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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To see if they find you attractive, i cant speak for others but i cant meet someone i dont fancy, i think its best to get it out of the way straight away rather than chat for ages and then discover you dont fancy them and will never meet. And sometimes its hard to tell someone that you dont find them hot so they just ignore rather than insult |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes got to agree pix first no point if theres no attraction  "
But can't attraction be built through personality, making the person more attractive when you do see a face pic.
It's very shallow to choose by looks alone! Women are always preaching that to guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ya i get the whole attraction thing but i'm probably too private . . I prefer to chat a bit to see if i actually think i'm talking to someone i may fancy . After a while i don't have a problem sending a face pic but ask that they send theirs back too regardless. . I think thats fair. . . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A bit of chat first to sus out personality then a face pic is cool by me
But am amused by peps who need it in first msg when they have only one dated body shot and sometimes no profile shot Like WTF  |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"People don't seem to ask me for a face photo, my bum seems to make me "look lovely""
well as someone else mentioned its only after a while ill ask to see a face pic theres no point in firing your face pic to everyone in the first mail/message.
also i tend to meet most people at parties and meet and greets as im not very photogenic and tend to look slightly better in person |
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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago
Near Carryduff |
Not replying is kina treating all guys with the same disrespect. I do know there are plenty of pushy guys who don't know the meaning of the word no. For the regular good guy just left hanging there with his pic sent out into the ether isn't that fair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do peeps ask for a face pic?and when you do!they dont reply?and all you hear about is timewaters"
listen ---- how it works
You have to impress the women in two sentence.
You have to send a face pic [clear und bright ]
you need to fear...and wait [ of course]
You're too pretty and the lady is afraid to disappoint you.
You will never hear anything from her.
that's the secret ...... time waster |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not replying is kina treating all guys with the same disrespect. I do know there are plenty of pushy guys who don't know the meaning of the word no. For the regular good guy just left hanging there with his pic sent out into the ether isn't that fair."
I delete pics once I've seen them... regardless
Trade places with me and see some of the bullshit women of Fab have to put up with... |
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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago
Near Carryduff |
"Not replying is kina treating all guys with the same disrespect. I do know there are plenty of pushy guys who don't know the meaning of the word no. For the regular good guy just left hanging there with his pic sent out into the ether isn't that fair. I delete pics once I've seen them... regardless
Trade places with me and see some of the bullshit women of Fab have to put up with..."
Do you mean you get sent fake pics from girls or just poor quality ones? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not replying is kina treating all guys with the same disrespect. I do know there are plenty of pushy guys who don't know the meaning of the word no. For the regular good guy just left hanging there with his pic sent out into the ether isn't that fair. I delete pics once I've seen them... regardless
Trade places with me and see some of the bullshit women of Fab have to put up with...
Do you mean you get sent fake pics from girls or just poor quality ones?"
  ... target reached..Hit..ship sunk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best bet is to get yourself to every m&g/party's as possible so people can personally meet you then they can decide wether your attractive, some people take bad photos etc and no one knows anything about a person just by there profile on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not replying is kina treating all guys with the same disrespect. I do know there are plenty of pushy guys who don't know the meaning of the word no. For the regular good guy just left hanging there with his pic sent out into the ether isn't that fair. I delete pics once I've seen them... regardless
Trade places with me and see some of the bullshit women of Fab have to put up with...
Do you mean you get sent fake pics from girls or just poor quality ones?"
You said by not replying i was being disrespectful to guys...
So what I'm saying if you traded places with me you would understand why I don't reply anymore... Cause 90% of the guys I've refused do not take it well...
No lady has ever sent me fake pics so I've no idea what you mean by that..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not replying is kina treating all guys with the same disrespect. I do know there are plenty of pushy guys who don't know the meaning of the word no. For the regular good guy just left hanging there with his pic sent out into the ether isn't that fair. I delete pics once I've seen them... regardless
Trade places with me and see some of the bullshit women of Fab have to put up with...
Do you mean you get sent fake pics from girls or just poor quality ones?
You said by not replying i was being disrespectful to guys...
So what I'm saying if you traded places with me you would understand why I don't reply anymore... Cause 90% of the guys I've refused do not take it well...
