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over a year ago
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"According to some it means it its cheating 
Cheating? How so?? And do you mean within couples or married singles? "
I meant not cheating lol
It was a joke that failed  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For us soft swing is ladys have fun and guys with thire own and 4play all round but some sites say it is sex but soft sex wtf are we missing something??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"According to some it means it its cheating
Cheating? How so?? And do you mean within couples or married singles?
I meant not cheating lol
It was a joke that failed "
Oh ok so do you mean couples that only play together and soft swing then it's not cheating cause their together and it's consensual? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For us soft swing is ladys have fun and guys with thire own and 4play all round but some sites say it is sex but soft sex wtf are we missing something???"
Well oral is still sex isn't it? Maybe it's meant as penetrative but not anal or pegging? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"According to some it means it its cheating
Cheating? How so?? And do you mean within couples or married singles?
I meant not cheating lol
It was a joke that failed
Oh ok so do you mean couples that only play together and soft swing then it's not cheating cause their together and it's consensual? "
No as in some people say oral isn't cheating so they don't tell their partner.
Lol I guess it isn't funny if I have to explain it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"According to some it means it its cheating
Cheating? How so?? And do you mean within couples or married singles?
I meant not cheating lol
It was a joke that failed
Oh ok so do you mean couples that only play together and soft swing then it's not cheating cause their together and it's consensual?
No as in some people say oral isn't cheating so they don't tell their partner.
Lol I guess it isn't funny if I have to explain it "
Ahhh I see where this Pandora's box is going so I'm out!!    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This can be taken in so many ways.
What is soft swing in ur eyes???"
For us soft swing is everything but penetration which you keep for your own partner. Lots of girl on girl fun for us  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For us soft swing is ladys have fun and guys with thire own and 4play all round but some sites say it is sex but soft sex wtf are we missing something???"
Haha soft sex. Does that mean the cock is limp like in that magaluf video haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I alway say I'm jus into soft swing but we fuck the other couple jus not seprate rooms and I prefare if all 4 are kinda involved all at once "
When it works like that it's fantastic |
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"I alway say I'm jus into soft swing but we fuck the other couple jus not seprate rooms and I prefare if all 4 are kinda involved all at once
When it works like that it's fantastic"
it's not easy findin people that want it to work like that tho last couple we wer with she fuckin freaked started cryin n all I didn no what to do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This can be taken in so many ways.
What is soft swing in ur eyes???"
Oral sex only....
we like the whole shabang....
Tried seperate room....wasnt keen tbh....we are in this together....so wont be doing it again.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We take it to be eveything bar penetration with others, but I guess it can be what others are comfortable with. I think it's one of those phrases that has a lot of expansion to it, but definitely no penetration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We never done soft swap,but that changed when we did,one of our best meets to date.
Now where's that strap on "
its funny the amount of people who say that and have that exact experience, we are mostly "soft swap" and find that it can lead to some amazing experiences esp as it tends to lend to longer more intense play when the usual "goal" is taken out of the equation.....
appriciate its not for all but we love it, esp when mixed with kink......
now, fancy a date guys ? |
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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago
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"I alway say I'm jus into soft swing but we fuck the other couple jus not seprate rooms and I prefare if all 4 are kinda involved all at once
When it works like that it's fantastic it's not easy findin people that want it to work like that tho last couple we wer with she fuckin freaked started cryin n all I didn no what to do "
Ohhh say that was awkward |
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"I alway say I'm jus into soft swing but we fuck the other couple jus not seprate rooms and I prefare if all 4 are kinda involved all at once
When it works like that it's fantastic it's not easy findin people that want it to work like that tho last couple we wer with she fuckin freaked started cryin n all I didn no what to do
Ohhh say that was awkward "
cause I had a few drinks I found it funny jus told her to relax not gonna do anything she doesn want to she was ok after that |
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"I alway say I'm jus into soft swing but we fuck the other couple jus not seprate rooms and I prefare if all 4 are kinda involved all at once
When it works like that it's fantastic it's not easy findin people that want it to work like that tho last couple we wer with she fuckin freaked started cryin n all I didn no what to do
Ohhh say that was awkward cause I had a few drinks I found it funny jus told her to open her legs and relax gonna do anything she hasn't had done to her she was flippin well fucked after that "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This can be taken in so many ways.
What is soft swing in ur eyes???"
Soft is oral no kissing
Hardcore is everthing from kissing to breaking beds....Mr P
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"I alway say I'm jus into soft swing but we fuck the other couple jus not seprate rooms and I prefare if all 4 are kinda involved all at once
When it works like that it's fantastic it's not easy findin people that want it to work like that tho last couple we wer with she fuckin freaked started cryin n all I didn no what to do
Ohhh say that was awkward cause I had a few drinks I found it funny jus told her to open her legs and relax gonna do anything she hasn't had done to her she was flippin well fucked after that
Mr P "
haha I wish that happened but no think the tears but me off a bit should of drank more would of used them for lube haha |
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Alot of couples dont like to soft swing! They feel if they gonna do a swap its all or nothing.
Weve been trying to find a couple to be our first. But were not prepared to do full swap yet. So soft swing seems perfect for the beginner swingers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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soft swing starts with being in the same room as another couple (with no interraction other than watching) and everyone fully involved, stopping short of having full sex with someone elses partner, and everything inbetween.
as has been said however, people seem to find soft swing, even at the most extreme end, too frustrating to be bothered with it.
and its extremely hard to find a couple that are happy to soft swing, tbh. can get very frustrating searching.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are soft swop only, as in we won't swop for intercourse,
That to some is a total no no, but we have heard of all these meets with wham bam thank you mam guys, and not enough foreplay.
We'll imagine a couple of hours foreplay and then you get to have sex with your own partner to finish off, beside the other couple doing the same.
That's what we like |
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