to bed "

ha ha ha.

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway

As far as I'm aware there is a site for married people seeking extra marital fun without their partners. I don't believe this site should be used for same.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am asking as I don't know the answer tbh, but if all non swingers (as in the proper description of a swinger) left the site would there be many left on here?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As far as I'm aware there is a site for married people seeking extra marital fun without their partners. I don't believe this site should be used for same. "

That's a lost battle cause this site is you by the good, the bad and the ugly, also fakes and married lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As far as I'm aware there is a site for married people seeking extra marital fun without their partners. I don't believe this site should be used for same. "

but why again not having a go but i think no one on here as a right to judge anyone from using the site.Married single or coupled.If we start this we banning everyone.

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By *oxic1998Woman  over a year ago

Belfast


"As far as I'm aware there is a site for married people seeking extra marital fun without their partners. I don't believe this site should be used for same. "

We are all entitled to use the site as we see fit and shouldn't be told otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As far as I'm aware there is a site for married people seeking extra marital fun without their partners. I don't believe this site should be used for same.

We are all entitled to use the site as we see fit and shouldn't be told otherwise. "

For sure each to there own on here. I say

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As far as I'm aware there is a site for married people seeking extra marital fun without their partners. I don't believe this site should be used for same.

We are all entitled to use the site as we see fit and shouldn't be told otherwise.

For sure each to there own on here. I say "

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"As far as I'm aware there is a site for married people seeking extra marital fun without their partners. I don't believe this site should be used for same.

We are all entitled to use the site as we see fit and shouldn't be told otherwise. "

I believe I said I , meaning in my opinion how is that telling anybody to do something or not do, is that not for site admin?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

Isn't he blessed

The man is forthrite with the truth and you slate him maybe a simple your not for us would suffice"

Some high horses around here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Good night guys the wife's calling me I am off to bed "

You had my in stitches!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet"

I've always believed it is good manners to wait to be asked before you refuse. You've taken a rather judgemental stance in your posts which may or indeed may not be accurate. We could all do this...I dare say if I read your own profile I could make some rash assumptions and be totally wide of the mark. Also....we all have an entitlement to use the site within the rules and guidelines in our own way. If we take swinging down to completely brass tacks...we are all adults making choices for ourselves not others. Either with...or without permission. Live and let live and do your own thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

I've always believed it is good manners to wait to be asked before you refuse. You've taken a rather judgemental stance in your posts which may or indeed may not be accurate. We could all do this...I dare say if I read your own profile I could make some rash assumptions and be totally wide of the mark. Also....we all have an entitlement to use the site within the rules and guidelines in our own way. If we take swinging down to completely brass tacks...we are all adults making choices for ourselves not others. Either with...or without permission. Live and let live and do your own thing. "

So true.....we'll meet a judge in the end and it won't be someone from here ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

I've always believed it is good manners to wait to be asked before you refuse. You've taken a rather judgemental stance in your posts which may or indeed may not be accurate. We could all do this...I dare say if I read your own profile I could make some rash assumptions and be totally wide of the mark. Also....we all have an entitlement to use the site within the rules and guidelines in our own way. If we take swinging down to completely brass tacks...we are all adults making choices for ourselves not others. Either with...or without permission. Live and let live and do your own thing. "

Well said Jinty

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

Isn't he blessed

The man is forthrite with the truth and you slate him maybe a simple your not for us would suffice

Some high horses around here "

Indeed!!

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

I've always believed it is good manners to wait to be asked before you refuse. You've taken a rather judgemental stance in your posts which may or indeed may not be accurate. We could all do this...I dare say if I read your own profile I could make some rash assumptions and be totally wide of the mark. Also....we all have an entitlement to use the site within the rules and guidelines in our own way. If we take swinging down to completely brass tacks...we are all adults making choices for ourselves not others. Either with...or without permission. Live and let live and do your own thing. "

Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

I've always believed it is good manners to wait to be asked before you refuse. You've taken a rather judgemental stance in your posts which may or indeed may not be accurate. We could all do this...I dare say if I read your own profile I could make some rash assumptions and be totally wide of the mark. Also....we all have an entitlement to use the site within the rules and guidelines in our own way. If we take swinging down to completely brass tacks...we are all adults making choices for ourselves not others. Either with...or without permission. Live and let live and do your own thing.

Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1]

"

Did you just Google that and Copy and paste yoy did! Didn't you to look smart

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

I've always believed it is good manners to wait to be asked before you refuse. You've taken a rather judgemental stance in your posts which may or indeed may not be accurate. We could all do this...I dare say if I read your own profile I could make some rash assumptions and be totally wide of the mark. Also....we all have an entitlement to use the site within the rules and guidelines in our own way. If we take swinging down to completely brass tacks...we are all adults making choices for ourselves not others. Either with...or without permission. Live and let live and do your own thing.

Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1]

Did you just Google that and Copy and paste yoy did! Didn't you to look smart "

Shush hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1]

"

Much prefer to get my definitions from the urban dictionary as they're more fun.

Swinging

A nice fat ass that swings left to right when a shawty walks.

Damn Homie, that bitches ass is swinging!

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"

Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1]

Much prefer to get my definitions from the urban dictionary as they're more fun.

Swinging

A nice fat ass that swings left to right when a shawty walks.

Damn Homie, that bitches ass is swinging! "

If we were to be guided by this definition all the singles, married playing away with or without their partners knowlage should go and join a site which deals specifically with their circumstance. Why try and reinvent the wheel it works perfectly well the way it is, use the site the way u want and leave others to use it their way.

Good to see u back in the Irish forum Jinny I hope u brought cake

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The guy asked about soft swing and u brought his marital status in to it for what reason ??? Have a look at the profile if its not for u move on simples"

It's a forum everything written is up for discussion and if you don't want criticised don't fuckin post

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And ps... In my opinion he's a cheating 6cu"bag!!!

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"The guy asked about soft swing and u brought his marital status in to it for what reason ??? Have a look at the profile if its not for u move on simples

It's a forum everything written is up for discussion and if you don't want criticised don't fuckin post "

Good morning to u to sir and thank u for ur positive contribution to the discussion

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

I've always believed it is good manners to wait to be asked before you refuse. You've taken a rather judgemental stance in your posts which may or indeed may not be accurate. We could all do this...I dare say if I read your own profile I could make some rash assumptions and be totally wide of the mark. Also....we all have an entitlement to use the site within the rules and guidelines in our own way. If we take swinging down to completely brass tacks...we are all adults making choices for ourselves not others. Either with...or without permission. Live and let live and do your own thing.

So true.....we'll meet a judge in the end and it won't be someone from here ...."

Well I heard he was the original swinger , so he can't talk !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

sooo, soft swing eh, always causing rows

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"The guy asked about soft swing and u brought his marital status in to it for what reason ??? Have a look at the profile if its not for u move on simples

It's a forum everything written is up for discussion and if you don't want criticised don't fuckin post

Sarcasm won't cover the obivious either cj, there are a lot of married 'singles' on this site and yes they can do as they wish bit if you post to the forum you have to be prepared for both positive and negative replies, that's democracy for you. Maybe the site should be renamed and the swinging bit taken out of it if it's going to be a free for all. Maybe what has been brought up is a little too close to the bone for some and they do not wish to see how others may feel about it. It's like everything in life some people have strong opinions on different subject matter and others don't

Good morning to u to sir and thank u for ur positive contribution to the discussion "

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By *rishCouple2kCouple  over a year ago

Berkshire

To be honest,

Getting a couple to do soft swing has been a lot harder then we had originally thought would be.

Were pretty new to all this- so we wanna take baby steps. But most couples feel its kinda pointless for them to do only soft swing. Which is fair enough i guess, considering the rarity of meets.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To be honest,

Getting a couple to do soft swing has been a lot harder then we had originally thought would be.

Were pretty new to all this- so we wanna take baby steps. But most couples feel its kinda pointless for them to do only soft swing. Which is fair enough i guess, considering the rarity of meets."

As much as I love foreplay, I'd still want a good f**k at the end of it all!!! That's just me!!

