i definatly think profiles up six months or more without a meet or valadation should be removed their are alot of men posing as a couple especially in west of ireland could we start a process to get this lookedd into to sort out these sad people |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I agree, but then there are fake profiles on here verified, but verifications are hidden, so you would have to ask who is validating these "fakes"? I know someone on here, at least one anyway, who has 2 profiles, both verified but hidden verifications  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"[Removed by poster at 11/09/14 17:59:15]"
I guess that possible, but before meeting, people should insist on seeing validations, but then again, can they be trusted? Most people are genuine, but there are some who just aren't  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"ya some guys set up fake profiles as well to valiadate themselves"
It isn't that easy, however, in order to make a validation, you must first be validated, so it is not just setting up a profile, it needs verification before giving one, but there are people I am sure verifying people knowing they have more than one profile. As I said, I definitely know of one! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I agree, but then there are fake profiles on here verified, but verifications are hidden, so you would have to ask who is validating these "fakes"? I know someone on here, at least one anyway, who has 2 profiles, both verified but hidden verifications "
says the man that hides his vertifications too  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
If there is something you don't like about another person's profile,or don't trust.why not just block and move onto one you will like/trust.
Not difficult. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Not that I want to be a prick since I know you guys but sometimes times goes by and you might not get a chance to meet anyone, look at your profile whether you realise it or not you going nearly 6 months since your last verification  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If there is something you don't like about another person's profile,or don't trust.why not just block and move onto one you will like/trust.
Not difficult."
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"i definatly think profiles up six months or more without a meet or valadation should be removed their are alot of men posing as a couple especially in west of ireland could we start a process to get this lookedd into to sort out these sad people"
by that count you'd have me booted 
I am here, on and off, as time and obligations allow, and have not had really a chance to seriously play with anyone.
I must be one of them messers!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"i definatly think profiles up six months or more without a meet or valadation should be removed their are alot of men posing as a couple especially in west of ireland could we start a process to get this lookedd into to sort out these sad people"
You never said a truer word 
How are ye? long time |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I agree, but then there are fake profiles on here verified, but verifications are hidden, so you would have to ask who is validating these "fakes"? I know someone on here, at least one anyway, who has 2 profiles, both verified but hidden verifications says the man that hides his vertifications too "
If you took time to read what I said in the first instance, I said before meeting anyone, you should insist on seeing their verification, if they have them hidden, just ask to see them. Don't you just love the clique |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"If there is something you don't like about another person's profile,or don't trust.why not just block and move onto one you will like/trust.
Not difficult.
"
+1 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *at69driveMan
over a year ago
Wisbech and A47 corridor |
"i definatly think profiles up six months or more without a meet or valadation should be removed their are alot of men posing as a couple especially in west of ireland could we start a process to get this lookedd into to sort out these sad people"
Not sure why anyone needs validations . Not everyone on the site is looking for meet . Most of the validations on site seem to be very similar . People just usually say what a great evening they had . Any information which I require I prefer to obtain from either a phone call or review of a profile . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"i definatly think profiles up six months or more without a meet or valadation should be removed their are alot of men posing as a couple especially in west of ireland could we start a process to get this lookedd into to sort out these sad people
Not sure why anyone needs validations . Not everyone on the site is looking for meet . Most of the validations on site seem to be very similar . People just usually say what a great evening they had . Any information which I require I prefer to obtain from either a phone call or review of a profile . "
Is that why you have no validations, the poor always denies the fact they also wanna be rich! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I agree, but then there are fake profiles on here verified, but verifications are hidden, so you would have to ask who is validating these "fakes"? I know someone on here, at least one anyway, who has 2 profiles, both verified but hidden verifications says the man that hides his vertifications too If you took time to read what I said in the first instance, I said before meeting anyone, you should insist on seeing their verification, if they have them hidden, just ask to see them. Don't you just love the clique "
So why hide them in the first place, people go to a lot of trouble to write out a verification, to me, when I go into a profile & I can see my veri, I'm pleased, it makes me happy to see it! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
While the subject has come up! I have to ask the question and it's to those who don't show their verifications!
Why do u hide your verifications? Is it that u don't want people to see you've had loads of action, or is it that u can just pretend u had one or 2 or u can choose to decide which ones to show whoever asks to see your veri's! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"While the subject has come up! I have to ask the question and it's to those who don't show their verifications!
