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For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education. |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education."
Remember to block straight away, so you do not get emails back from those men. |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education."
I like your thread!!!! I did that once or twice just to see what response I would get! Got a couple of thank you's for advise will take on board, but equally heard back from rude wankers!!!!! Very interested to see how your thread goes.....  |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education.
I like your thread!!!! I did that once or twice just to see what response I would get! Got a couple of thank you's for advise will take on board, but equally heard back from rude wankers!!!!! Very interested to see how your thread goes..... "
So far one wishes to put me in my place and another just want to " get his hole" and he reckons I'm on the wrong site. Some people are beyond help!!! |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education.
I like your thread!!!! I did that once or twice just to see what response I would get! Got a couple of thank you's for advise will take on board, but equally heard back from rude wankers!!!!! Very interested to see how your thread goes.....
So far one wishes to put me in my place and another just want to " get his hole" and he reckons I'm on the wrong site. Some people are beyond help!!!"
Oh yes!!! LMAO, at least there is consolation in knowing they will never succeed and soon disappear into the mists of time |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education.
I like your thread!!!! I did that once or twice just to see what response I would get! Got a couple of thank you's for advise will take on board, but equally heard back from rude wankers!!!!! Very interested to see how your thread goes.....
So far one wishes to put me in my place and another just want to " get his hole" and he reckons I'm on the wrong site. Some people are beyond help!!!"
 , do you ever get the ones that tell you in minute detail what they are going to do to you, and all of it sounds like a massive snorefest  |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education.
I like your thread!!!! I did that once or twice just to see what response I would get! Got a couple of thank you's for advise will take on board, but equally heard back from rude wankers!!!!! Very interested to see how your thread goes.....
So far one wishes to put me in my place and another just want to " get his hole" and he reckons I'm on the wrong site. Some people are beyond help!!!
, do you ever get the ones that tell you in minute detail what they are going to do to you, and all of it sounds like a massive snorefest "
Thankfully not often. Sad that " some " men assume we all like the same things. |
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"The devil in me wants to email you now just to see what you would say 
Lol you're an expert I'm sure. This excerise is to prevent guys/men sending that awful first message that fills the delete bin."
I used to do it but gave up after the abuse I got too many times |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education.
I like your thread!!!! I did that once or twice just to see what response I would get! Got a couple of thank you's for advise will take on board, but equally heard back from rude wankers!!!!! Very interested to see how your thread goes.....
So far one wishes to put me in my place and another just want to " get his hole" and he reckons I'm on the wrong site. Some people are beyond help!!!
, do you ever get the ones that tell you in minute detail what they are going to do to you, and all of it sounds like a massive snorefest
Thankfully not often. Sad that " some " men assume we all like the same things."
Sure if there ever was a place for generalising sweeping statements , fab is it! |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education.
I like your thread!!!! I did that once or twice just to see what response I would get! Got a couple of thank you's for advise will take on board, but equally heard back from rude wankers!!!!! Very interested to see how your thread goes..... "
We all know how ladies are inundated with messages , good and bad all the time and the grief they get sometimes but whats frustrating from a genuine guys perspective is once you've got chatting to someone they , for whatever reason
just ignore you !!! Any opinion on this Moca ???? Lol |
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F sake lady's why can't you all just get on your knees without asking :P lol
Ahh no, On a serious note i say fair play to you but I can't see it going very well as lads think lady's will just drop there trousers like the majority of men do but that's far from ever going to get your hole on these types of sites.
Do people not realise by writing to some randomer online who more than likely is on the site for the same reason as you,But that there's a massive chance in this day and ages it's a computer, fake, men pretending to be female etc etc. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON FIRST BEFORE YOU MEET!! It could be anyone.
I know women pay a lot more attention to this than men do. And I myself do get very horny every now and then and do just want to have fun. But I know writing a mail to a lady saying I'm horny that iv not even talked to before, 99.9% of the time your going to get refused.
Anyways I'm not assed writing anymore this kinda stuff really really annoys me because it ruins all the fun for the genuine fun people on these site. And it espically makes it a lot harder for me as I'm a lot younger then most of these sites.
Good luck on your 3 days mission and hope you don't get to many "Dickheads" |
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F sake lady's why can't you all just get on your knees without asking :P lol
Ahh no, On a serious note i say fair play to you but I can't see it going very well as lads think lady's will just drop there trousers like the majority of men do but that's far from ever going to get your hole on these types of sites.
