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Suspicious am i right to be ?????
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I`ve been messaging some-one from here for a while and we met for coffee all went well , great chemistry and attraction but the problem is he is looking for daytime meets only . He says he is not married/attached just busy in the evenings/nights but I don't believe him . Am I wrong to be suspicious ? Any advice be welcome  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could go either way, either he's going home to his missus or could be employed in the evenings/through the night? Perhaps it would be prudent to ask why not meet at night, after all, sometimes you can't beat a bed |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"I`ve been messaging some-one from here for a while and we met for coffee all went well , great chemistry and attraction but the problem is he is looking for daytime meets only . He says he is not married/attached just busy in the evenings/nights but I don't believe him . Am I wrong to be suspicious ? Any advice be welcome "
id say err on the side of caution but also give the benefit of the doubt.
but if it was me id assume married but im just getting bitter in my old age lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I`ve been messaging some-one from here for a while and we met for coffee all went well , great chemistry and attraction but the problem is he is looking for daytime meets only . He says he is not married/attached just busy in the evenings/nights but I don't believe him . Am I wrong to be suspicious ? Any advice be welcome
id say err on the side of caution but also give the benefit of the doubt.
but if it was me id assume married but im just getting bitter in my old age lol"
I always assume married from the beginning nowadays. Easier that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry im off topic vere....
But i really like your handbag in your profile PIC...
Seen the same one on instagram where did you get yours...??"
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YEUP. .... .THAT REALLY JUST HAPPENED  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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True enough First-timer. I would ask if I were you, and should he look uncomfortable/take some time to answer, I would question whether it's because he has not yet contemplated what his answer should be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry im off topic vere....
But i really like your handbag in your profile PIC...
Seen the same one on instagram where did you get yours...??"
Love this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I`ve been messaging some-one from here for a while and we met for coffee all went well , great chemistry and attraction but the problem is he is looking for daytime meets only . He says he is not married/attached just busy in the evenings/nights but I don't believe him . Am I wrong to be suspicious ? Any advice be welcome "
Suspicious of what ??? This is a swingers site....not a dating site !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks curvy , seriously some people are unreal ...."
take it all with a pinch of salt  best of luck with the guy though hopefully its just a work thing and if it's not well ....
lots of wonderful men on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I`ve been messaging some-one from here for a while and we met for coffee all went well , great chemistry and attraction but the problem is he is looking for daytime meets only . He says he is not married/attached just busy in the evenings/nights but I don't believe him . Am I wrong to be suspicious ? Any advice be welcome Suspicious of what ??? This is a swingers site....not a dating site !!!!"
Regardless of being a swingers site not a dating site surely honesty and trust come first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im aware of that Mr Cancun but i dont want to meet married/attached men nor do i want to date them , if you read my profile you wud have seen that .
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Apologies , sorry for jumping the gun and not reading everything !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im aware of that Mr Cancun but i dont want to meet married/attached men nor do i want to date them , if you read my profile you wud have seen that .
Apologies , sorry for jumping the gun and not reading everything !!"
Thats ok i figured you had'nt read my profile , im sorry for getting ur name wrong |
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"I`ve been messaging some-one from here for a while and we met for coffee all went well , great chemistry and attraction but the problem is he is looking for daytime meets only . He says he is not married/attached just busy in the evenings/nights but I don't believe him . Am I wrong to be suspicious ? Any advice be welcome "
If he is genuine and really did want to meet you I am sure he could make one night free.... I would follow my gut instinct and err on the side of caution.. I am sure there are plenty of gents who would only be too happy to meet you where and when you want to meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I`ve been messaging some-one from here for a while and we met for coffee all went well , great chemistry and attraction but the problem is he is looking for daytime meets only . He says he is not married/attached just busy in the evenings/nights but I don't believe him . Am I wrong to be suspicious ? Any advice be welcome Suspicious of what ??? This is a swingers site....not a dating site !!!!
Regardless of being a swingers site not a dating site surely honesty and trust come first. "
Exactly.  |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"I`ve been messaging some-one from here for a while and we met for coffee all went well , great chemistry and attraction but the problem is he is looking for daytime meets only . He says he is not married/attached just busy in the evenings/nights but I don't believe him . Am I wrong to be suspicious ? Any advice be welcome
If he is genuine and really did want to meet you I am sure he could make one night free.... I would follow my gut instinct and err on the side of caution.. I am sure there are plenty of gents who would only be too happy to meet you where and when you want to meet.