Why do u hide your verifications? Is it that u don't want people to see you've had loads of action, or is it that u can just pretend u had one or 2 or u can choose to decide which ones to show whoever asks to see your veri's! "
I hide mine for a simple reason a lady I had being chatting to mailed me and told me oh I seen u met so and so I don't think we will be meeting so now if I am getting on well with some one I show them to that person. I do show the break down of varies so people can see I have them |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"While the subject has come up! I have to ask the question and it's to those who don't show their verifications!
Why do u hide your verifications? Is it that u don't want people to see you've had loads of action, or is it that u can just pretend u had one or 2 or u can choose to decide which ones to show whoever asks to see your veri's!
I hide mine for a simple reason a lady I had being chatting to mailed me and told me oh I seen u met so and so I don't think we will be meeting so now if I am getting on well with some one I show them to that person. I do show the break down of varies so people can see I have them"
Well actually that's a very good reason, I never thought of that! Thanks for answering! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"While the subject has come up! I have to ask the question and it's to those who don't show their verifications!
Why do u hide your verifications? Is it that u don't want people to see you've had loads of action, or is it that u can just pretend u had one or 2 or u can choose to decide which ones to show whoever asks to see your veri's!
I hide mine for a simple reason a lady I had being chatting to mailed me and told me oh I seen u met so and so I don't think we will be meeting so now if I am getting on well with some one I show them to that person. I do show the break down of varies so people can see I have them
Well actually that's a very good reason, I never thought of that! Thanks for answering! "
Once again I have taught u a little thought u may have got my inclusion of ur pet hates in the other thread |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"While the subject has come up! I have to ask the question and it's to those who don't show their verifications!
Why do u hide your verifications? Is it that u don't want people to see you've had loads of action, or is it that u can just pretend u had one or 2 or u can choose to decide which ones to show whoever asks to see your veri's!
I hide mine for a simple reason a lady I had being chatting to mailed me and told me oh I seen u met so and so I don't think we will be meeting so now if I am getting on well with some one I show them to that person. I do show the break down of varies so people can see I have them
Well actually that's a very good reason, I never thought of that! Thanks for answering!
Once again I have taught u a little thought u may have got my inclusion of ur pet hates in the other thread "
Are u giving out and I thanking you for your good reason for why u can't show your veri's! I can't win!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"While the subject has come up! I have to ask the question and it's to those who don't show their verifications!
Why do u hide your verifications? Is it that u don't want people to see you've had loads of action, or is it that u can just pretend u had one or 2 or u can choose to decide which ones to show whoever asks to see your veri's!
I hide mine for a simple reason a lady I had being chatting to mailed me and told me oh I seen u met so and so I don't think we will be meeting so now if I am getting on well with some one I show them to that person. I do show the break down of varies so people can see I have them
Well actually that's a very good reason, I never thought of that! Thanks for answering!
Once again I have taught u a little thought u may have got my inclusion of ur pet hates in the other thread
Are u giving out and I thanking you for your good reason for why u can't show your veri's! I can't win! "
Moi giving out noooo |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"While the subject has come up! I have to ask the question and it's to those who don't show their verifications!
Why do u hide your verifications? Is it that u don't want people to see you've had loads of action, or is it that u can just pretend u had one or 2 or u can choose to decide which ones to show whoever asks to see your veri's!
I hide mine for a simple reason a lady I had being chatting to mailed me and told me oh I seen u met so and so I don't think we will be meeting so now if I am getting on well with some one I show them to that person. I do show the break down of varies so people can see I have them
Well actually that's a very good reason, I never thought of that! Thanks for answering!
Once again I have taught u a little thought u may have got my inclusion of ur pet hates in the other thread
Are u giving out and I thanking you for your good reason for why u can't show your veri's! I can't win!
Moi giving out noooo "
Hmmmm u better not be!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"While the subject has come up! I have to ask the question and it's to those who don't show their verifications!
Why do u hide your verifications? Is it that u don't want people to see you've had loads of action, or is it that u can just pretend u had one or 2 or u can choose to decide which ones to show whoever asks to see your veri's!
I hide mine for a simple reason a lady I had being chatting to mailed me and told me oh I seen u met so and so I don't think we will be meeting so now if I am getting on well with some one I show them to that person. I do show the break down of varies so people can see I have them
Well actually that's a very good reason, I never thought of that! Thanks for answering!
Once again I have taught u a little thought u may have got my inclusion of ur pet hates in the other thread
Are u giving out and I thanking you for your good reason for why u can't show your veri's! I can't win!
Moi giving out noooo
Hmmmm u better not be!! "
Or |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"While the subject has come up! I have to ask the question and it's to those who don't show their verifications!