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway

Sarcasm won't cover the obivious either cj, there are a lot of married 'singles' on this site and yes they can do as they wish bit if you post to the forum you have to be prepared for both positive and negative replies, that's democracy for you. Maybe the site should be renamed and the swinging bit taken out of it if it's going to be a free for all. Maybe what has been brought up is a little too close to the bone for some and they do not wish to see how others may feel about it. It's like everything in life some people have strong opinions on different subject matter and others don't

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

It takes all kinds to make the site work if the thread was posted by a single male would u have added the bit " sorry we can't offer u a meet our not bi" as ur profile says only bi males.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Chill u guys (Ben & Molly) and same to u CJ!! Chillax, it's Sunday a day of rest & forgiveness! Pretty please!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sarcasm won't cover the obivious either cj, there are a lot of married 'singles' on this site and yes they can do as they wish bit if you post to the forum you have to be prepared for both positive and negative replies, that's democracy for you. Maybe the site should be renamed and the swinging bit taken out of it if it's going to be a free for all. Maybe what has been brought up is a little too close to the bone for some and they do not wish to see how others may feel about it. It's like everything in life some people have strong opinions on different subject matter and others don't"

Opinions are like arseholes. We all got one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Sarcasm won't cover the obivious either cj, there are a lot of married 'singles' on this site and yes they can do as they wish bit if you post to the forum you have to be prepared for both positive and negative replies, that's democracy for you. Maybe the site should be renamed and the swinging bit taken out of it if it's going to be a free for all. Maybe what has been brought up is a little too close to the bone for some and they do not wish to see how others may feel about it. It's like everything in life some people have strong opinions on different subject matter and others don't

Opinions are like arseholes. We all got one "

Indeed!! I think my advice worked!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To be honest,

Getting a couple to do soft swing has been a lot harder then we had originally thought would be.

Were pretty new to all this- so we wanna take baby steps. But most couples feel its kinda pointless for them to do only soft swing. Which is fair enough i guess, considering the rarity of meets.

As much as I love foreplay, I'd still want a good f**k at the end of it all!!! That's just me!! "

Lol....that made me laugh.....have to agree!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To be honest,

Getting a couple to do soft swing has been a lot harder then we had originally thought would be.

Were pretty new to all this- so we wanna take baby steps. But most couples feel its kinda pointless for them to do only soft swing. Which is fair enough i guess, considering the rarity of meets.

As much as I love foreplay, I'd still want a good f**k at the end of it all!!! That's just me!!

Lol....that made me laugh.....have to agree!! "

It would be like getting a bitta dry cake without the cream and jam.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To be honest,

Getting a couple to do soft swing has been a lot harder then we had originally thought would be.

Were pretty new to all this- so we wanna take baby steps. But most couples feel its kinda pointless for them to do only soft swing. Which is fair enough i guess, considering the rarity of meets.

As much as I love foreplay, I'd still want a good f**k at the end of it all!!! That's just me!!

Lol....that made me laugh.....have to agree!!

It would be like getting a bitta dry cake without the cream and jam..... "

Or the creme egg without the goo inside!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To be honest,

Getting a couple to do soft swing has been a lot harder then we had originally thought would be.

Were pretty new to all this- so we wanna take baby steps. But most couples feel its kinda pointless for them to do only soft swing. Which is fair enough i guess, considering the rarity of meets.

As much as I love foreplay, I'd still want a good f**k at the end of it all!!! That's just me!!

Lol....that made me laugh.....have to agree!!

It would be like getting a bitta dry cake without the cream and jam.....

Or the creme egg without the goo inside!! "

I know!! Lol......

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"It takes all kinds to make the site work if the thread was posted by a single male would u have added the bit " sorry we can't offer u a meet our not bi" as ur profile says only bi males.

"

We certainly would, we don't believe in wasting anyone's time. Forums are for people to discuss anything and everything regardless of opinions

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By *habsMan  over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Nothing against anyone on here but if a married lady posted a question about soft swing would she be jumped on too.

I would say the same to any married person regardless of sex if they are playing behind their partners back. So in short yes "

Prove it. I have been swinging for many years, on many sites, and one of the commonalities I've seen in all the sites (including Fabs) is that (some) married guys swinging as singles get slated, but I have never seen a married woman playing as a single fem (ie, behind here vanilla husband) get any backlash. None, not once.

You say you'd say the same to a female? Prove it

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By *habsMan  over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"It takes all kinds to make the site work if the thread was posted by a single male would u have added the bit " sorry we can't offer u a meet our not bi" as ur profile says only bi males.

We certainly would, we don't believe in wasting anyone's time. Forums are for people to discuss anything and everything regardless of opinions"

But,.. how would you, presumable as complete strangers to him, "try to avoid wasting his time" by your response. Had he asked for a meet? Had both parties engaged in prior discussion?