Mrs Celtic x "
cough cough i would but im outside her age range  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I`ve been messaging some-one from here for a while and we met for coffee all went well , great chemistry and attraction but the problem is he is looking for daytime meets only . He says he is not married/attached just busy in the evenings/nights but I don't believe him . Am I wrong to be suspicious ? Any advice be welcome Suspicious of what ??? This is a swingers site....not a dating site !!!!
Regardless of being a swingers site not a dating site surely honesty and trust come first.
Exactly. "
Thanks and thats all i want honesty. He knows i only want to meet single men .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry for going of topic also but I like your wall decor, can you tell me where you got that? pintrest.... "
Is that a high street or online shop? I've never heard of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if in doubt say no thanks ,theres a load of great genuine honest guys on here u just have to dig a bit to find them "
dig - dtg
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By (user no longer on site)
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In relation to your OP did he not say why he couldn't do night time meets. I know we don't have to tell each other our life stories on here but if someone asked me if I could do a day time meet, I'd just say no cause I work. Seems a bit strange to say he can't do them without some sort of indication on why. At the same time there could be a genuine reason why he can't and if he's hiding nothing he surely won't mind you asking a question if your worried about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In relation to your OP did he not say why he couldn't do night time meets. I know we don't have to tell each other our life stories on here but if someone asked me if I could do a day time meet, I'd just say no cause I work. Seems a bit strange to say he can't do them without some sort of indication on why. At the same time there could be a genuine reason why he can't and if he's hiding nothing he surely won't mind you asking a question if your worried about it."
Ha ha you work!! Perv all day more like!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In relation to your OP did he not say why he couldn't do night time meets. I know we don't have to tell each other our life stories on here but if someone asked me if I could do a day time meet, I'd just say no cause I work. Seems a bit strange to say he can't do them without some sort of indication on why. At the same time there could be a genuine reason why he can't and if he's hiding nothing he surely won't mind you asking a question if your worried about it."
I have said and asked but he says between football gym n social gatherings he cant ,so hence my suspicion but swears he is single . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In relation to your OP did he not say why he couldn't do night time meets. I know we don't have to tell each other our life stories on here but if someone asked me if I could do a day time meet, I'd just say no cause I work. Seems a bit strange to say he can't do them without some sort of indication on why. At the same time there could be a genuine reason why he can't and if he's hiding nothing he surely won't mind you asking a question if your worried about it.
Ha ha you work!! Perv all day more like!! "
 Why do you think I've been quiet today |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In relation to your OP did he not say why he couldn't do night time meets. I know we don't have to tell each other our life stories on here but if someone asked me if I could do a day time meet, I'd just say no cause I work. Seems a bit strange to say he can't do them without some sort of indication on why. At the same time there could be a genuine reason why he can't and if he's hiding nothing he surely won't mind you asking a question if your worried about it.
I have said and asked but he says between football gym n social gatherings he cant ,so hence my suspicion but swears he is single ."
Ok I get the gym and football as that's a routine, surely if he was that interested he'd sacrifice a social gathering to meet you. I'm sure he's not that much of a social butterfly that he's out socialising every night of the week? Alarm bells ringing here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well maybe he's telling the truth. Get his number and ask can you ring him at night and see his reaction. Anyway he's probably reading all this and could have no interest in you now. |
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"I`ve been messaging some-one from here for a while and we met for coffee all went well , great chemistry and attraction but the problem is he is looking for daytime meets only . He says he is not married/attached just busy in the evenings/nights but I don't believe him . Am I wrong to be suspicious ? Any advice be welcome "
Welcome never seen you here before first timer...
Why the hidden profile?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In relation to your OP did he not say why he couldn't do night time meets. I know we don't have to tell each other our life stories on here but if someone asked me if I could do a day time meet, I'd just say no cause I work. Seems a bit strange to say he can't do them without some sort of indication on why. At the same time there could be a genuine reason why he can't and if he's hiding nothing he surely won't mind you asking a question if your worried about it.
Ha ha you work!! Perv all day more like!!
Why do you think I've been quiet today "
I thought she'd left you tied up and gagged and forgot about you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I`ve been messaging some-one from here for a while and we met for coffee all went well , great chemistry and attraction but the problem is he is looking for daytime meets only . He says he is not married/attached just busy in the evenings/nights but I don't believe him . Am I wrong to be suspicious ? Any advice be welcome
I was asking myself the same question.
Welcome never seen you here before first timer...
