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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I always respond politely if im not interested in someone, most of the time i get terrible abuse, like why am i here if im so fussy, or i should shut up and take what i can get like a good slut. Im used to that and just block but today i get a msg that just said "near you now" with pic attached, i replied, no thank you, your not my type and he says why didnt i just block him instead of being so nasty!
I dont think i was nasty? Just honest...
How am i suposed to respond to someone im not interested in? Block or reply?  |
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"I always respond politely if im not interested in someone, most of the time i get terrible abuse, like why am i here if im so fussy, or i should shut up and take what i can get like a good slut. Im used to that and just block but today i get a msg that just said "near you now" with pic attached, i replied, no thank you, your not my type and he says why didnt i just block him instead of being so nasty!
I dont think i was nasty? Just honest...
How am i suposed to respond to someone im not interested in? Block or reply? "
Still dont understand this. I dont see the point in sending crude mails, and much prefer a thanks, but no thanks to silence or blocking.
but that's just me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hardly ever get abuse, I don't tell them they're not my type as some take this too personal. I rather make it about myself.
I pm you and tell you what I write... I hope it will work for you too |
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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago
Galway |
Just try to rise above those type of people. It clearly says more about themselves than anything else when they have to become abusive when turned down.
And for the record, I don't think that you were nasty at all
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always respond politely if im not interested in someone, most of the time i get terrible abuse, like why am i here if im so fussy, or i should shut up and take what i can get like a good slut. Im used to that and just block but today i get a msg that just said "near you now" with pic attached, i replied, no thank you, your not my type and he says why didnt i just block him instead of being so nasty!
I dont think i was nasty? Just honest...
How am i suposed to respond to someone im not interested in? Block or reply? "
Ok so try this!
Google what's on or to do in your area then copy and paste it as your reply and tell them you hope they enjoy their stay! Polite but should get the message across!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always respond politely if im not interested in someone, most of the time i get terrible abuse, like why am i here if im so fussy, or i should shut up and take what i can get like a good slut. Im used to that and just block but today i get a msg that just said "near you now" with pic attached, i replied, no thank you, your not my type and he says why didnt i just block him instead of being so nasty!
I dont think i was nasty? Just honest...
How am i suposed to respond to someone im not interested in? Block or reply? "
sometimes it doesn't matter and they just like to be rude if rejected. Their loss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to agree. I am one of the ones who will always politely reply if not interested. Something along the lines of I'm not interested but thanks for your mail'
You get tge rare guy who thanks you for your polite response
But more often than not abuse such as 'wasn't interested anyway ya fat yoke' or some equally articulate put down |
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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago
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"Have to agree. I am one of the ones who will always politely reply if not interested. Something along the lines of I'm not interested but thanks for your mail'
You get tge rare guy who thanks you for your polite response
But more often than not abuse such as 'wasn't interested anyway ya fat yoke' or some equally articulate put down "
Insulting people is the lowest of the low. Absolutely no need for it at all.
For every one guy who will respond that way there are 10 who will be respectful. We give single guys here a very hard time and sometimes tar them with the one brush- which in turn makes it very difficult for the good guys.
We have been so lucky here, any polite message turning guys down have been taken very well really. So we are certain that there are lots of great guys here who will respect anyone they meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dunno. i dont really get abusive mails. creepy ones sure. occasionally when i respond with a no thanks (and i try to respond to all mails) i might get a why not? but never really anything nasty. my question to the OP and not meaning this funny. if you feel youre getting an abundance of rude mails why do you continue on here? i mean, i get not everyone is giving you grief but if its enough to post in the forum about it?
and i again, not trying to be funny or rude at all. i just see this same question often and i wonder well why stay on here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"dunno. i dont really get abusive mails. creepy ones sure. occasionally when i respond with a no thanks (and i try to respond to all mails) i might get a why not? but never really anything nasty. my question to the OP and not meaning this funny. if you feel youre getting an abundance of rude mails why do you continue on here? i mean, i get not everyone is giving you grief but if its enough to post in the forum about it?
and i again, not trying to be funny or rude at all. i just see this same question often and i wonder well why stay on here? "
Because its not everyone, its maybe 2/3 rude people a week. I have friends that i chat to here and im not going to give up just because of a few bad eggs. I posted today because normally i see people asking for a response rather than blocking and today i had the total oppoosite, i responded honestly that he was not my type and he said i was being nasty and i should have just blocked him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No there is no need to be rude to any1 especially when you where good enough to reply to the message there's a lot of strange people out there and the end of the day it's an adult site and you get to play with who you want it's nice to be nice lol |
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"I hardly ever get abuse, I don't tell them they're not my type as some take this too personal. I rather make it about myself.
