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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been a wee peep like others I've noticed a lot of pics where protection is not been used, surly they all can't be their partners as their profiles say they r single.
Just an observation as one spoilt apple will rot the barrel.
What's your taughts and experience on this????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Id say popcorn time......no in all seriousness its a must.....obviously my husband and i don't use protection with each other...but with other people....Yes!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a topic that interest safe sex all the way only bare back with hubby.but can anyone answer were the safe sex comes into play when going down orally?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's a topic that interest safe sex all the way only bare back with hubby.but can anyone answer were the safe sex comes into play when going down orally??"
I don't think it does, a visual examination is d only way and even at that one be still open to infection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a topic that interest safe sex all the way only bare back with hubby.but can anyone answer were the safe sex comes into play when going down orally??"
so does this mean that even though you make sure you use condoms, when performing oral there is no safe way unless you use a condom or dental dam? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been a wee peep like others I've noticed a lot of pics where protection is not been used, surly they all can't be their partners as their profiles say they r single.
Just an observation as one spoilt apple will rot the barrel.
What's your taughts and experience on this?????"
good luck with this posting ... big popcorn cinema  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Safe sex a must
This post can be understood only as a joke. There are more than the risk of pregnancy.  "
and how is it a joke that I insist on a condom ???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Safe sex a must
This post can be understood only as a joke. There are more than the risk of pregnancy.
and how is it a joke that I insist on a condom ??? "
Of course not .. it is an joke to ask "condom or not" .. ALWAYS no exception !!
..........that's why I wrote, there is more to fear than pregnancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a topic that interest safe sex all the way only bare back with hubby.but can anyone answer were the safe sex comes into play when going down orally??
so does this mean that even though you make sure you use condoms, when performing oral there is no safe way unless you use a condom or dental dam?"
The only 'safe' way is to avoid any direct contact with anothers fluids. Work backwards from there until you feel comfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a topic that interest safe sex all the way only bare back with hubby.but can anyone answer were the safe sex comes into play when going down orally??
so does this mean that even though you make sure you use condoms, when performing oral there is no safe way unless you use a condom or dental dam?
The only 'safe' way is to avoid any direct contact with anothers fluids. Work backwards from there until you feel comfortable."
Thanks. It does put me off tbh as so many (no offense) have been about so much that you could not be sure that nothing is passed on, But I suppose it is not talked about. food for thought!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a topic that interest safe sex all the way only bare back with hubby.but can anyone answer were the safe sex comes into play when going down orally??
so does this mean that even though you make sure you use condoms, when performing oral there is no safe way unless you use a condom or dental dam?
The only 'safe' way is to avoid any direct contact with anothers fluids. Work backwards from there until you feel comfortable.
Thanks. It does put me off tbh as so many (no offense) have been about so much that you could not be sure that nothing is passed on, But I suppose it is not talked about. food for thought! "
And as I've found, a lot of men don't like to be blown with a condom on, so you can use it as an excuse if you aren't in the mood of giving a BJ! |
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By *unduo000Couple
over a year ago
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"Id say popcorn time......no in all seriousness its a must.....obviously my husband and i don't use protection with each other...but with other people....Yes!! "
Better safe than sorry, old saying your health is your wealth.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's a topic that interest safe sex all the way only bare back with hubby.but can anyone answer were the safe sex comes into play when going down orally??
so does this mean that even though you make sure you use condoms, when performing oral there is no safe way unless you use a condom or dental dam?
The only 'safe' way is to avoid any direct contact with anothers fluids. Work backwards from there until you feel comfortable.
Thanks. It does put me off tbh as so many (no offense) have been about so much that you could not be sure that nothing is passed on, But I suppose it is not talked about. food for thought!
And as I've found, a lot of men don't like to be blown with a condom on, so you can use it as an excuse if you aren't in the mood of giving a BJ!"
Thank you again for taking the time to explain. I am not really experienced so this all helps x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was contacted recently by a male single profile and it was very obvious that all his pictures are bareback
I said to him that i wouldn't be interested in meeting him because of this
He said he wouldn't mind using them with me if I insisted ! Lol
Seriously ..
I know this guy is verified and has had several meets !!
I have had encounters where it's clear only for my insistence that they would go bareback no problem !
It's true what the op says
Only one bad apple is all it would take.