Why do u hide your verifications? Is it that u don't want people to see you've had loads of action, or is it that u can just pretend u had one or 2 or u can choose to decide which ones to show whoever asks to see your veri's!
I hide mine for a simple reason a lady I had being chatting to mailed me and told me oh I seen u met so and so I don't think we will be meeting so now if I am getting on well with some one I show them to that person. I do show the break down of varies so people can see I have them
Well actually that's a very good reason, I never thought of that! Thanks for answering!
Once again I have taught u a little thought u may have got my inclusion of ur pet hates in the other thread
Are u giving out and I thanking you for your good reason for why u can't show your veri's! I can't win!
Moi giving out noooo
Hmmmm u better not be!!
Or "
Or else!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"While the subject has come up! I have to ask the question and it's to those who don't show their verifications!
Why do u hide your verifications? Is it that u don't want people to see you've had loads of action, or is it that u can just pretend u had one or 2 or u can choose to decide which ones to show whoever asks to see your veri's!
I hide mine for a simple reason a lady I had being chatting to mailed me and told me oh I seen u met so and so I don't think we will be meeting so now if I am getting on well with some one I show them to that person. I do show the break down of varies so people can see I have them
Well actually that's a very good reason, I never thought of that! Thanks for answering!
Once again I have taught u a little thought u may have got my inclusion of ur pet hates in the other thread
Are u giving out and I thanking you for your good reason for why u can't show your veri's! I can't win!
Moi giving out noooo
Hmmmm u better not be!!
Or
Or else!! "
Now ur just teasing me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
I hide mine for a simple reason a lady I had being chatting to mailed me and told me oh I seen u met so and so I don't think we will be meeting so now if I am getting on well with some one I show them to that person. I do show the break down of varies so people can see I have them"
ditto |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
we have no problem with peoplehiding their valadations as long as they are there for genuine people to see before meeting and al as for no valadations in the last six months we tend to keep with people we are happy with and also on another site quality over quantity and all that |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
just wonder, 6 month without a verification ..my last verification was last year , because i,m not into jump from bed to bed...and i'm not a collector of verifications...but i;m real ^ |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
By jaysis this annoys the shit out off me i have busy life outside fab and i dont like to be pressurd to meet anyone.i have been here 10 weeks had my first meet with in about six weeks hadnt had one since.
Does mean im fake or a messer NO its because i like to take my time i just wont hop into bed with just anyone.
GOD SAKE
rant over.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"i definatly think profiles up six months or more without a meet or valadation should be removed their are alot of men posing as a couple especially in west of ireland could we start a process to get this lookedd into to sort out these sad people"
another verification thread *YAWN*. Verification says nothing out because ... read all the other threads.
..stay laid back and find out for yourself .. a lot of fun seeking Girls or " G.I.R.L.'s" here delete a well mannered massage immediately [fun seeking ..? How you can find fun if you delete straight away .. How to find out personality ?] .. forget them, they want just attention and have no real interest in meeting guys.
Some have respect and manners and write back, there could develop something at syphatie. If so an image and phone call should be no problem....if not, you can mutually wish you a nice day. The rest can be safely forgotten....whether man or woman because their intentions have nothing to do with the sense of such a page.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Verifications here piss me off! I know of fellas verifying women just because they're messages were up and by verifying them meant they could continue chatting, I know ofoothers being verified by friends claiming they hooked up but didn't! Also had a girl on this that i met n she threatened to not leave me one unless i met her for a second time ha |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Verifications here piss me off! I know of fellas verifying women just because they're messages were up and by verifying them meant they could continue chatting, I know ofoothers being verified by friends claiming they hooked up but didn't! Also had a girl on this that i met n she threatened to not leave me one unless i met her for a second time ha "
there you go .. forget all this verification crap |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *at69driveMan
over a year ago
Wisbech and A47 corridor |
"easy to say forget the valadation crap and yawn when people have not got any at all my original point was profiles with no valadations at all after six months"
Still at a loss to understand why people want validations . They all tend to say the same thing. Ignoring fab , when I purchaed an item on eBay , I was really annoyed when the vendor requested feed back on the transaction. Same applies to references . I am cautious if someone produces glowing references. I make my judgement based on what a person says , not what is written on a piece of paper . If you have had a good evening from a meet on the fab site , I would have thought that the last thing on your mind would be to request that someone verifies you. Why let others know whom you have met?. Or what interest is it to anyone anyway?.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"easy to say forget the valadation crap and yawn when people have not got any at all my original point was profiles with no valadations at all after six months Still at a loss to understand why people want validations . They all tend to say the same thing. Ignoring fab , when I purchaed an item on eBay , I was really annoyed when the vendor requested feed back on the transaction. Same applies to references . I am cautious if someone produces glowing references. I make my judgement based on what a person says , not what is written on a piece of paper . If you have had a good evening from a meet on the fab site , I would have thought that the last thing on your mind would be to request that someone verifies you. Why let others know whom you have met?. Or what interest is it to anyone anyway?. "
This isn't ebay buddy... obviously verifications aren't the be all and end all but it helps you filter out if they're real or not |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I (Lacey) used to be on fab a few years ago on my own and validations are different now as to what they were then. They seem to be more about 'friendships' and M&G than sex. I could be wrong and sure its just my opinion. I think Fab has become a bit like facebook to a degree.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Don't be fooled. Their are also profiles here that have validations that are fake. I have found that some males go to such an extent, the set up lots of profiles and use them to validate each other. I was contacted by 2 couple profiles this week that had validations and are fake. Some guys have nothing better to do. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"loads of verified profiles that are fake as well."