Do people not realise by writing to some randomer online who more than likely is on the site for the same reason as you,But that there's a massive chance in this day and ages it's a computer, fake, men pretending to be female etc etc. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON FIRST BEFORE YOU MEET!! It could be anyone.
I know women pay a lot more attention to this than men do. And I myself do get very horny every now and then and do just want to have fun. But I know writing a mail to a lady saying I'm horny that iv not even talked to before, 99.9% of the time your going to get refused.
Anyways I'm not assed writing anymore this kinda stuff really really annoys me because it ruins all the fun for the genuine fun people on these site. And it espically makes it a lot harder for me as I'm a lot younger then most of these sites.
Good luck on your 3 days mission and hope you don't get to many "Dickheads" |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education."
I'd take part in this experiment but I'm one year too young for you  |
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"F sake lady's why can't you all just get on your knees without asking :P lol
Ahh no, On a serious note i say fair play to you but I can't see it going very well as lads think lady's will just drop there trousers like the majority of men do but that's far from ever going to get your hole on these types of sites.
Do people not realise by writing to some randomer online who more than likely is on the site for the same reason as you,But that there's a massive chance in this day and ages it's a computer, fake, men pretending to be female etc etc. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON FIRST BEFORE YOU MEET!! It could be anyone.
I know women pay a lot more attention to this than men do. And I myself do get very horny every now and then and do just want to have fun. But I know writing a mail to a lady saying I'm horny that iv not even talked to before, 99.9% of the time your going to get refused.
Anyways I'm not assed writing anymore this kinda stuff really really annoys me because it ruins all the fun for the genuine fun people on these site. And it espically makes it a lot harder for me as I'm a lot younger then most of these sites.
Good luck on your 3 days mission and hope you don't get to many "Dickheads" "
Thanks, but in reality the guys who take time to read a profile and send a decent message will actually get a response even if it is a no. Respectable Women will not reply to rude messages (keep that till you get her in the bedroom, as by then you will know to say it or not) the genuine respectable guys stand out more so they did have a better chance getting a meet. |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education.
I'd take part in this experiment but I'm one year too young for you "
Do you feel you need advice? I can pm you |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education.
I'd take part in this experiment but I'm one year too young for you
Do you feel you need advice? I can pm you "
I'd always welcome advice. It's all a learning experience..feel free to pm. |
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"F sake lady's why can't you all just get on your knees without asking :P lol
Ahh no, On a serious note i say fair play to you but I can't see it going very well as lads think lady's will just drop there trousers like the majority of men do but that's far from ever going to get your hole on these types of sites.
Do people not realise by writing to some randomer online who more than likely is on the site for the same reason as you,But that there's a massive chance in this day and ages it's a computer, fake, men pretending to be female etc etc. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON FIRST BEFORE YOU MEET!! It could be anyone.
I know women pay a lot more attention to this than men do. And I myself do get very horny every now and then and do just want to have fun. But I know writing a mail to a lady saying I'm horny that iv not even talked to before, 99.9% of the time your going to get refused.
Anyways I'm not assed writing anymore this kinda stuff really really annoys me because it ruins all the fun for the genuine fun people on these site. And it espically makes it a lot harder for me as I'm a lot younger then most of these sites.
Good luck on your 3 days mission and hope you don't get to many "Dickheads"
Thanks, but in reality the guys who take time to read a profile and send a decent message will actually get a response even if it is a no. Respectable Women will not reply to rude messages (keep that till you get her in the bedroom, as by then you will know to say it or not) the genuine respectable guys stand out more so they did have a better chance getting a meet."
Exactly, As I do understand it can be annoying not receiving a reply espically when you are a genuine guy but I would never ever send an abusive message back. Because we are all here for the same thing. And I know myself some mails I get I don't always be interested. Just because some one doesn't want to fuck you there and then doesn't mean you have to be a dick. These people your thrown abuse at may be at the next event or something and your chance may come then just give it time.
Just like going out on a date with a girl for the first time, doesn't always mean your getting it that night  |
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"F sake lady's why can't you all just get on your knees without asking :P lol
Ahh no, On a serious note i say fair play to you but I can't see it going very well as lads think lady's will just drop there trousers like the majority of men do but that's far from ever going to get your hole on these types of sites.