It's not just penetration
I know females that swallow ( I know it's less likely to become infected with an Sti through oral than penetration but It does happen)
I also know of a member of a site (not this one that carries herpes and plays when not active .
I get checked twice annually
This shit doesn't get talked about half enough
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah condoms all the way. Tho I know not everyone likes. Only ever not used with someone I was in a relationship with but did have myself checked out after we split as it turned out she'd been sleeping with others without my knowledge. I'm just thankful I got the all clear. As she didn't like them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Were do u get a dental dam? Every woman ive encountered has always give me a bj without a condom on. To tell u the truth glad this topic is being talked about. This site scares the living daylights out of me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yet to meet anyone on here ive had a few offers from women & couples but list of verifications made sure I politely turned them down"
So what your trying to say if ppl here have a load of veris they have std what a load of bollicks !!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yet to meet anyone on here ive had a few offers from women & couples but list of verifications made sure I politely turned them downSo what your trying to say if ppl here have a load of veris they have std what a load of bollicks !!"
People have preferences and choice, each to their own, and their deamons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never said that at all but multiple pics of them fucking bareback would not scare u?"
Only person u need worry abt is no 1 if u dont like a profile move on simple
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yet to meet anyone on here ive had a few offers from women & couples but list of verifications made sure I politely turned them downSo what your trying to say if ppl here have a load of veris they have std what a load of bollicks !!"
Yeah that's a load of. As veris aren't always from a sexual encounter |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yet to meet anyone on here ive had a few offers from women & couples but list of verifications made sure I politely turned them downSo what your trying to say if ppl here have a load of veris they have std what a load of bollicks !!
Yeah that's a load of. As veris aren't always from a sexual encounter "
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Yet to meet anyone on here ive had a few offers from women & couples but list of verifications made sure I politely turned them downSo what your trying to say if ppl here have a load of veris they have std what a load of bollicks !!
Yeah that's a load of. As veris aren't always from a sexual encounter "
Even if they are all sexual ...don't see how it has anything to do with it.....can't believe I am even taking part in this thread.... Nite all |
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By *liceandraWoman
over a year ago
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I think it is up to the individual and whether they trust each other, I get checked out twice a year and use condoms most of the time. Only guys I have known for a while and know are clean would be granted bareback status, but they are few and far between. |
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"Yet to meet anyone on here ive had a few offers from women & couples but list of verifications made sure I politely turned them down"
The number of veris seems a strange reason to turn down meeting people tbh!! Not all verifications mean that people have had sex with each other! !! Most people who attend meet&greets etc like myself have a lot of veris but it doesn't mean they played with the person verifying them or that they practice unsafe sex pictures if unprotected sex are extremely off putting in single people but if it's a married couple it is likely to be them in the photo and they use protection with others only. |
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By *e r usCouple
over a year ago
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Have been to a few parties in Dublin organised by a certain site costs 95 eoro per couple didnot engage in much activity as only people there who even appeared to have condoms in their possession where ourselves if we needed them but once produced nobody interested. No matter what you pay surely health most important saw people exchange partners several times and no protection then ask for swap without even visiting bathroom to wash. No thanks will not visit again, despite price no condoms available unless you bring your own. Anybody experience same.  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Safe sex we use this phrase in conjunction with the use of condoms the only safe sex is no sex. Sti can be passed from one to another in lots of ways ,fluids and contact all we can do is protect ourselfs as best we can this means condoms and regular scscreening. That's not to say u need to be tested after every encounter but to take it to the extreme u should be tested after every encounter and even if ur not active regularly after ur last encounter as some sti's take a bit to show up. Common sense needs to be exercised glove up and regular screening is the best preventive but not the ultimate preventive for this I suggest a chastity belt. There are some free screening programs in the south other than that urlocal family planning clinic or gp will provide it for about €80 well worth it. No embrassment in being safe guys happy swinging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Safe sex we use this phrase in conjunction with the use of condoms the only safe sex is no sex. Sti can be passed from one to another in lots of ways ,fluids and contact all we can do is protect ourselfs as best we can this means condoms and regular scscreening. That's not to say u need to be tested after every encounter but to take it to the extreme u should be tested after every encounter and even if ur not active regularly after ur last encounter as some sti's take a bit to show up. Common sense needs to be exercised glove up and regular screening is the best preventive but not the ultimate preventive for this I suggest a chastity belt. There are some free screening programs in the south other than that urlocal family planning clinic or gp will provide it for about €80 well worth it. No embrassment in being safe guys happy swinging "
