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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Is it right too ask a host what there party might invole and what sort of party it is not just partys all types of events eg is it a play party a meet an greet a social meet that kind of stuff will we have too bring supplys with us etc and where it might be held not exacly the location but like hotel club pub private house etc do you think if someone was too ask is it there right too know and is the host ment to give a little info regarding it ok now not all info but some info thoughts please

yeh where haven a little tiff about this one lol but i just wanted to be sure on who was right an in the wrong on this one happy hunting folks

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman  over a year ago

Palookaville

Ask jazzsins... He's pretty good at that stuff

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I imagine you'd be perfectly entitled to know what kind of party it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ask jazzsins... He's pretty good at that stuff "

lol whos jazzins

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I imagine you'd be perfectly entitled to know what kind of party it is "
thats what i was thinking my reply back was im not obliged too tell u that which was very strange

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman  over a year ago

Palookaville


"Ask jazzsins... He's pretty good at that stuff

lol whos jazzins"

he organises a lot of the m&g and some parties. .. lovely guy and very helpful

jazzsins is his profile name

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I imagine you'd be perfectly entitled to know what kind of party it is thats what i was thinking my reply back was im not obliged too tell u that which was very strange "

power trip maybe

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ask jazzsins... He's pretty good at that stuff

lol whos jazzins

he organises a lot of the m&g and some parties. .. lovely guy and very helpful

jazzsins is his profile name "

no one here under that name anyway

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman  over a year ago

Palookaville


"Ask jazzsins... He's pretty good at that stuff

lol whos jazzins

he organises a lot of the m&g and some parties. .. lovely guy and very helpful

jazzsins is his profile name

no one here under that name anyway "

sorry only one z.........jazsins

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Cheers for that hes not onlin now but when he gets back sure ill ask him but coming from guests point of view are they entiled too know what sort of party it is an where its taken place no not pin pointing the exact place just like its a sex party normaly held in i dunno say a hotel is that ok thats whats confusing me here

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman  over a year ago

Palookaville


"Cheers for that hes not onlin now but when he gets back sure ill ask him but coming from guests point of view are they entiled too know what sort of party it is an where its taken place no not pin pointing the exact place just like its a sex party normaly held in i dunno say a hotel is that ok thats whats confusing me here "

any we've been to we always asked first what type of party. .. What the mix is. Ie couples. . Singles. . Is it just social. ... Or will people be playing and if any house rules. What to bring ie alcohol ...nibbles.. condoms etc. General idea whether it's a public place ie bar /restaurant or a private hotel/function room .. If location is an area that maybe you might need to consider getting a hotel room etc usually good to know who else is going as some people you may not want to play with or some may be newbies.just general stuff so you know what type of party your going to.. How to be dressed for it. . And what is likely to happen at it. ... hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It sure does help us so i was right too what i wa asking a few weeks back i do hope the guy sees this and maybe he wont be rude too us in future cheers guys u always give us an owl tip on things

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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any we've been to we always asked first what type of party. .. What the mix is. Ie couples. . Singles. . Is it just social. ... Or will people be playing and if any house rules. What to bring ie alcohol ...nibbles.. condoms etc. General idea whether it's a public place ie bar /restaurant or a private hotel/function room .. If location is an area that maybe you might need to consider getting a hotel room etc usually good to know who else is going as some people you may not want to play with or some may be newbies.just general stuff so you know what type of party your going to.. How to be dressed for it. . And what is likely to happen at it. ... hope that helps"

and the guest list.we would'nt dream of going to party without knowing who else was going to be there.just user names obviously

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS  over a year ago

Limavady

If someone wouldn't tell me the general idea of the party it wouldn't worry me as I would no longer be going.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The question you asked about said was answered a few times, by myself included, you were rather rude to the host on their post about said party so I don't really understand why you have started another thread about it....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"The question you asked about said was answered a few times, by myself included, you were rather rude to the host on their post about said party so I don't really understand why you have started another thread about it.... "

well thats just one party i dont find myself rude in that thread at all also not a hol alot info about it an tbh honest i dont care im just asking another question to ask in general are we the guests even before an invite or anything are entiled to ask some minor questions about it not asking for a pin point location an everything just a small idea of what where getting our self into

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The question you asked about said was answered a few times, by myself included, you were rather rude to the host on their post about said party so I don't really understand why you have started another thread about it....

well thats just one party i dont find myself rude in that thread at all also not a hol alot info about it an tbh honest i dont care im just asking another question to ask in general are we the guests even before an invite or anything are entiled to ask some minor questions about it not asking for a pin point location an everything just a small idea of what where getting our self into "

And I personally commented on the post you put up about said parties giving you details! It's not hard to mail and ask about it in a polite fashion...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

But sure we could be abit nervous of asking hes the host we put a comment under a thread by the host saying help us here little whats the said party about but anyway im over that im just general are people entiled to know what party it is and where it might be held and whats the dress code an so on i dont see the big issue here yes its this dress code its held normal in a hotel with x amount of people this party could turn into this or that simple little thing really

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But sure we could be abit nervous of asking hes the host we put a comment under a thread by the host saying help us here little whats the said party about but anyway im over that im just general are people entiled to know what party it is and where it might be held and whats the dress code an so on i dont see the big issue here yes its this dress code its held normal in a hotel with x amount of people this party could turn into this or that simple little thing really "

Yeah but sending a message to the host who doesn't exactly want to tell all the details on a public forum is not too hard, if your nervous how do you send normal people messages??

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"But sure we could be abit nervous of asking hes the host we put a comment under a thread by the host saying help us here little whats the said party about but anyway im over that im just general are people entiled to know what party it is and where it might be held and whats the dress code an so on i dont see the big issue here yes its this dress code its held normal in a hotel with x amount of people this party could turn into this or that simple little thing really

Yeah but sending a message to the host who doesn't exactly want to tell all the details on a public forum is not too hard, if your nervous how do you send normal people messages?? "

we dont normally peopl mail us infact i dont think we hav ever mailed anyone tbh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But sure we could be abit nervous of asking hes the host we put a comment under a thread by the host saying help us here little whats the said party about but anyway im over that im just general are people entiled to know what party it is and where it might be held and whats the dress code an so on i dont see the big issue here yes its this dress code its held normal in a hotel with x amount of people this party could turn into this or that simple little thing really

Yeah but sending a message to the host who doesn't exactly want to tell all the details on a public forum is not too hard, if your nervous how do you send normal people messages?? we dont normally peopl mail us infact i dont think we hav ever mailed anyone tbh "

Right so you don't mail people?? Right whatever way ya work the site that works for you... I'm just puttin my point across!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

We dont honest i dont think we have ever mailed anybody well all i can say is being accused of asking where the exact location is of one party is a joke tbh i dunno maybe some hosts should be a little clearer or what there hosting insted of accusing people of something they haven done we have bin tons of events and i have too stay its one of th first time i had too deal with such lier since we started swinging ah wel maybe h can explain it himself in person at an upcoming party

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