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I just know he's gonna to cancel!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.
I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement 
He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.
Any bets he'll back out?! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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That wouldn't bother me i usually only book a few hrs ahead when i am pretty sure the meet is going ahead. Now if he had stopped chatting or started taking a long time to answer msgs then i would be thinking dodge |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was always gonna be a bit dubious as he's not verified.
Although I was arranging to meet a verified guy and just as we were arranging a date etc he went offline for three weeks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was always gonna be a bit dubious as he's not verified.
Although I was arranging to meet a verified guy and just as we were arranging a date etc he went offline for three weeks "
Not verified ????? O lord chancy is it not don't ever be stuck in Galway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.
I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement
He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.
Any bets he'll back out?!"
Okay...so its 1/2on he backs out...2/1 Amber backs out....10/1 the hotel is fully booked out.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.
I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement
He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.
Any bets he'll back out?!
Okay...so its 1/2on he backs out...2/1 Amber backs out....10/1 the hotel is fully booked out. "
Can I have €5 on him backing out !!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.
I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement
He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.
Any bets he'll back out?!"
no im not |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.
I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement
He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.
Any bets he'll back out?!
Okay...so its 1/2on he backs out...2/1 Amber backs out....10/1 the hotel is fully booked out. "
I'll bet a tenner he backs out |
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"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.
I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement
He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.
Any bets he'll back out?!"
Ah, I'm in not in Galway until next week! |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Well if he is gonna back out lets just hope he does it early and you can arrange something else, loads of takers in here waiting for the call up from the subs bench ??  
Long eyebrows there dude! What's your secret? 
eh if i told you then it wouldn't be a secret now would it?? "
Fiesty! Love it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you do kinda know when someone is going to back out , and then when it happens
you will end up the completely heartless b...h for not believing him
or even better your the time waster
But i do hope this is not the case for you and you have a wonderful night |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you do kinda know when someone is going to back out , and then when it happens
you will end up the completely heartless b...h for not believing him
or even better your the time waster
But i do hope this is not the case for you and you have a wonderful night "
Thank you sweetness nice to see friendly, cheerful people on the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been chatting to a guy since before my holiday. We agreed to meet when I got home. So we settled on tomorrow. Said he'd book the hotel.
I have a feeling he is gonna cancel but I'm going to play along for my own amusement
He doesn't use the forums so don't need to worry about him seeing this post.
Any bets he'll back out?!"
Why he should do that ? That would make no sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't be shy....Place your bets....Hurry, these odds can't last forever..
1/2 on- He backs out
Evens- Amber gets a better offer
2/1- Amber backs out (no reason)
10/1- Hotel is fully booked out
15/1- His car breaks down
25/1- He sends a substitute
26/1- Amber sends a substitute
33/1- Amber decides to wash her hair instead
50/1- Amber calls me instead
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
Reading the op says the meet is tomorrow and when he shows it will depend on how good he is it could be the week end before amber is able to deliver the result or it could be an hr after the arranged time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading the op says the meet is tomorrow and when he shows it will depend on how good he is it could be the week end before amber is able to deliver the result or it could be an hr after the arranged time "
shitye another 24 hrs to wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe he just doesnt want to do the hotel thing? I know its not my preference...with a hotel meet, you're pretty much committed to spending the night with the person, sounds good in theory but both parties may not want that. Why not suggest one of you accommodates instead? Could be a brief meet then if required. Thats always my preference for a first meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe he just doesnt want to do the hotel thing? I know its not my preference...with a hotel meet, you're pretty much committed to spending the night with the person, sounds good in theory but both parties may not want that. Why not suggest one of you accommodates instead? Could be a brief meet then if required. Thats always my preference for a first meet"
I'm open to social meets too but this is the option we decided on. I never accommodate and would never meet a man in his house. So hotels are what I do. No complaints so far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And the results are in!!!
He cancelled "
So had ye made it clear in advance whether it was only going to be a short meet or a stay-overnight meet? Im willing to bet that if it was the latter, thats why he cancelled. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And the results are in!!!
He cancelled
So had ye made it clear in advance whether it was only going to be a short meet or a stay-overnight meet? Im willing to bet that if it was the latter, thats why he cancelled."
A few hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And the results are in!!!
He cancelled
So had ye made it clear in advance whether it was only going to be a short meet or a stay-overnight meet? Im willing to bet that if it was the latter, thats why he cancelled."
I'm willing to bet it had nothing to do with hotel meet and more to do with being a arse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And the results are in!!!
He cancelled
So had ye made it clear in advance whether it was only going to be a short meet or a stay-overnight meet? Im willing to bet that if it was the latter, thats why he cancelled.
A few hours "
Well in that case im stumped haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And the results are in!!!
He cancelled
So had ye made it clear in advance whether it was only going to be a short meet or a stay-overnight meet? Im willing to bet that if it was the latter, thats why he cancelled.
I'm willing to bet it had nothing to do with hotel meet and more to do with being a arse "
Hahahaha That's what I'm thinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ahhh the dirty shite
Ah well I have study to do anyway
Meeting my fb next week so no harm "
My advice still applies though...do your best to accommodate. If its a security thing youre worried about, fair enough i can understand that, but prepare for the odd cancellation then! On the other hand, no guy will back out of calling over to your place for a bit of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ahhh the dirty shite
Ah well I have study to do anyway
Meeting my fb next week so no harm
My advice still applies though...do your best to accommodate. If its a security thing youre worried about, fair enough i can understand that, but prepare for the odd cancellation then! On the other hand, no guy will back out of calling over to your place for a bit of fun "
that has got to be the worst advise I have ever heard !