Why the hidden profile?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im always suspicious too and google reverse image search is dead handy
Ahh the penny drops "
Did ya not twig at the mention of instagram or pintrest... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im always suspicious too and google reverse image search is dead handy
Ahh the penny drops
Did ya not twig at the mention of instagram or pintrest... "
I don't know what those are, I'm an old fart
Should have guessed cause the wallpaper was just too perfect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"She doesn't know where the bag came from. Profile says curvy and fabulous, pic looks slim slim. "
Seriously some of you people are unreal.... i wrote on the forum looking for advice ..... Cheers guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She doesn't know where the bag came from. Profile says curvy and fabulous, pic looks slim slim.
Seriously some of you people are unreal.... i wrote on the forum looking for advice ..... Cheers guys "
If your pic is "unreal" then you've no grounds to judge others on their suspicions or to question the guy if he's married.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She also says in profile she's intelligent, she's a dim-wit if you ask me."
No need for name calling though! Some people don't like putting real pics up for a host of reasons. However best not have one at all if it's not really you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im always suspicious too and google reverse image search is dead handy
Ahh the penny drops
Did ya not twig at the mention of instagram or pintrest... "
Nah, I thought that was what Duffer uses in the pub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im always suspicious too and google reverse image search is dead handy
Ahh the penny drops
Bunch of winkers I tell ya"
It's like the bloody masonic, next will be the secret handshakes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bully brigade out in force again , thanks for support n advice ."
Sorry but was your thread not about deception or the possible of? It's not nice when someone deceives you is it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I smelled rat from the get go!
When im skeptical about any threads/profiles I automatically think of KNICKER SOAKER
The old regulars here will remember him... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I smelled rat from the get go!
When im skeptical about any threads/profiles I automatically think of KNICKER SOAKER
The old regulars here will remember him... "
Dam it! That just reminded me, I need to bring my washing in! Now my knickers will be damp again!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"im always suspicious too and google reverse image search is dead handy
Ahh the penny drops
Bunch of winkers I tell ya
It's like the bloody masonic, next will be the secret handshakes "
Nudge nudge wink wink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do believe calling someone a dim wit is considered a insult !"
The biggest insult here is her/him starting that thread with a fake pic. She didn't even have a verification so who knows who it is. Attention seeker if you ask me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"V easy get a green tick all she prob did was ask sum guy to verify her and she would give him the roide of his life there is guys that will do that "
Well if she did do that she's every bit as bad as the guy. Hence there's girls that will do that. |
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By *.L.CMan
over a year ago
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Been chatting to a lady here who told me she just had a very scarey experience with a guy who had a false profile with false veries,so its obviously not that hard to get verified whether ur male or female |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hubby was chatting with a pretty lady with a green tick the other day! either she was on the German bachelorete 2014 or a fake....reported the profile...its still active! Green tick doesn't always mean genuine :- |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"V easy get a green tick all she prob did was ask sum guy to verify her and she would give him the roide of his life there is guys that will do that
Well if she did do that she's every bit as bad as the guy. Hence there's girls that will do that."
well it was a fake profile so im sure she didnt care |
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"V easy get a green tick all she prob did was ask sum guy to verify her and she would give him the roide of his life there is guys that will do that
Well if she did do that she's every bit as bad as the guy. Hence there's girls that will do that.well it was a fake profile so im sure she didnt care "
And neither should any of us. Lets move on. |
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"i missed all this as always dont tell me another fake.
me to!
we were left out in the cold lol"
I know! !  .... Wonder if the pic was good! ? I need to figure out how to use this Google thing. . Every time I try it it didn't work. . But I suspect it's me lol.... technical genius I'm not |
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"i missed all this as always dont tell me another fake.
me to!
we were left out in the cold lol
I know! ! .... Wonder if the pic was good! ? I need to figure out how to use this Google thing. . Every time I try it it didn't work. . But I suspect it's me lol.... technical genius I'm not "
I'm sure there are lots of buff young I.T, guys here who'd be more than willing to give you a crash course in their technical genius!! 
Can I come too??  |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"i missed all this as always dont tell me another fake.
me to!
we were left out in the cold lol
I know! ! .... Wonder if the pic was good! ? I need to figure out how to use this Google thing. . Every time I try it it didn't work. . But I suspect it's me lol.... technical genius I'm not
I'm sure there are lots of buff young I.T, guys here who'd be more than willing to give you a crash course in their technical genius!!