Imagine if a girl in a club wanted a gangbang, and I, not knowing here from Eve, walked over to her and said "Sorry, you're not my type",.. surely only things I've accomplished are:

1) come across as a weirdo by telling a complete stranger it won't happen

2) wasted my own time in the process by taking the time to do so.

Thereby doubly accomplishing nothing. If the aim was to make the OP go "Oh no, please don't say that, PLEASE give me another chance", then ... that's surely the same sense of entitlement and presumption that makes a few folk on here miss the mark?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet"

Im sure hes devastated!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"To be honest,

Getting a couple to do soft swing has been a lot harder then we had originally thought would be.

Were pretty new to all this- so we wanna take baby steps. But most couples feel its kinda pointless for them to do only soft swing. Which is fair enough i guess, considering the rarity of meets."

in my experience every meet with a new person involves some baby steps and building up...

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By *habsMan  over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

Im sure hes devastated!"

Hahaha, my point exactly! Blown out by an unknown

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous! "

Well put there!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

I've always believed it is good manners to wait to be asked before you refuse. You've taken a rather judgemental stance in your posts which may or indeed may not be accurate. We could all do this...I dare say if I read your own profile I could make some rash assumptions and be totally wide of the mark. Also....we all have an entitlement to use the site within the rules and guidelines in our own way. If we take swinging down to completely brass tacks...we are all adults making choices for ourselves not others. Either with...or without permission. Live and let live and do your own thing. "

Well said Jinty, I couldn't agree more.....

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By *rishCouple2kCouple  over a year ago

Berkshire


"To be honest,

Getting a couple to do soft swing has been a lot harder then we had originally thought would be.

Were pretty new to all this- so we wanna take baby steps. But most couples feel its kinda pointless for them to do only soft swing. Which is fair enough i guess, considering the rarity of meets.

As much as I love foreplay, I'd still want a good f**k at the end of it all!!! That's just me!! "

And that is true for nearly everyone. We like the same- just with our own partner instead of a full swap.

But as u said- each to their own. And someone will be interested in us and what we want eventually

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous! "

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet"

Why just singles?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"To be honest,

Getting a couple to do soft swing has been a lot harder then we had originally thought would be.

Were pretty new to all this- so we wanna take baby steps. But most couples feel its kinda pointless for them to do only soft swing. Which is fair enough i guess, considering the rarity of meets.

As much as I love foreplay, I'd still want a good f**k at the end of it all!!! That's just me!!

And that is true for nearly everyone. We like the same- just with our own partner instead of a full swap.

But as u said- each to their own. And someone will be interested in us and what we want eventually "

Aaah yes, there's always going to be somebody who will be willing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet"

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not...

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By *habsMan  over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

Why just singles?

"

Because there's no such thing as a couple who don't live together, and can't possibly be because they are married to other people in reality.

nope - absolutely never happens,... all these untrustworthy cheating singles.

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By *idpunkMan  over a year ago

carrickfergus


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not... "

aint that the truth

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not...

"

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not... "

That's a fair enough comment but we do not play alone, we still wouldn't play with a single who says they have their partners consent for the very reason you stated ie how do you know your not being fed a pack of lies. We don't play as we have respect for swinging in it's original form and for the people we meet. Everyone's idea of respect is different that's why we try and get to know people first so that it's a level ground and all is understood

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman  over a year ago

My town


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet"

well for all you know the person could be lying your just taking them at face value.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not...

That's a fair enough comment but we do not play alone, we still wouldn't play with a single who says they have their partners consent for the very reason you stated ie how do you know your not being fed a pack of lies. We don't play as we have respect for swinging in it's original form and for the people we meet. Everyone's idea of respect is different that's why we try and get to know people first so that it's a level ground and all is understood"

In its original form is your husband swaps you with another man ..that's the originality of a swinger!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not...

That's a fair enough comment but we do not play alone, we still wouldn't play with a single who says they have their partners consent for the very reason you stated ie how do you know your not being fed a pack of lies. We don't play as we have respect for swinging in it's original form and for the people we meet. Everyone's idea of respect is different that's why we try and get to know people first so that it's a level ground and all is understood"

This is just getting silly now.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

sure it's all swings and roundabouts , or maybe it's all swingers and reacharounds?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not...

