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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So Guys and girls we know men are hunters its in our DNA but its so refreshing when you are contacted first by a female, iv had the honure of this a few times,
I know you girls are unindated on here with messages but have you ever scanned over male profiles and messaged guy first? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me 
spoken like a true predator! roooar!sounds like there's a cougar on the prowl!!!!  "
I thought cougars were more like old ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me
spoken like a true predator! roooar!sounds like there's a cougar on the prowl!!!!
I thought cougars were more like old ladies "
hey have ya ever seen the damage one of them things can do to antelope!!! no little old lady capable of that!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes if a profile catches my eye I will mail
I don't always get a answer
but I can take it I'm a big girl  "
pray tell how ya like ta take it?  sorry curvy couldn't resist it,please forgive me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv msgd guys first..equal rights an all that.lol..don't see why the men have to do all the work on here..but its only those that interest me with there profile.ones that actually make an effort. .instead off "fill in later" an there here a yr or so lol.. |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
We have single guys blocked so I always message first....only one guy has said thanks but no thanks but in a polite way....don't know why more single ladies don't use this approach.... Works a dream |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i said this to a girl just the other day, i genuinely think this place would be easier for you lot if u blocked all single males and just messaged those u either trusted were sane or quite liked the look of...would certainly stop threads about guys not getting replies!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait."
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've often made first contact if someone catches my eye.
Don't see why I should be that big headed to assume that they'll contact me first!"
us too and we dont get upset by no response either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find
I must be too obvious blundering in with messages "
Nah..ive just learnt, one should never be too obvious on fab...speak ur mind folks, clarity is beautiful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find
I must be too obvious blundering in with messages "
No we won't hold that against ya  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find
I must be too obvious blundering in with messages
No we won't hold that against ya "
Lol ty my second favourite |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find
I must be too obvious blundering in with messages
No we won't hold that against ya
Lol ty my second favourite "
and there was thinking I was second lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I spend a lot of time trying to reply to mail so it doesn't give me much time to window shop. I've not messaged that many and some that I did didn't bother replying. Oh the irony |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spend a lot of time trying to reply to mail so it doesn't give me much time to window shop. I've not messaged that many and some that I did didn't bother replying. Oh the irony "
Melody. ... are you not best to do ALOT of filters so you wouldn't have as many mails .. OR block men from mailing you and only mail a select few that you deem worthy enough (not being smart) |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"I think maybe twice I've mailed a guy first, I don't really browse profiles that much, I just tend to reply, or not, to guys who've mailed me. "
"so have you found mr m yet?"
our first message.awww
mighty oaks from little acorns grow
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spend a lot of time trying to reply to mail so it doesn't give me much time to window shop. I've not messaged that many and some that I did didn't bother replying. Oh the irony
Melody. ... are you not best to do ALOT of filters so you wouldn't have as many mails .. OR block men from mailing you and only mail a select few that you deem worthy enough (not being smart) "
Yes I have my filters set and the been here over a year, one validation for showing my cock on cam and I also have a green flag "wanna fuck" brigade have been nicely adding up on my block list.
If I block all men I could be missing out on the few gems that are on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think maybe twice I've mailed a guy first, I don't really browse profiles that much, I just tend to reply, or not, to guys who've mailed me.
"so have you found mr m yet?"
our first message.awww
mighty oaks from little acorns grow
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Who cares about Mr m, I found much much much better than him
I really should thank mr m, oh and Paolo for re igniting it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking "
Did you finally get it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking
Did you finally get it ? "
Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking
Did you finally get it ?
Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend "
Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking
Did you finally get it ?
Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend
Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!! "
Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find
I must be too obvious blundering in with messages
No we won't hold that against ya
Lol ty my second favourite
and there was thinking I was second lol"
And who did you think was first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me
Where is the joke button .. 
Don't be bitter just because I didn't message you  "
Knowing what I know, he would have all the reasons to be bitter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking
Did you finally get it ?
Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend
Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!
Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty "
Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout? |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Women tend to fab or wink to show bit of interest rather than message.i find
I must be too obvious blundering in with messages
No we won't hold that against ya
Lol ty my second favourite
and there was thinking I was second lol
And who did you think was first"
well I dont know I thought id be second |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking
Did you finally get it ?
Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend
Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!
Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty
Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout? "
Wanna watch? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking
Did you finally get it ?
Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend
Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!
Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty
Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?
Wanna watch? "
make a video, post it publicly for all buttock clenching lovers there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking
Did you finally get it ?
Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend
Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!
Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty
Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?
Wanna watch? "
Only if you will be doing it naked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking
Did you finally get it ?
Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend
Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!
Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty
Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?
Wanna watch?
make a video, post it publicly for all buttock clenching lovers there"
Post it publicly? I'm a very private person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking
Did you finally get it ?
Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend
Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!
Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty
Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?
Wanna watch?
Only if you will be doing it naked "
Will only be wearing sweat bands and trainers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A confident lady who goes for what she wants is a very attractive trait.
I never mail first..... well I did the other day to ask a couple about the insanity workout, what was I thinking
Did you finally get it ?
Nope not yet, hopefully sort it over the weekend
Ooo! An insanity workout weekend at Duffer's, bet that ends up ropey!!
Not sure about the rope, but will be the usual hot and sweaty
Will you be clenching your buttocks in this insane workout?
Wanna watch?
Only if you will be doing it naked
Will only be wearing sweat bands and trainers "
Ok I'm in |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
dublin |
I get unsolicited mails from ladies and couples from time to time. More frequently in the last few months I'm finding. I love getting those mails,a great buzz, Particularily if they are the 50% or so from legit people (keep em coming by the way!)
Some guys hate getting approached in bars etc too but I've no problems with that either, that's much rarer though |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
"I get unsolicited mails from ladies and couples from time to time. More frequently in the last few months I'm finding. I love getting those mails,a great buzz, Particularily if they are the 50% or so from legit people (keep em coming by the way!)
Some guys hate getting approached in bars etc too but I've no problems with that either, that's much rarer though "
So do you want another?....or better still what bar do you go to |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
dublin |
"I get unsolicited mails from ladies and couples from time to time. More frequently in the last few months I'm finding. I love getting those mails,a great buzz, Particularily if they are the 50% or so from legit people (keep em coming by the way!)
Some guys hate getting approached in bars etc too but I've no problems with that either, that's much rarer though
So do you want another?....or better still what bar do you go to"
Not in Dublin this weekend but mail me next week and i can let you know where you might 'bump into' me!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So Guys and girls we know men are hunters its in our DNA but its so refreshing when you are contacted first by a female, iv had the honure of this a few times,
I know you girls are unindated on here with messages but have you ever scanned over male profiles and messaged guy first?"
Oh yes x I even asked out my oh x can't be arsed with waiting around for life to happen x gotta make it happen x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I've most males blocked so I message those that interest me
Same here
You do !!
Lol....I know I did fab your ass pic "
Ahaaaa take all the sun you can get |
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