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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You join fab.
Half hour later you have 100 mails.
You block delete and then filter to block unverified males.
Half hour later you have 40 mails.
You read 20 and reply to 4.
Half hour later you have 70 mails.
You still haven't found 2 lads that seem vaguely interesting.
So my cranky question. Why do women say "there are 30 men for every woman so I can afford to be choosy" ,
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I really think men should get a insight what it's like to be a female on site. All women get a lot of mail. The frustrating part it most men don't read profiles. I can say men point sending mails to women on line hoping for a reply. .but please give us a break it's not our fault ratio ain't equal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really think men should get a insight what it's like to be a female on site. All women get a lot of mail. The frustrating part it most men don't read profiles. I can say men point sending mails to women on line hoping for a reply. .but please give us a break it's not our fault ratio ain't equal. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really think men should get a insight what it's like to be a female on site. All women get a lot of mail. The frustrating part it most men don't read profiles. I can say men point sendin thg mails to women on line hoping for a reply. .but please give us a break it's not our fault ratio ain't equal. "
Sad but true !!!!!!! C'est la vie and I dont think we'll be able to change it !!
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Goes the other way too, we read profiles, make sure the girl is bi, looking to meet couples, take time to respond to any requests, answer any questions posed and make sure there's a wee bit about us and what we're after....deleted without even looking at our profile..... Such is life!! Next!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think us guys just have to accept that the ladies rule the site. I know from a few I have spoke to while on a meet the amount of messages received and the amount of nasty ones that eventually come along I'm surprised there are actually as many woman who stick it out on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think us guys just have to accept that the ladies rule the site. I know from a few I have spoke to while on a meet the amount of messages received and the amount of nasty ones that eventually come along I'm surprised there are actually as many woman who stick it out on here. "
Ahhhhhh , thats cos were wuuuurth it !!!!! Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really think men should get a insight what it's like to be a female on site. All women get a lot of mail. The frustrating part it most men don't read profiles. I can say men point sending mails to women on line hoping for a reply. .but please give us a break it's not our fault ratio ain't equal. "
Very true...letmebe,one of my biggest hates are those who mail and never read the profile!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really think men should get a insight what it's like to be a female on site. All women get a lot of mail. The frustrating part it most men don't read profiles. I can say men point sending mails to women on line hoping for a reply. .but please give us a break it's not our fault ratio ain't equal.
Very true...letmebe,one of my biggest hates are those who mail and never read the profile! "
And you know why that is ? Its probably cos by the time they get to you Annie that they've been rejected so many times that they're beyond desperation !!!!!!!!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I really think men should get a insight what it's like to be a female on site. All women get a lot of mail. The frustrating part it most men don't read profiles. I can say men point sending mails to women on line hoping for a reply. .but please give us a break it's not our fault ratio ain't equal.
Very true...letmebe,one of my biggest hates are those who mail and never read the profile! And you know why that is ? Its probably cos by the time they get to you Annie that they've been rejected so many times that they're beyond desperation !!!!!!!!! Lol"
So what your saying Mr.Cajun is I'm only for the desperate!!
My..my...my...I didn't think it possible you could go further up my gross list...but yet up you go...  |
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"I really think men should get a insight what it's like to be a female on site. All women get a lot of mail. The frustrating part it most men don't read profiles. I can say men point sending mails to women on line hoping for a reply. .but please give us a break it's not our fault ratio ain't equal.
Very true...letmebe,one of my biggest hates are those who mail and never read the profile! And you know why that is ? Its probably cos by the time they get to you Annie that they've been rejected so many times that they're beyond desperation !!!!!!!!! Lol"
bloody he'll harsh much !!!!!  |
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By *elguyMan
over a year ago
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I don't so much have a problem with some of the ladies on fab being choosey but sometimes do it in a rude way. Few times now i have chatted,sent a face pic at their request and then find im blocked without reply. Simple no thanks woulda done i cant be that brutal lol |
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To be fair we are dammed if we reply dammed if we don't.
I don't use the block button that much but when reply and say can't meet or not my type.
It's the well I did not want to meet u anyone fat cow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me  
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point 
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol "
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ). "
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ). "
Who else just spat coffee up a wall? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall? "
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cause she can be choosy, not because there are so many men, but because why should anyone sleep with someone they are not attracted to "
This, I'd agree its nothing to do with the numbers on here, its more standards and not laying down to every Tom, Dick or Harry. Sure if there's chemistry the rewards can be plentiful or so I've heard |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you "
Pint? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you
Pint? "
Sure why not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you
Pint?