That's a fair enough comment but we do not play alone, we still wouldn't play with a single who says they have their partners consent for the very reason you stated ie how do you know your not being fed a pack of lies. We don't play as we have respect for swinging in it's original form and for the people we meet. Everyone's idea of respect is different that's why we try and get to know people first so that it's a level ground and all is understood

This is just getting silly now."

Agreed!! Who else agrees!!? Put your thumb/s up if u do!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Analogy...man from cork puts ad in national paper looking to buy a 06 ford focus.....couple with 06 ford focus see the ad and ring the ad number to tell the man that they have a 06 ford focus for sale but wont sell to him as he is from cork......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not...

That's a fair enough comment but we do not play alone, we still wouldn't play with a single who says they have their partners consent for the very reason you stated ie how do you know your not being fed a pack of lies. We don't play as we have respect for swinging in it's original form and for the people we meet. Everyone's idea of respect is different that's why we try and get to know people first so that it's a level ground and all is understood

This is just getting silly now.

Agreed!! Who else agrees!!? Put your thumb/s up if u do!! "

+2

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Analogy...man from cork puts ad in national paper looking to buy a 06 ford focus.....couple with 06 ford focus see the ad and ring the ad number to tell the man that they have a 06 ford focus for sale but wont sell to him as he is from cork......"

can't trust them cork people

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By *enandmollyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not...

That's a fair enough comment but we do not play alone, we still wouldn't play with a single who says they have their partners consent for the very reason you stated ie how do you know your not being fed a pack of lies. We don't play as we have respect for swinging in it's original form and for the people we meet. Everyone's idea of respect is different that's why we try and get to know people first so that it's a level ground and all is understood

In its original form is your husband swaps you with another man ..that's the originality of a swinger!!! "

I'm quite happy to share my husband with other men I find it extremely erotic but we do not share with married bi men playing behind their wives backs

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"Analogy...man from cork puts ad in national paper looking to buy a 06 ford focus.....couple with 06 ford focus see the ad and ring the ad number to tell the man that they have a 06 ford focus for sale but wont sell to him as he is from cork......"

Does it come with a full history

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi everyone......is there anyone who would like long soft swing session only.........

We do soft swing but as you are cheating we can't offer you a meet

Isn't he blessed

The man is forthrite with the truth and you slate him maybe a simple your not for us would suffice

I did not slate him I just quoted his own truth and ours and our stance on married men who play behind their wives backs. It's cheating full stop

By the way yea he is truthful on his profile on a swingers site , wouldn't it be better if he have the truth to his wife and have her rather than us the choice to make an informed decision about how she feels!"

*sighs* yet another holy warrior on the path of righteousness! Someone get us an extra pair of angel wings, we got some Paladins here to ordain!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not...

That's a fair enough comment but we do not play alone, we still wouldn't play with a single who says they have their partners consent for the very reason you stated ie how do you know your not being fed a pack of lies. We don't play as we have respect for swinging in it's original form and for the people we meet. Everyone's idea of respect is different that's why we try and get to know people first so that it's a level ground and all is understood

This is just getting silly now.

Agreed!! Who else agrees!!? Put your thumb/s up if u do!!

+2"

+3

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing against anyone on here but if a married lady posted a question about soft swing would she be jumped on too."

well said biggles

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nothing against anyone on here but if a married lady posted a question about soft swing would she be jumped on too."

Yeah, by a whole bunch of guys and couples despe^H^H^H^H *coughs* willing to help out

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By *urferniMan  over a year ago

Antrim


"At the end of the day if soft swing is your thing then it's your thing...

But judging people on their relationship status is irrelevant, I mean if you own a club or are in a club,is hey are you married or attached part of the conversation, is it stamped on bold letters on their forehead?

It's totally ridiculous!

If we are at any meet regardless , of course we are going to ask if the person is married as we value and respect married couples and find it disrespectful to the absent husband or wife so in short yes we do ask any singles we meet

So I'd a person lies to you tells you he's single and he's really married how will you ever know?

Lots of married couples give consent to play regardless if they are there or not, my husband and I trust one another and he's free to play with who he wishes, you have been to the club's in canaria and I'm pretty sure the single men don't say if they are married!

I think the guys who say they are married or attached on here are way more respectful to the person or people they play with....

It's not up to you me or anyone else to judge them on their relationship status...

Everyone here has a story like it or not...

