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The verification thing again..
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over a year ago
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"I show all my verifications, as folk have taken time and trouble to comment....so howcome I get insulted?"
Send them my way I'm doing DIY labotomies they won't be insulting any one after that |
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"I show all my verifications, as folk have taken time and trouble to comment....so howcome I get insulted?
Why the insults ?  "
Apparently u get a name for urself when u show all ur veri's?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I show all my verifications, as folk have taken time and trouble to comment....so howcome I get insulted?
Send them my way I'm doing DIY labotomies they won't be insulting any one after that "
Lol  kitty the lobotomist! Has a nice ring to it!
Who's abusing you? I've tonnes on show! Like you say, if someone has gone to the bother of leaving you one then it's polite to show!
Equally I understand people that don't wanna show theirs. It's a personal choice |
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"I show all my verifications, as folk have taken time and trouble to comment....so howcome I get insulted?
Why the insults ?
Apparently u get a name for urself when u show all ur veri's? "
Miss hunnitoes !!!!! Lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I show all my verifications, as folk have taken time and trouble to comment....so howcome I get insulted?
Why the insults ?
Apparently u get a name for urself when u show all ur veri's? "
It's a swing site not a school yard, if anyone's calling ur names then it's jealousy - ur only doing what ur here for
If you post and say ur not meeting you'll get others asking why ur here at all
Damned if you do and damned if you don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I show all my verifications, as folk have taken time and trouble to comment....so howcome I get insulted?
Send them my way I'm doing DIY labotomies they won't be insulting any one after that
Lol kitty the lobotomist! Has a nice ring to it!
Who's abusing you? I've tonnes on show! Like you say, if someone has gone to the bother of leaving you one then it's polite to show!
Equally I understand people that don't wanna show theirs. It's a personal choice"
That's the only reason I show mine, cause people made me    |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I show all my verifications, as folk have taken time and trouble to comment....so howcome I get insulted?
Why the insults ?
Apparently u get a name for urself when u show all ur veri's?
Miss hunnitoes !!!!! Lol "
U called??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I show all my verifications, as folk have taken time and trouble to comment....so howcome I get insulted?
Why the insults ?
Apparently u get a name for urself when u show all ur veri's?
It's a swing site not a school yard, if anyone's calling ur names then it's jealousy - ur only doing what ur here for
If you post and say ur not meeting you'll get others asking why ur here at all
Damned if you do and damned if you don't "
Hard to win  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I show all my verifications, as folk have taken time and trouble to comment....so howcome I get insulted?
Why the insults ?
Apparently u get a name for urself when u show all ur veri's?
It's a swing site not a school yard, if anyone's calling ur names then it's jealousy - ur only doing what ur here for
If you post and say ur not meeting you'll get others asking why ur here at all
Damned if you do and damned if you don't "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being relatively new to fab I've only one. But hopefully with a wee bit of patience I'll have a few to show and won't bother me in the slightest what some narrow minded person thinks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being relatively new to fab I've only one. But hopefully with a wee bit of patience I'll have a few to show and won't bother me in the slightest what some narrow minded person thinks"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Verifications are like people, they come in all shapes and forms and if folk actually read what is being said in the veri's then they should have no need to insult others.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Verifications are like people, they come in all shapes and forms and if folk actually read what is being said in the veri's then they should have no need to insult others. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some people see maybe 40+ verifications shown on a profile (and make a quick judgement) but like you said they don't actually look to see that many are just from m&g's or coffee meets.
Personally I don't show verifications. If anyone has written one for me that doesn't mean I'm disrespectful to them for not displaying it.
However If I read a persons profile that had 80-90 play verifications I'd probably decide to move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some people see maybe 40+ verifications shown on a profile (and make a quick judgement) but like you said they don't actually look to see that many are just from m&g's or coffee meets.
Personally I don't show verifications. If anyone has written one for me that doesn't mean I'm disrespectful to them for not displaying it.
However If I read a persons profile that had 80-90 play verifications I'd probably decide to move on. "
Yes I suppose there is something to be said for private reading x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got called a slut one day cause I had so many wouldn't mind none of them where from sexual meets fuckers blocked me before I could say anything back "
I'm sure that person will go far on here.
NOT |
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"I got called a slut one day cause I had so many wouldn't mind none of them where from sexual meets fuckers blocked me before I could say anything back "
That's strange cause I get messages calling me stud all the time cause mine are all sexual |
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The purposes of my verifications are basically to show that i'm genuine. I don't give nor seek graphic verifications, it's not my style. What went on at meets are no ones business but the parties involved.