Do people not realise by writing to some randomer online who more than likely is on the site for the same reason as you,But that there's a massive chance in this day and ages it's a computer, fake, men pretending to be female etc etc. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON FIRST BEFORE YOU MEET!! It could be anyone.
I know women pay a lot more attention to this than men do. And I myself do get very horny every now and then and do just want to have fun. But I know writing a mail to a lady saying I'm horny that iv not even talked to before, 99.9% of the time your going to get refused.
Anyways I'm not assed writing anymore this kinda stuff really really annoys me because it ruins all the fun for the genuine fun people on these site. And it espically makes it a lot harder for me as I'm a lot younger then most of these sites.
Good luck on your 3 days mission and hope you don't get to many "Dickheads"
Thanks, but in reality the guys who take time to read a profile and send a decent message will actually get a response even if it is a no. Respectable Women will not reply to rude messages (keep that till you get her in the bedroom, as by then you will know to say it or not) the genuine respectable guys stand out more so they did have a better chance getting a meet.
Exactly, As I do understand it can be annoying not receiving a reply espically when you are a genuine guy but I would never ever send an abusive message back. Because we are all here for the same thing. And I know myself some mails I get I don't always be interested. Just because some one doesn't want to fuck you there and then doesn't mean you have to be a dick. These people your thrown abuse at may be at the next event or something and your chance may come then just give it time.
Just like going out on a date with a girl for the first time, doesn't always mean your getting it that night "
Your hired!! If I can't reply to all mail I'll pass some your way lol |
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"Ok from a woman's point of veiw tells us a msg that you say to yourself ok I like this guy that was a nice message
Examples ??? Lol"
Like really man?? Your 28, have you never pulled a girl on your own?? Need us to help you??
It's called use your common sense and don't be a muppet about it..
Don't mean to sound like an arsehole either but just because your on a swinging site doesn't mean there's certain words to use to get into a pair of knickers.. Just be yourself and dont desperate |
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"Ok from a woman's point of veiw tells us a msg that you say to yourself ok I like this guy that was a nice message
Examples ??? Lol"
Be aware you don't know the person on the receiving end reading your message. So a message that tells me he has read my profile and has somewhat understanding of it and if you don't than ask me what you don't understand. I ask for an informed message so saying hi or how are you means you haven't read or understood what I'm looking for its that simple. I also ask for no cock pics so that should indicate I!m more interested in the person not what's in his pants. Reading a person's profile truly gives you an understanding of them. |
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"F sake lady's why can't you all just get on your knees without asking :P lol
Ahh no, On a serious note i say fair play to you but I can't see it going very well as lads think lady's will just drop there trousers like the majority of men do but that's far from ever going to get your hole on these types of sites.
Do people not realise by writing to some randomer online who more than likely is on the site for the same reason as you,But that there's a massive chance in this day and ages it's a computer, fake, men pretending to be female etc etc. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON FIRST BEFORE YOU MEET!! It could be anyone.
I know women pay a lot more attention to this than men do. And I myself do get very horny every now and then and do just want to have fun. But I know writing a mail to a lady saying I'm horny that iv not even talked to before, 99.9% of the time your going to get refused.
Anyways I'm not assed writing anymore this kinda stuff really really annoys me because it ruins all the fun for the genuine fun people on these site. And it espically makes it a lot harder for me as I'm a lot younger then most of these sites.
Good luck on your 3 days mission and hope you don't get to many "Dickheads"
Thanks, but in reality the guys who take time to read a profile and send a decent message will actually get a response even if it is a no. Respectable Women will not reply to rude messages (keep that till you get her in the bedroom, as by then you will know to say it or not) the genuine respectable guys stand out more so they did have a better chance getting a meet.
Exactly, As I do understand it can be annoying not receiving a reply espically when you are a genuine guy but I would never ever send an abusive message back. Because we are all here for the same thing. And I know myself some mails I get I don't always be interested. Just because some one doesn't want to fuck you there and then doesn't mean you have to be a dick. These people your thrown abuse at may be at the next event or something and your chance may come then just give it time.