I pm you and tell you what I write... I hope it will work for you too"
could you do the same for me? ? I always try to be very polite and some people just don't take a polite no thank you well |
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I think if someone sends you a genuine message and if your not interested a reply sayin so should do! If its a fancy a shag type it should be block! I personally would like a reply. I know if i send a message and if i get nothing back or i see that it was deleted as soon as it was sent i just remove them from my screen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if i get a 'sorry ur not my type' i immediately telephone the paramedics, well its obvious we have a seriously ill lady at the other end here and so id hate for her acute condition to go untreated, i mean what is the world coming to eh???...if they get there in time i would consider an apology but probably refuse to answer her begging mails for a second chance as i wouldnt want her condiiton to have another flare up...it can take hold and then the poor girl would refuse all the guys below me in the pecking order
(anybody else bored with these threads??)  "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Just crossed my mind reading this has any one ever answered a "wants fuck now" mail with yes i love it right now why don't u call round and if so did they delete the profile ,block u or call round |
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"Have to agree. I am one of the ones who will always politely reply if not interested. Something along the lines of I'm not interested but thanks for your mail'
You get tge rare guy who thanks you for your polite response
But more often than not abuse such as 'wasn't interested anyway ya fat yoke' or some equally articulate put down "
I'm amazed. I know a serious percent of males on these sites are a waste of space but I'm really amazed they reply with messages like that when they get rejected :O |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always respond politely if im not interested in someone, most of the time i get terrible abuse, like why am i here if im so fussy, or i should shut up and take what i can get like a good slut. Im used to that and just block but today i get a msg that just said "near you now" with pic attached, i replied, no thank you, your not my type and he says why didnt i just block him instead of being so nasty!
I dont think i was nasty? Just honest...
How am i suposed to respond to someone im not interested in? Block or reply? "
A polite refusal is far better than being completely ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fair play to anyone who can take "rejection" on the chin. Male ego is a very tender thing,and that's where the back lash comes from. And I'm sure there are women who for some reason have been "rejected" along the way. But one must consider this.
He sees the inbox has a msg for him,the heart pumps faster and faster,frantically he hits the button to open the mail that may get him that elusive verification,nano second thinking of manic lust filled orgies,3soms,gang bangs,and rooms full of squirting women. Then he sees it,sorry but your not my type,and the hated"I wish you well" that in some way should shield his pain.
I have been that single guy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends, as in the most cases, on the circumstances. A friendly message deserves a friendly answer, even if it is a rejection. Not every woman is my type and am not every womans type , so where is the problem. Blocking a person just on a lack of interest I consider for a overreaction.
Idiots messages with content as "wanna fuck " shows a lack of good behavior and should be, of course, just delete
but there are enough " Ladies" which never respond and bulk delete all her messages ... I think this are this sort of woman which are seeking just a wee bit distraction for the moment not more not less ..they are not really interested, in meeting somebody and there are lot on here .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always respond politely if im not interested in someone, most of the time i get terrible abuse, like why am i here if im so fussy, or i should shut up and take what i can get like a good slut. Im used to that and just block but today i get a msg that just said "near you now" with pic attached, i replied, no thank you, your not my type and he says why didnt i just block him instead of being so nasty!
I dont think i was nasty? Just honest...
How am i suposed to respond to someone im not interested in? Block or reply?
Still dont understand this. I dont see the point in sending crude mails, and much prefer a thanks, but no thanks to silence or blocking.
but that's just me "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always respond politely if im not interested in someone, most of the time i get terrible abuse, like why am i here if im so fussy, or i should shut up and take what i can get like a good slut. Im used to that and just block but today i get a msg that just said "near you now" with pic attached, i replied, no thank you, your not my type and he says why didnt i just block him instead of being so nasty!
I dont think i was nasty? Just honest...
How am i suposed to respond to someone im not interested in? Block or reply? "
Really wish guys wouldn't do that sort of shit, man up and move on, it's much nicer to get a thanks but no thanks, than getting blanked, but those idiots mess it up for everyone else. |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Just crossed my mind reading this has any one ever answered a "wants fuck now" mail with yes i love it right now why don't u call round and if so did they delete the profile ,block u or call round"
Yes and I have yet NEVER had one call me when I have callef their bluff and replied with my phone number. |
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"I always respond politely if im not interested in someone, most of the time i get terrible abuse, like why am i here if im so fussy, or i should shut up and take what i can get like a good slut. Im used to that and just block but today i get a msg that just said "near you now" with pic attached, i replied, no thank you, your not my type and he says why didnt i just block him instead of being so nasty!
I dont think i was nasty? Just honest...
How am i suposed to respond to someone im not interested in? Block or reply?
Really wish guys wouldn't do that sort of shit, man up and move on, it's much nicer to get a thanks but no thanks, than getting blanked, but those idiots mess it up for everyone else. "
what makes me laugh is. .. Do they really think after they send you a nasty message you're gonna change your mind? ?.. Really guys! !?? |
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