What bugs me though are the fact that sometimes you have to spell it out for potential readers of your veri's, lest they get the wrong idea. you have a lot of veri's and you're a so called slut, but you could have got 90% from a M&G and not slept with anyone!
Or another example: Say i'm at a party and I meet a couple. they dont meet single guys, but we have the craic, and i verify them. now what would be the difference between me saying "I met this couple last night" and "I met this couple last night at a party we both attended"? Single guys reading the former would think, "hang on, they dont meet guys but they met this dude? i'm gonna chance my arm"
You have to choose your words carefully around here....give people an inch and they'll take a mile. |
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"The purposes of my verifications are basically to show that i'm genuine. I don't give nor seek graphic verifications, it's not my style. What went on at meets are no ones business but the parties involved.
What bugs me though are the fact that sometimes you have to spell it out for potential readers of your veri's, lest they get the wrong idea. you have a lot of veri's and you're a so called slut, but you could have got 90% from a M&G and not slept with anyone!
Or another example: Say i'm at a party and I meet a couple. they dont meet single guys, but we have the craic, and i verify them. now what would be the difference between me saying "I met this couple last night" and "I met this couple last night at a party we both attended"? Single guys reading the former would think, "hang on, they dont meet guys but they met this dude? i'm gonna chance my arm"
You have to choose your words carefully around here....give people an inch and they'll take a mile."
Yes I totally agree with u. To verify it to prove genuine and many folk will add little personal comments along the way. It is a live and let live thing |
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Yes I totally agree with u. To verify it to prove genuine and many folk will add little personal comments along the way. It is a live and let live thing "
just to add, my attitude to veri's came the hard way. I used to get hung up on them, to my detriment.
Now when i veri someone I let them know that they're under no obligation to veri me back. As long as I maintain a couple of recent ones to show i'm currently active, I'm happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its like show and tell sometimes! I just put up what I want and don't feel the need to show everything! Its an individual choice and no matter what you did or have done theres always someone that wants to know all the details of a cats behind |
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"The purposes of my verifications are basically to show that i'm genuine. I don't give nor seek graphic verifications, it's not my style. What went on at meets are no ones business but the parties involved.
What bugs me though are the fact that sometimes you have to spell it out for potential readers of your veri's, lest they get the wrong idea. you have a lot of veri's and you're a so called slut, but you could have got 90% from a M&G and not slept with anyone!
Or another example: Say i'm at a party and I meet a couple. they dont meet single guys, but we have the craic, and i verify them. now what would be the difference between me saying "I met this couple last night" and "I met this couple last night at a party we both attended"? Single guys reading the former would think, "hang on, they dont meet guys but they met this dude? i'm gonna chance my arm"
You have to choose your words carefully around here....give people an inch and they'll take a mile."
I agree. ..a lot of mine are social and I show my veris because if you don't people think your hiding something. I always check with people if they want a veri and im not a huge fan of explicit ones but each to their own. As someone said. .dammed if you do. . Dammed if ya don't. . Might help if people read them! I always read them before even considering meeting someone. . Some are really funny   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sure people are on here to have fun. And certain individuals that join up should realise that. What do they expect. It's a swinging site not a holy Joe site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have lots of verifications on our profile,we go to lots of meet n greets and we like social verifications...
Hate graphic ones...
However....Once or twice we get verified and don't publish it only to find we have been unfriended, people get the hump |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The purposes of my verifications are basically to show that i'm genuine. I don't give nor seek graphic verifications, it's not my style. What went on at meets are no ones business but the parties involved.
What bugs me though are the fact that sometimes you have to spell it out for potential readers of your veri's, lest they get the wrong idea. you have a lot of veri's and you're a so called slut, but you could have got 90% from a M&G and not slept with anyone!
Or another example: Say i'm at a party and I meet a couple. they dont meet single guys, but we have the craic, and i verify them. now what would be the difference between me saying "I met this couple last night" and "I met this couple last night at a party we both attended"? Single guys reading the former would think, "hang on, they dont meet guys but they met this dude? i'm gonna chance my arm"
You have to choose your words carefully around here....give people an inch and they'll take a mile."
So how many inches do u give people then?? |
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"The purposes of my verifications are basically to show that i'm genuine. I don't give nor seek graphic verifications, it's not my style. What went on at meets are no ones business but the parties involved.
What bugs me though are the fact that sometimes you have to spell it out for potential readers of your veri's, lest they get the wrong idea. you have a lot of veri's and you're a so called slut, but you could have got 90% from a M&G and not slept with anyone!