Bring strangers to your home it's much better .... For him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ahhh the dirty shite
Ah well I have study to do anyway
Meeting my fb next week so no harm
My advice still applies though...do your best to accommodate. If its a security thing youre worried about, fair enough i can understand that, but prepare for the odd cancellation then! On the other hand, no guy will back out of calling over to your place for a bit of fun
that has got to be the worst advise I have ever heard !
Bring strangers to your home it's much better .... For him "
Im not denying that...im just saying that the best way to ensure you dont get cancellations. Ive already acknowledged the security fears she may have, but just calling a spade a spade |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ahhh the dirty shite
Ah well I have study to do anyway
Meeting my fb next week so no harm
My advice still applies though...do your best to accommodate. If its a security thing youre worried about, fair enough i can understand that, but prepare for the odd cancellation then! On the other hand, no guy will back out of calling over to your place for a bit of fun
that has got to be the worst advise I have ever heard !
Bring strangers to your home it's much better .... For him "
You saved me writing I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And the results are in!!!
He cancelled "
Just like Ticketmaster, I'm not paying out for a few days...Just in case its back on....or he does half a date now and the other half in October....or he might just do a matinee date...So when he has confirmed to me that he is "crushed" for having to cancel his date with Amber...then I'll pay out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And the results are in!!!
He cancelled
Just like Ticketmaster, I'm not paying out for a few days...Just in case its back on....or he does half a date now and the other half in October....or he might just do a matinee date...So when he has confirmed to me that he is "crushed" for having to cancel his date with Amber...then I'll pay out "
Some of these post are too funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And the results are in!!!
He cancelled
Just like Ticketmaster, I'm not paying out for a few days...Just in case its back on....or he does half a date now and the other half in October....or he might just do a matinee date...So when he has confirmed to me that he is "crushed" for having to cancel his date with Amber...then I'll pay out
I read the small print on the back and it didn't say any of this !!!!  "
Well you should have....cause it said-"Ambers date is subject to license" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Our last planned meet was also a no show on 18th May. Circumstances haven't allowed us to meet anyone since.
Doesn't matter how you play things some profiles in here are all talk  "
sad but true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol yeah a bit of a fool to cancel but is it the case that guys cancelling are fools women cancelling are just selective. I know it's off topic as such but if a woman cancels because something came up and turns out that something was another meet would it be acceptable |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards
amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards
amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here "
I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards
amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here
I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off "
You mean to say you had doubts shush red will not pay out |
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"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards
amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here
I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off "
hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...
Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.
And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards
amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here
I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off
hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...
Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.
And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck "
love it!! Best advice yet!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards
amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here
I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off
hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...
Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.
And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck "
Awesome, love it I'd nearly print it and put it on the fridge
Lots of lovely friendly people around tonight |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards
amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here
I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off
hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...
Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.
And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck "
Just to clarify, in my responses above, i wasnt advising her to do anything...just letting her know that is the way i believe guys prefer to meet and as a result less chance of a cancellation |
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"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards
amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here
I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off
hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...
Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.
And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck
Just to clarify, in my responses above, i wasnt advising her to do anything...just letting her know that is the way i believe guys prefer to meet and as a result less chance of a cancellation"
I wasn't being funny with you or getting a dig in at you .. I can appreciate it's easier and less chance of someone not showing but it's also kinda dangerous on so many levels |
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"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards
amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here
I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off
hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...
Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.
And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck
Just to clarify, in my responses above, i wasnt advising her to do anything...just letting her know that is the way i believe guys prefer to meet and as a result less chance of a cancellation
I wasn't being funny with you or getting a dig in at you .. I can appreciate it's easier and less chance of someone not showing but it's also kinda dangerous on so many levels "
Very well said. There are some crazy people on here, and for a woman to invite someone from this site into her home before she has had a good chance to get to know them is never, ever a good idea |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I am gutted i placed my faith in an unverified newbie i thought there was a man behind the profile awe well onwards and upwards
amber don't forget there plenty good reliable guys here
I was giving him the benefit of the doubt as he's not here over a year but it won't put me off
hun remember the old saying. .. fool me once shame on you. . Fool me twice. ...
Go with your gut instinct next time. And don't take advice that puts you at risk. .. There are some dangerous people in this world.
And finally the are some great guys on this site,but as they say.. Never take an arsehole with ya. . You'll always find one when you get there! Good luck
Just to clarify, in my responses above, i wasnt advising her to do anything...just letting her know that is the way i believe guys prefer to meet and as a result less chance of a cancellation
I wasn't being funny with you or getting a dig in at you .. I can appreciate it's easier and less chance of someone not showing but it's also kinda dangerous on so many levels "
I for one would never even entertain the idea |
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"ahhh the dirty shite
Ah well I have study to do anyway
Meeting my fb next week so no harm
My advice still applies though...do your best to accommodate. If its a security thing youre worried about, fair enough i can understand that, but prepare for the odd cancellation then! On the other hand, no guy will back out of calling over to your place for a bit of fun
that has got to be the worst advise I have ever heard !
Bring strangers to your home it's much better .... For him "
Couldn't agree more...... |
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During summer months hotels are overpriced. 