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fool me once

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

wouldnt normally do this,,,as im quite a positive person.....2nd date with sadi lady 2nd date a non show...the date was a "coffee" yes a "coffee" the time was 430 today because i was working,,now ive no phone at the moment so in fairness i took a chance went at 4 "watched the golf after the match" stayed till 6 ,,came home annoyed,,said id leave it till i discovered in my inbox the said lady accusing me of a non show,,now im well verified here and have had possibly only 1 non show which i did explain before but at least 15 meets,,(oh the selfie with the barman who had money on the golf might help) but the problem is this is the 2nd time and i know heart in hearts she wasnt there today ,im not a namer and shamer but there will not be a 3rd 1.........rant over carry on

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By *ohn MingoMan over a year ago

Dublin

Dude, paragraphs.

but if i'm reading that correctly, of you've no phone how did you take a selfie with the barman?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i didnt take the selfie the barman did,,thats my out on the proof,,it s apub i frequent and bookies next store,,it will prove i was in said pub when golf was on,its on his facebook atm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why do you need to prove anything to anyone?

Feck her, just another time waster who likes to play games with guys on here!

Block and move on

NEXXXXXXXXXT

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yep your right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do you need to prove anything to anyone?

Feck her, just another time waster who likes to play games with guys on here!

Block and move on

NEXXXXXXXXXT

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sure it was a fem??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It happens, happened to me d first week I was on here wt a very well verified lady. Chattin and txtin for days, then a half hour b4 d coffee meet (an hours drive away) she txt sayin 'change of plan, can't meet, family stuff'. Annoying but fair enough, can happen. Next day she had a new veri from a guy she had actually blown me off for ! Obviously I did not accept her raincheck meet (to her utter shock and insult for some reason) and didn't bother letting her know why.Since then and a similar standup, I figure if she's not woman enough to cancel in time then she's likely to be the kind of person who will always text and never talk on d phone, so easy way to spot the timewasters !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It happens, happened to me d first week I was on here wt a very well verified lady. Chattin and txtin for days, then a half hour b4 d coffee meet (an hours drive away) she txt sayin 'change of plan, can't meet, family stuff'. Annoying but fair enough, can happen. Next day she had a new veri from a guy she had actually blown me off for ! Obviously I did not accept her raincheck meet (to her utter shock and insult for some reason) and didn't bother letting her know why.Since then and a similar standup, I figure if she's not woman enough to cancel in time then she's likely to be the kind of person who will always text and never talk on d phone, so easy way to spot the timewasters !

eh...nope...didnt get that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just saying, if a person doesn't want a five minute conversation on d phone b4 a meet, then there'sa good chance they might waste ur time. Simples !

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By *oxic1998Woman over a year ago

Belfast

"Just saying, if a person doesn't want a five minute conversation on d phone b4 a meet, then there'sa good chance they might waste ur time. Simples !"

very rarely speak on phone but always turn up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yea, a lot of people don't exchange chat on d phone first, but doesn't it stand to reason if people did they wud have a better idea about d likelihood of d person being a timewaster. Seems to work for me anyhow.

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman over a year ago

Palookaville

I've been lucky I've never had a no show or not turned up to meet someone. I think it just take a while to get to know someone by chatting before arranging a coffee meet. If the person doesn't want to wait or do that. .. move on. Have faith in your self

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely, great point. Iv had about 6 meets since then and all have been because the ladies were patient and interested in quality conversations leading to quality likeminded meets rather than high quantity hit and miss meets / shags.

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