Just like going out on a date with a girl for the first time, doesn't always mean your getting it that night
Your hired!! If I can't reply to all mail I'll pass some your way lol"
Lol missed this, when do I start :P lol |
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"For the next 3 days any message I get ( the type we all complain about) I'm going to reply with constructive advice instead of my usual delete. I think it's time "some" guys receive an education.
I like your thread!!!! I did that once or twice just to see what response I would get! Got a couple of thank you's for advise will take on board, but equally heard back from rude wankers!!!!! Very interested to see how your thread goes..... We all know how ladies are inundated with messages , good and bad all the time and the grief they get sometimes but whats frustrating from a genuine guys perspective is once you've got chatting to someone they , for whatever reason
just ignore you !!! Any opinion on this Moca ???? Lol"
I can only speak for myself..... I have my own personnel demons at the moment it means I do not have the same amount of time to answer all messages!!! I try and answer everyone as best I can and here I am getting grief!!! Pissed off now!!! |
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"F sake lady's why can't you all just get on your knees without asking :P lol
Ahh no, On a serious note i say fair play to you but I can't see it going very well as lads think lady's will just drop there trousers like the majority of men do but that's far from ever going to get your hole on these types of sites.
Do people not realise by writing to some randomer online who more than likely is on the site for the same reason as you,But that there's a massive chance in this day and ages it's a computer, fake, men pretending to be female etc etc. GET TO KNOW THE PERSON FIRST BEFORE YOU MEET!! It could be anyone.
I know women pay a lot more attention to this than men do. And I myself do get very horny every now and then and do just want to have fun. But I know writing a mail to a lady saying I'm horny that iv not even talked to before, 99.9% of the time your going to get refused.
Anyways I'm not assed writing anymore this kinda stuff really really annoys me because it ruins all the fun for the genuine fun people on these site. And it espically makes it a lot harder for me as I'm a lot younger then most of these sites.
Good luck on your 3 days mission and hope you don't get to many "Dickheads"
Thanks, but in reality the guys who take time to read a profile and send a decent message will actually get a response even if it is a no. Respectable Women will not reply to rude messages (keep that till you get her in the bedroom, as by then you will know to say it or not) the genuine respectable guys stand out more so they did have a better chance getting a meet.
Exactly, As I do understand it can be annoying not receiving a reply espically when you are a genuine guy but I would never ever send an abusive message back. Because we are all here for the same thing. And I know myself some mails I get I don't always be interested. Just because some one doesn't want to fuck you there and then doesn't mean you have to be a dick. These people your thrown abuse at may be at the next event or something and your chance may come then just give it time.
Just like going out on a date with a girl for the first time, doesn't always mean your getting it that night
Your hired!! If I can't reply to all mail I'll pass some your way lol
Lol missed this, when do I start :P lol "
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I'm not being a fool I never had problem pulling women but I mean you read the profile be nice nd nothing it's not even a reply it's face pic won't reply if you don't have pics up now don't get me wrong I have meet a lot and am happy I have ah must be too many men on here lol |
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"My apologies for my rudeness Mel hijacking your thread to vent my frustrations!!! 
Forgiven my dear....... breathe deeply again......"
Thanks
You wouldn't believe the insulting message I got yesterday from a guy after I I wished him luck on fab but I didn't think we would be meeting for a second time 
I must say it left me feeling vulnerable..... |
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"My apologies for my rudeness Mel hijacking your thread to vent my frustrations!!!
Forgiven my dear....... breathe deeply again......
Thanks
You wouldn't believe the insulting message I got yesterday from a guy after I I wished him luck on fab but I didn't think we would be meeting for a second time
I must say it left me feeling vulnerable....."
Don't understand this. I'd prefer someone to be honest and say.."yeah it was fun. But I won't be meeting you again" instead of "yeah we must do that again" if you say you want to meet again I'll take you at your word. I suppose its like "yeah I'll call you" or "the cheques in the post" |
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Update I'm still replying to mail in a positive constructive manner and majority of guys that have asked for advice have been very pleasant.
Faith restored in the human race |
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"Update I'm still replying to mail in a positive constructive manner and majority of guys that have asked for advice have been very pleasant.
Faith restored in the human race"
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Ah I have been given the rejection card here a.few times but look that's life what I find sexy and the other are different just get on with it if a girl reply s to me and says sorry not interested my answer is ok ty for reply |
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