Just got a mail from a verified profile
Ran the face picture through reverse image search and got it ! Lol he had tick and flag !! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Yep spoke to one guy during the week with one verification. He said he never met her in person but she was doing him a favor but verifying him.
If you ask the right questions and follow your gut instinct it's easy enough to them out. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Yep spoke to one guy during the week with one verification. He said he never met her in person but she was doing him a favor but verifying him.
If you ask the right questions and follow your gut instinct it's easy enough to them out."
Reverse image search just helped out two in a row |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
Reverse image search just helped out two in a row
Tis a handy little tool alright. Usually my suspicions are proven correct when I use that trick. "
Great tool alright |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Reverse image is ok, but a lot of my action pics are all over the net.
Sometimes peeps do post pics on more than one site. However, if you discover that a major league American basketball player is on here, having given up the game in order to move to Preston, Cork or somewhere, then I'd get suspicious.
My personal favourite fake was some git using my pics. If I don't get laid as often as I'd like, then what chance did they have? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I (Lacey) used to be on fab a few years ago on my own and validations are different now as to what they were then. They seem to be more about 'friendships' and M&G than sex. I could be wrong and sure its just my opinion. I think Fab has become a bit like facebook to a degree...."
Where does it say verifications,or validations,as this thread is calling them,has to be about sex?
Facebook is probably the most popular social media site in the world,so why shouldn't fab try to follow suit?
As I have said numerous times in other threads,if there is something on a person's profile,(or not as the case may be),move onto a profile that is more suitable to what you are looking for.
This is a swingers site,not a sex site,not a fuck site,and swinging takes many many shapes n forms.
We don't agree with everything we see or read on here,but we are intelligent enough to bypass those profiles and seek out ones we do like. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I (Lacey) used to be on fab a few years ago on my own and validations are different now as to what they were then. They seem to be more about 'friendships' and M&G than sex. I could be wrong and sure its just my opinion. I think Fab has become a bit like facebook to a degree....
Where does it say verifications,or validations,as this thread is calling them,has to be about sex?
Facebook is probably the most popular social media site in the world,so why shouldn't fab try to follow suit?
As I have said numerous times in other threads,if there is something on a person's profile,(or not as the case may be),move onto a profile that is more suitable to what you are looking for.
This is a swingers site,not a sex site,not a fuck site,and swinging takes many many shapes n forms.
We don't agree with everything we see or read on here,but we are intelligent enough to bypass those profiles and seek out ones we do like."
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I (Lacey) used to be on fab a few years ago on my own and validations are different now as to what they were then. They seem to be more about 'friendships' and M&G than sex. I could be wrong and sure its just my opinion. I think Fab has become a bit like facebook to a degree....
Where does it say verifications,or validations,as this thread is calling them,has to be about sex?
Facebook is probably the most popular social media site in the world,so why shouldn't fab try to follow suit?
As I have said numerous times in other threads,if there is something on a person's profile,(or not as the case may be),move onto a profile that is more suitable to what you are looking for.
This is a swingers site,not a sex site,not a fuck site,and swinging takes many many shapes n forms.
We don't agree with everything we see or read on here,but we are intelligent enough to bypass those profiles and seek out ones we do like.
"
your points are well made and of course its about more than just sex. Facebook is evil though and would hate to see this place turn into a Facebook clone.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