Can I come too?? "
report to mr laids office girls lol |
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"i missed all this as always dont tell me another fake.
me to!
we were left out in the cold lol
I know! ! .... Wonder if the pic was good! ? I need to figure out how to use this Google thing. . Every time I try it it didn't work. . But I suspect it's me lol.... technical genius I'm not
I'm sure there are lots of buff young I.T, guys here who'd be more than willing to give you a crash course in their technical genius!!
Can I come too??
report to mr laids office girls lol"
on our way. . Sir*saluting emoticon* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i missed all this as always dont tell me another fake.
me to!
we were left out in the cold lol
I know! ! .... Wonder if the pic was good! ? I need to figure out how to use this Google thing. . Every time I try it it didn't work. . But I suspect it's me lol.... technical genius I'm not
I'm sure there are lots of buff young I.T, guys here who'd be more than willing to give you a crash course in their technical genius!!
Can I come too??
report to mr laids office girls lol
on our way. . Sir*saluting emoticon* "
Is this for I.T. Lessons Sir or displays if technical genius?? |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"i missed all this as always dont tell me another fake.
me to!
we were left out in the cold lol
I know! ! .... Wonder if the pic was good! ? I need to figure out how to use this Google thing. . Every time I try it it didn't work. . But I suspect it's me lol.... technical genius I'm not
I'm sure there are lots of buff young I.T, guys here who'd be more than willing to give you a crash course in their technical genius!!
Can I come too??
report to mr laids office girls lol
on our way. . Sir*saluting emoticon* "
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"i missed all this as always dont tell me another fake.
me to!
we were left out in the cold lol
I know! ! .... Wonder if the pic was good! ? I need to figure out how to use this Google thing. . Every time I try it it didn't work. . But I suspect it's me lol.... technical genius I'm not
I'm sure there are lots of buff young I.T, guys here who'd be more than willing to give you a crash course in their technical genius!!
Can I come too??
report to mr laids office girls lol
on our way. . Sir*saluting emoticon*
Is this for I.T. Lessons Sir or displays if technical genius?? "
both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i missed all this as always dont tell me another fake.
me to!
we were left out in the cold lol
I know! ! .... Wonder if the pic was good! ? I need to figure out how to use this Google thing. . Every time I try it it didn't work. . But I suspect it's me lol.... technical genius I'm not
I'm sure there are lots of buff young I.T, guys here who'd be more than willing to give you a crash course in their technical genius!!
Can I come too??
report to mr laids office girls lol
on our way. . Sir*saluting emoticon*
Is this for I.T. Lessons Sir or displays if technical genius??
both "
Right away sir but I'm going to be late for detention! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"i missed all this as always dont tell me another fake.
me to!
we were left out in the cold lol
I know! ! .... Wonder if the pic was good! ? I need to figure out how to use this Google thing. . Every time I try it it didn't work. . But I suspect it's me lol.... technical genius I'm not
I'm sure there are lots of buff young I.T, guys here who'd be more than willing to give you a crash course in their technical genius!!
Can I come too??
report to mr laids office girls lol
on our way. . Sir*saluting emoticon*
Is this for I.T. Lessons Sir or displays if technical genius??
both
Right away sir but I'm going to be late for detention! "
you will have to stay back for some discipline |
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"i missed all this as always dont tell me another fake.
me to!
we were left out in the cold lol
I know! ! .... Wonder if the pic was good! ? I need to figure out how to use this Google thing. . Every time I try it it didn't work. . But I suspect it's me lol.... technical genius I'm not
I'm sure there are lots of buff young I.T, guys here who'd be more than willing to give you a crash course in their technical genius!!
Can I come too??
report to mr laids office girls lol
on our way. . Sir*saluting emoticon*
Is this for I.T. Lessons Sir or displays if technical genius??
both
Right away sir but I'm going to be late for detention!
you will have to stay back for some discipline "
is that a cane Sir? .... In these days of political correctness. .. |
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"i missed all this as always dont tell me another fake.
me to!
we were left out in the cold lol
I know! ! .... Wonder if the pic was good! ? I need to figure out how to use this Google thing. . Every time I try it it didn't work. . But I suspect it's me lol.... technical genius I'm not
I'm sure there are lots of buff young I.T, guys here who'd be more than willing to give you a crash course in their technical genius!!
Can I come too??
report to mr laids office girls lol
on our way. . Sir*saluting emoticon*
Is this for I.T. Lessons Sir or displays if technical genius??
both
Right away sir but I'm going to be late for detention!
you will have to stay back for some discipline "
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