Sure why not "
Well you weren't getting a ride outta me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you
Pint?
Sure why not
Well you weren't getting a ride outta me "
Thank fuck for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you "
Have u any idea what a dry inbox feels like though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cause she can be choosy, not because there are so many men, but because why should anyone sleep with someone they are not attracted to
This, I'd agree its nothing to do with the numbers on here, its more standards and not laying down to every Tom, Dick or Harry. Sure if there's chemistry the rewards can be plentiful or so I've heard
Lol "
Sage advice I tell ya  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you
Have u any idea what a dry inbox feels like though? "
Ha ha I'll do my best to make it wet again lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you
Pint?
Sure why not
Well you weren't getting a ride outta me
Thank fuck for that "
You were the one after a ride from everybody, I was just clarifying I'd be subbing that for a pint |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you
Have u any idea what a dry inbox feels like though? "
I'm sure the men of fab will lubricate it for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you
Pint?
Sure why not
Well you weren't getting a ride outta me
Thank fuck for that
You were the one after a ride from everybody, I was just clarifying I'd be subbing that for a pint "
I think you'll find I was talking about the ladies inboxes drying up and them returning the favour |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you
Have u any idea what a dry inbox feels like though?
I'm sure the men of fab will lubricate it for you "
Ahem! I didn't say mine was dry.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you
Pint?
Sure why not
Well you weren't getting a ride outta me
Thank fuck for that
You were the one after a ride from everybody, I was just clarifying I'd be subbing that for a pint
I think you'll find I was talking about the ladies inboxes drying up and them returning the favour "
Phew |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you
Have u any idea what a dry inbox feels like though?
I'm sure the men of fab will lubricate it for you
Ahem! I didn't say mine was dry.. "
And here I was about to bombard you with messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've found a simple soloution... don't send the first message! If a woman's interested she will find you!!!! It works for me
Ha clever Duffer. I actually mailed you first I'm sure so I guess you're right! Mind you it was to pick your brain for the challenge, but you still have a point
Ha ha I'm smarter than I look lol
So ladies, if your interested get messaging, don't be waiting on me lol
Duffer your Completly right (who thought those words would be in a sentence ).
Who else just spat coffee up a wall?
If the men on here listen to my wisdom I think I've just done the ladies a huge favour. Their inboxs will dry up and they won't have to moan anymore. I think that deserves a shag from each and every one of you
Pint?
Sure why not
Well you weren't getting a ride outta me
Thank fuck for that
You were the one after a ride from everybody, I was just clarifying I'd be subbing that for a pint
I think you'll find I was talking about the ladies inboxes drying up and them returning the favour
Phew "
Thank god that's cleared up though thus was the new fab couple a lotta duff |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"I really think men should get a insight what it's like to be a female on site. All women get a lot of mail. The frustrating part it most men don't read profiles. I can say men point sending mails to women on line hoping for a reply. .but please give us a break it's not our fault ratio ain't equal. "
The ratio is nobody's 'fault'. It is however a pain to deal with at times and lots of 'tarring with the same brush' done by some. But that's their problem as I'm amazing!!
I always read a profile I come upon, I very rarely make first contact any more though, blanket bombings not my thing. I prefer to chat at meet and greets, parties etc, mail some people that wink or fab me and mail friends too
It's amazing how many mails will be sent to you (unsolicited by verified people) if you're a decent, respectful and known single guy on here though... |
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By *haggy13Woman
over a year ago
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Lads it's a woman's choice to say yes r no............and a mans too....... We're all strangers so unless there's chemistry which you can feel, how is anyone being insulted with no reply???
No1 is on this site for feelings , just attraction and sex................unless I'm in the wrong place ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You join fab.
Half hour later you have 100 mails.
You block delete and then filter to block unverified males.
Half hour later you have 40 mails.
You read 20 and reply to 4.
Half hour later you have 70 mails.
You still haven't found 2 lads that seem vaguely interesting.
So my cranky question. Why do women say "there are 30 men for every woman so I can afford to be choosy" ,
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good luck with that senseless reply posting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lads it's a woman's choice to say yes r no............and a mans too....... We're all strangers so unless there's chemistry which you can feel, how is anyone being insulted with no reply???
No1 is on this site for feelings , just attraction and sex................unless I'm in the wrong place ? "
I agree .. attraction is not a one way road, I won't shag everything, some women here are not my taste. The same for sure in return.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There should be one specific day (soon) when us men do not send any message to any female. This will give the ladies some peace & quiet and allow them to relax.....Sooooooo ladies, have yer knitting needles to the ready for that day |
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