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You have to pay at the gp for this? That's awful. .. It's free here! I get checked regularly. My gp gets all his patients to do it as he feels it's part of your health mot as such. It's a good idea and the fact that he does it with all patients means it's just routine to all...... so the younger ones don't feel singled out. ....little old ladies seem to feel quite flattered lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to pay at the gp for this? That's awful. .. It's free here! I get checked regularly. My gp gets all his patients to do it as he feels it's part of your health mot as such. It's a good idea and the fact that he does it with all patients means it's just routine to all...... so the younger ones don't feel singled out. ....little old ladies seem to feel quite flattered lol "
Ha! No NHS down here, we pay to see the doc & pay the ACTUAL cost of medicine(no subsidised prescrips). |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"You have to pay at the gp for this? That's awful. .. It's free here! I get checked regularly. My gp gets all his patients to do it as he feels it's part of your health mot as such. It's a good idea and the fact that he does it with all patients means it's just routine to all...... so the younger ones don't feel singled out. ....little old ladies seem to feel quite flattered lol
Ha! No NHS down here, we pay to see the doc & pay the ACTUAL cost of medicine(no subsidised prescrips)."
Subsidesed perscriptions Depends on ur medical needs there is a drugs payment scheme it costs €143.00 a month includes scripts for all the family and is open to all |
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"You have to pay at the gp for this? That's awful. .. It's free here! I get checked regularly. My gp gets all his patients to do it as he feels it's part of your health mot as such. It's a good idea and the fact that he does it with all patients means it's just routine to all...... so the younger ones don't feel singled out. ....little old ladies seem to feel quite flattered lol
Ha! No NHS down here, we pay to see the doc & pay the ACTUAL cost of medicine(no subsidised prescrips).
Subsidesed perscriptions Depends on ur medical needs there is a drugs payment scheme it costs €143.00 a month includes scripts for all the family and is open to all "
really! ! That's awful. ..What if people can't afford this and they are ill? ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to pay at the gp for this? That's awful. .. It's free here! I get checked regularly. My gp gets all his patients to do it as he feels it's part of your health mot as such. It's a good idea and the fact that he does it with all patients means it's just routine to all...... so the younger ones don't feel singled out. ....little old ladies seem to feel quite flattered lol
Ha! No NHS down here, we pay to see the doc & pay the ACTUAL cost of medicine(no subsidised prescrips).
Subsidesed perscriptions Depends on ur medical needs there is a drugs payment scheme it costs €143.00 a month includes scripts for all the family and is open to all
really! ! That's awful. ..What if people can't afford this and they are ill? ?"
They beg, borrow or steal
Or stay ill |
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"You have to pay at the gp for this? That's awful. .. It's free here! I get checked regularly. My gp gets all his patients to do it as he feels it's part of your health mot as such. It's a good idea and the fact that he does it with all patients means it's just routine to all...... so the younger ones don't feel singled out. ....little old ladies seem to feel quite flattered lol
Ha! No NHS down here, we pay to see the doc & pay the ACTUAL cost of medicine(no subsidised prescrips).
Subsidesed perscriptions Depends on ur medical needs there is a drugs payment scheme it costs €143.00 a month includes scripts for all the family and is open to all
really! ! That's awful. ..What if people can't afford this and they are ill? ?
They beg, borrow or steal
Or stay ill "
that's terrible...excuse my ignorance but i didn't know that. How awful must that be too have to be ill and not get treatment if cost was an issue! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we live in the Year 2014, all information are just a click away. To ask the question condom or not is simply idiotic.
but if there are people who love russian roulette ... good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can get various online testing kits now. Each test around £30. Not sure if that's cheaper than GP but might be helpful for those who don't wish to attend GP/clinic.
Are there free GUM clinics or family planning in the south? |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"You can get various online testing kits now. Each test around £30. Not sure if that's cheaper than GP but might be helpful for those who don't wish to attend GP/clinic.
Are there free GUM clinics or family planning in the south? "
Free are u stark raving mad only thing free down here is air and I am sure thereis some advisor ssome where looking at a way to tax that
There are some free clinics but u need a day off to get to join the que not to mind getting tested |
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