No lady has ever sent me fake pics so I've no idea what you mean by that.. "
Angel. . its like this .... ive seen your face and you're cue uw uw uw utttt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not replying is kina treating all guys with the same disrespect. I do know there are plenty of pushy guys who don't know the meaning of the word no. For the regular good guy just left hanging there with his pic sent out into the ether isn't that fair. I delete pics once I've seen them... regardless
Trade places with me and see some of the bullshit women of Fab have to put up with...
Do you mean you get sent fake pics from girls or just poor quality ones?
You said by not replying i was being disrespectful to guys...
So what I'm saying if you traded places with me you would understand why I don't reply anymore... Cause 90% of the guys I've refused do not take it well...
No lady has ever sent me fake pics so I've no idea what you mean by that..
Angel. . its like this .... ive seen your face and you're cue uw uw uw utttt "
So have I and I agree mega cute  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not replying is kina treating all guys with the same disrespect. I do know there are plenty of pushy guys who don't know the meaning of the word no. For the regular good guy just left hanging there with his pic sent out into the ether isn't that fair. I delete pics once I've seen them... regardless
Trade places with me and see some of the bullshit women of Fab have to put up with...
Do you mean you get sent fake pics from girls or just poor quality ones?
You said by not replying i was being disrespectful to guys...
So what I'm saying if you traded places with me you would understand why I don't reply anymore... Cause 90% of the guys I've refused do not take it well...
No lady has ever sent me fake pics so I've no idea what you mean by that..
Angel. . its like this .... ive seen your face and you're cue uw uw uw utttt "
Awwww Thanks  xx |
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"Not replying is kina treating all guys with the same disrespect. I do know there are plenty of pushy guys who don't know the meaning of the word no. For the regular good guy just left hanging there with his pic sent out into the ether isn't that fair. I delete pics once I've seen them... regardless
Trade places with me and see some of the bullshit women of Fab have to put up with..."
here here
It's a nightmare sometimes. |
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"Best bet is to get yourself to every m&g/party's as possible so people can personally meet you then they can decide wether your attractive, some people take bad photos etc and no one knows anything about a person just by there profile on here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's worse when you send a face pic then your suddenly blocked !!!!!
I just figured they went to the same prayer group as me :0"
I've had tht, sent a face pic was told I'd get 1 in return , didn't get 1 then I was promptly Blocked lol.
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"Best bet is to get yourself to every m&g/party's as possible so people can personally meet you then they can decide wether your attractive, some people take bad photos etc and no one knows anything about a person just by there profile on here "
Only if you socially mix well though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess its a simple no attraction no action, we're not here to fall in love, simply fulfil fantasies and we are all different and are attracted to different people for unknown reasons so just take it that your not their type. prob nothing personal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as no one has had a recent OD on ugly pills,but it helps if there is some attraction.
But in fairness to the lady's they have to deal with more bullshit then the men do, a sweeping generalisation I think not. On a good note.
We played with both sexes from the singles on here, and in fairness to both they were pretty amazing. |
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"People don't seem to ask me for a face photo, my bum seems to make me "look lovely"
well as someone else mentioned its only after a while ill ask to see a face pic theres no point in firing your face pic to everyone in the first mail/message.
also i tend to meet most people at parties and meet and greets as im not very photogenic and tend to look slightly better in person"
yep me too and then you can judge how well you like someone too. . Couldn't and don't play unless there is that chemistry. ..probably why I have more coffee than play dates lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess its a simple no attraction no action, we're not here to fall in love, simply fulfil fantasies and we are all different and are attracted to different people for unknown reasons so just take it that your not their type. prob nothing personal"
A friendly message deserves a friendly answer. It breaks no piece from the Crown if you just respond "sorry not my type" ..basic manners |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess its a simple no attraction no action, we're not here to fall in love, simply fulfil fantasies and we are all different and are attracted to different people for unknown reasons so just take it that your not their type. prob nothing personal
A friendly message deserves a friendly answer. It breaks no piece from the Crown if you just respond "sorry not my type" ..basic manners "
Sometimes responding with basic manners ya get uncalled for abuse....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess its a simple no attraction no action, we're not here to fall in love, simply fulfil fantasies and we are all different and are attracted to different people for unknown reasons so just take it that your not their type. prob nothing personal
A friendly message deserves a friendly answer. It breaks no piece from the Crown if you just respond "sorry not my type" ..basic manners "
Sometimes responding with basic manners ya get uncalled for abuse.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess its a simple no attraction no action, we're not here to fall in love, simply fulfil fantasies and we are all different and are attracted to different people for unknown reasons so just take it that your not their type. prob nothing personal
A friendly message deserves a friendly answer. It breaks no piece from the Crown if you just respond "sorry not my type" ..basic manners
Sometimes responding with basic manners ya get uncalled for abuse.... "
Oh I hear ya been there and got all that |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
90% of guys rejected send back abuse?