Or another example: Say i'm at a party and I meet a couple. they dont meet single guys, but we have the craic, and i verify them. now what would be the difference between me saying "I met this couple last night" and "I met this couple last night at a party we both attended"? Single guys reading the former would think, "hang on, they dont meet guys but they met this dude? i'm gonna chance my arm"
You have to choose your words carefully around here....give people an inch and they'll take a mile.
So how many inches do u give people then?? "
You might find out yet! |
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We give them,and we have refused point blank to give them. Here's why,we don't want any couple reading that he was "a nice guy" and she was a lovely girl which may be true for them both. But when it comes to play mr nice guy can't get it up,or "arrives" within seconds or worse has "tiny syndrome" and mrs is like a a dead fish.
Our names are on the verification,and swinging is like football,your only as good as your last game. |
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"We give them,and we have refused point blank to give them. Here's why,we don't want any couple reading that he was "a nice guy" and she was a lovely girl which may be true for them both. But when it comes to play mr nice guy can't get it up,or "arrives" within seconds or worse has "tiny syndrome" and mrs is like a a dead fish.
Our names are on the verification,and swinging is like football,your only as good as your last game. "
Very true but what one person finds gud about another person may not be the same for others. The verifications can only be seen a guideline. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Very true but what one person finds gud about another person may not be the same for others. The verifications can only be seen a guideline.
Aye you're right about that.
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"We give them,and we have refused point blank to give them. Here's why,we don't want any couple reading that he was "a nice guy" and she was a lovely girl which may be true for them both. But when it comes to play mr nice guy can't get it up,or "arrives" within seconds or worse has "tiny syndrome" and mrs is like a a dead fish.
Our names are on the verification,and swinging is like football,your only as good as your last game.
Very true but what one person finds gud about another person may not be the same for others. The verifications can only be seen a guideline. "
True,but I don't know many girls who likes men that are not up to it,and not many men who feel like their just going through the motions if ya get me |
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"We give them,and we have refused point blank to give them. Here's why,we don't want any couple reading that he was "a nice guy" and she was a lovely girl which may be true for them both. But when it comes to play mr nice guy can't get it up,or "arrives" within seconds or worse has "tiny syndrome" and mrs is like a a dead fish.
Our names are on the verification,and swinging is like football,your only as good as your last game.
Very true but what one person finds gud about another person may not be the same for others. The verifications can only be seen a guideline.
True,but I don't know many girls who likes men that are not up to it,and not many men who feel like their just going through the motions if ya get me "
Yea I get what you mean, it's more the judgemental aspect of how many veris that I am whinging about. |
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Verifications should be taken with a pinch of salt. There is a huge amount of exaggeration and ego rubbing in a lot of them.
The likes of she fucks like a porn star or he should change his name to Buzz Lightyear as he's cock will take you to infinity and beyond are fun to read admittedly but it really doesn't mean a whole pile. One persons mediocre can be another persons life changing, leg shaking, orgasmic, join the queue and the all important 'must meet' experience and vice versa.
A lot of verifications can be social meets too and not play dates.
I don't show mine as I get far too many questions and that's my choice. If someone was ever insulting I just block and move on.
Then there's that firm favourite "treat her with respect". I love that cracker cause dragging her by the hair back to the cave is all she was ever used to.
It's a good guide that someone is real and is meeting, everything else follows on from that I think. |
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"I show all my verifications, as folk have taken time and trouble to comment....so howcome I get insulted?
Send them my way I'm doing DIY labotomies they won't be insulting any one after that "
How many op's have you completed today?
I don't get folk receiving insults over their veri's. I thought the idea was to meet people |
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"Verifications should be taken with a pinch of salt. There is a huge amount of exaggeration and ego rubbing in a lot of them.
The likes of she fucks like a porn star or he should change his name to Buzz Lightyear as he's cock will take you to infinity and beyond are fun to read admittedly but it really doesn't mean a whole pile. One persons mediocre can be another persons life changing, leg shaking, orgasmic, join the queue and the all important 'must meet' experience and vice versa.
A lot of verifications can be social meets too and not play dates.
I don't show mine as I get far too many questions and that's my choice. If someone was ever insulting I just block and move on.
Then there's that firm favourite "treat her with respect". I love that cracker cause dragging her by the hair back to the cave is all she was ever used to.
It's a good guide that someone is real and is meeting, everything else follows on from that I think."
Well that's it in a nutshell |
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