That's a fair enough comment but we do not play alone, we still wouldn't play with a single who says they have their partners consent for the very reason you stated ie how do you know your not being fed a pack of lies. We don't play as we have respect for swinging in it's original form and for the people we meet. Everyone's idea of respect is different that's why we try and get to know people first so that it's a level ground and all is understood

This is just getting silly now.

Agreed!! Who else agrees!!? Put your thumb/s up if u do!!

+2

+3"

+4

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By *habsMan  over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"That's a fair enough comment but we do not play alone, we still wouldn't play with a single who says they have their partners consent for the very reason you stated ie how do you know your not being fed a pack of lies. We don't play as we have respect for swinging in it's original form and for the people we meet. Everyone's idea of respect is different that's why we try and get to know people first so that it's a level ground and all is understood

In its original form is your husband swaps you with another man ..that's the originality of a swinger!!! "

In its purest form "wife-swapping" is devoid of choice, level of attraction (attractiveness to be more exact) or interest, purely "you're here, you'll do" as you have couples praying "God no, please not the ugly one" as the car keys are pulled one by one form the bowl. We have come along way form "its purest form - I for one would not want to see that ever again!

But, back to the original point: soft swinging

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1]

Much prefer to get my definitions from the urban dictionary as they're more fun.

Swinging

A nice fat ass that swings left to right when a shawty walks.

Damn Homie, that bitches ass is swinging!

If we were to be guided by this definition all the singles, married playing away with or without their partners knowlage should go and join a site which deals specifically with their circumstance. Why try and reinvent the wheel it works perfectly well the way it is, use the site the way u want and leave others to use it their way.

Good to see u back in the Irish forum Jinny I hope u brought cake "

Awe cj....that's so kind of you. Just popped in to see how you are all doing and find you're all still mad as badgers! My kinda people!!! Cake of the day is banana toffee drizzle but the bottoms very soggy...careful now! xx

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By *urferniMan  over a year ago

Antrim


"

Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.[1]

Much prefer to get my definitions from the urban dictionary as they're more fun.

Swinging

A nice fat ass that swings left to right when a shawty walks.

Damn Homie, that bitches ass is swinging!

If we were to be guided by this definition all the singles, married playing away with or without their partners knowlage should go and join a site which deals specifically with their circumstance. Why try and reinvent the wheel it works perfectly well the way it is, use the site the way u want and leave others to use it their way.

Good to see u back in the Irish forum Jinny I hope u brought cake

Awe cj....that's so kind of you. Just popped in to see how you are all doing and find you're all still mad as badgers! My kinda people!!! Cake of the day is banana toffee drizzle but the bottoms very soggy...careful now! xx "

Banana toffee drizzle cake - yummy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Does anyone enjoy foreplay more than sex....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Does anyone enjoy foreplay more than sex...."

Sometimes I do. I can have foreplay without sex but never sex without foreplay. I think its entirely possible to have a highly satisfying sexual experience without penetrative sex. But I still enjoy that too.

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick

Yes I have had one or two soft meets and totally enjoyed them and would love a repeat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah I love d foreplay with new women.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yeah I love d foreplay with new women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yeah I love d foreplay with new women. "

ya....the new exploring is brilliant.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Does anyone enjoy foreplay more than sex....

Sometimes I do. I can have foreplay without sex but never sex without foreplay. I think its entirely possible to have a highly satisfying sexual experience without penetrative sex. But I still enjoy that too. "

glad I'm not alone in it....!!

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By *urferniMan  over a year ago

Antrim


"Does anyone enjoy foreplay more than sex....

Sometimes I do. I can have foreplay without sex but never sex without foreplay. I think its entirely possible to have a highly satisfying sexual experience without penetrative sex. But I still enjoy that too.

glad I'm not alone in it....!!"

Totally agree! I find that can happen when you meet that very special person who you find immensely attractive and with whom the chemistry is extremely strong. It makes the kissing, the touching simply electric - more than just physical.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Does anyone enjoy foreplay more than sex....

Sometimes I do. I can have foreplay without sex but never sex without foreplay. I think its entirely possible to have a highly satisfying sexual experience without penetrative sex. But I still enjoy that too.

glad I'm not alone in it....!!

Totally agree! I find that can happen when you meet that very special person who you find immensely attractive and with whom the chemistry is extremely strong. It makes the kissing, the touching simply electric - more than just physical. "

I agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Still looking for that soft swing kissing meet......

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