I doubt that.iv been on here as cpl for years before and have seen and recieved said abuse and i realise a single girl would get more,but 9 out of 10 guys send back abuse??
Btw i have no problem with a girl not sending back a no thank you message or even blocking you to show shes not interested,whatever gets the message across is fine by me,im a big boy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"90% of guys rejected send back abuse?
I doubt that.iv been on here as cpl for years before and have seen and recieved said abuse and i realise a single girl would get more,but 9 out of 10 guys send back abuse??
Btw i have no problem with a girl not sending back a no thank you message or even blocking you to show shes not interested,whatever gets the message across is fine by me,im a big boy "
Be great if more guys were like you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If ya don't get a reply then that should tell ya there not interested get over it, some people don't have the decency to reply a "no thanks" if they wer afraid of getting abuse I see it in almost every profile about the block button, that's wat it's there for |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
A girl or cpl with no filters on gets hundreds of mails a day,she couldnt reply to all and still have a life
most of them dont deserve a reply,'free today', 'wanna meet', thats bad enough but they mostly dont even hav a fuckin pic
and im sure alot of those same guys are posting here about decency and manners.
Or moaning about no meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A girl or cpl with no filters on gets hundreds of mails a day,she couldnt reply to all and still have a life
most of them dont deserve a reply,'free today', 'wanna meet', thats bad enough but they mostly dont even hav a fuckin pic
and im sure alot of those same guys are posting here about decency and manners.
Or moaning about no meets"
Very very True..... |
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I used to try and reply to all messages out of politeness. .. But sadly have to agree with fallen  .... often a polite no thanks results in abusive messages of the. .
"Why not".. leading to the"i think you'll find I tick all your boxes" ... leading to the"who the fuck do ya think you are etc " type messages. That's when I block!
thankfully I have met do many great people on here so I know there are good polite and decent guys out there. . But for newbies is really off putting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What bugs me is if you reply with a 'no thank you', some guys start, 'oh well let's chat and see how we go, you might change your mind'. You can pretty much tell by looking at someone's profile once whether you've any interest or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to try and reply to all messages out of politeness. .. But sadly have to agree with fallen .... often a polite no thanks results in abusive messages of the. .
"Why not".. leading to the"i think you'll find I tick all your boxes" ... leading to the"who the fuck do ya think you are etc " type messages. That's when I block!
thankfully I have met do many great people on here so I know there are good polite and decent guys out there. . But for newbies is really off putting "
Thank you ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"90% of guys rejected send back abuse?
I doubt that.iv been on here as cpl for years before and have seen and recieved said abuse and i realise a single girl would get more,but 9 out of 10 guys send back abuse??
Btw i have no problem with a girl not sending back a no thank you message or even blocking you to show shes not interested,whatever gets the message across is fine by me,im a big boy "
Ok I can imagine that here are lots boneheads but I can't believe that 9 out of 10 guys send back abuse. What is true is that one in ten women have the decency to write back an answer. I've no problem with a sorry .. why, even I do not want to meet any woman. |
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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago
Near Carryduff |
Some day all our face pics are going to end up on the Sunday world paper, the news paper that appears to represent moral guardians for the country.
Anyhow I do take your point. The guys who are wankers can't take rejection have completely ruined it for the rest.. Quite a shame really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some day all our face pics are going to end up on the Sunday world paper, the news paper that appears to represent moral guardians for the country.
Anyhow I do take your point. The guys who are wankers can't take rejection have completely ruined it for the rest.. Quite a shame really. "
I can't hear those bad guys scare poor woman story any longer.. too many on both sides, it seems to lack manners.Good manners are not an one way road. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some day all our face pics are going to end up on the Sunday world paper, the news paper that appears to represent moral guardians for the country.
