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over a year ago
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A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.
Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise  |
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"A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.
Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise "
Go round and see for yourself how ill they are and then you can decide  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.
Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise
Go round and see for yourself how ill they are and then you can decide "
Yes maybe I will.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If the friend is too sick to travel now she won't be fully better in two days and prob will either end up making you sick or just not enjoying herself. Change the name and bring other friend and reschedule a trip with sick friend for another time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the friend is too sick to travel now she won't be fully better in two days and prob will either end up making you sick or just not enjoying herself. Change the name and bring other friend and reschedule a trip with sick friend for another time "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the friend is too sick to travel now she won't be fully better in two days and prob will either end up making you sick or just not enjoying herself. Change the name and bring other friend and reschedule a trip with sick friend for another time "
That's a perfect solution lollipop  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If the friend is too sick to travel now she won't be fully better in two days and prob will either end up making you sick or just not enjoying herself. Change the name and bring other friend and reschedule a trip with sick friend for another time "
Yes that is true..it's not my holiday it's my daughter's and she won't listen to my name cyange advice. So either the holiday will go ahead on Monday to Magaluf or it won't!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Take lollipops advise miss hunnietoes! You mustn't spoil your holiday or allow someone to spoil it for you "
I know....it's not my holiday but my week s spoiled if the holiday doesn't go ahead!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How did it turn out?
I suppose your sick friend can be ill on holiday just as much as at home if you went that way. "
Name change outta the question now so it is a waiting game |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If shs's a REAL friend she'll tell ur daughter to go on ahead n make other arrangements !!! Otherwise I'd go over to her house myself and tie her up with all that rope you have and leave her in the attic !!!! Then your daughter goes off on her holiday and more importantly , you get to have ur fun !!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.
Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise "
Names be changed and off I'd go!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why doesn't the non sick friend see if she can add her name to the holiday. Therefore if the sick friend can't go your daughter will still have company. "
It's an idea but the cost of a new holiday is double what the girls paid when they booked it in March....the step in friend would benefit from the low cost sick friend's deal x |
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"Why doesn't the non sick friend see if she can add her name to the holiday. Therefore if the sick friend can't go your daughter will still have company. "
Good call |
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"If the friend is too sick to travel now she won't be fully better in two days and prob will either end up making you sick or just not enjoying herself. Change the name and bring other friend and reschedule a trip with sick friend for another time
That's a perfect solution lollipop "
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By *imwildWoman
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"Why doesn't the non sick friend see if she can add her name to the holiday. Therefore if the sick friend can't go your daughter will still have company.
It's an idea but the cost of a new holiday is double what the girls paid when they booked it in March....the step in friend would benefit from the low cost sick friend's deal x"
Even just the flight?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why doesn't the non sick friend see if she can add her name to the holiday. Therefore if the sick friend can't go your daughter will still have company.
It's an idea but the cost of a new holiday is double what the girls paid when they booked it in March....the step in friend would benefit from the low cost sick friend's deal x
Even just the flight??"
I will check that out...truth be told I'm just reeling about the short time span involved... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.
Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise
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Not being funny but she doesn't sound much of a friend
Unless she's a hospital case holidays are always a good idea
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A holiday with a friend is two days away, friend texts to say she may be too ill to travel but wants to wait until the travel day to see how she feels.
Another friend can step in but name change needs done 48 hrs pre-travel....so called sick frend will not respond to text or calls.....please advise
Not being funny but she doesn't sound much of a friend
Unless she's a hospital case holidays are always a good idea
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Yes I agree..how do we guide our kids to stick with suitable friends? |
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"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.
Yes I kno....."
Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!
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"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.
Yes I kno.....
Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!
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Thankfully she has gold cover insurance and yea a relable friend would be better! |
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"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.
Yes I kno.....
Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!
Thankfully she has gold cover insurance and yea a relable friend would be better!"
Great! Hope things will work out OK in the long run  |
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"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.
Yes I kno.....
Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!
Thankfully she has gold cover insurance and yea a relable friend would be better!"
fingers crossed it all works out hun! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.
Yes I kno.....
Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!
Thankfully she has gold cover insurance and yea a relable friend would be better!
fingers crossed it all works out hun! "
It looks like the sick friend might go to Magaluf after all I'm not one for prayer but here's hoping!! |
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"Not much off a friend there hun at least should off contacted u to let u know what was going on decent thing to do i think.
Yes I kno.....
Does she have holiday insurance? Might be worth checking if it covers cancellation due to illness of a travelling companion. At least then she would get money back and could re-book for another time, and potentially with a more reliable friend!
Thankfully she has gold cover insurance and yea a relable friend would be better!
fingers crossed it all works out hun!
It looks like the sick friend might go to Magaluf after all I'm not one for prayer but here's hoping!!"
Let's hope in a week's time they'll be having a great holiday and these hassles will be long in the past |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So who went on the holiday then? "
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
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Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!  |
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's been cloudy and muggy all this last week. Lots of rain and thunder and lighting in Spain at the minute, hopefully they won't run into that. "
Oh no! Though these two are party girls so out all night and sleep all day!! |
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!! "
They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!  |
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!
They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again! "
Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!
They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again! "
Great news!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!
They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!
Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out! "
True..the standing back bit is the one I struggle with!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!
They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again! "
glad to hear it!!!! U'll need a holiday urself after all that. Hope they remember to bring u something nice..... |
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!
They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!
Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out!
True..the standing back bit is the one I struggle with!!"
not easy, especially when you think of the stuff you got up to yourself at that age! |
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By *imwildWoman
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!
They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!
Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out!
True..the standing back bit is the one I struggle with!! not easy, especially when you think of the stuff you got up to yourself at that age! "
or the stuff your still getting up to now!! |
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!
They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!
Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out!
True..the standing back bit is the one I struggle with!! not easy, especially when you think of the stuff you got up to yourself at that age! or the stuff your still getting up to now!! "
I was thinking that we're all now mature, sensible people who never get up to anything naughty |
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By *imwildWoman
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!
They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!
Brilliant! Never easy being a parent and having to stand back and let them figure life out!
True..the standing back bit is the one I struggle with!! not easy, especially when you think of the stuff you got up to yourself at that age! or the stuff your still getting up to now!!
I was thinking that we're all now mature, sensible people who never get up to anything naughty "
Yes definitely very mature |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So who went on the holiday then?
The sick friend went armed with anti- biotics and painkillers...they're at the airport now and flight is delayed by 3 hours!!
Lol not having much luck with this holiday so far! Hopefully their luck will change and they'll all have a great holiday!
I'd love to be heading to the sun, lie by the pool all day!!
They're there!! Wohoo I can breathe again!
glad to hear it!!!! U'll need a holiday urself after all that. Hope they remember to bring u something nice....."
I know! Though a free house is quite a treat! |
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