Anyhow I do take your point. The guys who are wankers can't take rejection have completely ruined it for the rest.. Quite a shame really.
I can't hear those bad guys scare poor woman story any longer.. too many on both sides, it seems to lack manners.Good manners are not an one way road."
I agree and I only speak for myself and what I've had to deal with from guys on here....  |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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Just can't understand why ppl don't use the filters provided...it works a dream....and ladies block all guys for a month and you do the search your far more likely to find the type of guy that appeal's to you if your doing the looking....that's what we do when we are looking for a guy so far its worked....your leaving yourself open to rejection but that's the price |
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"A girl or cpl with no filters on gets hundreds of mails a day,she couldnt reply to all and still have a life
most of them dont deserve a reply,'free today', 'wanna meet', thats bad enough but they mostly dont even hav a fuckin pic
and im sure alot of those same guys are posting here about decency and manners.
Or moaning about no meets"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess its a simple no attraction no action, we're not here to fall in love, simply fulfil fantasies and we are all different and are attracted to different people for unknown reasons so just take it that your not their type. prob nothing personal
A friendly message deserves a friendly answer. It breaks no piece from the Crown if you just respond "sorry not my type" ..basic manners
Sometimes responding with basic manners ya get uncalled for abuse....
Oh I hear ya been there and got all that "
I reckon it can be difficult to reply to everyone that messages you, I think if guys read the profile they'd have a good idea if they'd get a reply or not, even check the verifications, if theres none from guys I don't bother as I don't believe Im that special that I'll be the first, most peeps are here to fulfil fantasies not make friends, the friends bit is just a bonus and any hot lady or couple are prob inundated and would have to hire a PA to reply to all the single males |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess its a simple no attraction no action, we're not here to fall in love, simply fulfil fantasies and we are all different and are attracted to different people for unknown reasons so just take it that your not their type. prob nothing personal
A friendly message deserves a friendly answer. It breaks no piece from the Crown if you just respond "sorry not my type" ..basic manners
Sometimes responding with basic manners ya get uncalled for abuse....
Oh I hear ya been there and got all that
I reckon it can be difficult to reply to everyone that messages you, I think if guys read the profile they'd have a good idea if they'd get a reply or not, even check the verifications, if theres none from guys I don't bother as I don't believe Im that special that I'll be the first, most peeps are here to fulfil fantasies not make friends, the friends bit is just a bonus and any hot lady or couple are prob inundated and would have to hire a PA to reply to all the single males "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess its a simple no attraction no action, we're not here to fall in love, simply fulfil fantasies and we are all different and are attracted to different people for unknown reasons so just take it that your not their type. prob nothing personal
A friendly message deserves a friendly answer. It breaks no piece from the Crown if you just respond "sorry not my type" ..basic manners
Sometimes responding with basic manners ya get uncalled for abuse....
Oh I hear ya been there and got all that
I reckon it can be difficult to reply to everyone that messages you, I think if guys read the profile they'd have a good idea if they'd get a reply or not, even check the verifications, if theres none from guys I don't bother as I don't believe Im that special that I'll be the first, most peeps are here to fulfil fantasies not make friends, the friends bit is just a bonus and any hot lady or couple are prob inundated and would have to hire a PA to reply to all the single males
Well said... "
For me enthusiasm is the biggest asset for a successful meet, so I simply don't understand why guys hassle girls if they have been told, or by intimation, that they aren't their type, because trying to 'persuade' someone to have sex just isn't gonna work...so if I get any negative vibes...i just walk away..same as in real life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't mind the face pic request, wat annoys me is the face pic request from people with no pictures and no verifications or some dodgy verification "met a while back off a different site" type ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefere to send a face pic on first message and I do ask for one in return. Or even a full body pic (clothed or nude)
If I'm not physically attracted to u. I simply reply "sorry your not my type , happy hunting tho "
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I have public face pics. With 3' of make up on, I don't have to worry about being recognised by my mum if she's on here (if you are, mum, then it isn't me) and there is a lot of variety in TG from people who have beards to those who you would never guess, so I like people to be able to tell before they message me. On the other side, I once had a face pic from a guy with taches that made him look like a Mexican Bandit and it was awkward to say no without offending him. |
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